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both girls and we hump each other
Me an my friend are very close n we are very dirty minded, we are only 13 nearly 14 and borh girls n we hump each other (dont hate) n sometimes we play with ourselfs together n i really want her to play with me or lick me even (i dont fancy her..) I just want someone i no to lick/finger me?? Help??
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Sexuality is fluid; it's totally normal to want to come, and, really, safer than experimenting with boys at your age. In the Victorian era friendships like these were considered good, safe "practice" for the expected heterosexual relations later. Delay doing these things with boys, and when you do, make 100% sure you're using protection.
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Relax your normal.
What is happening to you is you are exploring your sexuality. You are not a lesbian or bisexual or anything else. It is not unusual for kids your age just going through puberty want to experiment with their sexuality. It is much safer and less embarrassing to experiment with someone of their own sex.
So relax this has been going on forever. You and your girl friend may get to where you want to go as you both get more comfortable with your own bodies and sexuality.
By the way boys experiment as well with other boys at this age. It does not make them gay or bisexual either.
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Hi there! I fancy I can see where you're at and where you're coming from. You're not a lesbian, bi-sexual or confused or curious about your sexual direction? You don't see yourself in a same-sex relationship now or any time soon? OK, girls are often more physical and 'touchy-feely' with their girl-friends than guys are with their mates. Kissing and hugging when they're sharing a laugh, or sharing troubles. A couple of (maybe married) women curling up in bed together, having a drink and watching a romantic movie. Guys almost invariably DO NOT 'share' on this level with their male friends. To put it mildly, it's just not acceptable to us. What you're enjoying with your friend is of course what we can only describe as sexual behaviour. And sexual behaviour is something that IS meant to be shared. Obviously you're both comfortable about being sexual together. If either of you wasn't it wouldn't be happening. Would pleasuring each other even more directly (a little more than humping, in the ways you descibe) be an unacceptable step 'too far'? No. Not if you're both comfortable with it and enjoying it. So discuss the possibility with her. What I'm hoping to say is that you are NOT doing anything to feel guilty about, there's no suggestion that you are lesbians, or that it will make you lesbians. And it's definitley NOT freaky or unusual. Maybe neither of you particularly want a boyfriend right now? You're much happier enjoying your sexuality with each other? If you're happy with it, you trust her and feel confident with her, and it feels good, enjoy it. I might add that given your ages, well...other friends could well be a bit over-judgemental and you might find yourselves the subject of some teasing and hurtful comments. So keep things just between you and your close friend. We do not all mentally and emotionally mature at the same rate. You'll certainly have similar aged other friends who would not be as aware of, or comfortable about the idea as you two seem to be at the moment. And some will identify with where you're at right now completely. Either way, it's actually your business and not theirs anyway, isn't it? There's really nothing worrying, harmful or remotely damaging in what you've said here. And certainly no cause to 'hate'. Stop worrying and thinking too much about it and just have fun. X
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You are having a lot of sexual feelings right now and that is pretty normal for your age but it sounds like things are going a little too far with your friend. You need to consider her feelings. You say you don't "fancy" her but you have no idea how she might feel. She could really be crushing on you and end up devastated when you meet someone you do "fancy". You are letting your desire for sex take over your thinking. I think you are both at an age where you should only experiment on yourself(by yourself) and wait until you have the maturity to enter into a sexual relationship with somebody. This can be pretty heavy stuff and sometimes it takes a while to figure it all out. My advice is to wait a while and make sure no one gets hurt.
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