I am a nurses assistant. Im also a bridal consultant. I want to become a teacher. I moved alot. I have lived in small towns and so i know most of my experinces to be around family and friends. I know much about health and nutrition. I have dyslexisa. I have three brothers. two of which i know and one that ran away. I have been in a relationship for a year and a half... im sure theres more to know about me! but thats all folks.
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I have about 4 pairs of jeans that I wear regularly. I have been wanting to buy another, and I was wondering your thoughts on the quality of certain brands. Does a higher price mean higher quality?
The brands that I have are:
Mudd(these recently ripped right in the crotch, so are becoming a purse.)
Old Navy(these were hand-me-downs from my little sister)
Aeropostale(My most comfortable)
Sevens(These are definitely my best, verifying the Quality is higher with higher prices idea)
I was just wondering if you all had other experiences or advice on what type of Jeans I should get next! (link)
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depending on what you like.. like a tight fitting jean that like.. haha.. shows off your butt.. you need to look for a certain cut. like a flare. or hip hugger. but you need to look at jeans that have 1 or 2% spandex. other wise the crotches will wear and rip. for me no certain brand is the best.. i do love levis though.
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okay please dont judge me im begginnggg you..
but im 14 gonna be 15 in like 8 days.
but me n my boyfriend of 3 years have had sex b4.
and this last time we had it he didnt wear a condom.
i took a test and it showed up positive.
i took one about 3 weeks ago.
i took another one just last week and that one also said positive.
i have no i dea what to do.
my byfriend and i both want to keep it.
but have no idea how to tell our parents.
pleasee tell me something to doo. (link)
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you really need to talk about this with someone who is an adult. talk about it to a teacher you like... to a school counsiler. talk to your doctor.., you may want to go to planned parent hood. they will give you a real pregnancy test. they will also talk with you about your choices.. everything will be confidental.. but you deffiently need to talk about it with someone other than your boyfriend. your health is at risk too. make a plan on telling your parents after you talk about it with your counsilars and everything. but you need to do that NOW because you will need your parents support threw all of your pregnancy.
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i did tell him...but i kinda freaked him out a little...but either way that was like a month ago and it wasnt until like wednsday that i thought i was beginning to get over him , then on thursday and friday, he is beginning to be more gentlemen like...e.g. he holds doors open for me, he lets me pass in the halls (cause our school doors are so tiny), like if we are on the bus he lets me get out in front of him,,and he is starting to smile and giggle at me now,,okay most people say im ditzy and blonde, which i really am-i can admit that--but like when i do something blonde or ditzy he like giggles...but he looks at me alot...mind you this started on thursday--that was the night that ariel told me that she liked him...so im beginning to think that she does like him but she is just trying to destroy my confidence wit him and make me jealous or something...my cousin said that 9 times out of 10 when she liked a guy and they didnt like her back a month would go by and they would like her...do you think thats whats happening?? i dont know him like really super oober well, but i like his personality and its not so much his outside looks but like the way he looks on the inside ya know...but i dont think that she sees the inside-she just sees a pretty face..and i really dont have a problem talking to him because i told him i liked him , i can confront him, im just so afraid that, even though he aint mine, she might still him from me...is this making any sense?? (link)
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i get it. i think that you shoudl get something over on her. hang out with him outside of class. something simple like movies with some of his friends.. or a football or basketball game.. if he likes you enough he wont be looking at her the way hell look at you. your cousins pretty much right. it can go either way though. guys mgith liek you.. you dont like him yet.. you tell him.. then you start to like him and he have given up on you.. If you like him, and you want to get to know him, make sure you try to do little things outside of school. thatll show "i like you a little bit.. and i like you more than just a friend in my class" does that help? i dont think that you shoudl worry abotu your friend. if shes a true friend shell be with you either way.. i think you should atleast try with him... if not then you will be better friends with him and still be friends with her..
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I have a permanent tooth that is mildly loose. I can wiggle it side to side a little. When the orthodonist was moving the tooth into place, it was running into another tooth. I think the gum roots were getting damaged or something. Do you think over time the tooth won't be as loose and won't wiggle as much? (link)
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nerves and your roots tighten up over time. they can loosen over time too. if it starts to get infected or hurt or bleed you need to tell your dentist. dont play with ti too much and it might go back to normal.
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about 1 to 2 weeks ago i took two pregnancy tests and they were both negative, but then i didn't have my period last month. Does this mean i'm pregnant or just all mest up? i want to get another test but i dont want my parents to find out until i know for sure and last time was hard enough. plzz help me!! (link)
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i agree. dont waste any time.. go see your doctor. its normal for your body sometimes to not make progestern (which makes you ovulate and have a period) you might not be having that. either way you should go to the doctor and tell your doctor and get a pregnancy test or a homemone level analysis
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Ok, i know this is a pretty stupid question but what does douschbag actually mean? i know its bad and stuff but i dont know what it actually means. thanks so much and i will rate you for answering my random question! haha :D
PS sry if its misspelled haha :P (link)
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people call eachother douchebags cause a douchebag is something that cleans out a vagina. some doctors dont recommend using them.. but some girls do. its kinda like calling somone a "pussy" for being weak. its a sexist term that is used as slang to just diss someone..
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what do i do? i just found out that my best friend ariel likes my crush drew...and she is talking about him and it drives me crazy. I ask her why didnt she do anything about it and she said cause she knows that she would have no chance and nothing would ever happen. but it was like a day before she told me that he started smiling and staring and being all nice to me...i just dont know what to do...im kinda scared that he might like her instead of me cause he knows her better. But i told him i liked him and it kinda scared him i guess,,,but like now he is being all nice to me and staring and smiling alot. and like if i laugh or something he looks at me...but i just dont know how to handle this....she didnt want to tell me but i made her and she said she didnt want to hurt me,, i know she means well but she keeps on talking about him like he is a slab of meat and saying that she likes him more and everything...and they went on a trip to FCA thingy and i couldnt go---it wasnt just them it was a whole bunch..and she was saying things like you need to go cause he is going...but then again i dont know if i want you to go------and im gonna sit wit him and tell you everything when we get back...so can you help me cause i have never had any experience with this before and i really dont know what to do......sorry its long.... (link)
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its okay that its long. it explains more. Iv had to deal with that so many times. she knows you like him.. tell her you dont wanna help because you like him too just be straight with her. tell her youll be there for her if she needs support but you dont wanna run her relationship with him. i really think that when you and this guy have some alone time (on the phone, in person, whatever) you should tell him how you feel about him and that you dont wanna ruin either freindship.. maybe he will tell you he doesnt like her. or maybe hell tell you that he would rather have you as a friend. either way i think you should tell them how you actually feel and how you want to have them both so you dont loose either friendship
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nearly every day for the past two weeks i've had severe migraines. I'm used to getting pretty bad ones, but not for 2 weeks in a row. I know i have to go see a doctor about them, but until then anyone know why this could be happening? Does stress cause migraines? And what can i do to ease the pain a bit? because there's only so much aspirin i can get, and i'm in school so its not like i can just drop everything and go to sleep every time this happens.
15/f (link)
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you really should go to the doctor. migraines can be symptoms of other things. stress can cause migranes yes. bright light. loud noise. LOTS of things can cause them.. you should talk to your doctor.
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((the story)) Im pregnant oh and im also 19 years old.. i recently found out and i called the father of the baby.. he is not my boyfriend.. but he is the boy i love with all my heart. he is the love of my life. when i told him he just right away said i dont want it, that i needed to take care of it.. i got mad and just hung up the phone and sent him a text saying i would talk to him later, that i wasnt in the mood to talk... later that night we talked some more, he made it 100% clear he doesnt want it.. he told me to take a pill or get an abortion.. i said ok... but the truth is.. i dont know if i want to... i know im young, i know i have my life to live... but i want a child... i feel like i need it.. to fill the emptiness i feel inside me.. that i have felt for such a long time... but at the same time.. i know if i keep it i will loose him, which makes me not want it... i love him with all my heart, with everything i have..but i know and feel in my heart that he and i will never be what i want to be... we have been "together" ((friends with benifets/bestfriends/'inlove'/all of the above)) for 2 1/2 years now.. and he knows i love him, and he claims he loves me aswell.. but he never wants something "real"... if i keep the baby, i am like 90% sure he will have nothing to do with me because i will be going against his wishes.. that or i just dont tell him and i leave to live in the US ((i live in mexico bythe way)) to stay with my family who lives there...
((the question)) should i get an abortion and continue being in this f*ed up relationsip that goes no where with theman i love.. or should i keep the baby and risk losing him forever, yet gaining a new never ending love of a child?? (link)
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please do whats best for you, he might not be "the love fo your life" if he gives you no choice but to get an abortion. if you want to keep it you need to know that he probably will not pay child support and that that man probably wont be the guy in his life. dont let him tell you want to do. you need tot hink hard about what is going to be best for YOU.
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if you are not on birth control and you have sex with a guy wearing a condom what is the chance of getting pregnant? (link)
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When condoms dont break its liek i do belive a 99.9%
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All of the sudden i have been getting dizzy! Last night i woke up really dizzy and naucious then it went away after a couple hours and i went back to bed but throughout today i will suddenly just get kinda dizzy and my head will spin and i have to steady myself. not like im gonna fall over or anything but i will just have to refocus. This has never happened before and i didnt chage anything to make it possibly happen so does anyone knoe why this might be happening or how to help me??? Thanks SO much! I will rate all helpful posts! :) (link)
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I agree with the last response. the best thing you can do is go to the doctor.. they know what to look for and check for. you never know it might just be your diet.. or maybe more. get it checked.
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OMG!!!!
Why are guys such A-holes!?!?!
Ok so I have this friend and we have dated previously and that was along time ago before I knew him and now I really do like him and I know he likes me its just that I feel used by him...Like he wont talk to me if he is talking to or hanging out with another or other girls and he like only talks to me when he isn't and tonight (Halloween) I was with him and he ditched me for another girl and yeah it just makes me mad...he acts like "oh I don't have anyone to flirt with so I'll just go hangout or call me!!!" and yeah he is one of those guys that treat you differently around his friends than when you are alone with him and as much as I wanna hate him I just can't because whenever I hear his voice of see him i just feel that attraction for him and I just don't know what to do about it and it just crushes me and tonight after I get home he calls me and he is all like "you sound sad or mad" and I was all like "well thats because I am" and he asks "well why is that?" and I was like " I have my reasons" and yeah Im still kinda pissed at him but I know I can't be mad at him for too long but it hurts me because he treats me like that...Please help me... (link)
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please dont let guys push you around. but also please dotn assume ALL guys are like that. guys might run off with another girl or treat you with disrespect around his friends. but girls also might be with you and then run and rather flirt with guys insted of hangout with you. dont assume that all guys are like that, PEOPLE just do things that hurt you, but you have to let them know thats not okay to do to you without blowing it out of porportion. the best way to do that is work on the old saying of "sleep on it" you might wake up feeling different.
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well im 14 and for some reason i just think its totally pointless to have a relationship before you can drive. dont get me wrong i have nothing against people who do have relationships but is this like totally wrong? i feel weird cause my friends are all like OMG he is sooooooo hot! and im just like whatever doesnt matter to me (link)
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THATS GOOD. im 18 and im having my first REAL relationship. i can drive, i know how to deal with homework, friends, work, my future, and MYSELF. dont think your weird just because of that. i think that it is a very smart thing to do and its exactly what i did.
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I am going to have to get all 4 of my wisdom teeth pulled in about a year or two. Nobody else in my family had theirs pulled...So I was wondering...
How much does it hurt on a scale of one to ten?
Where does it hurt the most at (top or bottom)?
I would like at least two people to answer...
Thank youu! I get really nervous about surgeries and things, so I was j/w.. Thankss (link)
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if they dont hurt. i say dont get them removed. i got mine removed two weeks ago. you have a nerve that connects your bottom jaw to your top jaw but your bottom wisdom teeth are right on that nerve. the surgen can poke that and damage that but it will heal. that is what makes the bottoms hurt so bad. the tops tend to "pop out" and not hurt too bad. you may not have one or two. i only have three. but now i only have two. :) soemtimes they come in fine and dont hurt.. so if they arent hurting too much or messing with the rest of your teeth i would sugesst talking to the surgen or dentist before you decide you want to actually do that. Other things might happen like.. the medicine can be relaly tough on your stomach. mine made me puke and halucinate. that was pretty weird. i hated it and i quit taking them after two pills. but then you feel the pain. So the pain differs from person to person and surgen to surgen. but i know youll be alright.
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my boyfriend used to scratch my back and bite me a LOT during sex, i loved it!...but now, he barely does it. though when he does, it's extra hott, but i've tried telling him he should do it more, but i think in-the-moment, he forgets. plus i'm always on top so it makes it a bit hard to bite my neck. i'm VERY into vampiric sex, and he's into whatever i'm into basically. i just need to know a way to get him to do it more often. we are also out of ideas on new things to try. new positions, new ANYTHING. what all is there to do that makes for hott sex? (link)
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I deffiently think you shoudl ask him what he likes. what hes into and what his fantcys are. role playing can always help that.. taking a small break from sex can help get that spice back. try things you normally wouldnt try and maybe the idea doesnt exactly turn you on.. but maybe trying them does..
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omg i have a pretty great life im in 7th grade and already there is WAYYYY to much dRAMAH and i used to be friends with a lot more people now and we are kind of breaking into cliques now and i like all my friends a lot but there is just WAY to much drama betweeen boys and all the other cliques in school (link)
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Dealing with drama can be tough. the best way to tone the drama down, and still be friends with everyone is to LISTEN. people LOVE when you seem like you care. not that you dont care.. just that you listen. For example. say emily talks about erin in a not so nice way to you.. you have some choices. you can say OH MY GOD I KNOW!! SHE TOTALY DOES THAT ALL THE TIME BLAH BLAH BLAH. or you can listen. they can get out whatever is frustrating them. tell them itll be alright and to talk to erin because erin might be doing something irritating because a problem shes having and hasent told you guys about it yet. at your age you love to talk because so much is changing ALL the time. try your best just to slow it down and not let yourself be put in a situation where you look like your gossiping about others all the time. ALSO.. thatll help with guys.. guys dont want to gossip all the time. they like to "chill"..just have fun.
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I've always had oily skin, but over the summer I've developed really dry skin as well, I assume because of puberty, etc. It varies in how peely it is, but lately its been ridiculously peely- it looks like I rolled my face in a bowl of dandruff at times. It's also only on certain parts of my face, currently in the "goatee" area, which I don't do anything to differently to. I stopped using my Differin acne medication, as well as any other products that may have irritated my skin. For moisturizer I use Lubriderm for extra dry skin, as well as Aveeno. They don't help much, as soon as my skin absorbs it, I start flaking again. Can anybody recommend a moisturizer that works wonders for extra extra dry skin, or prescription moisturizer? Most of the average drug store over-the-counter ones don't help me. Sorry that this was rather long. (link)
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im 18. and a girl. but i have combonation skin.. all that means is my face can be oily and then dry in some palces. the best thing to do is wash your face to get rid of the bad oils, but to make sure you use a really light lotion like.. aveeno. fragrence free oil free. nature mosturiser. it goes on dry but it really helps. i say wear it to bed and make sure you WASH YOUR FACE. i used differn since i was liek 14. and i mean.. it works... but it made my skin SO dry it would crack and bleed. that was HELL because i wear makeup. i think that washing your face will light soap, which irritates your face, and a light lotion works best..
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I am very religious. I do not belong to an organized religion and do not practice any thing that is clearly stated and known. Instead, I choose different beliefs from various religions into a mish-mash of different ideas. For example, I believe that God created the Earth, but I do not believe in the Original Sin (Adam and Eve), from Christian religion. I am asking, since I do not have a name for the mix of my beliefs, what, should I reply when I am asked what religion I practice. I do not want to say an atheist, because that is not what I am. (link)
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Your like me.. I didnt know what i was.. i just knew what i belived in and thats it. Well i started with the top religions. on nothiing else but wikipedia. i put in jew. i read everything about it.. i clicked on every link i didnt know what it meant. i learned ALOT. then i did islam. then i did buddism. It takes alot of time.. but i finally found out what i was. and it was amazing that i finally found soemthing that i agree with TOTALY and completely. and now im in the middle of a conversion..So that would be my suggestion..
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