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hiya I'm shelly, I'm 20 and from England. I have the best boyfriend in the world and he means so much to me. I love to help people and I've just started using Advicenators again. I hope i can help you all with your problems feel free to email me x


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ok so there was a guy who i liked once and i have crushes on like 3 guys but i have never ever had a boyfriend how do i get one and get them to ask me out not me asking them out

Just be yourself thats the main thing! Dont be fake guys dont like that. Be confident and talk to him. Maybe ask him to see a movie with you.
Luv Shelly
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okay im 14 and i still havent gotten my perios is that something i should be worried about .... or just wait?

no its nothing to worry about. The age that girls get their periods vary.
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i asked a question before about my hair and so i got it cut. the lady cut it too short! i have dark brown hair- shoulder length- layered. what should i do with it?

if you dont like it that short you could get extensions but they do cost quite alot of money.
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i play softball and slid into third base. i got this really bad scrape. i kept picking at it. so now it is a really big pink scar. i cant shave over it because it make cut the scar and icant use nair because its going to affect the scar. what should i dowith the hair that is on my scar?

you should be able to shave over the scar in a week or so after the scrape. or use hair removal cream.
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im thirteen and not fat but bigger than i want to be im not over wieght and im not under its just that i would like to lose a few pound do you know any diets or exercises that have fast results


thanx so much

not so slim

go to www.toneteen.com it has some good ways to lose weight
luv shelly
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hi everytime im on my period i kinda get itchy down there. does anyone no what this means? is it serious? and is it normal?
thanxz

Its normal. so dont worry about it.
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i'm going to florida in 2 weeks and i'm staying there for awhile. when i wake up early in the morning to go to the parks and stuff, after i get out of the shower i don't really have all that much time to do my hair. i don't like blowdrying it down there because it is really hot! does anyone have any cute & easy hairstyle that i could do while my hair is wet without making it frizzy? thanks! i rate high!

you could tie it up in a bun ot ponytail or a plait.
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My hair has been extra tangled lately. In the morning it takes 10 minutes to brush out my wet hair. Can anyone suggest some products to cure this problem. My first thought was Johnson & Johnson's No More Tangles shampoo, but isn't that for little kids?

Johnsons is great for tangles. anyone can use it. also if you use de tangling spray that is really good
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I have a few pimples and alot of open pores and my skin is very oily. I want to get rid of the open pores and my oily skin (I really dont care about the pimples I dont have many). My question is does anyone know a product that will take away the excess oil in my skin and close my pores. It can be 2 products. I dont think there's a product that will do both.

cleansing toning and moisturising can help with the oily skin

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i flirt with this girl and she flirts back i lay on the grass with her and hold her hand people think we should go out , i ask her she said duno what do i do 4 her to go out with me

just be yourself!

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Well i have this friend lets call him fred... Yesterday i was talking to fred when i found out that he had tried to kill himself tree times already... but the worst thing is he is only in 7th grade... what can i do to help him? please help..

try and talk to him and find out why he did it. Most of all just be there for him when he needs you thats the most important thing. letting him know that you'll always be there for him.
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Ok...so i have braces and I just got chain put on them...and for those of you who know what that is you probbly know how bad that hurts!! Please tell me what to do for the pain! It is killing me!

i dont know what its like myself but my sister had them and it really hurt her. al she could do was take pain killers. thats all i can sugest really. hope i've helped

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I have really curly hair. I want to be a straightening iron around $100 since the last straightening iron I got (wet2set $30) leaves my hair looking really dried out & fried. Does anyone know of a flat iron around my price range that we'll leave my hair looking healthier than the cheap one? Thanks!

buy some cheap straightening irons and use some heat protective spray. it leaves your hear really shiny and protects it from heat when straightening your hair.

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Im going to the beach this month, and I have no confidence when it comes to wearing a bikini. I'm pretty skinny everywhere else except my waistline. (I have really huge love handles that are unproportional to the rest of me.) I've been trying to lose it before this summer, but not seen any progress. Im also uncomfortable wearing bikini bottoms for some reason, I know im weird. So i bought some girl swim shorts that go to my knees (like surf shorts.) Do you think that would look stupid for me to wear those and a small tee or tank top when im swimming?

No i think it would look fine.
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I have a friend you always says she's really depressed. At first i really was worried and i belived her to the fullest, but now its like she does it only for attention!! I hate it! She wont even eat anymore! I try to get her too but she refuses to! I dont know how to act around her anymore, cause she always takes everything the wrong way, Please please please help!! I'll rate high i promise!! I just dont know what to do!

She might really be depressed. She might have an eating disorder. Just tell her that you are there for her when ever she needs to talk to you.
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ok, i need songs to put on a cd that can get me really pumped for my games-the sports i play are football and basketball. i dont care what kind of music it is, as long as its not classical...lol

how about some music you can dance to. heres a few ideas.
Britney spears,
Usher,
Destinys child,
Beyonce,
Avril Lavigne,
Jenifer Lopez,
Christina Aguleria.
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okay well im 15/f, and i recently found out im pregnate. Before i found out my boyfriend broke up with me, we don't talk anymore, he ignores my calls and he won't read anything i send him...so is it useless to tell him??he's 15 to, and lives about 45 min. away. I think I'm gonna keep the baby too, I haven't told my parents yet. I'm a "goodygood" so noone would expect it...and i don't kno what to do...i tried to tell my best friend...but she didn't believe me...what do i do? how do i tell my ex. and get him to listen to me?

turn up at his house tell him that you NEED to talk. and i can't blive that your friend doesn't belive you! you need to tell your parents you can't do this alone!
luv shelly

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Okay people think that i stuff my bra when i really dont and then people are like oh i saw it but i really dont what should i do?
Signed,
Screw this
.P.S. I rate high

They are jsut jealous don't pay attention to them.

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okay, im in love with the guitar.. i just learned to play it and im like obsessed with it! anyway do you guys know any places that i can get it for cheap? like.. 80 or under?

try ebay

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My dog won't sleep on my bed anymore. Do you think it's possible that he is annoyed that I wake him up when I have to get up for school at 6:00 A.M.? Is there a way I could teach him that it's o.k. to sleep in my room on the weekends?

buy him a dog basket and put it in your room, that way you wont wake him up.

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