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bladder pro-lapse surgery
I have had bladder pro-lapse surgery 6 weeks ago. I am 53. I tried to have sex and it hurt and bleed so much I had to stop. Will my vagina stretch back out some at accommodate a large penis?
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I am going to go out on a limb here and assume you had the go ahead from your doctor! Your doctor should have talked to you a little more in depth about what to expect when you were allowed to resume sexual relations! I am no doctor but I don't think you should be experiencing a lot of pain and bleeding with intercourse. This type of surgery should not change the size of your vagina so I would assume there is still a lot of swelling present. I would also caution you not to have sexual relations while bleeding because it could introduce bacteria into the site of the incision. You really do need to call your doctor about this. If you just continue to have sex attempting to "stretch your vagina back out" you could cause a host of serious post surgery complications! Good luck!
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6 weeks is a very short time. Give it a few more weeks even a month before trying it again and when you try again use a lot and I mean a lot of lubrication. Have him take it extremely slow and gentle for as long as it takes for you to be pain free and at ease. It's going to take some time. Even those who have never had surgery can have pain and bleeding from vigorous sex. So just don't rush things. Everyone is different as is their healing time. But you will get there eventually just don't do too much too quickly.
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We are not doctors and could not give you a really specific answer to this question. This is one of those question I believe you MUST take to your doctor because of the pain and bleeding.
Also not knowing the specific procedure the doctor use for the surgery makes even guessing at an answer less than a 50/50 possibility of being correct. One would think knowing how the vagina is designed it would stretch to accommodate a large penis but I just cannot give you a yes or no answer. Only your surgeon or gynecologist can. So see you doctor specifically because of the pain and bleeding with intercourse.
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