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female
14
so ive never really been in a proper relationship and i would really like to be with a guy
im a little fat but i think i am pretty
i cant really find a guy that likes me
i also wish to have sex very soon
everybody else seems to in my year except me
i really want to have sex to see what its like (link)
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When i was your age i remeber wanting to have sex because everyone else was doing it but i think that you should wait until you get alittle older so u can have a better and more sensual time while having sex and then maybe you can have an actual relationship eith the person you choose to have sex with. But if you feel that you are truly ready for sex then i think that you should go for it and have fun with your life the choice is up to you its your life.
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My BGF and i have liked each on and off in the last year. Nothing happened until this summer because before then we both had relationships to each others really good friends. He was dating my really good friend Heather like 3 times over the year and then my BFF. And i dated 1 of his BFFs. They aren't BFFs anymore but they r still good friends. Anyway this summer he invited me to this formal 50th anniversary for his grandparents and we left and walked around the church and then he started hitting on me. The couple of weeks before we had told each other we liked each other but when he was trying to hold me and hug me i realized i didn't like him enough to date. I really wanted to start school single. And there is this Christian place where we works and if you work there you can't date until your 16. Well he's 15 and won't turn until May. We have class together and realized i like him again and i think he still likes me but he can't date! I just really want him to take me to Homecoming! I pretty sure he got my hints but he didn't ask his parents if he can go yet. I just really want to know how to flirt with him and show him I'm interested without being super obvious because that would be too weird for best friends. I think he might be picking up a little but if anyone has advice that would be so helpful!
And everyone who knows us says we are a perfect couple and look so cute togther. Even his MOM said it! He is 1 of the only people who really understands me. I can go to him with anything and i know he will be there for me. I know he really cares about me and i think we should start a relationship but i have to wait until MAY! It's so awful! Don't say "tell him to quit" or whatever because it is really important to him andi want him to stay committed. He's a Christian like me and we go to church together and hang out and stuff too. And at that formal anniversary thing he asked me out but since i wasn't feeling it and i could tell he wasn't thinking just acting on emotion i said i will think about it and a week later we talked and agreed not too. Because of his job thing. My friends and his bro and BFF really want us to date and kinda pressure us but we're used to it i guess.
Thanks so much in advance! Plus i know this is really long and sorry but i rate! :D (link)
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i think that you should wait until may and keep your options open for new people and wait to see if you still feel the same for him and if not move on but if you do you guys should definately go out. As long as you both still feel the same about each other. Regarding homecoming if he doesnt say anything about it anytime soon i think that you should ask him.
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