Question Posted Saturday September 8 2007, 1:48 pm
okay this is long and complicated, but if youre reading this. THANKS :)
its really really stupid, and youve probably read like a MILLION problems like this, but if you help me id be really grateful.
Okay so my best friend laura used to go out with this kid jake. jake and i would talk all the time on aim, and he'd tell me like "ohh i kissed laura todayy" and id be like "haha cute" or whatever. but he'd always say "i love you" to me. and i would never say it back, because then laura might take it seriously and hate me, or jake would use it against me. so then they broke up cause laura just didnt like him anymore, and i was still talking to jake. then he started becoming good friends with these two girls i really dont like, meg and michelle. they were really into him and stuff, and theyd talk ALLLLLL the time. i got so jealous. jake was giving them more attention than me. we didnt really talk as much. then one day he randomly imed me, and we were talked for a while. i really started liking him again, but i think he likes meg or michelle. jalksjdfsjld i DONT know what to do. im a shy person, you wouldnt think that cause im funny and pretty outgoing, but i could nver tell jake how i feel, its just not me. i dont know what i should do! i flirt with him a little, and he does back usually, but other than that, what can i do to get his attention?
sorry its really stupid, but thanks
tabby14 answered Sunday September 9 2007, 3:23 pm: ok first of all you need to tell laura how you feel about jake just to see if it's ok. then if it is tell him how you feel. If everything goes as plan talk to him about when he was going out with laura. How he would IM you saying he loves you. Maybe if you go out with him he will do the same to meg and michelle so talk to him about that stuff. Hope I helped. =] [ tabby14's advice column | Ask tabby14 A Question ]
RachyPie answered Sunday September 9 2007, 3:22 pm: Just say to him "I miss our chats, we really don't talk anymore"
He'll see that you miss him without you having to admit how you feel and then you can flirt and build up a relationship from there.
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