Question Posted Saturday September 8 2007, 10:02 am
Alright, this is kinda crazy so bear with me. Just so you're not confused I am not an international student and this is my third year in highschool.
I've been in school for about a week now and ever since I've been back I've noticed that all the American guys completly ignore me and want nothing to do with me, even some of my guy friends don't wanna talk. However, a lot of the international kids (Asians and Italians-especially this one dude) won't stop looking at me. I'm a modest. quiet, keep to myself person, so please don't think I'm bragging about this. It really boogles my mind, I don't think I'm a model, but the attention I'm getting from certain Vietnamese and Italian guys is kinda looney. It's not like I mind it, I mean it makes me feel happy, but why are the American guys giving me the cold shoulder? Any thoughts?
Thanks!!! :D <333
One day I was hanging out with a female friend of mine from China, and she couldn't stop staring at me, so I gave her a funny look and she explained herself... blue eyes or pale skin are very exotic to people who were raised in countries where it's not so common.
xoashhx33 answered Sunday September 9 2007, 8:51 pm: my best guess is cause they have their eye on some other girl or something, they probably went to school with most of the other girls and just talk to them, i think guys have a harder time meeting people than girls do so they stick to the people they know [ xoashhx33's advice column | Ask xoashhx33 A Question ]
KellyHappy answered Sunday September 9 2007, 12:26 pm: its probably because you look like every other american girl in the US to those american guys.
but to foriegn guys you look more exotic because there arent alot of american girls living where theyre from.
and most guys like different looking girls, not different as in weird, but you get the jist. youre like fresh and new to them so theyre gonna give you attention and stare. [ KellyHappy's advice column | Ask KellyHappy A Question ]
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