about

I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

Hi I have a Pay as you go cellphone and it's a Nokia and it's cingular, yes. well I've had it for a few months, and I got it at radioshack. Well, I don't want it anymore, I want a pinkrazr =[. So do you think they would let me trade or something? the razr is 129$, I think? and my phone was 100$ so do you think they'd let me? or get my money back maybe? it's got one scratch on it, but yeah. or do I call the Cingular store? Pleaseee help me! I don't know if I have insurance on it or not?

Help.

Since we are not AT&T [formerly Cingular] geniuses, this is something you'd need to ask them with a parent there. They probably won't allow you to do it, & they'd make you get a whole new plan or whatever, but it all depends. You honestly need to see an AT&T rep.

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anyone know where i could find some pics of kim, alaina, hailie, or whitney?

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Google, maybe?


Wow.

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this is extremely weird, but what does a penis feel like?

You can't describe the way a penis feels.

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Okay. My life is like apple pie. I get straight A's in school, am fit, am reasonably pretty (not sounding conceited), have a lot of really nice friends, my teachers seem to love me, I can speak French, and dress well. Everyone says to me how likely I will be to succeed, and that I could do whatever I want. But, I always feel like something's missing. I have no idea what it could be, but there is definitely something that could make me happy and I don't have it. Any help please?

Sounds like nothing's missing but a boyfriend. Boys aren't that great to tell you the truth, and they fuck everything up.


Keep your life the way it is & the hole you need to fill eventually will.

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Where can i watch full episodes of NEXT (MTV)? specifically season 4, my friend was on it and i never saw it, but mtv.com doesnt have that episode on the website.

Youtube.

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My two year contract is up in May, but my birthday is coming up too. I really want a new phone, but should I wait? Does anyone know if by May Verizon will have any new phones?

Verizon comes out with new phones a lot, so I'm pretty sure they'll have some new ones by your birthday or even by time your contract ends.


I'm not sure what phone you have now, but the En-V and the phone that flips up twice are really nice phones. I'd love to have them, but I'm on AT&T, and there's honestly only two decent phones with AT&T.

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My family is like super poor right now. Usually we go out to eat every night & we are eating like.. spaghettios. My family wants to turn off the television, internet, and phones. This is making me extremely annoyed & I just don't know what to do. My mom and dad are all stressed and yell at me for no reason. What should I do?

Accept it.


My family also isn't that rich & I'm happy that we can afford the things that we can. I may not be eating take out everynight, and I might have to eat sandwiches constantly & drink water or whatever when there's nothing else, but it's honestly not that bad.


However, I've been pretty fortunate to keep my Internet & my cell phone. My TV was just cut off the other day though, and to tell you the truth - I can live without it. To be completely honest with you, being "poor" isn't as bad as it seems & you learn to appreciate your shit more. You also find more ways to better yourself. Listen to me when I say this: Money is nice to have, but it isn't everything.


You need to take that into consideration sometimes. Yes, money can feed you & help pay the bills & keep you in shelter, but it's not exactly the best thing either. There's lots of ways to blow it & get yourself in serious debt. And another thing: What's wrong with spaghettios? You say it like it's jail food or something. You sound like the type that craves something; not the type that's actually hungry. If you were REALLY hungry, you'd eat anything even if it was like.. spaghettios.


Learn to appreciate your things, stop thinking money is the center of your life, don't take your shit for granted, and if you're "super poor" then you need to get a job & help out; or at least cater to your parents needs because they're really stressed out. There's nothing wrong with being less fortunate, you just need to get your head outta your ass.

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i am a young 18 year old girl.. i had a misscarrage about 3 months ago and i was 3 months pregnent.. the doctor at the time said it was naturl and women have then everyday and that its not my fault but that i am furtile and i am able to have children.. i do smoke and i did smoke while i was pregnent,, but i seem to think only myself that i pee from the big hole,, like i know where everything is,, and i have looked and shaowd me bf's mom lol and everything,, they all just laugh at me and think i am crazy.. but the question i have is can you pee from the big hole?/ is it normal if you do?? and i at all i could be peeing from that whole did it kill my baby??

Thankx Shay-z

The big hole you're referring to is the one where the baby comes out of, and you can't urinate from it.


Since you said you smoked while you were pregnant, I'm going to assume that that is what killed your baby.


Next time, don't smoke when you're pregnant. Only idiots do that.

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Where can i get leopard print tops?
i've tryed Urban Behavior and Free People, but they don't seem to have them. I think it's cute, i've always liked leopard print. Where can i get it? any other stores? (online** or ahh,you know.)
thanks so much. :]]]]

Try stores like Charlotte Russe, Express, H&M, Wet Seal, & Delia's.

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I was wondering if anyone where I could find a download for the song "just like me" by run dmc featuring sarah mclachlan. Its from the album "checks, thugs, and rock 'n' roll". I tried to download it on ARES but got no results. Thank you in advance!

I don't think you can download anything off of YouTube [I wouldn't know, I don't use the site, so I don't know any of it's features] but they might have a video of it there.


Uh, if not, try Limewire.

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okay so i started and had a full period around sept 13 and ended the 18th and i just now restarted on the 30th but it was not like period fluid it was light pink and mucous like and did not flow it was just when i wiped, is this spotting and any possibility I could be pregnant??? thanks

You didn't tell us if you were sexually active or not.


If you're not, then there's no way you're pregnant. If you are, take a test.

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I'm getting a side kick soon,
but i want to know, which one would you recommend?
Sidekick one, two, or three?
any other cellphones worth checking out?
thanks :]

Sidekick ID is the cheapest. It's technically the fourth Sidekick out, but they decided not to call it that. It's the newest, and cheapest.


The sidekick is amazing. I wish I had it, but I'm unfortunately on AT&T which is formerly Cingular.

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Well my sis needs some quotes for school, and she's looking for something in particular. Can anyone give me a website or place that provides those pics where it has a big thick black border, and has a pic in the middle, and then has one word under the pic, and it has something kinda funny for the definiton? Does anyone know what I'm talking about? Or maybe if you can tell me what they're called.

:]

You can either find it on:


www.createblog.com
www.tinypic.com
or
www.photobucket.com

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I like this girl that is names Denise (that is not her real name though). I also like this girl named Lisa ( not her real name). Everybody thinks that we go out, but we dont, still I like her, I think she likes me. Lisa is the only person that I can laugh with. I got Denise's phone number, shes really pretty to (but Lisa is too). When me and Denise were talking, she kind of brags about her cars, house and her dad is a boss somewhere. who should I go out with?

If you can laugh more with Lisa & you feel good when you're with her, why aren't you?


Denise is obviously the stuck-up rich type who thinks she's better than everyone else. Those people get annoying & they're not really good to date. Plus, if you're not of high-society or whatever, the chances of her parents liking you can be slim to none.


Lisa sounds like a better choice.

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Do you get an STD from having sex with a lot of people, or from having sex with someone who has an STD.
I've had sex with 6 guys & all of them were virgins, except for one, but he doesn't have an STD.

So am I more likely to have an STD or not?

It can be from both, actually. Some people can actually be born with STD's that were likely passed on from birth, and might not know about it. If you sleep with a person who has an STD, it's likely you might catch it.


I suggest you get checked everytime you have sex just to be safe, and use a condom everytime.

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How do i know when im ready for a cupped bra size? I wear like those cami-cut off bra things now but everytime i wear a shirt i can see my nipples. Does this mean i should start wear cupped bras??

help me. any answer is greatly appreiciated.

I'm not even sure how old you are, or if you even know what size bra you wear, but I do know camis are really bad at giving you support & acting like a bra. Unless you can find one that has a built in bra [like with actual cups], then I suggest you start bra shopping with your mom or a really close friend. Since you don't know you're size, try on a few different bra sizes & see what happens.


If your breast is hanging out the bra though when you bend down or even think about moving, that's a clue that it's too small & you need to go up a size or two. Good luck.

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15/f

ok so this might sound stupid but okay: i go to a boarding school and we can't have straighteners because of some rule, but my hair is super wavy (only not in a pretty way, it's wavy in this really out-of-control gross way) and frizzy as hell. It's pretty thick, and well I use sunsilk hairapy "straighten up" shampoo/conditioner/relaxing cream... and I blow-dry it "straight" too... after i wash it...

and i have no idea what i can do to make my hair straight without straightening it! what i've mentioned above doesn't work! it looks nice for 10 minutes (literally) and then goes back to being all wavy and out of control and frizzy.

Since you're 15, you probably won't have the cash on you to get your hair chemically straightened, but you can always try & see what happens.

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15/f

Whenever it's hot, or i'm working out, or exerting myself at all- my entire body becomes drenched in sweat and my face turns bright red (not just a healthy glow, but disturbingly red like a devil) and people are always like "OMIGOD ARE YOU OKAY?!?!??!" and it's SO annoying and embarassing.
What causes this whole sweat problem (i know it's not hyperhydrosis because it's not like i have sweatstains all the way down to my waist)

and what can i do to stop it?

and why does my face turn all red ?


(and it's not puberty, i've passed that)

Some people sweat a lot more than other people do. I would see a doctor & see what they say. They might recommend a deoderant that'll help, or they might not even be able to help. I would just see a doctor anyways. If he/she has no help - go through as many deoderants as possible before you find the one that works good for you.

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I'm trying to figure out exactly why I'm crying. I don't know if it's because I feel like people hate me and I annoy them or what. I just feel out of place all the time and i'm sick of it. I want to have people around me that make me feel welcomed. I was at this guys house and he told me that I was annoying and he said to get out of his room. He's three years older than me so maybe I'm immature to him. Then today my cousin acted like she didn't want me around and she ignored me. Do you have any advice? I really need a soultion.

Talk to them about this. It's obvious that they hurt your feelings, and called you things when you didn't even mean to do what you were doing. See why they called you that, ask what you did to annoy them or make them ignore you & see what you can do to change it.


If that doesn't work, I suggest you get a livejournal & blog your feelings because not everyone is going to be nice to you & you need to learn to suck it up real soon.

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does anyone know a program where you can pick aim font colors that arent available on aim alone? i know thers like a program for it..hmm

I'll give you the link.


http://fileforum.betanews.com/detail/Applesauce/987092859/1


Step 1: Once the site loads, click "Download Now!"
Step 2: When the box pops up, click "Save."
Step 3: Wait for it to download, and click open.
Step 4: The place where it's saved should come up, and then you click on it & click run.
Step 5: Choose your screenname, get your new colors & apply them.

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