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my bff likes my crush...
what do i do? i just found out that my best friend ariel likes my crush drew...and she is talking about him and it drives me crazy. I ask her why didnt she do anything about it and she said cause she knows that she would have no chance and nothing would ever happen. but it was like a day before she told me that he started smiling and staring and being all nice to me...i just dont know what to do...im kinda scared that he might like her instead of me cause he knows her better. But i told him i liked him and it kinda scared him i guess,,,but like now he is being all nice to me and staring and smiling alot. and like if i laugh or something he looks at me...but i just dont know how to handle this....she didnt want to tell me but i made her and she said she didnt want to hurt me,, i know she means well but she keeps on talking about him like he is a slab of meat and saying that she likes him more and everything...and they went on a trip to FCA thingy and i couldnt go---it wasnt just them it was a whole bunch..and she was saying things like you need to go cause he is going...but then again i dont know if i want you to go------and im gonna sit wit him and tell you everything when we get back...so can you help me cause i have never had any experience with this before and i really dont know what to do......sorry its long....
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Its so sad how these issues come about. One thing I really want to say is take note....These things will continue as you grow and have other girls around you. You may like the same guy and dont think they will like them less when they find out that you like them too because it doesnt usually go like that. For some reason it seems like they will like a guy more when they see another girl in the picture. Its at this point when the other girl begins to wonder, wow, I wonder what she sees in him, I wonder what he does for her, better yet, I wonder what he will do for me.
Dont be down or discouraged by her actions. If you like a guy I say, let him know and then back up to see how he reacts to you. You can let him know quietly or have a friend pass it on to him but once you make it known, the best way to see if a guy likes you back is for you to see what he does with the information given.
For example, if you tell or show a guy you like him, in time, if he likes you he will start to look for you more, joke with you more, when you come around, he wont wanna pick up and leave. The best yet is when one of your friends come around, he wont pay her any attention and only wants to ask her where you are.
You will always have a girl who will like someone because someone else liked them, be sure to chose your bestfriends as careful as your boyfriends.
I hope you get the guy!!!!
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its okay that its long. it explains more. Iv had to deal with that so many times. she knows you like him.. tell her you dont wanna help because you like him too just be straight with her. tell her youll be there for her if she needs support but you dont wanna run her relationship with him. i really think that when you and this guy have some alone time (on the phone, in person, whatever) you should tell him how you feel about him and that you dont wanna ruin either freindship.. maybe he will tell you he doesnt like her. or maybe hell tell you that he would rather have you as a friend. either way i think you should tell them how you actually feel and how you want to have them both so you dont loose either friendship
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