about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

My boyfriend called me a hoe and i dont know wether 2 be mad @ him or wat? i mean he did call me a hoe and im not a hoe. I dont understand. and that shyt is mad fucked up.

Why did he call you a hoe? Were you guys arguing or did he just say it for no reason? If he meant it for no reason, that's really messed up! Don't let him call you names. If he says something to you like that again, tell him to fuck off because no guy should ever say that shit to you!!

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i had my period yesterday..is ok to take like one advil or aleve everyday to reduce cramp pains?

Yes, it's fine. Just take one and lay down. Another way to get rid of gramps is drink a lot of milk and keep something warm on your stomach.

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hey how can i have pretty colors on aim cuz i dono how to get them cuz now the ones i have are ugly where can i go to download colors that will go on aim ???

Go to google and type in Applesauce colors.

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Heyy Teza -

I have been discharging MAJORLY BAD for about a year, and I have been having cramps in my lower stomach, and my urine is dark yellow, and my period isnt coming at all! When do you think it will come? and by the way -- i am 12 thanks!!

I don't know when it will come, but it will soon. Just wear those really thing pads and carry one in your purse so you're prepared.

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Ok. So I am a virgin. This guy I know and we have dated, but he's a virgin to. He wants us to have sex. I want to too. The only problem is I want to hear your advice on wat to do and how to do it. I want to know every position and which one is best. I wanna know how to give head and everything else there is to know. Plz help!!! Answer before this weekend plz! I know all the stuff about pregnacy so don't preach to me about that or I'll give you a 1 rate. Detailed answers will recieve 4-5!!!

If any one of us gives you EVERY details, there is a very high chance that we could get banned for it. You should do it whenever you feel like you are ready. Make sure you won't have any regrets about it and that you care about this guy. Now, if you want to know how to give head, and all that stuff, go to google. You can find ANYTHING there. Just type in how to give head and you will get a lot of things that will explain it to you. You will get much more details then any of us could tell you.

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well I wanna download music so i got bear share i downloaded a couple of songs but then I heard that it gives viruses easy so i uninstalled it. Is that true?? Should I leave it that way or install it again. Or should I get limewire is that good?? or should I just not do either and get over it..??

5's for anything.

I had Bearshare and I got tons of viruses so it's true. I always get Limewire and I never had a problem with it. If you think you might, get Ares. It's really good!!

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Ok if you dont answer the fist thats ok but pleas please i am begging you *on knees begging* answer the second somebodys life might depend on it.


Ok there is this guy i like, but i dont think he likes me as more than a friend. I mean ive known him for like ever, but we just started being good friends this year, but he has a g/f who is one of mi friends (She is a year younger than me). But the truth is im not even sure if i like him or not. Its really weird like one week 2 boys had a hugging contest(LOL) where they see how many girls they can get to hug them well when i huged the one guy well call him Bob... Ok so when i huggged bob i didnt feel weird but when i hugged the guy i think i like i felt all weird ( I was hug 101, HA HA) and when ever he taps me on the sholder or somthing i like know its him i dont know how i kno its him but i just do.... and one day one of mi teachers put an egg up to my face(long story) and during a break the guy i think i like came up to me and held his hand on mi face like the egg and i jumped like 1/2 a mile. So i gess im asking, Do i like him? and if i do what do i do to let him know i like him? I mean i really want us to still be friends and i wanna stay friends with his girlfriend but they havent like kissed or anything yet. Im so confused!

Sorry about Spelling errors! I rate high for good answers! Please answer soon!
Thanxx in advance!




Ok here is another question:( sorry this has a little to do with the other question but not much "Bill" is the guy i think i like.)

Ok so i have a friend lets call him... bill and he is going to get in a fight with lest call this guy... rob and rob is planning to bring a knife. but bill says he has a bigger one ( which sounded kinda wrong but anyhoo..) and he is gonna bring it (there fighting at a town thing that happens ever 1st friday) and bill dosent get that he could get really hurt. or he could really hurt rob. And ill admit i dont really like rob but that dosent mean i want him dead! And i really really dont want my friend bill dead! But i cant go to the town thinggy. I dont kno what to do..... im not really sure what im asking.... but i really needed to tell someone... but if you have any advice about how i might get them to not fight....please tell me!

Thanxx!

For your first question, I think you really do like him. When I liked someone before, I felt like that. I would get these weird feelings in my tummy and I would know when it was him. Just flirt with him. The more you flirt with him, he will know you like him. I know that he has a girlfriend and all, but it doesn't mean you can't flirt with him. Just don`t try to get in between them or anything, but I don't think you would do that though.

Wow.. I honestly think that fighting is the stupidist thing you can do. I mean virbil fighting is fine in a way, but hurting someone won't teach them a lesson at all. If you don't want them to get hurt, telling an adult would be the BEST thing to do. I know you don't want to tell someone because they will think you told on them and you might get them in trouble, but it's not like that at all. Do you talk to Rob? You need to talk to him. Tell him exactly what you told me now. Talk to Bill and do the same. Try to get them out of this! At least the knives.. fists would be better. Talk them into not doing it and that it's for the best though. If it get's too serious, I really sugest that you tell someone older before it's too late. These things can turn out to be really horrible and if one gets hurt, you might regret and think back .. I wish I told someone and they could of stoped this. Find out why they are fighting.. let them try and solve it first! Good luck with everything though.

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Hey georgious !! well theres a dance this friday and i dono how to make my hair should i put it up or down and straighten it or down and curl it ?? well thnx a lot babe ♥ Y0UH !!

|♥| Samra

I love your hair!! lOl.. I think you should have it down and curly. Everyone always has straight hair but I think curly hair is much cuter!! Have fun at the dance!

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Hey, i was just wondering if anybody knew of any reliable places where i could download free music..meaning they don't have spyware, and very little viruses. I tried limewire and it messed up my computer..Thanks!

Try Ares. It works really good & it's really fast and no viruses.

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what are you holding in the picture? that wooden thinger above your head? lol j/w

♥

It was by the stairs.. so I guess it was part of the handle things. Haha.. wow. ♥

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what does "omg thats so fetch" mean?

Oh my god, that is so cool. Fetch is just another word for cool, cute, awesome.

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GiNGER QUiT! =( =(

Oh wow!! She shouldn't of.. everyone is leaving. :(

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the msgs are working again on her colimn maybe sumthing was wrong?

Well, you can set it to where if you don't want to recive any messages. But thanks for telling me.

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My "c" key on my keyboard always sticks. It's so annoying!! I'm on a laptop. It is okay to try to take the key off or will I break it?

You probally spilled something on it or it's just really dirty. Try using a qtip to clean it out.

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Hi, I was wondering how you do bold, Ittalic, and underline on advicenators. where you write about yourself?


thanks ♥ By the way, Your pretty to. ♥

To write about yourself go to Profile Settings. There you can put a picture of yourself and other things. Bold: < B > TEXT HERE < / b > Underline: < U > TEXT HERE < / u > Italic: < I > TEXT HERE < / i > Make sure you delete the spaces in between the < > so it works. & thank you!

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did ginger quit

I just answered this. :)

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did ginger quit

I'm not so sure. She isn't accepting any messages, her picture is gone. She might be taking a break though.

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Hey,..like lately i have been inraged at guys. even my friends. Expecially my best friend's boyfriend ((he's my friend as well and my ex.)) And one minutes i'll be laughing and the next i'll either be screaming or giving him ((or any other guy)) the silent treatment. It may be I just start my period for the month ((i've had it before)). And i just dont know what to do so i'm not so angry. i'm usually not. i'm usually very perky and flirty. Tell me something that helps and that i dont know and i'll rate 5's!

It could be that you are just PMSing but I think not. I don't even know why girls get so moody when they are on periods lol. I don't. I think that you might be bipolar. It's just when you have a lot of mood swings. If you are only like that toward guys, then I think it could be that you are just getting annoyed. But, if you are moody towards most people, ask your mom about going to the doctor. Don't worry it's nothing to be afraid of though.

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ok well for school we have to wright a persusive essay about something we feel strongly about adn i choose to wirght about abortion..well i was thinking that i dont really no that much about it but that it kills an innicoent child adn what it says on the internet..but i really need peoples opinions about why they are for or against it...i really need this nad its due tomorrow yes i no stupid to do things last min. but you no i forgot..

so whay would you be for or against or both on abortion?
please help!

I am defenetlly against abortion. It's one of the cruelest things you can possibly do. It's killing a person that should have a chance to live. If the parent's don't have much money to support it, then they should put it for adoption.

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ok, there's this guy that I really like...he's in one of my classes and we're pretty good friends. I think he knows that i like him, but it seems like he likes me too...i'm not exactly sure though. When i come in class, he always meets me at my desk and we talk...then we talk at lunch and we talk about personal things too...but he does the same thing with other girls to! I'm getting total mixed signals!! does he like me or not?!

Wow, I really do think he likes you. It could be that he likes you more then a friend, or really cares about you as a friend. Since he flirts with you and all, I think he has the hots for you! :D Anyways, keep talking to him, keep flirting, hang out more and if he keeps being like that then yes he likes you. ♥

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