I am too old and out of shape to beat around the bush so I'll give it to you straight. If you want sugarcoating go to the candy store, you won't find it here. Sometimes a little good old fashioned honesty is just what the doctor ordered!
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Hey, I am a fifteen year old girl, and my boyfriend is seventeen. We have been dating for five months, and we really love each other. I adore him, he is the only guy I want to spend my life with. My parents are very fond of him, but they don't like the idea of him and I going on a date by ourselves. I can understand their thinking, but my boyfriend cares about me, a lot. I've talked to him about this, and he says he never wants to hurt me, he only wants to take care of me, and I trust him with all my heart. Also, my boyfriend has his own truck, and he could drive us, so I don't see how that could be the problem. Like I said, my parents like him, but they won't let us go on a date by ourselves. What's the problem here? How can I fix it? Advice is much appreciated. Thank u(: (link)
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A 15 year old girl, a 17 year old boy, a vehicle, oh, I see how this could be a problem! That is because I was a 15 year old girl once and I know a lot about 17 year old boys(with trucks)!I am sure he is a perfectly nice boy but feelings can get out of hand VERY quickly at this age. Your parents are only looking out for you. If you really love each other then what is the problem? Why do you have to be alone together in a vehicle? What is that going to do for you that is not happening now? I am sure if you are just planning to use this vehicle for transportation your parents will be happy to drive you there! My advice: Just have some innocent fun and be a a 15 year old for now. You are not yet emotionally ready to decide who you are going to \"spend your life with\". Just have some fun and try not to let things get too serious just yet! I am sure this is what your parents are trying to get across to you as well!
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Me an my friend are very close n we are very dirty minded, we are only 13 nearly 14 and borh girls n we hump each other (dont hate) n sometimes we play with ourselfs together n i really want her to play with me or lick me even (i dont fancy her..) I just want someone i no to lick/finger me?? Help?? (link)
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You are having a lot of sexual feelings right now and that is pretty normal for your age but it sounds like things are going a little too far with your friend. You need to consider her feelings. You say you don\'t \"fancy\" her but you have no idea how she might feel. She could really be crushing on you and end up devastated when you meet someone you do \"fancy\". You are letting your desire for sex take over your thinking. I think you are both at an age where you should only experiment on yourself(by yourself) and wait until you have the maturity to enter into a sexual relationship with somebody. This can be pretty heavy stuff and sometimes it takes a while to figure it all out. My advice is to wait a while and make sure no one gets hurt.
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I am devastated right now. I'm about to graduate college this weekend and I feel absolutely heartbroken. I love this school, the people, my teachers, the program so much, it is everything to me. At home I've always had a bad relationship with my parents and I don't really have close friends. My one best friend will be away for the whole year next year so I won't get to spend time with him.
Every time I return home for breaks I am miserable at home and am always in a war with my parents. The feeling of being home brings back so many bad memories. I don't know how to control this. When I'm not in school I have no outlet to apply the skills I'm good at. When I'm home for break I'm always comforted by the fact that I will return back to school soon. School is my true home.
Now it's over and I won't be coming back. I'm experiencing that devastating feeling I felt last year during finals week only this time it's worse because I feel like it's permanent. I have to live at home for at least one more year, maybe more. I'm grateful to have that but I don't know how to deal with this transition. I can't control my emotions. I sob every time I think about leaving here.
All the positive thinking in the world did not prepare me for this. Everyone else seems perfectly fine, even happy to graduate. Right now, I feel like I am losing everything. On top of everything, I might not get a part of my degree because of a failed course which changes my plans entirely for next year. I will still get a college degree but I have to change my plans and I don't know what I'm going to do. How can I deal with these devastating, scary emotions? (link)
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Given your circumstances what you are feeling sounds justified. It is kind of like homesickness in reverse! My best advice to you is think about what things and activities you love the most, then go where they are happening and try your best to enjoy yourself a little and make some new friends. Be open with the friends you already have and tell them how you feel. I am sure they will help in any way they can. What NOT to do is cut yourself off from people and sink into a deep depression. You may even need to seek some counseling to get you through this. If so, please do it, there is no shame in admitting you need a little help. I am sure this is VERY scary for you and you shouldn\'t try to go through it alone. You say you love the teachers and the people so go to them and let them know how you feel. I\'ll bet they will be very supportive while you make this transition. Even though your good friend will be away for a year with all the technology available these days he will probably still have a lot of contact with you. You don\'t mention what the skills are that you are good at but I am willing to bet school is NOT the only place you can apply them. Maybe you could even do some tutoring and teach these skills to others(you might even make a few bucks on the side!)If home is a bad place to be then do everything in your power to fill your life with work or activities that will get you out of the house. You can get through this! Just take it one day at a time. Best of luck to you!
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I know, I know. It's cliché to ask but how do I stay fresh "down there"? I am a 26 year old female, skinny, great hygiene and attractive but I have had problems for years on how to stay smelling good. Its not just my private parts, its also my armpits and the entire rest of my body... except my feet and breath. I just don't have a very good natural scent. :'(
I take a shower in the morning and night, I wash and wash with soaps, body wash, body scrubs and vaginal soaps, I use deodorant (currently using secret brand with a scent to it but I have also used scentless, different brands and the liquid/gel kind), I have used all over deodorant spray with heavy scents and of course I lather myself up with lotion and body spray or perfume. None of this seems to last long. Even my very expensive and strong perfumes like Jadore and Euphoria don't last very long. I know I'm supposed to get used to the smell after so long but I can still smell myself just fine for hours and hours, all day and its not good.
If I keep my legs closed while sitting I sweat almost immediately and it reacts with either my panties, jeans, leggings and if I'm on my period then its WAY worse and it stinks again. I can not wear any shirt without it smelling bad regardless of what kind of deodorant I'm using. I even have a prescription for an all over deodorant that stops sweating, and it works for sure but if I wear a tshirt or anything that's up against the armpit, it doesn't matter, it will start to stink. I feel like I have to keep my legs closed tight and my arms against my sides 24/7 so that no one will notice. I even bring wipes with my when I use the bathroom so as not to add any stink. but I can't always do that.
My bf doesn't seem to notice much but I DO go out of my way to try to make sure he doesn't. It sucks having to have an excuse to take a shower or use the bathroom anytime before having sex. I feel like I cant just have random, spontaneous or in the moment sex. Other people like family and close friends have made comments before but not often and not in a rude way but still... and like I said before, I go out of my way to hide this... HOW IS IT SOME PEOPLE CAN WALK BY AND YOU CAN SMELL HOW GOOD THEY SMELL??? Do they spray too much or overuse their lotion? Isn't that supposed to make you just as stinky, but in a different way?
It's terribly embarrassing and I am about to move in with my boyfriend so it will be a million times harder to hide this. Ive been with him for a long time btw. I did just have a baby 3 months ago... and this is my 2nd baby, my other is 8 years old. I also just got a Mirena IUD... could any of this be the reason and why? How long will that last or what can I do?
SO MY QUESTIONS ARE (and please answer any that you can)...
what can I do?
How can I change my natural scent?
How can I make perfumes or lotions last longer on my body?
How can stay fresh down there?
Which deodorants have worked wonders for you?
Are there any medications in pill form or any other form that can help me?
PLEASE HELP!!!! 5. If you know of ANYTHING, please help me! :( I'm really self conscious and my self esteem really drops because of this. :( (link)
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When you got your Mirena did you mention this to the GYN. You need to make an appointment just for this issue. When you go in DO NOT use anything to try to cover up the scent . Let him/her smell what you are smelling so they can form an opinion. I tend to agree with one of the others who first gave you advice that diet could be a key factor. If the GYN doesn\'t come up with a reason or a solution I would try completely changing your diet. Constipation is one of the leading causes of what you are describing. Since I don\'t know your diet I am going to suggest a diet with lots of fresh vegetables and fruit. You might also want to add some psyllium husk or other natural fiber that will keep you regular and not let all of those toxins build up in your system.Drink plenty of water! Being constipated is one of the leading causes of bad breath as well. Some people can be constipated and not even realize it because they are still having bowel movements, but not evacuating the stool completely. You know what rotted meat smells like, well if you have the equivalent inside your body for days that smell has to come to the surface sooner or later! Write down everything you eat for a week and keep track of your bowel movements. I honestly think you will find this is the root of your problem but get checked out by the docs anyway just to be sure!
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I recently found out one of my friends has bed bugs. I sleep over at her place often so when I found out she had them I was freaked out. (I know cleanliness is not necessarily a factor) Since her house is practically like mine too I need some advice on how to get rid od them.
She said:
- none of her roomates have any signs of them in their rooms
-NOT an infestation...yet
-She has used some sort of powder to get rid of them
We already known some tips on how to get rid of them but if anyone has advice to offer that would be helpful (link)
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She is being honest with you about the problem so You need to be honest with her and tell her you would rather not stay over until she has had an exterminator come in. These things can be insidious! I have been fortunate (so far) to have never acquired them but people who have, say they are almost impossible to get rid of without calling in a professional. Remember what Ben Franklin said \"an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure!\" So true!
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I will be moving soon and I know in my head what I want my new bedroom to look like but I don't actually know the name of the style, so that other people know what I'm talking about.
I'd call it an Indian Bohemian princess bedroom. Fabricy walls, bright colours, different textures and patterns. I just need to know what to call that, so I will be able to buy the materials to make my dream room. (link)
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I think you are pretty much describing a Bohemian or \"BOHO\" style. I don\'t think anyone is going to have trouble understanding what you mean. I\'ll bet it is going to be beautiful!
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i want to insert my g.f back hole i mean bums hole can i insert is it any problem in inserting?? will my penis go inside if is it not then what should i do for it to go in... (link)
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I have a better idea, Why don\'t you buy a dildo(a fake penis) and have her insert it into YOUR bum hole first. That way you can tell her how it feels and what to expect. If you are serious about having anal sex then it is the right thing to do, don\'t you agree?
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So I overplucked and used to shave my eyebrows before and my eyebrows still aren't in a good place. They've grown a bit and I have done a bit of plucking just to keep their shape, but i want to know if there's any way to boost eyebrow growth (preferably fast). My other question is: I have prom next week. If I go to a place that does eyebrows will they makeup your eyebrows for you? By that I mean use an eyebrow pencil and such to make them pretty because I want to look nice and I don't use makeup so I have no idea what I'm doing. (link)
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Anyplace that does makeup will fix them for you for prom. You also need to have them to teach you how to do it until they grow back. Who knows maybe your mom or some other family member is really good at makeup, it never hurts to ask!You have a week to let them experiment before seeking professional help! I know you will have a great time at the prom even if your eyebrows aren\'t perfect!
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ok so basically be and this guy named bob (not is real name) I knew from school have been talking on facebook like friends and I didn't think much of it and then my friends told me someone liked me but they said they wouldn't tell me so I secretly went on m y friends facebook to see any messages between her and any guys I knew and bob was talking about this girl it didn't say a name so I didn't wanna assume anything but I was still thinking about it and today at lunch my friends kept asking if I liked anyone and I said no one and they said I should like someone and I said well how am I supposed to know if you guys wont tell me and then my friend Sally (not her really name) really stupidly said its someone who talks to you everyday and that gave it away that it was bob and a couple of months ago he asked out a girl at a dance and brought her flowers and stuff and she danced with him but ended up turning him down and he was so sad and now im pretty sure hes gunna ask me out but I don't wanna hurt him cause hes like my closest guy friend and I don't want our friendship to end but I don't like him in that way Dx
so please can you give me tips on how to tell him I don't like him and please don't tell me to just tell him straight out because im that good with words and it just wont work
im 13 female (link)
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If he asks you out tell him how much his friendship means to you . Tell him that he is such a special friend to you that you could never think of him in any other way. He might be a little bummed at first but you will still have your friend!
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I was in school and we were watching a video and that "high pitch sound" in my ear came. My mind all of a sudden started focusing on it, and it hurt really bad. I even had to go home. How can I stop this from happening tomorrow? Please help ASAP. It's still going on right now too. I'm trying to get my mind off it but i can't. (link)
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There is a name for this high pitched sound in your ear, it is called Tinnitus. It may be present because of an ear infection or it could be a perforation in your eardrum(there are a host of things that could be causing it)but whatever is causing it you need to see a doctor right away. If it is really hurting badly you could even ask your parents to take you to the ER. This is something you really need to get checked out. There is no way you can stop it on your own without seeing a doctor to find out why it is happening. I hope you get well soon!
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I am a 13 year old girl. My height is 5.4 ft and my weight is 135 pounds.I am overweight for my age/height.I want to do the lemon diet because i'm feeling sluggish and tired.I also want to lose weight but i want to lose fat not muscle.should i try the lemon detox for a few days?
P.S. I can i use honey instead of maple syrup? (link)
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I am very concerned that you are only 13 and feeling tired and sluggish. You are not terribly overweight so I don\'t think that has anything to do with it. You need to get your Mom to make you a doctor\'s appointment right away because what you are describing could be Mono. It is a very common and very contagious disease especially among teens. It usually goes away on it\'s own but sometimes there is swelling of the spleen which can lead to serious complications. I don\'t want to scare you but DO NOT exercise until you get to a doctor and rule this out. Strenuous exercise when you have Mono can lead to a ruptured spleen which can be life threatening. Your doctor will probably take a few tests to determine if you have any type of physical condition that would account for the way you feel. While you are with the doctor ask about whether it would be safe for you to try this lemon diet but PLEASE tell your mom about this right away so that she can make you an appointment, okay? Don\'t worry so much about your weight right now, those few extra pounds will come off if you adopt a healthy lifestyle. Doctors are a great source of help with this issue as well. Please take my advice and tell your mom to make you an appointment!
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My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple of months now and recently I have noticed one girl in particular showing an interest in my boyfriend. Before I had met my boyfriend I was not exactly friends with this girl because she is a bit of a bitch and I hate to use this word but she is what would be described as a "slut", but ever since we started dating she suddenly started hating me and being really rude to me. At first it was just her but now she has her friend against me as well and I feel really uncomfortable around them and always feel like I'm being watched. Every time i walk past them they stare at me and i know they are talking about me because they all turn and look at me at the same time. Individually all of the girls in this group are nice to me but when they are together they are horrible. Also, the one girl in particular is acting very "fake" around my boyfriend and when I'm with him she treats me completely different than what she would if I was alone. I have talked about it with my boyfriend and he is very understanding of everything and the way I feel but I still don't know what to think about it all. Even worse is that he was at a party they were at and all he girls were drunk and were hanging off him and the one girl was looking at him like she wanted to have sex with him (his words not mine). He hated the whole night and was texting me the whole time telling me how much he wanted to get away from them but he had no way of getting home until the time that he had arranged to be picked up from the party. We have a very open relationship with each other and are 100% honest which makes me feel a little bit better but I don't like the way they are treating me as if I have done something wrong when really I'm just with they guy they want. i really do like him and I afraid that it's going to get to the point where I'm just going to give in to the pressure and l don't want that to happen because I'm scared to lose him.
ps. I go to a small school and there really is no way of avoiding these girls
Sorry it's long I just really don't know how much longer I can take this. Advise please! (link)
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First of all you need to take a moment and thank your lucky stars for your boyfriend! He is a keeper! Do you know how many guys would have had sex with the girl anyway? Teenage boys(and a lot of grown men)would not turn down any offer of sex from any girl ever! The fact he believes what you are saying and he was honest enough to tell you what they did is just amazing! Very few young men possess this level of maturity. This guy has earned your trust in spades, so please do not start over thinking this to the point where you get upset with him over some future decision you assume he could make. If you do that you are playing right into the hands of those nasty girls who are out to hurt you and destroy your relationship. Show your guy some extra appreciation and tell him how much it means to you that he handled the situation the way he did. I don\'t think you have to worry about this one!
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Free education
Free housing
Free health care
One baby and all this government assistance
Gets an American citizens job. WTF? I have to plan early and find out how I'm gonna get a scholarship because my family can't afford college, and we gotta pay taxes or get the F out, we have an apartment above grandma's house and the best we can figure out but may or may not take it is a house with walls inside gutted out, and my dad has a back injury and can't even work at McDonalds cause of it and has to go to court and fight for a check, meanwhile my mom is 40 something and has to go to school and get a better job so me and my siblings could have a life, yet anyone could illegally cross the border and it's all like,“oh, here's all this money, and a house, you can go to Harvard for free, oh, and you can have this American guys job, you don't have to pay for anything" yet my family pays taxes and stuff like that and we get NOTHING other then a poor school needing to do 10,000 fundraisers a year and box tops every 2 days, but nooo, aliens get a fancy private school. I know an old lady who may have no place to live in the future, and you know what she gets from the government? NOTHING! NOTHING AT ALL! NOT A CENT! But illegal immigrants get EVERYTHING! It's not fair American citizens should be treated better and illegals sent back or put in jail! Why, in other t countries they'll threaten your children and kill you if you enter illegally. (link)
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I understand that you are frustrated about your current situation but I think your rant about illegal immigrants is something that you heard not something you know to be fact. I have a very hard time believing that illegal immigrants are given all these things. I think you should call your local welfare office and tell them you are doing research on this subject and find out the real truth. If what you say is true and they really are entitled to all these things then find out why. Many times adults get frustrated and look for a scapegoat to blame it on(in this case illegal immigrants) and before you know it illegal immigrants are responsible for everything from Aids to bad school lunches! I am not saying that some of your reasoning isn\'t valid but I think someone you have been listening to has blown this all out of proportion. I have a friend who immigrated from Belgium (legally) and she can not get help of any kind from our government until she has been a US citizen for 5 years. No health care, no food stamps, no student loans, not even WIC for her baby. Her husband\'s family had to agree to sponsor her and provide for any needs that may arise. Her husband paid for the birth of their baby out of his own pocket and he doesn\'t make a lot of money. If she is treated in this manner by our government then why would they treat ILLEGAL immigrants any better? I am NOT in any way defending illegal immigrants but please do the research on this and find out the truth. You might be surprised at how much it differs from what you have heard!
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My GF and I moved into a new condo about a year ago. We are both from the suburbs and our current place is downtown. We love it. Instead of walking everywhere, we can sit on a bus to go wherever we need to go. Instead of grocery shopping, there is an all-you-can-eat buffet downstairs. Both of us come from vegan families, with hobbies like running and biking.
But since our move away, we have both ditched those lifestyles to live at large for a while. Without all the constant pressure from our families, we have been enjoying ourselves.
No more uncomfortable clothes. Its now sweats and slippers for both of us, even in public. Now we only get off the sofa to go downstairs for the buffet. Neither of us have done anything fitness related for about a year now. We've each put on about 50 lbs. But we enjoy sitting on our (now large) butts with our feet up. Only problem is both of our parents are coming to visit next week and they havent seen us since the day we moved in! We're out of breathe walking down the hall and we werent even allowed to own slippers and sweatpants when we lived at our family homes. What should we expect? Im worried about them even recognizing our faces because of our chubby cheeks and double chins :( (link)
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I can\'t believe you came from such healthy minded backgrounds and then allowed yourselves to get this out of control! Wow, I guess your parents WILL be shocked! My guess is that you are really going to get some flack from them and just for the record you know you deserve it, right? You are begging for diabetes, sleep apnea and a host of other obesity related health problems. It sounds like you are having trouble breathing already! You already know what you need to do since you used to do it, so I am not going to waste my time explaining diet and exercise. Just tell the parents the truth and let them know you plan to get back on track. It really is all you can do at this point and hopefully you both learned a lesson! Good luck!
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I'm 14/f. And I've been battling many disorders for 2 years now. I have anorexia, anxiety, bulimia, depression, ednos, insomnia, paranoia, selfharm, selfhate. I've been through a bunch and I've attempted suicide 3 times. I don't want attention for this though. This winter season has been really hard on me and no one except my best friend knows about how much these disorders have hurt me. I've got so many deep cuts and scars on my thighs, arms, wrists, and hips. I usually will put a bunch of foundation on my arms to cover the scars but I don't want to have to do this all summer. I play baseball and our uniforms are sleeveless, so I can't cover them all the time. How can I make a remedy for scar removal? Please help! (link)
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Well Hon, how will it help to remove the scars if you are still cutting yourself? You have to stop. I am going to assume if this has been going on for two years that your parents know? If they know then I once again have to assume you are getting treatment? If you have made 3 suicide attempts you parents must be aware! My question is why isn\'t someone monitoring you better? You have to know you need help because you can name all of your problems very accurately!You need to be in a clinic for this where you can get help. Go to an adult you trust immediately and show them what you are doing. I really can\'t believe your parents aren\'t aware of this. Maybe you should be living elsewhere for a while where you can get the attention and help you need. I hope you will talk to someone about this today. You are worth it whether you see it nor not. It sounds like you are looking forward to baseball, I\'ll bet you are good at it aren\'t you? You know what, I hope someday you will be able show other kids those scars and tell them how you overcame your problems and they can too. Don\'t hide it, use it to help others. Good can come from even the worst situations if you choose to turn it into something positive. I know you can do it, just gather up all your courage and go tell someone, okay!
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Hi, I'm Elle and I'm 23. I'm still going to a community college but I don't feel like I'm getting anywhere. I have about 67 college credits but I know they don't mean anything if they don't equal an actual college degree. They are all under liberal arts. I can't find a job. I feel very ashamed, useless, and lame because of my current status. I really don't know what to do with my life. I felt so depressed today that I almost really felt like killing myself. I'm getting soooo old and I still have no sense of direction with my life. Anyone got any advice? God I'm so depressed.......... (link)
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You are only 23! For heaven\'s sake you are still a baby! No one ever died from not having a college degree! There are women out there your age who don\'t even have a high school diploma! You are suffering from depression which has nothing to do with school. You have some very deep seated issues that need to be addressed before you decide to harm yourself. Get to a counselor immediately or if you are having serious thoughts of harming yourself call a suicide hotline or go to the nearest ER right away. Nobody will judge you. You just need some help right now that\'s all. You will not believe how much differently you will view your life after you get the proper medication and counseling! These things are usually caused by a chemical imbalance and pretty easy to treat. If you want to read about a good example of this read EAT,PRAY,LOVE by Elizabeth Gilbert. She suffered something very similar to what you are describing but she went on to write two best selling books! Really, once you get some help you will be okay just take that first step and get to a doctor! Life is going to turn out just great. You can trust me on this. Just make that call okay? Good luck!
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Before you read this… please know that my boyfriend and I have a very strong and healthy relationship. And just like every couple, we have our own personal ways of how we do our sex life. We do things that may be a little intense for some people but that’s just us… its nothing thats too abnormal and its nothing disgusting either. But anyway… I also want to say sorry for the language :p please no judging, I just need some assistance.
So I recently found out that my boyfriend has a "Christian Grey" side to him. Referencing the book 50 shades of Grey. He SOMETIMES gets in a mood where he just wants to... well, basically use me as a sex object... be kinky, talk dirty, choke me, spank me, handcuff me, pull my hair, be extremely rough and he just wants me to take it and just do what he says without saying or doing anything unless he tells me to... For those of you who have read 50 shades... its very similar to Christians "angry sex." YOU may not be into this but I TOTALLY am!!!! I have a "safeword" in case it gets too intense for me but that's not really the point. This is just a part of our sex life because it works for us.
He gave me a preview the other day to see how I would react and it was amazing... best sex I've ever had!! I loved it! and I can take it and handle it. I cant wait to see what its like when its not a preview. But we were talking about it and he said that when he talks dirty to me, he would sometimes like me to respond... he gave me a couple of examples... if he says something like "you're such a slut" a good response would be "Yeah I'm a dirty slut" or if he called me a bitch I could say "I'm your fucking bitch." He told me that just responding "yeah" or "mmm" is good enough but sometimes its nice to hear more. He did however say that if he didn't want a response he would tell me to shut up... This all sounds SO mean but honestly... its really not. Its just how we like to do it sometimes and I seriously love it... when its over we are back to being in love and being sweet and all that. So please don't say anything like he is being abusive or I shouldn’t have to deal with that cuz its not like that.
My problem is that I have never really been good at dirty talk. So maybe some suggestions or any advice you can give, maybe examples of more responses I could give to phrases he may use… thanks in advance
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If you are really into it the way you say you are then it will come naturally. Just imagine you are a porn actress in a sex scene and try to imagine what she would say. You will need to \"get into character\" so to speak. Enjoy yourselves!
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I had having sex wid my bf after 15 days for 5 years.. Bt nw we seperated nd my body wants dat process bt I control nd even I dnt do finggering. My vaginahad becam too much loose. is Dere any solution to make my vagina as before if I dnt do sex again (link)
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No, you can\'t make it like it was but there are some exercises you can do called Kegal exercises that will give you better muscle control so you will be able to tighten those muscles during intercourse and make your vagina seem tighter. When you are peeing and you try to make yourself stop it is pretty much the same way you tighten the muscles for these exercises only you don\'t actually do them while you pee. Look it up on the internet for a full explanation. I hope this helps!
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Last Tuesday, I had an Intercept Oral Drug Test done. I've read pretty much everywhere THC metabolites can be in saliva anywhere between 12-24 hours. I had not smoked exactly 24 hours prior to taking my test, the day before (Sunday) I smoked a bowl, and the day before that (Saturday) I had a few bongs and a couple hits off a j. Those four days I brushed my teeth and rinsed with mouthwash about 3-4 times a day. Including up to 5 minutes before me taking my test in the parking lot, that's where I messed up. When I went in I was instructed to leave the swab between my gums and cheek for 2.5 minutes, when I took it out there was a little blood (maybe a drop) on it from brushing my teeth so vigorously. I'm looking for opinions in whether or not it will matter or if you guys think I'll pass. I should find out tomorrow, just would like some support.
It was also sent off to a laboratory. 😔 (link)
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I know I am going out on a limb here but have you thought of maybe giving up the pot and going legit so you can pass the test and get a good job! It sounds like you will need a good job in order to buy drugs! No wait, that\'s not my advice! Just say NO! That\'s the advice I was going for! Good luck pal!
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I am 12 yr old girl and want to no wen I should be allowed to do things. First I'm responsible , get good grades, and reasonable. I
Makeup: I have acne so I want to conceal and start putting some on in a yr or two. My mom thinks 15/16
Babysitting / tutu ring: I wanna do it now to prove I'm responsible but my mom thinks 13
Dating: I think dances should be ok in high school and to start real dates jr yr with approval of the boy . Mom thinks 17.
Alone: I want to go shopping and movies with a friend or by myself. With friends I think now and I'll call my mom every hour. Alone I think high school. Mom thinks 15
Shaving legs : I think now . Don't wanna ask mim.
Am I being unreasonable? Is she? What is a good middle ground for a good girl like me? Can u help me convince to that middle ground? Thx (link)
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You do sound like a very mature young lady! I am sure your mom thinks so to. I\'ll bet if you continue to show her how mature and responsible you are she will be a little more agreeable to letting you do some of these things a bit sooner. As far as your acne goes you do need to ask mom for some medication for that, maybe even a doctors appointment if it is very bad. Unfortunately trying to conceal it with make up usually just clogs the pores and makes it worse! It also wouldn\'t hurt to have a mature talk with mom about starting to shave your legs. She might agree to it sooner than you think! No matter what she decides just remember she loves you very much and she is doing what she thinks is best for you so please appreciate her for that. Some kids have moms who really don\'t care what they do. You may think that sounds great but it isn\'t. These kids would much rather have someone who loves them enough to help them make good decisions. I think you have a great future ahead of you! Don\'t forget to tell your mom thanks for caring and Happy Mothers Day!
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