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My BGF
My BGF and i have liked each on and off in the last year. Nothing happened until this summer because before then we both had relationships to each others really good friends. He was dating my really good friend Heather like 3 times over the year and then my BFF. And i dated 1 of his BFFs. They aren't BFFs anymore but they r still good friends. Anyway this summer he invited me to this formal 50th anniversary for his grandparents and we left and walked around the church and then he started hitting on me. The couple of weeks before we had told each other we liked each other but when he was trying to hold me and hug me i realized i didn't like him enough to date. I really wanted to start school single. And there is this Christian place where we works and if you work there you can't date until your 16. Well he's 15 and won't turn until May. We have class together and realized i like him again and i think he still likes me but he can't date! I just really want him to take me to Homecoming! I pretty sure he got my hints but he didn't ask his parents if he can go yet. I just really want to know how to flirt with him and show him I'm interested without being super obvious because that would be too weird for best friends. I think he might be picking up a little but if anyone has advice that would be so helpful!
And everyone who knows us says we are a perfect couple and look so cute togther. Even his MOM said it! He is 1 of the only people who really understands me. I can go to him with anything and i know he will be there for me. I know he really cares about me and i think we should start a relationship but i have to wait until MAY! It's so awful! Don't say "tell him to quit" or whatever because it is really important to him andi want him to stay committed. He's a Christian like me and we go to church together and hang out and stuff too. And at that formal anniversary thing he asked me out but since i wasn't feeling it and i could tell he wasn't thinking just acting on emotion i said i will think about it and a week later we talked and agreed not too. Because of his job thing. My friends and his bro and BFF really want us to date and kinda pressure us but we're used to it i guess.
Thanks so much in advance! Plus i know this is really long and sorry but i rate! :D
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i think that you should wait until may and keep your options open for new people and wait to see if you still feel the same for him and if not move on but if you do you guys should definately go out. As long as you both still feel the same about each other. Regarding homecoming if he doesnt say anything about it anytime soon i think that you should ask him.
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Well, boys don't pick up hints very quickly. I think what you're going to have to do, is talk to him whether it be by phone, IM, or face to face, whichever is most comfortable. Just tell him, 'Listen, I know you're not allowed to date until you're 16, but I really would like you to take me to Homecoming as your date, but as friends.' That way you don't seem to eager. If he says yes and you go, flirt with him like mad, and pull him aside even, and just tell him, 'I like you still, a lot, and I think when we agreed not to date, I made a mistake in agreeing.' It's hard to do this, but if you care about him enough, you can do that. And then just tell him you'll wait until May. and until then, atleast you'll both know you want to date each other, and be able to flirt a ton still.
Hope I helped!
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