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omg i have a pretty great life im in 7th grade and already there is WAYYYY to much dRAMAH and i used to be friends with a lot more people now and we are kind of breaking into cliques now and i like all my friends a lot but there is just WAY to much drama betweeen boys and all the other cliques in school <-- just had to get that out :)
how do i become better friends with boys..not as boyfriends just friends like how can i talk to them without being nervouse? im kind of popular in school but it seems some of my clique (erin, raqchel, kelly emily) me and rachel and erin arent that good friends with the boys but emily and kelly are how can i become better friends with them?????
thanks in advanced all suggestions are strongly appreciated :)
-Maeve :]
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Dealing with drama can be tough. the best way to tone the drama down, and still be friends with everyone is to LISTEN. people LOVE when you seem like you care. not that you dont care.. just that you listen. For example. say emily talks about erin in a not so nice way to you.. you have some choices. you can say OH MY GOD I KNOW!! SHE TOTALY DOES THAT ALL THE TIME BLAH BLAH BLAH. or you can listen. they can get out whatever is frustrating them. tell them itll be alright and to talk to erin because erin might be doing something irritating because a problem shes having and hasent told you guys about it yet. at your age you love to talk because so much is changing ALL the time. try your best just to slow it down and not let yourself be put in a situation where you look like your gossiping about others all the time. ALSO.. thatll help with guys.. guys dont want to gossip all the time. they like to "chill"..just have fun.
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The same way you became friends with your girlfriends. There's a common misconception that boys don't want to be your friend, they just want to get you into bed and people automatically assume that a boy and a girl cannot be just friends. but I know from personal experience that this is possible. One of my best friends is male and nothing has ever happened between us.
Talk to them the way you would talk to anyone else. They're still just human afterall
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