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Is it normal to hate yourself and your life?Like really hate yourself.I mean i would never commit suicide or anything.I'm eating next to nothing lately or nothing.i9'mnot really sure what to do anymore.

no its not really all that normal...

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Hey there. Okay, I've been on birth control (Tri-Cyclen) for a week now ... and about 4 days into it I started getting cramps, and having diarrea. It continued like that for 2 days. I also have to pee like, every 15 minutes. lol. Is this normal, or should I talk to my doctor about it.

totally normal!!! just some minor side effects!!!

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my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years now.. this year im going to be a senior in high school, and he's going into his sophomore year of college. he plays basketball, so sometimes during the season it is hard for us to be together. we made it through last year, but i just feel like im not really up to make it through this year. he lives like 20 minutes away down in the dorms. i really love him and dont want to break up, but what else can i do? i need attention haha... i feel selfish, but no.. im really just used to having him around whenever i need him. any tips, thoughts, suggestions?

if you dont get to see him as much as you want then just tell him!!! maybe yall can work something out!

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Well...It started out as:
This guy IMed my friend and she added him to a chat we were having.Well after my friend left we started talking and he gave me his other screen names. We talked/talk everyday. Well, we got really close...and now I think I may be starting to develop feelings for him.

Is it wrong that I might like him as more than a friend if I've never met him face to face? I don't know if I should...because...well,I'm almost positive he is NOT a paedophile...but one can never be to sure. I don't want to get hurt like that, but I just want to know if its wrong to have a little crush on him.

its not wrong to have a crush on him...but honey you have never met the guy and he could be some sick creep that you have never met and is just waiitng to snatch you up!! and the best bad people out there are the ones that can syke you out to make you think they are good innocent people. and im sure he isnt one but like you even said..you can never be to sure....keep it just as friends right now but whatever you do...dont give out personal info!!!!

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Ever since fifth grade ive had a 2 really close friends that were like the only ones i ever hang out with. But one of my friends is also in this group of girls who im friends with but they always look like they have so much fun! I really want to hang out with more people but how do i do that with out acting like a tag along?

you make plans to go do stuff with them...throw big parties and invite all of them!!! instead of them asking you to go do something...you ask them!!!!

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When I get my period i get HORRIBLE cramp! Sometimes theres so bad i can't go to school or do anything all day! Do know some way to get relief ?

use a heating pad!!! and lay on the floor and just stretch your whole back!!

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is it bad to want you parents to get a divorce? because you dont really like your dad or something? cause i feel bad, but i kinda want them to split up :( i feel really bad...

its not bad...but if your parents love each other then there is nothing you can do really...

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hi im a 13/m and i dont masturbate by like just putting my hand around "it" and pushing or w/e i just take a pillow or w/e and sorta push on that (sorry if thats 2 graffic). is that abnormal or not?

every guy is different!!!

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Alright. I just moved to Tucson from New York. Well, I got a really scary call from one of my friends in New York today. These really ghetto gangster chicks that we used to hang out with have turned against us and they know I'm coming back this winter and they're planning on beating the fuck out of all of us. They always show up at Ericas and Brittanys houses and threaten them and shit and tell them they can't wait until I can back so they can see all of us dead. I'm really scared because I know what they can do.

dont be scared!!! they are only human!!! just avoid them!!! find out where they are going to be and dont go there. and when ever they try to start stuff with..have a phone on you or be in a public place!!!! dont be alone with people like that. if it gets real serious....get the law involved and get a restraning order against them

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Whats the chance of a condom breaking?

slim to none

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my boyfriend after 4 years of dating...that the whole thing was a bet to see how long he could play me!!! wtf is up with that?!?!?!

thats not nice!!!

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alot of ppl in the grade up from me hate me...because of stuff i did the year before n they all say they are gonna kick my ass no matter how sorry i say i am they dont care they think i should pay for my attitude...?? n i dont get it i said sorry n it was from like 2 years ago shouldnt they b over it by now what should i doo???? because school starts soon n they said they are gona kick my ass this yearr...?

dont worry about them....kill them with kindness!!!!

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ok well this is kinda long but ok..ever since i was little i fell in love with gymnastics, i was about 6 when i saw the olympics and was just amazed by it. i used 2 sit and do cartwheels in my livingroom and stuff. well i beged my parents 2 let me join gymnastics and they never did...about a year and a half ago they finally let me take a summer session but i didnt learn much..now the olympics are on tv and i dont no it bothers me alot that its liek my dream will never come tru and it makes me mad at my parents, i feel like they never encouraged me at all and it may sound stupid but i dont now hat 2 do 2 get rid of this feeling, and i just feel liek im not good at ne thing anymroe, please help

ask your parents why they wont let you join the team and tell them that you really want to do gymnastics!!! and that you could end up onthe olympics some day!!!!!

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how come when people smoke weed..there eyes get all red? why does it do that?

just the way your body reacts!!

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i dont feel the same way about my bf anymore. plain and simple. but hes in love w/ me. so i dont know what to do. he deserves A LOT and i dont want to hurt him. but i just... well i dont deserve him and he was mr right at the time... but hes just not mr right now. so i dont wanna lead him on. how do u break up w/ a guy thats in love w/ u??

well honey he really wasnt mister right....once a mister right always a mister right!!! just tell himhow you feel. and sya that you think it would be cool if yall just kind of took a break for a while. n say that you still want to be the bestest friends!!!

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What's the difference between Taking a break and breaking up! I always saw taking a break as just an easy way of breaking up with someone...like just a nicer way ya know!

takin a break means yall just dont hang out like every day or like yall used to but your still dating....breaking up means that yall are finished for good!

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YOU ARE G-E-O-R-G-U-S!!!!!! YOU THE PRETTIEST GIRL EVER!!!!!!

thanks!!!!

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how long should i wait b4 i tell a girl how i feel about her after she breaks up with someone she really loved.the only reason they broke up was because he was moving to another state. thanx
dan

you guys should go somewhere to where it is just the two of you and tell her that you know she is losing a very special person, and that you want to do whatever you can to comfort her because even though you may never be able to take his place, you still would like to be the one that one day she runs too when she is scared or the one who sees her laugh when she is happy!!!

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girls ok im a guy ok looking good since of humor fun to be around.but gettin to meet u is the hard part what is best way to confront a girl i see

go up and introduce yourself!! girls love guys who arent shy!!!

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hello all. i wrote a book and it got published and the publisher said that my book would be in stores by june 14th and there still arent any books in any stores. any advice on why i cant find my book anywhere or what to say to my "agent/publisher?"

just call the publishing company and ask them where the hell your book is!!! lol

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