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well im a 16/f (almost 17) and i've gotten out of a relationship about a month ago, and i think i am ready to move on. i know what i want, and im bound to see that i get it sometime or another. i want someone to treat me with respect, not hit me like my old bfs did, and not tell me im stupid... and i dont want the relationship based on sex. well, my besf/fs boyfriend is trying to get me hooked up with his one friend... and he sounds cool, hes 17, has his lisences... ( but no car yet ) and they say hes not the type of just jumping into a relationship, hed rather get to know you, and then see where things are.
now, im just afraid that hes not going to like me, cus of my past expirences...and i've been havin this trusting issue due to my past relationships, yet im getting so much better at it. im just afraid he wont like me... and yes i know, if he doesnt like me for me, then hes not worth it... but i really want this to work out, cus hes super hot, and he seems pretty nice. he seems like everything i want.
so what do i do/not do when i am hangin out with him??? should i not mention my past ( abuse, rape... etc?) or should i let him know before he makes any... "commitment".
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You could give him a try, it might be someone you can really like, but maybe instead of planning to have him as your boyfriend, try to hang out more as friends so that it won't be planned and mapped out, because he may not be interested and just stop seeing you, or reject you without warning. When it comes to your past, you probably should keep it as the past until hes curious. This is a new guy, so start fresh with relationship problems, the past stays in the past for now. You seem to have a rough past, which means if I were you, I'd be really really careful about upcoming relationships in your life. If there are signs of what has happened in the past, or any bad signs, you need to not ignore those signs because one day, it could mean your life.
-TheTeenGirl
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Hi
i think you should just hang out, ask about his interests, then tell him yours, just get to know each other, and if he asks about past relationships, tell him, honesty is a big thing with most people, and if you are honest with him he will respect it.
and i know you want this to work out, and i hope things go GREAT for you! but if he cant except who you are, and wants you to change a little, DONT!
have a good time with him! best of luck! ♥
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