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I use to be on this site all the time. Got sick of reading the same exact questions and basically copying and pasting my answers because no one cared to read questions asked before them. So I left and haven't really been on here.
Ps. I'm not perfect and my advice isn't always right. & sometimes I choose to make it sound like you will get hurt more than you actually will to prevent people from doing stupid things. Like if I get drunk what can happen? Well i might just say you can die.....stretching the truth but I think its better than having people go out and get drunk. Plus you can die but you would have to have alcohol poisoning.

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omg one of my best friends is getting on my nerves. ok well her other best friend that isnt really close to me was getting on our nerves cuz she was following abbey (best friend) everywhere. and she always had to be the center of attention. then me and my friend started ignorring her and it made me loose alot of friends. now abbey is friends again with her...and i really dont want to loose abbey but what if she does that to me? i really need some help . ThanKs

"what goes around comes around"

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Okay, well there is this really really cute dog that i guess lives in our neighborhood...but apparently his owners dont care about him..i mean the dog is ALWAYS walking the streets..my dad has even seen him on the highway...well today the dog was in my yard so i went out to pet it...and well that was a mistake cuz now im in love with it..(im a REAL animal person!) and i want to keep it...but I have a few problems...
1. My mom will say no immediately and she'll say im not responsible enough (im 14) and that i dont take care of my 1st dog(which is a lie cuz its not MY dog its OUR dog)and she'll mention that i cant keep my room clean (which IS kinda true)
2. The dog has a coller on it..but i really dont think its owners want it because its always roaming around...
I want the dog soo bad because id hate to see it in the middle of the road somewhere...its so cute...but i cant convince my mom to atleast give me a chance to prove her wrong...can ANYONE help me with convincing my mom and the fact that the dog has a coller??

you wouldn't be able to just take the dog. You have to call animal control and report this though because the dog is being abused by not being looked after.

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well we moved our computer out of the room it usally is into the den, which it seems and looks like everything is pluged up right we moved it a while ago.. and our speakers worked and everything as in volume wise, then like a couple months ago i think we were messing around with it and someone must have to unplug them i dont know how to plug them back in i figured it out once but i forgot i tried and tried just didnt work! do you have any ideas on what i can do! thanks a bunch -kay PROMISE all 5's for rateing! :-)

if it is a desktop in the back there will be a slot for it. If you look at the back of the computer there should be a little drawing of like sound coming out if you were to look at like a radio station.

see if this works or helps
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Ok, Recently i told this boy lets call him kyle i like him and i really have major feelings for him and he told me he has serious feelings for me we keep writing to eachother and flirting but i have a boyfriend... lets call him justin and kyle and justin sit at the same table at lunch and usually justin walks me to gym and he forgot about me and i forgot about him and is that a sign to break up with justin and go out with kyle? please help me i know this is confusing but i really need help! i'll rate high!

stop leading justin on if you have a thing for kyle. Basically yea break up with him.

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hey well i need some advice..you see well this is kind of weird but I am 14, and i have not had my period yet. I dont know when I am going to get it. My friends all have it and have boobs. I dont want to talk with anyone about it, like a doctor or family. Please help. When do I know I am going to get it? Thanks xox

unless you don't get it before like 16 you have nothing to be worried about. Some people are later then others no one is the same. Enjoy not having it while you can..heh

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im always thinking before i act.. i rarely express my feelings.. if i like a guy i wont show it.. if im mad at a friend.. i wont tell him or her.. for some reason i remember every single little thing that happens in my life.. little things that dont matter.. but i seem to always be thinking about.. you seem to be understanding.. so maybe you have more advice

Yea I understand because that has been something I have to deal with on a daily bases and something I have to get over as well. You have to be more outgoing and you can't be as shy. Easier said then done I know. Maybe getting louder friends would be a start. But really you just have to not care what others have to say. You have to live your own live because you will die your own death. You have to let lose and just do something that you would normally never let your self do. Don't control your actions don't over think things if you want to say something just blurt it out. See how it goes. You just have to have some fun in life and not let the little things get to you. If you have a problem with someone you have to tell them so you can work it out. By keeping things to your self you aren't helping anyone including your self. Everything happens for a reason so even if after doing something stupid you want to take it back don't sweat it. There is a reason for it even if you can't see it at the moment. As you get older you will see that you can't plan everything out. We make plans but most of them get messed up. Take the world trade center they didn’t plan to die that day. Umm yea I can go on for ever but I will stop now. Feel free to ask me anything or to clear up what I have written. Good luck on stuff.

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I have Microsoft Works Word Processor, and I was wondering how to double space my writing? Thanks so much.

Go to format on the top. then paragraph once there it says line spacing click double i hope thats what you meant. That's for microsoft word but it should be the same

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ok im 13 and i wanna no should i care what people think? theres a guy i really like and he asked me out but he's like a 7! i need answers!

Yea your not shallow a guy that is nice and sweet likes you and you are thinking of saying no because he isn't the hottest catch? You make me sick. In most cases the hotter a guy is the more of a jerk he is because he knows he can get any girl. So yea the ones that aren't as hot and are sweet are always the best. You shouldn't care what people think. Then again I don't think you deserve him if you are asking this question. Be ashamed be very ashamed. It's the same thing as guys liking girls for some ass. Also you are 13 and because you asked this question you shouldn't be dating at all.

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ok...im 13/f 7th grade... this might sound crazy... but i no i am in love!! i have a boyfriend and i am completely in love with him!! ive never felt this way about any of my other boyfriends and i know he feels the same about me... he makes me smile just thinking about him... i melt when i see him! theres only one thing... this is wierd... but since we're young and all... is there any chance this could last forever

Only time can tell. It is very I stress the word very unlikely to be in love at 13 and in 7th grade. It's most likely lust and even if you do how you say love each other 90% or so of Hs relationships don't last and you're in Jr.

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wat does wtf mean?!?!??!?!

"what the fuck" hahahahahaha

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i have problems with the way im feeling.. like it sounds weird but i never know how to feel.. like i dont know who i am or what i want or what i like.. im always thinking of what other people like.. i try not to but im always just thinking so much.. please help

Let me guess. You tell your self how to feel. Like ok he broke up with me I should be strong and be ok in like this many days. Am I right? Basically you have to find your self. You need some time for your self to see what you want out of life and where you are going to go with it. Even though I’m guessing you are a teen so you won't have all the answers. Another thing is that you may think too much. You have to let your self just do things at times with out thinking to much about it. Most people would say thinking before you act, in your case you need to act sometimes and make mistakes to see what is right and wrong for you. If you think I’m on target here and you want to know more you can ask me.

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i've been depressed latley.. everything always goes wrong. my parents r always yelling at me and i cant stand being at my house anymore i really wanna leave and never come back here. i have problems with my freinds and my boyfriend they are always telling me to break up with him because he does treat me good and it really bothers me while im going thru all of this i started cutting and scraching my arms. its the only way that helps me! i know life is hard and that its not worth cutting but i cant help it. when im at school and when things r all messed up i scrach mi self really hard with my nails and it starts hurting really bad. my friends dont get it and they think i can just stop. i cant its really hard for me. my friends made a scrach on themselves just to prove how much they wanted me to stop and 2 of mi friends got mad at me because of this! i dont know what to. im not happy anymore like i used to be and i miss mi old life. how can i get this all back to how it used to be?

sry so long !!

See a councilor at school that will help you get through things.

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how are some quick ways 2 get abs cause i want them for the summer
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Nothing happens quickly it will take time but do simple things like crunches.

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Well, my boyfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time on Tuesday.

I was just wondering if I should, like, shave you-know-where. I've tried shaving that hair before, but it didn't really go over so well... It was still stubbly and I couldn't get rid of that, and it was really just wierd.

I was wondering if the hair would gross him out or something... Would it?

Umm well he should know that you have it there and he has hair as well. Just shave make sure you don't irritate your skin and stuff.

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Aright well im 14/f and me and my b/f have been together for almost a year...and he hasn't tried anything, I mean im not waiting for him to do something with me...but is it weird that he hasn't tried anything after almost a year or does it just mean that he really loves me? Like he's always all over me and touching me, but whenever im around me friends they just keep on askin me "have you guys done it yet?" and ill just be like "no" cause we havn't. And sometimes they just end up saying that he's stupid to not try doing it with me (i don't think that) and that they expect us to do it now that we've been together for almost a year! So I need to know does he really love me or is it just weird?

Thanx

More and more I feel sorry for guys to have to put up with us (girls) he tries something we say it's wrong they don't try anything we say is it weird (well you say) You are 14 you do not have to do it at 14! If he has stayed with you for so long he does have strong feeling for you. Screw your friends and don't pay attention to them. After you do it and if something happens they will call you a slut and other things. Think with your own head and do what ever you want to do when you are ready.

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I juss ordered the Hair Chi straightening stuff today by a money order and where i ordered it is in California and i live in florida and i sent it today how long do you think it would take to get here? and does it work because i have really curly hair and i want it straight!
Thanks
I rate high
Signed,
Clueless

Chi strengtheners are the best out there. You will be surprised how fast it takes if you have used the ceramic or the original ones. You could have bought it at your own mall though you didn't have to order it from Cali.

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Ok, so last week i was in 3rd hour and my closet friend said to me Pass me a note and i will give it to the boy u like! (he sits right next to him) So i said i will give it to u after class. He said No give it now! So i gave it to him. He ran to the teacher with the note and said SHE PASSED A NOTE TO ME! Holy Sh*t! I was humilated! My closet friend did that! Now he is all like hye whats up? What should i do!

I think the reason he did that to you is because he likes you him self. Therefore he didn't want that note going to the guy you like.

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aiGht, well i went to tha mall with marissa and carlaa and ive been good friends wiith marissa since miidle school and she goes to a other high school now so we were meetin with her two friends brian and scott so we met with them at the foodcourt and i was walkin over to there table and there was no more chairs left so we took one from a other table and i tooked at scott and he kind of moved over so i could sit next to him and he seemed really nice and stuff so we were walkin around and he kept makin eye contact with me and we were sorta talkin alot and when we were on the escalator the two boys were infront of us and so when we got to the top they stopped so we couldnt get off and we were like piling on them and to my luck scott was infront of me so i was like on him.. so we were leaving and brian said hed drive us home but we were stopping at wendys first so brian marissa and carla were getting out and scott was like melanie are you gunna stay in the car with me? so i was like yea so we were talkin kind of then marissa and them came back and they were like so what did u guys talk about and i was like nuthin much we madeout and stuff (kiddin around) and he was like yea we didd im out of breathe then marissa and carla were kinda of being annoying and like touching his arms and they were like aww nice guns and he was like dont stop me only melanie cann.. does he like me? what can i do when i see him nextt

Aww you both like each other how sweet. Yea it sounds like he likes you then again I wasn't there. Go to a scary movie where you can sit next to him and grab his hand or something when you get scared. Make it fun and since you don't know each other that well. Go with a group of friends. Start a chat on line with your friends and invite him into it so that you can 1. Get his screen name. 2. Talk to him more and see what he’s really like.

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me and this guy went out for like 2 weeks, right. so anyways we did a lot of bad stuff but of course hes in 11th grade and im in 7th. i cry ever morning because i think of what we did. he dumped me the next day after we did it. and told me that he was using me to get down my pants. please help me on what i should do! you are like the only girl i can trust, and plus you are so pretty. i love you and thanks! please!

Just to tell you, you asked everyone this question not someone in specific.
If he’s in 11th I’m guessing he is 16 or 17. You are most likely what 13 14? I think you should tell your mother what happened and how he used you. You can file a restraining order but you can't really do too much else because you are both still under age. You should get counseling and seek help so it doesn't leave you traumatized. I hope stuff works out.

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Ok well my sister tells me everthing. And this weekend she went snowboarding in frisco w/ her friends and boyfriend. And all her friends and her drink under age (she's only 17)and my mom always tells her not to drink or do sex. And our family friend who was only 17 died 2 years ago from achohol poisining. And I know there's going to be sex and drinks up in the mountains. Im just scared and I really want her 2 stop. Help. Wut shood i do?

You can explain to her what drinking to much can do. Really though most kids drink whether it's a good thing or not. I have always hated drinking but don't mind people doing it if they don't go crazy. So tell her she should drink only a certain amount. You can't really stop her because you're not going to be there. You have to teach her thing so when she goes out by her self she makes the right choices.
also didn't you say they already went?

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