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Hi There! I'm Nicole, and I'm 23 years old. People tell me I give good advice, I would like to hope so. I can try to help you with anything, so please leave some question in my inbox and I will answer them A.S.A.P. but I must let you know that I don't sugar coat my answers, and I give you my 100% honest opinion. ♥
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i know you can't speed up time or anything but is there like a way to make the feek go by fast...well seems fast? I know it's kidna stupid but i'm just wonder? (link)
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My friend asked the guy I like what he thought about me.

He didn't really know her, he recognized her as my friend but didn't even know her name. But she was trying to talk to him and he just told her he needed his space and pushed her back saying "back up, we need to be this apart" and telling her not to get close, and she asked what he thought about me he didn't answer and just went with that "your getting to close" crap. So could someone tell me what this means???

Thanks so much! (link)
i think it might mean he doesnt like being too close to people he doesnt know...heh
but it is odd that he keep saying that and didnt give her an answer.
kinda sounds like he may like you...and i think you should talk to him.


What kind of eyeshadow do you think would go best with my eyecolor, or my style or whatever? because i'm going out to buy different makeup later and i usually wear like 2 or 3 shades of eyeshadow at a time. idk what colors would look good on me.

here's me:
http://myspace-840.vo.llnwd.net/00231/04/87/231387840_l.jpg (link)
Its not really your eye color that matters but usually what you are wearing..
i think silver, shades of blue green and hot pink would be neat. maybe orange too...just buy one of the packs of like 8 totally different colors...=P


well im a 16/f (almost 17) and i've gotten out of a relationship about a month ago, and i think i am ready to move on. i know what i want, and im bound to see that i get it sometime or another. i want someone to treat me with respect, not hit me like my old bfs did, and not tell me im stupid... and i dont want the relationship based on sex. well, my besf/fs boyfriend is trying to get me hooked up with his one friend... and he sounds cool, hes 17, has his lisences... ( but no car yet ) and they say hes not the type of just jumping into a relationship, hed rather get to know you, and then see where things are.
now, im just afraid that hes not going to like me, cus of my past expirences...and i've been havin this trusting issue due to my past relationships, yet im getting so much better at it. im just afraid he wont like me... and yes i know, if he doesnt like me for me, then hes not worth it... but i really want this to work out, cus hes super hot, and he seems pretty nice. he seems like everything i want.
so what do i do/not do when i am hangin out with him??? should i not mention my past ( abuse, rape... etc?) or should i let him know before he makes any... "commitment". (link)
Hi
i think you should just hang out, ask about his interests, then tell him yours, just get to know each other, and if he asks about past relationships, tell him, honesty is a big thing with most people, and if you are honest with him he will respect it.
and i know you want this to work out, and i hope things go GREAT for you! but if he cant except who you are, and wants you to change a little, DONT!

have a good time with him! best of luck! ♥


I never got my period yet I'm 13/F.
Every so often (Like once or twice a month) I get these cramps that make me want to cry and I have to sit or lie down when I get them. When I got home from school today I got them and its excruciating pain I mean like bad enough to cry over. These cramps hurt SO bad. It feels like someones stabbing me and slowly pulling the knife out and torturing me. After I get these cramps I can't walk anywhere for like an hour. Do you think I'm going to get my period soon. (My mom got hers at 10) (link)
i *think* you may be getting it pretty soon, & your body is just getting prepared.
but i honestly am not to sure, but i think its a good idea to tell your mom about it, she might have something that can help, or call a doctor.
but for when you get these, a heating pad works well, and ibuprofen.


ok i want to dye my hair dark brown but everytime i get a dye it seams to fade out. sometimes it doesnt even last a week. i was a dye that is permanant and doesnt fade that much at all. my hair is med/dark brown naturally with natural blonde and really light brown on top. everytime i dye it first all the golden blond shows through then it all fades out. my hair is usually very dark with no brown in the winter but i can wait that long for it to get dark. does anyone no any brands that wont fade. i dont have any money to get it profesionally done. i have a sallys beauty supplies place by me if that helps.

if its a brand they dont have at like giant eagle please tell me where to get it


rate 5s for GOOD answers! (link)
theres a kind of hair dye that "strips" your hair color, im not sure what it is called but i belive you can buy it at CVS or another place with hair dye.
that usually makes it easier to dye...sometimes.
what i would do is,.. when you mix the dye, use half at one time, and then rinse it, or however you go about dying it, then when it dries, use the rest of the hair dye.
hope i helped, sorry if i didnt.


heyy everyone! does anyone know any great websites where you can find stuff for your AIM profile/away messages? In particular, I'm looking for cute quotes and fades. Thanks in advance! I'll rate! (link)
www.firehotquotes.com
www.wittyprofiles.com


For me, Homecoming is tomorrow. I am going with my boyfriend of over 1year and 7months.
Problem? he is picking me up around 6 (probably a little before) and I have to work until 4. I probably wont get home until around4:10 or 4:15.

I usually dont take too long to get ready. But I will have to shower, and blow dry my hair and maybe straighten it. I am not doing an "up-do" with my hair.

What can I do to make things go faster?

Like, Maybe while im blowdrying my hair, plug in the straighter, can i multi task?

any tips for the dance or the night?

Thank you so much!

I'll rate and leave feedback!

THANK YOU SO MUCH! YOU ARE THE BEST!

_kas_ (link)
as soon as you get home, get what you are going to wear ready, take a quick shower, and right before you get in plug in your hair straightener since they take a little bit to heat up.
after u get out of the shower blow dry your hair and get dressed. then straighten your hair..then whatever else you need to do to get ready.
multi-tasking would be good, as long as you dont panic.
another thing, if you will have your mom or sister or friend who can help you. plug in your straightener, quick shower, have your hair up and get dressed, then put a towel around your neck/shoulders (like the rob/cape thing at a salon) and have your friend/mom/sister do your hair and you can do your make-up, and style it when its dry.

have fun at the dance!


how do u make that little black heart
its like ;hearts;; or someting like that, idk. thank u (link)
no spaces

& hearts;


13F I'm a very small and in 8th grade (I still wear kid size...) and at the end of out eighth grade year we have an eighth grade dance. I was wondering how the hell am I going to find a dress to wear and where am I going to find a dress. This is in May so I don't really have to worry about it but I'm kind of worried that I won't have a dress. Please help me. I'll rate 5's! (link)
well, you might grow A LOT by then.
so i wouldnt worry until it gets closer
but you can buy a dress that you like, and just have someone tailor it till it fits you perfectly.


whats an emo?? or like the emo stlye? (link)
emo is short for emotional.
it sort of a "fad" thing at the moment, and everyone feels the need to be apart of it.
the style is sort of like "mellow, punk" i guess you could say.


anybody have any good tips on plucking you eyebrows?

ill rate 5's for anything! (link)
pluck your eyebrows right after you take a hot shower, it wont hurt as much, and pull them the way that they are growing.
ie: for your right eyebrow, pull them towards the right, not up, or left.
also, i heard putting milk or lotion on after you pluck them eases pain.


plain and simple.. I'm obese, and i feel like dieing. what should i do?


Don't give something as easy as DIET or whatever. Maybe something you or someone you know has done to lose wright? i'm 70 lbs over weight and i hate myself for it... (link)
i am going through the same exact problem here.
im not going to tell you to diet, but i am going to tell you to choose what you eat wisely, and only have one helping at each meal.Sure, it sounds like a diet, but its the smart and "healthy" way, and also, when your thinking of something that upsets you, dont eat to try and feel better. now, im not saying to cut or do any harm to yourself, or harm anyone else,..BAD IDEA! you will regret it later in your life if you do. just try to exercise when something is really bothering you, its a great way to release stress, and its as simple as just going for a walk in your area. i have noticed that even just walking a short amount every day makes a difference in your weight, and the way you feel. and don't hate yourself for it, it isnt your fault even if you may think it is, its something that just happens, and you can change it. you just have to step up and do it.



if you are spotting blood for a week, what do you think that means? (link)
its ahrd to say without more information, if you just had sex about last night or something, it could be from you "cherry" popping.
or maybe he ripped a little skin.
it could be your first period if you've never had it before. or if uve had your period, and ur about to get it, it could be from that, or if u just ended your period, it could be that also.
im not too sure due to lack of information, if it worries you talk to a parent/guadian or doctor, & maybe take a pregnancy test if you think you may be pregnant


why is it bad for guys to drink mountain dew?
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i just asked my guy friend, who is older and very smart.
he says its just a dumb rumor.


theres a song i heard on the radio last night and ive been dying to know what its called... the only part i remember was she was like Just call me when ever your lonely and then shes like Yiddy-Daddy-yay! Its a girls voice... (link)
i **think** it may be "If It's Lovin' That You Want" by Rihanna


I want to let you know
That you don't have to go
Don't wonder no more
What I think about you

If it's loving that you want
Then you should make me your girl, your girl
If it's loving that you need
Then baby come and share my world, share my world
If it's loving that you want
Then come and take a walk with me, with me
If it's loving that you need
I got it right here baby, baby

Now it's obvious to need a friend to come hold you down
Be that one you share your everything when no one's around
Baby come tell me your secrets, and tell me all your dreams
'Cause I can see you need someone to trust
You can trust in me

Di di di di da da dey
So just call me whenever your lonely
Di di di di da da dey
I'll be your friend, I can be your homey

If it's loving that you want
Then you should make me your girl, your girl
If it's loving that you need
Then baby come and share my world, share my world
If it's loving that you want
Then come and take a walk with me, with me
If it's loving that you need
I got it right here baby, baby

It been so long I've had this feeling
That we could be
Everything we've ever wanted baby
Your fantasy
I won't push to hard or break your heart
'Cause my love's sincere
I'm not like any other girl you know
So let me erase your fears

Di di di di da da dey
So just call me whenever your lonely
Di di di di da da dey
I'll be your friend, I can be your homey

If it's loving that you want
Then you should make me your girl, your girl
If it's loving that you need
Then baby come and share my world, share my world
If it's loving that you want
Then come and take a walk with me, with me
If it's loving that you need
I got it right here baby, baby

If it's loving that you want
Then you should make me your girl, your girl
If it's loving that you need
Then baby come and share my world, share my world (I got what you need so come share my world)
If it's loving that you want
Then come and take a walk with me, with me
If it's loving that you need
I got it right here baby, baby

Di di di di da da dey
So just call me whenever your lonely
Di di di di da da dey
I'll be your friend, I can be your homey

If it's loving that you want
Then you should make me your girl, your girl
If it's loving that you need
Then baby come and share my world, share my world
If it's loving that you want
Then come and take a walk with me, with me
If it's loving that you need
I got it right here baby, baby

I want to let you know
That you don't have to go
Don't wonder no more
What I think about you

What I think about you boy
I got what you need so come share my world oh


If you have seen the exorcism of emily rose please help me undertsand this. Whenever she was in the field with the Virgin Mary, what did Mary ask her? Whenever Emily said "I choose to stay." Was the a good choice or a bad choice? Why did she choose to stay? Please explain. (link)
Mary bsically told Emily that the demons were a way to show the world about Heaven, God, Jesus...and Hell, Satan, Demons...
Mary asked emily if she wanted to stay, and remained possessed by demons, or die and go to heaven, and be free of them.
Emily chose to stay because she was religious herself, and she wanted people to know that what they teach in church is true i guess

i loved that movie =] hehe


alright.. well i have a major problem here.. theres this guy chris ( my ex from a year ago.. hes 20 im 16) well weve gone through some bad times but i always end up forgiving him and going back to him.. hes such a sweet heart and weve been hanging out alot lately and he text me the other night and asked if i thought we could ever try being together again.. but im not sure if i want to ...

then theres nick hes 15 (which age doesnt bother me) we met in summer skool and well he likes me and hes very funny and sweet and he is very good at making me smile.. we always are hugging and flirting in class and everyone tells me he likes me and i like him too!!..and i just feel liek theres something there.

then theres bronson.. hes 17 .. weve been friends for 3 years..and the past couple of weeks weve been talking alot.. texting cute lil messages.. and we were at mikes saturday night and we were cuddling on the couch and we both fell asleep and then we woke up and he was just sayin the cutest things.. then he imed me last night and was liek i didnt want to leave mikes and ur the greatest person to cuddle with and the cutest things ever.. and hes seriously the greatest guy ever..

so my problem is.. what do i do i mean id feel so bad if i chose someone.. so should i wait and see if one of them makes the move first to go to the next level or what!!!and i feel something with all 3 guys..

ahh help please

kristin

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i always hate have a problem like this. its so hard.
its hard for me to give advice too since i dont know what the feelings are.
i say, wait on your ex bofriend...since you know how he is as a boyfriend, and u said you arent sure if you want too...
u said Nick is good at making you smile, that is a HUGE plus i think. so, so far, my vot goes to you talking to nick about things.
bronson seems like a great guy too..but by reading this, it sort of sounds like he might want to get into your pants kinda soon..and also by reading this it seems that you have a lot of interest in Nick...
this isnt very good advice, i apologize for that, but all i can really do is give you my opinion, and say to just follow your heart. =]


Cood some1 gimme good sites to find quizzes and layouts to put in yur myspace? I'll rate high for any help (link)
www.quizilla.com

www.zenhex.com

www.blogthings.com


or google for some =]


ok im 14/f and i have more of a punk look to me (rocker,play drums, black nail polish, etc.). do any guys like that. im the advice columnist flirty if u want to know more bout my personality. my questio n is, do any guys like girls like me? (link)
well, all guys are different.
some like the rocker look
some like the preppy look
some dont care about looks
im sure you'll meet guys who are gonna love you, and love your look.


btw. dont change for anyone! =]




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