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SOOO CONFUSED... HELP!!!!
So I have an amazing boyfriend. I seriously think that I am in love with him. And this new kid came into my class and he is cute and funny and extremely nice. I am an all around flirty person, and I can't help but flirt with him naturally. We talked a lot today and I can't help but like him as more than a friend. I don't know whats wrong with me, I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND!! I really want to stop liking the new kid because things between my boyfriend are great. What can I do. I feel like such a bad person for liking someone besides my boyfriend.
HELP PLEASE.
Love,
CONFUZZLED :/
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the best advice i can give (speaking from experience ) is to stick with your bf. you and your bf have something real and a history. you loveee your bf..so of course stay with him. dont make yourself feel guilty..its not like you are cheating on your boy or hanging out with this new boy behind his back. i must also say i think you should tell the new guy you have a bf..because i dont think its righht for someone to 'appear single." what i mean by this is i think its wrong for someoen who has a bf/gf to make themselves seem like they are single. so just keep this new guy as a friend and keep things going well with your bf
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well ur a girl. all girls like more then one guy in the life at a point..even if they have a boyfriend. so there is this cute boy you like but you like your boyfriend more. so i say jsut stick with your boyfriend and jsut stay friends with this new kid..all u have to do is tell the new kid that you have boyfriend and jsut talk to him as a friend. i mean you will get used to him being there and he will end up just a inocent friend.but if somehting goes wrong and you end up likeing this guy more and more, you will probally need to tell your boyfriend what is going on. or you could just talk less to the new kid so you can keep him off of your mind. well good luck with your boy problems and hopefully everything will work out inthe end.
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Lots of people often think they fall for someone else while still with someone. The key is not to let it really get to you. After you get over the initial infatuation, you realize thats all that it was, an infatuation. This new guy is new, and exciting while your boyfriend is more stable and the usual. You're not a bad person because you can't control how you feel. You can however control how much you talk to/flirt with this new guy. Have any other friends in the class? Try focusing more on them. You can include everyone in the conversation, just don't have anymore 1 on 1 time with the guy, and try not to think about him. If you find yourself thinking about him, just think about what you love about your boyfriend instead. Hope I helped a little :]
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