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School depressing!
Well Im going to start my last year of secondary, year 11 and we'll have o levels. the thing is... school is just SO depressing and sad. i have to get up at 7am and im NOT a morning person...the initials of my school are actually S.A.D. Its an all girls school! And the uniform is grey =/. And the rules are SO strict..we cant even choose what color bobble to wear in our hair...has to be wine coloured or black =/. My problem is that i dont know how im going to handle this year without getting depressed again =[ can someone plese help? whats worse is o levels are harder than gcses and school is so boring no boys... and what if im not even in my friends class which is likely?
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I hated school the same as you.
Now I've left, I realized school days were the best of my life, despite all the things I didn't like about it.
You go to school to learn. Not to dress up and not to mess around with your friends.
If you concentrate on your work, it will go very fast and since this is your last year, you will look forward to leaving and it will spur you on to try and make the most of it and get through it.
Not many people are morning people.. I'm definitely not.
You should get yourself into an early bed routine, or when you wake up in the morning, find a way to make you feel refreshed, eat a good breakfast and basically think positively. It will all help you and beat the dullness.
Yes, this year will be harder this year and more important. Which is why you need to concentrate and try your absolute best.
After that, you're free to do whatever you want. Just remember that.
Don't ruin your last year.
I'm only saying this because I don't want you to make the same mistakes as me. (I stayed on after GCSE's and basically didn't try because I hated it SO much. It was pretty much a massive waste and my grades weren't anything to be happy about).
Study hard and it will all pay off.
It's only a year. You can definitely do it.
Look forward to after the school day and the weekends.. and hanging out with your friends.
Best of luck
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Listen think of it like this...you'll be out of school soon very very soon....then you can put that stupid school behind you and move on...just chill out listen to music and keep telling yourself this will be all over very very soon...believe me things will get better just keep praying and you could even try putting your attention else where...like you can read a good book...play video games...start a diary/journal....you could even get practice with boys by having a little internet boyfriend so that way when its time for you to get a real boyfriend you will be relaxed and know what to say....so there's many other things you can do besides be angry about that stupid school....well I hoped I helped you and gave you some good ideas....if you need further info. You can hit me up on here or on my yahoo witch you can find if you go to my page.....well goodluck godbless .....your friend/advicer......jamie
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Don't lose hope I felt the same way before,then as soon as I knew it I made a lot of friends you just need to be social you know go out there,talk to people who are sitting next to you,greet them,if someone needs to borrow something like a pen or anything,you have extras lend them,ask their name,present yourself,go from there.You got to have faith that you will land up with one of your friends,as far as the boys you can meet guys in clubs,in the gyms they have available where people workout,stuff,other entertainment places.
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