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Hi, My name is Bailey. I am 15, and I know that is young, but I think I can offer good advice, or at least try my hardest.


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ok there is this guy that im starting to like again. we used to date about 4 moths ago but we were never boyfriend/girlfriend then he stopped talking to me and we didnt talk that whole 4 months now he broke up withhis girlfriend a couple weeks ago and he started talking to me again for the past couple days everytime he saw me he came tell me hey. do you think that he is starting to like me again?? or do you think that hes just being friendly??

Well, I couldn't really tell by what you put, but I think that you should tell him, or just talk to him about it. Maybe start flirting with him...
Good Luck!

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my boyfriend told me he has a
crush on another girl,
and i don't know what to do.

he says he loves me and wants to be with me,
and that he just wanted to be honest with me.

but now i feel as though i'm going
to be paranoid all the time.
i dont like feeling like this;
but i can't leave him.

i love him too much..

and today he spent all morning with me,
telling me how he doesnt want this to
interfear with our relationship.

he said it was weighing him down
and that he needed to get it off his chest;
but now that it's off of HIS.
it's not been put onto MINE.


what should i do?

-L



Hun, I am soo sorry that you have to go through this. When I read your question I was like wow, what if that were to happen to my boyfriend and me.

So I thought about it, and the pain I would feel would be indescribable, and I am sure that is how you are feeling, so I am so sorry.

Like everyone else said, at least he was being honest, and yes the truth does hurt.

Now when he says he has a crush, what does that mean? Does he want to kiss and hug her, does he want to be with her, or does he just like her for her looks? Because you need to take those into consideration. I mean they all are hard to accept, but if he likes her for just her looks, then this will probably go away soon. But if he likes her and wants to date her....there may be a problem, and it would lead to you getting hurt even worse.

So really at this point, you need to talk to him more. Tell him EXACTLY how you feel. And maybe you two can talk it ou.

Well I am so sorry that had to happen to you...good luck with everything! If you need anything drop it in my inbox.

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how do you ask a younger guy you work with (who your friends with) to your prom?

It is actually petty easty-

"Want to go to prom with me?"

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16/f.im getting my braces off in a couple weeks. anything i should expect or be prepared for?

You should prepare for the amazing happiness you will feel when they are off!!!

But, it does not hurt at all!!

People just make up stories so you get scared, I did.

The only bad thing is there is a little glue left on your teeth after, but that goes away and just tastes a little bad. But other then that it is fine.

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what is autostic.. im not sure if that is the correct spelling but i was wondering what it was. thank you.

http://www.nimh.nih.gov/publicat/autism.cfm

That should answer your question...

If not..GOOGLE it!

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I am so stressed out that i am having trouble sleeping and concentrating. Any advice on ways to releve stress?

Take a nice long bath. I know you probably don't think you have time, like I was like oh I never have time, but I tried it, and it really calmed me down.

I also will run, or walk. So exercising is a great way to releive stress!

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Okay so theres this girl on my bus lets say her names Kayla. She is SO ANNOYING!!! I cant stand her! shes a real popular girl (I dont know why!) and she is so mean. She has never done anything to me, except just make me mad. anyways, theres another kid on the bus lets say his names greg and hes a grade younger than her. Noone really likes him on the bus except for the real shy people who dont stick up for anyone. I personally dont know him and he doesnt know me. Kayla says the meanest things to him, like that hes fat and ugly and makes fun of his friends and stuff. I can bearly take it because I feel so bad for him. All these kids pick on him and he has a hard time sticking up for himself because there are so many mean kids on my bus. Shes actually mean to everyone that doesnt wear "the latest and greatest fashion". She was mean to one of my good friends because she didnt like the smell of her hand sanitizer. HAND SANITIZER!!! She needs to grow up desperetly. I really want to stick up for these kids. She actually hit one of these kids one day. The worst part is, our bus driver doesnt even care.

could you help me think of something to say or do?!?

ACE

P.S i rate high

That girl sounds like a bitch. I am sorry but she does. I think the thing you need to do is stick up for you and the other kids. I mean right now she probably feels like she has power over you guys since you don't stick up or do anything about it. So she is just going to continue to do it.

If you are too afraid to do it by yourself, then ask some other people to help you out. If she is really as bad as you made her seem, then I am sure other kids will be more than happy to stick up to her, especially in a group of people.

Good Luck!

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Why do people tend to try to manipulate others? and any tips on how to notice manipulations?

People manipulate other people, to get what they want, and know that they have a power over the person who they are manipulating.

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i have an ipod mini...and i was wondering, how many songs do they hold? I got it a few years ago...so i dont know how many songs it holds anymore.

1,000 songs

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Ok guys, so scott isn't cheating on me some girl made a whole bunch of stuff up to get us to break up but it didnt work...well i have another problem with scott...well last night he was like guess who i'm hanging out with this weekend? and i was like who and he goes vita ( his ex gf) and her family. i got pissed...this girl see's him more then i see him and he's my boyfriend! i was like whatever then go out with her and he said whatever aleah sometimes it's so annoying when you get jealous of ohter girls and i can't ever make you happy. but i mean come on...he said their like " best friends" but she lives an hour away from him and he told me he still liked her, but he likes me way more...you can't love someone and like another girl dose it work like that? everyone is worried about me i am so stressed out over all this it seems like its one problem after another i don't know how much more i can take. i hate playing these games with him but i can't trust him so i have to get mad about that stuff i mean wouldent you think it was a little weird if your boyfriend was going out with to dinner with his ex and her family? Yeah i'm jealous and pissed it seems like he's always putting ohter girls b4 me...he should want to spend time with me and see me. i don't know what to do and were not talking now becasue of this please help me!

Ok, well having dinner with his ex and his family is very weird. If my boyfriend did that, I don't even know what I would do, that would hurt me so much. So you have every right to feel jealous or weird about it. And that he sees her more than he sees you, no good. And when he said that he likes her but he likes you more...come on that is terrible. I think you deserve better then that. Hun, I really think that it is time to get out of this relationship. I just don't think that it is going to be beneficial to you at all.
I really wish you the best of luck with him.

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My bf is best friends with a guy that is just plain creepy. For one thing, he is 38 years old and still lives with his mother. He is also a pedophile, and only goes for very young girls. My bf has even told me that he's a pedophile, so I'm not making it up.
The thing that bothers me is that I've caught his friend staring at me inappropriatly at parties, and he's even winked at me. I had to give his friend a ride home once (because the loser doesnt have a car ) and he told me he liked me for a long time and told me to kiss him. I told him no, and after I dropped him off I told my bf what happened. My bf just laughed and didnt seem to take it seriously. I also heard a story that his friend used to stalk a waitress.
I really don't understand why my bf is still friends with this creep. Sometimes I feel that he'd rather be friends with him than me.
Should I give my bf an ultimateum and say it's either his creepy friend or me? Or would that be too controlling?

You need to talk to him about it deffinately. And tell him that if he cares about you he should ditch the friend, because he is a bad person and makes you feel uncomfortable. And I think the idea of giving him an ultimatum is a good idea, because you have reasons to. So I don't think it would be controlling.

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I have really bad acne sometimes. I can't even get rid of it most of the time. Does any one have a cheap really good successful cure (or almost cure) for complex acne?

I use Proactive, and it works miracles, but if that is too expensive, then you should try Biore products, which you can get an basically any store.

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What happens when you get braces taken off?

There is not pain at all, like I know that people told me that it hurts so bad,and there would be tons of blood....yeah that never happened. The only thing I didn't like about it was that I had glue on my teeth, and it didn't taste very good! But it is painless.

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My boyfriend said I was irresponsible and lazy just because I'm not going to school today. One. day. And he refuses to let me kiss him, when I next see him and now he's ignoring my calls&IMs. I don't know.

Sounds like you do have a right to be angry. He shouldn't have said those things to you. I mean he wont kiss you?? That is just plain rude! it sounds like he may be under stress or something and just really overreacted. But really he overreacted a little too much, and you should tell him how you feel about that. And if he continues doing things like that thne you should break off the relationship.

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how can i tell what people in the world are honest and good?

and why is everything always about sex lately?

its so fckd up.

i rate high. :]

Life would be easier if we could tell which people are good and honest, but unfortunately we cannot. We just have to use our own judgement.

SEX....Well I think sex has always been a big thing, but now it is becoming more of an open thing. And the thing we have to blame for that is the wonderful media. They have put into people's minds that sex is good, and you are not cool if you don't have sex. So if the media says to have sex, people are going to. That is unfortunately how the world works.

Yes it is so fucked up.

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ok this may sound a bit strange but does any1 know about the average bra size 4 a 13 year old because i get really embaressed getting sized up!!

There is not an average size, because everyone matures differently.

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hey!!
basically i can't help but flirt with any boy!! seriously! but the thing is it works; most boys that i flirt with end up liking me (they tell me) but usually they're the wrong 1s. but when they tell me i usually pity them and say that i like them back (but half the time i don't!!)
help im only 13!!

Flirting is fine, until it gets to a certain point. I mean you could really be letting these boys down, by making them think you like them, and really that is not good at all. You could really be hurting them. Flirting is completely normal, but just be careful.

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okay, so i have a boyfriend. and he's so perfect! i mean there's just something oddly attractive about him! he kind of has the care free attitude. he's just. great. but like i dont ever talk to him.. like ever i only have one class with him. and he just doesnt seem like he likes me.. so what should i do to like gain up my courage to acutally talk to him? and get him to like me more?

I deffinatey agree with the other people... A relationship NEEDS communication. So hun, you just have to work up the courage to talk to him, or your relationship is probably not going to last very long.

And don't just assume he does not like you, he may just be shy. A lot of guys are like that, they are just really shy at first. But once they feel they can open up to you, then they talk a lot!

So just go talk to him, I mean he is YOUR boyfriend!!

Good Luck!

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You and your boyfriend look so cute together. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while. But lately we have been argueing soo much. I definitely love him its just there has been a lot on our relationship lately. He's everything I want in a guy. So I want to know how you and your boyfriend keep up your relationship?

First of all thank you.
And my boyfriend and I have been going through a lot lately too. His mom does not really want hiim dating right now. But we are trying to make the best of it we can. I think the main thing is really communication. We talk everynight for like 5 hours or more. Now I am not saying to do that...or maybe you already do. But really I think that talking is a good thing to do. And the arguing thing, really you can't have a relationship without the arguing but I mean if it is excessive argueing that is not good. But really just lots of communication, o and how could I forget trust! TRUST that is HUGE, I have never trusted anyone like I do my boyfriend, and I think that is a huge thing, that you feel comfortable and trust eachother all of the time. So maybe you are just going through a little rough period, but if you really want the relationship to work, you will get through it.
Good Luck!

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OK, so me and my boyfriend had sex for like 2 minutes at the most!!! He didnt ejaculate or anything but i need to know if theres a chance i could still get pregnant!!! Please help, its urgernt!!!

Yes, it is called pre-ejaculation. So there is a small chance you could be.

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