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Gender: Female
Location: Ohio, USA
Occupation: Student and babysitter
Age: 16
Member Since: August 4, 2004
Answers: 220
Last Update: November 15, 2005
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hey i'm a 13 year old girl, and i'm really petite(and dont have that much of a chest lol), and i'm like 4 foot 11. evry time i try on jeans, theyre 2 baggy around mi butt.lol. where can i find jeans and shorts n stuff that

I have a problem with findning jeans too - except im 5'7 and wiegh 100 pounds- so its REALLY hard for me to find a good pair of jeans that fits good and isnt TOO expensive. At first, I was looking at Gap, Old Navy, American Eagle, etc ... and I wasn't finding anything. Then, I tried Target, and they had AWESOME jeans there. So try that store!

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there is this girl whos is really really really nice but some of my friends make fun of her b/c she can't afford new clothes i want to make her have really cool clothes but the problem is i don't have any money to get her new clothes how can i make her look stylish w/ out usin alot of money??

First of all, your friends are pretty mean to do that. Its rude and some people are on a budget! Anyway, I think it's perfectly fine to go to a resale shop if your on a fight budget and want cute clothes. Probably not the Good Will, but a store with Teen Clothes. I know in Ohio there is a place called Plato's Closet that sells Abercrombie shirts for 6 dollers!! Just wash them and, hey! There ya go!

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i'm starting to get some things ready for back to school. i'm gonna go clothes shopping soon at the mall and I want some really great clothes to "wow" everyone at school. anyone know where to get cool clothes??

Some good places to go is American Eagle, Abercombie, Aeropostale, Hollister, Pac Sun, Gap. If you are on a budget, Old Navy has cute stuff and you can find stuff on sale at Gap. Also, Target has really cute jeans.

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Okay with school starting and all, i`ll be in high school now and i really don't want to wear my hair the same everyday, or almost everyday, so does anyone have any cute hair styles i can do that are easy?

You could get your hair layered - i think it looks really cute. There are lots of stuff you can do with that. You can flip the ends out - you can flip the ends in - you can curl it - you can straighten it - you can put it in a ponytail - you can leave it half up - you could get shorter hair in the front for cute bangs! I hope I helped

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hey my mom said whenever i want to become sexually active she would give be birth control pills does that mean she cares or not?

Yes, she definetely cares about you. She is looking out for your future so you don't have to deal with that.

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is it a bad thing to fall asleep while ur babysitting a 3 yearold in summer while thre in a pool?

~>confused

If it is in the daytime, I would say yes: it is a bad thing. THe parents are paying you to watch their kid so don't just lounge around - always remember your getting paid money to WATCH him. But, if its at night time and he should be sleeping, then it is probably ok. During a few night job I have accidentaly fallen asleep a couple times but I was late at night. Hope I helped.

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ok, one of my bbf's and I are going 2 start a babysitting busniss together, because we don't think we could take care of kids alone, but together we would be perfect for the job. The thing is, we don't know what kind of advertisment a parent would get to hire a kid to babysit. so, what would parents go for?

p.s. we both took a course of red cross babysitting

Send out a babysitting flyer to your neighbor's who have kids! On the flyer include information about yourself, what you like to do in your spare time, and what you learned in your babysitting coarse!

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how much do u think i should get paid for a job

It depend on the age of the kid and how many kids there are - I babysit three girls [6 8 9] and I get paid 7 dollers an hour .. and I also babysit a girl and a boy [8 110 and get pais 5 bucks an hour .. so you decide :)

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What's a good way to get rid of pimples?

I recomend using Clearisal Face Wash and then a Clearisal cream afterwards. The cream will dry the pimple out. Good luck!

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hey im a 15 year old girl and i need sum ideas for my room ! i wanted to do it pink but now im not sure plz help
kate

Continue with pink! You can do all kinds of themes with that color - so just use your imagination!

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Okay I don't really know what it is...but I have a discharge in my vagina sometimes...is that what it is? and if so is it bad? and how do I get it to go away?

YOu probably have a yeat infection. So, visit your doctor or get some cream.

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im going into highschool and i know that colleges always look at ur extra activities so i wanted to join something at my new high school.. but all the sports ive ever done ive never really kept up with and never been very good at.. also i want to lose a few pounds while doing it!! anyone have any ideas?

I would suggest trying track in the spring. It has a lot of different stuff you can do (hurdles, sprinting, distance, shot put, and other field events) You have the right attitude about extra activities - so instead of sports, maybe you can try to join some clubs? Hope I helped

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i was @ a lake w/ lyk 25 of my friends and i was on my way to the tent. 3 or 4 of my guy friends gagged my and took me in the water.they held my arms back and took off my clothes...one of them fingered me then held my legs open while the last one idk wut u would call it but he had sex w/ me...in the water...idk wut to do...help!

I think you need to contact a trusted adult (mom, dad, counselor) and talk to them about it.

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I have gone through a 14 hour babysitting course at Baylor Hospital, I am certified at the heimlech maneuver and CPR. I think that I am fully qualified to babysit, and my parents say thatt i can. The problem is, I have only had one real job! No one asks me because I am short for my age, therefore I look young but I am very mature. How do I get babysitting jobs?
Signed,
Helpless

Send out babysitting forms to your neighboorhood and put it in their mailbox - so they know how old you really are. But, if you have a neighborhood directory (which I do) I go through it and mark off which people have kids and which mailbox I put it in! Hope I helped.

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How do I clean my kids' bathroom, when the thought of going in there sickens me?

Tell the kids that THEY made the mess - so THEY need to clean it!

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ok.. in 2 days im going to the eye doctor and im gettin contacts.. what i would like to know if what color would go best with dark brown hair? please help ( i rate mostly 5's ) thanx!

Well I think hazel would look cute! But if you can't decide just get the regular contacts (That what I have)

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Some times I feel like my parents don't love me. My sibling always make fun of me. My family always says they wish I'd run away. I have tried to kill myself before. but my mom and my friend came into my room so I had to come out of the closet. I don't know if they noticed but I had a thin red line across my neck. I don't wanna die but sometimes I feel it's the only way to get my family to love me. please help!

You need to tell your family how you feel. Never resort to death ... they probably love you very much but just feel like they can be mean and walk all over you. And it isnt right. So talk to them!

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What time in the day should you work out? (mourning, afternoon, night?)

And does stretching help lose wight??

-Zero

When I go running, the perfect time to do that is the morning or night. That way is it cooler outside, so you won't be extremely hot. Also, strectching doesn't help you loose weight, it just warms up your muscles. If you start without stretching when you run, you could possibly hurt yourself. I hope I helped!

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whats the best way to get a babysitting job?

The best thing to do is to take a coarse and be a certified babysitter. And then, make forms on your computer that you can hand out to your neighborhood. Talk about yourself, what you like to do in your free time, and the stuff you learned in the babysitting class. Hoped I helped.

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ok , i dont kno what to do anymore . im babyysitting this 4 yr. old little boy . i came at 9:30 this morning and like 10 min. after the mom left for work , he's throwing his toys at me , one hitting my chin , then he took some statue thing the parents hav and starts biting on it . nd i cant control this kid . can u help me pleasE

Alright, well I think you need to let his parents know what is happening. But is this the first time you have been to his house? Because if it is, he might just need to get to know you better. I hope I helped!

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