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Hi!! I am courtney and I am 13... i am here to give you advice that i hope will help you! remember that no question is too stupid and you wont be made fun of.... because i dont know who you are... *wOw* lol

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i hjave this friend that i love very much but the things she talks about somtimes i dont beleve are truthful..i know if i confront her then she'll get mad and not want to talk to me and say i think shes a liar so whats the point but i dont like being lied to..what should i do?

i need help!

i have a friend just like this! ((well it used to be me)) lol but anyways.. but when you know shes lying say ik yer lying and i dnt like liars plzz stop.. i did it b4 and it werked.. although she was a lil' mad for a while... oh well
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Alright, I'm a Christian and last night me and my friend were talking about her dad bieng in the hospital and I told her that I would pray for him, and she said "whats the use in praying since God allready has your life planned out for you"...that totally made sence to me, I mean what is praying going to change. I believe in praying for your sins...but now I'm stuck on this one. What do you guys think?
-Zero

Well it all depends on how you feel... do you believe praying can make a difference or not?
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my friend atdance brags all the time. she say how good she is and shows off all the time. if i get complimented and she doesn't, she tells ME i'm a show off... what can i do to tell her to stop??

Every time she brags tell her that shes bragging and showing off.. eventually she will get the point and maybe stop bragging
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hey one of my bestest friends has this HUGE crush on this totally hot guy. and he is like so perfect for me. lol. well like he knows that my friend loves him and all and like we had heard rumors that he liked her too. but i dont think he does. ne way i am in love with this guy. and i really want him but i dont want to have a compatition with my best friend. but i just love this guy, and i WANT HIM!!!

Sorry to say this but you can not in a million years go out with him when your friend likes him! :O thats like telling your friend you don't care how she feels. That will cost you a so-called bestfriend and when you eventually break-up you will be left friend and bf less... you should keep your eyes open for other guys.
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Ok well I am still very much in love with my ex. July 8th we would have been together for a year. We broke up in Febuary. He was my first love and the first person I have ever had sex with. We were suppose to go to prom and everything, but he said that we fight to much. He said that he would always love me no matter what. Then a couple weeks after we broke up he decided he wanted to take someone else to prom and just treated me like shit. We talked about it and he said he loved me but he just wanted to be fiends for now that later on we might get back together. That was in april and I have not talked to him since then. How do i get through to him and get him back??? 16/F

You should talk to him on the phone and set up a time to not *go out* but hang out. Then when you are there you should tell him that you still love him very much and that you would like to "be-with-him".
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ok..i have a boyfriend right now but theres this kid that really likes me and it gets really annoying cause hes always saying how much he likes me and even though i have a boyfriend he still asks me out and stuff and it makes me feel really bad what do i do?! help!!

I think you should nicely say that you are in a relationship right now.. although its sweet of him to ask you don't like him like that and you won't go out with him now...
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hey hey all i wuz just wonderin if this poem I rote wuz any good ok here it goes...

yes yes my wounds may heal but i never will this is all to real i cant bleive he could do this to me he broke my heart like it wuz nothing it feals as if it were spliting in 2 all bcuz of those 3 fake words "I love you" he told me i wuz his perfect girl but i shouldnt have beleived it, it wuz to good to b true. yes yes my wounds may heal but i never will he broke me he broke my heart i guess i shoulda known rite frum the start


kk thnks luv ya tunz! *will rate u even if u say it sux n all*

yeah its really really good
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heres another poem:

When you lose something special, no matter what the pain, you must look inside yourself and see what others gain.

When you lose someone that you love, you must set them free, if they slip through your fingers, then it wasnt meant to be.

Your day will come and your light will shine through, always remember, someone loves you.

Like it?

omg! Thats sooo sweet! i love it!
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another 1-

The day will come when you must choose, will you gain or will you lose.

Tell them now, choose with care, the one you love might not always be there.

So tell them now, dont leave it to fate, tell them now before its too late.........

Like it?

its cute.. im too dumb to understand it but its good
hoie i helped

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There is this guy,josh I like him and he likes me. I know it sounds like theres no problem with that but weve gone out 2 times already and hes gone out with like all my friends ( well but jessica lol). I think the longest realiship was like 2 weeks. He is like never satisfid. He also likes my other two friends.I dont want to get hurt and i dont want my best friend jessica to get hurt, and we both like him and likes us!! I dont know what to do!! plzz help i rate!!

I know who this is!! :D but anyways! well idk
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hey k so my boyfriend smokes and when he came back from thedoctor he said that if he smoked again hed die right there and then , he keeps wanting to smoke each night how can I get him to stop and hes 15, need help fast
~need ur help~

i doubt very much that he will die w/ one more cig. but to help him stop take his cigerettes and put soap and water in the packet then throw them away...ci did that with my mom and then she had to go waste more of her money buying more but she got the hint.. if he doesnt have enough money to waste then tell him that you really and true;ly worry about him moking and that you want to make sure he lives.. and maybe you will get thru to him
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every times i wear a shirt you see on my sides sticking out.. any moves wrok on abs??
i am like 4.11
wight105

okay.. you can do crunches and these things idk what their called but you lay down and its like a crunch but you only lean to one side.. like say the left... since your hands are behind your head you touch your right elbow to your left knee and on the next one you left elbow to your right knee.. ((srry so confusing)) but ive read in magazines that they are one of the best excersises to work your abs!
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My mother treats me like I'm 5. I can't shop wherever i want to. She tries to hold my hand while crossing the street and at the mall. I needed new underwear and there were thongs and then granny underwear. She handed me the granny underwear!!! I told her I wasn't wearing them and then she was like, "Ok we're leaving here then." How can I tell her to back off a little bit??

I would say sit down with her and nicely say that you are growing up and that you want to buy thongs and not hold hands... if she says no be mature and ask if you can compromise.
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~Hey I have this cutting problem. I just always wish someone would take me away from this world. My parents just kicked me out...once for smoking pot and sex...and the other reason is becuz they didnt want me. Right before this happened I caught my almost husband in the bed with 2 otha gurls.I almost married him at 17!! I got a new bf though. That is the ONLY reason I am still her. I am living wit him for now. I tried commiting suicide once but my bf stopped me. Life just keeps getting worse. I cut myself to releave myself from deppresion, anger, and nething else. I want to stop cutting myself becuz my bf doesnt like me doing it. I was raped by my ex's friend(my ex set it all up)and my bf doesnt know yet. I am anirexic(food disorder). I am 5'6, 92lbs, blonde hair, blue eyes, white wit a tan. Pls help me stop cutting myself~

okay the cutting- think to yourself what does cutting do for you? nothing.. it scars you, worrys familiy and friends and could possibly kill you.. as for suicide- don't try to kill yourself because theres no reason for that, hold on and you will make it.. you will find someone who treats you right and possibly have a family... as for rape- tell your bf and a trusted adult and if there is no trusted adult then go to the cops and see a counselor.. anerexic- you need to see your doctor and a counselor who can help you.. you sound like a pretty girl and being anorexic will make you just skin and bones which is not good.. altogether i believe you need to go see a phsycologist and a doctor.. they can help you and maybe even save your life..
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I have a question that i hope someone can help me with. Is it right to change for a guy? I use to have this one boyfriend that was a punk and I was jusst a normal 13 year old girl. all of his friends were punks to and at that time I was overwhieght and diddn't care about what I looked. Well then all of a sudden my boyfriend just dummped me w/no explanation. And a little while later I started getting into the punk music and cloths and i lost 20 pounds. Now I'm obsessed w/punk music and cloths but i don't know if it's b/c i want him to see what he missed out on or if it's really what i want. About 6 months have passed since my break up w/him. Since our breakup was just b4 the summer no body not even my friends have seen me, so I can't wait till school starts so i can see everyone's reaction esspecially his. But do n-e-of you think this is righ? Pleae someone help me.

Always
Nat

never ever change for a guy or for ANYONE! You are who you are and if they don't like that then they are missing out!
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hi i am a girl.. i like guys but i guess you can say i get *turned on* by looking at naked girl pix online... is this normal?

ummm... i don't know... maybe its just a phase.. :O
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ive been criticizing other peoples poems and i would like to know what people think of some of my work...


The knife
Seductively strokes your arm
The sharp pain
The tiny droplet

Nothing

The blade
Drawn down your forehead
The an abrupt bliss
A bloody tear

Nothing

The dagger
Slitting your wrist
A delightful innervation
The extravagant red

Nothing

The switchblade
Cold at your throat
Lack of breath
A graceful fountain

Nothing

The scythe
Ripped down your back
The first true pain
Death’s eyes are beautiful

You find no God

its really good =D but extremly scary and in my opinion... *MyStErIoUs*
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I know that guys prefer girls to shave it all off most of the time. But girls,what do you think? Should your man go bald,trim,or natural?

ummm... idk? :O lol
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ive been with mi b.f for 5 months and we love each other TO DEATH!! but lately he's been getting mad at his parents easilier. is it because of me? or no? help please!!!

he could be getting in fights w/ his parents because of ANYTHING.. unless he tells you that his parents have a problem w/ you or w/e then dont worry!
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are all dieting pills bad for you?

if not do you know of any that arent?

not all dieting pills are bad for you but like
90% of the time after you stop taking the pills you gain all the weight back!
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