Hello. My name is Sarah Makredij Boghsaian. I'm 16 years old. I'm from Australia but I live in Egypt. Like: Chocolates, Hot guys, Socks, William Shakespeare, Charles Darwin, Moulin Rouge, Random people, Horror movies, Boxing, Shoes, Rock n Roll, Piercings, Tattoos, Dying my hair, Losing weight, Screaming, Violence, Fighting, Weed, Alcohol, PS, Cars, Different, Craziness, Dancing, Painting, Drawing, Writing, Imagination, Drums, Drum-Sticks, Making the world a fair place, Ideas, Friends, Talking to myself, Marilyn Manson, Music, Fashion, Jumping on my bed, Partying, Vampires, Monsters, Jeff Dunham, Soccur, Anne Rice, Shisha, SMOKING, Reading, Science-Fiction, Clubbing, New York, Gossip Girl, Brother, T.V, Sleeping, Saw, Mohawks, Politics, Wachen Festival, Germany, Mercedes,God, Winter, Black, Monkeys, Hot-topic, Big Mac, Wine, Pepsi, Boxers, Sweet. Dislike: Paris Hilton, Miley Cyrus, Serouise Situations, Quietness, Blondes, Jonas brothers, Girly Girls, Smelly guys, Small Places, Apologizing, Prison, Police, George Bush, BMW, Jerks, Nerds, Weak, Angels, Salt, Morning, Time
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Since middle school (I'm 19 now), I've always developed crushes on cute, male teachers who are obviously much older than me. The little schoolgirl crushes though sometimes turn into full blown fantasies. When I got to high school, I used to daydream in class about whatever teacher I liked then. Now, I have a thing for really older guys! I had a crush in college on a 50 year old professor. It wasn't even innocent either, because sometimes I would wear revealing stuff to class and then stay late to talk. Where is this all coming from? (link)
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No where. It's actually okay from my point of view.
Age difference is nothing so don't worry about it and go hook up with guys/men you like, and dont feel shamed or anything.
Good Luck
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I just want your opinions on this. How big could the age difference be in teen years. Say like a 14 year old girl how much older would your opinion for her to date? I just want to see what your opinions are. Thanks! (link)
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Seriously, it doesnt fuckin matter in any kind of way.
Age difference is just another excuse for people to talk about.
Hunny i dated a 20 years old male when i was 15, and it was the best relationship ever and the only guy i ever loved but i had to leave the country.
As long as your wise for your partner, and he is good enough for you.
Everything is perfect.
Good Luck
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I'm just going to say this is going to be very long, so try to keep up an enjoy the ride.
Ok, so last year I was in a play at school and I fell madly in love with a guy we're going to call "Jack." Jack and I had been friends since the beginning of the year but I didn't really like him until we were working together. Sufice to say I ended up with a HUGE crush on him. In moment of foolishness I told him I liked him a lot. He took me out into the hall and explained that he could never like me like that because I was too close of a friend. Plus, his parents wouldn't let him date until he was 16. I was crushed but we still decided to be friends and have remained good friends since.
Fast forward a year:
Jack and I have become increasingly close. Jack just had his 16 birthday and I was invited. One of his two best riends wasn't invited to make room for me. We're doing another play together (Les Misérables, hence the whores)and hang out a bunch. Yesterday when we had our scene together (I'm a whore and he's a sailor) he literally would not stop grabbing me. I was supposed to be with the other whores across the room but he firmly planted his hands around my waist. I said, "Jack, I have to go over and talk to 'John' too! Let me go, I'll be back in a minute!" He scowled at John and later said to me "I wish I was the only sailor who got to bring you home at night."
I still have a bunch of feelings for Jack. I mean, I he asked me out I'd say yes in a heartbeat. But I'm so confused as to if he actually likes me or if he's just being friendly.
So people, here are my questions:
1. Do you think Jack likes me as a friend, or MORE than a friend?
2. If he only likes me as a friend, do you have any tricks (Or think I have a chance in hell)to get him to like me?
Sorry this was so long! Thanks for being patient and all the advice I'm sure will ensue. :) (link)
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Okay. It's interesting.
But you have couple of options,
1. You can just be honest and straight forward (guys dig honesty) and tell him what you feel.
2. Flirt back and wait for any signs, make him want you, until he spills the truth and if he didn't, then apparently he doesnt like you and wanted to get in bed with you.
3. Get over him, go out there and find yourself a really HOT boyfriend that thinks your HOT and madly INLOVE WITH YOU.
Good Luck
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okay i have a bestfriend who is 5 about to be 16 in march and she took 2 store bought pregnancy test and the results are positive and he babies father has been in her life since october 3 and she doesnt know if she wants to keep the baby or not and he said the decision is hers wat to you think she should do (link)
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Abortion PLEASEEEEEEE
Don't ruin the little guy's life for sex's sake.
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There this boy that i like and ive been liking him for awhile now. He knwos how much i like him and stuff. You see i have this class with him and he would talk to me and be messing around and stuff. And sometimes even flirt, but there this gurl that also likes him and he talks to her. And like at first i thought maybe he might have at least a lil feelings for me since he always flirting with me but then again i dont know. Because he talking to this other gurl and i dont kno if he likes me or if he just doing what he is doing just to play with my emotions im so confuse. (link)
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Don't be confused.
Because it's normal when a guy acts like that, most guys love flirting and messing around with girls but that doesn't mean he is playing with your emotions.
Or at least try to not be fooled by his actions.
BUT he might like you and just acting flirty with the other girls.
So i think you should be straight forward and ask.
Guys dig honesty
Goood Luck
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alrightt well it did hurt but i didnt mind it. but then after he left, i was in the shower, and i realized when i went pee it stung [like it did last time ....], and i noticed that [im not sure which part this is] the part where the pee comes out of wasn't straight ahead, it was a little crooked ... to my right. and i was concerned. is this gonna go back to normal on its own? i really really cant bring this up to my parents. :/ (link)
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Ok. You said it hurt!!
When he fingers you, it supposed to bring pleasure not pain.
So i think you need to make sure, if you can't tell your parents then i think you should tell a friend because he might have injured something in your vagina.
Good Luck
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i just got mny tongue pierced 2 days ago. its still swollen, and i think it might be too far back? i kind of have to stick it out far to beable to see it. im not sure if this is because its swollen or not. will it look better once the swelling goes down? and how long does it take for the swelling to go down? (link)
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Well it's normal don't worry.
My sister's tongue stayed for 5 days, but mine stayed for 1 week lol.
i got three piercings on my tongue, so don't worry, i'm experienced with piercings.
Just leave it, i mean u got it 2 days ago, it has to look shit.
Good Luck
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Please answer the following...
1. Name of the show. Please don't limit yourself to only 1 favorite anime show! :D
2. What would you rate it on a scale 1 to 10
3. What makes this one of your favorites?
Here are my answers....
1. itazura na kiss
2. 10/10
3. its very romantic and very enjoyble to watch! e-mail me if you want to know more about it! if you have not seen it, i recomend it!
1. skip beat!
2. 10/10
3. Not only hilarious to watch, its dramatic and good for any audiences! (link)
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1. death note
2. 10/10
3. very clever
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15/F
this is lengthy!!!
This guy really likes me and he used to do bad things. Hes not a virgin and he used to always ask for "pictures" and stuff. That wasnt too long ago. Then, he would ask to hang out, just at the park and we would cuddle and stuff and he actually asked to hold my hand, and now he's asking to kiss me.
I went to his house w/o supervision to tell him that I didn't know how I felt about him and that I didn't wanna lead him on. Because I like how he acts around me and I like him, but I don't want to kiss him. I wouldn't let him kiss me at his house but we cuddled and stuff.
And how he doesn't talk to me or hug me as much as he did. And when he does, he's really hard to read. Like, he'll be "YOURE COMING OVER TODAY!" Then he'll say, "Why don't you text me?" And I say, "Because you don't text back." And he'll say "Because I don't want to talk to you." And he sounds totally serious.
Sorry for the length, but boys are so complicated. I've never kissed a guy, and I don't know what to do, or what he's thinking. He's being kind of shady about this. Help? (link)
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Okay. Boys are complicated but i feel like i know these kind of boys.
The guy likes you, i'm sure. But guys likes to exprience not just guys, teenagers in general.
I mean it's something known, guys can't keep it in their pants.
This guy likes you and if though you haven't been kissed before, well, i think it's time but not more than a kiss.
He's been acting weird because he is mad at you, but guys don't express there feelings the way girls does, he is trying to tell you he is mad at you, well when a girl rejects a guy, that's like offending him, so he is just upset.
So hey if you don't want to kiss him then don't but my point of view is, there isn't anything wrong with kissing a guy you like.
Good Luck
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ive been dating my bf of 6 months and i know we're in love...the thing is he blew me off 2 days in a row this week saying we're gonna hang out and that hes coming at a certain time...he was a no-show both days...i didn't even get a call from him saying that he couldn't come, so i stayed up all night waiting for him until ijust couldnt take it and crashed...i cried myself to sleep because i felt like i wasnt even worth a phone call...do i have a right to be mad at him? (link)
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Ok. Maybe there is something wrong with him/his life.
And yes you have EVERY right to be mad at him, it's not nice that your boyfriend who is supposed to be inlove with you to blow you off twice thats just wrong.
But don't act before thinking WAIT maybe there is an explanation, but even though he has to apology to you.
Good Luck
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16/F I have a boyfriend (17/m), and he is wonderful. he is sweet, kind, fun, compgassionate, and everything i thought i would never find. Yes i know im young, there for i cant possiably be in love, right. Sorry thats bull. I cant really explain it, i just know you know? I love him. thats not the problem tho. we got in a little trouble together a while back. nothing illeagle or life threatening tho. The first time, i let him in the house when he wasn't supposed to be. Long story but he was covered in scraches and mud, i had to let him use the bathroom to get cleaned up. Poor guy, wouldn't you have helped him? the second time, i skiped a day of school. ya bad i know, but it was during finals, but i had already finished the finals for those classes, and it was a PARTY day. Beasides i DID plan to go back for rehearsal. so anyway, now my mom is soo hateful toward my boyfriend, she keeps telling me how she dosn't trust us, but mostly him, how he is SUCH a bad, stupid guy and she is always dogging him. you have no idea how hurtful it is to have your mom being so hateful toward the man i love. plus there are things i need her support on, things im supposed to be able to trust her on, and i cant. i cant trust or talk to my own mother. i dont know what to do. (link)
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Well, your mom is just being your mother; OVER PROTECTIVE
I see why you're mother doesn't like your boyfriend.
1. Going againts her rules and letting him in the house
2. Skipping school without her primission
She is feeling left out of your life, or maybe she is giving you a chance to prove he isn't a bad influence to you, she wants to be sure her little girl isn't i n bad hands, i mean abusive boyfriends are everywhere, crazy/ murderes and etc...
But don't let her get to you AT ALL, (I mean my parents are divorced, i dont talk or see my father, and i barely see my mother every two weeks or something and i'm used to it, back in the day i used to get pissed and mad but now, i actually starting to depend on myself with my personal life) So you should talk to your mom about your feelings and point of view, if she couldn't take it, i think you should let go, she'll come around when she actually sees how nice your boyfriend is and how he is making you happy, so prove to her your right and maybe then you guys can form a relationship.
Please don't give up on your boyfriend, he might get hurt in a very bad way.
Good Luck
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15f boyfriend is 16 and we have not had sex, just kissed. Lately I have been having this sudden urge to give him a handjob, sounds weird because im not the one being pleased. He hasnt asked for one or even mentioned it, but i have been thinking about it a lot and i dont know why. (link)
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Well,if you're okay with having sex, i think you should get further with your boyfriend but at least wait until he asks you or gives you signs.
But if you don't have any interest in having sex with him, i think you shouldn't.
You're 15 (not that i'm way older than you), you want to experience new stuff and that's not wrong but you should think carefully because you might end being hurt (speaking of self experience)
Good luck
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Last night I had a dream, and I'm confused [16/f] ... -I was in school and I see this guy I like, who liked me, but then went with his ex girlfriend, we haven't talked for 4 weeks. and he was with his girlfriend and my other guy friend and I followed them into the gym, he kind of motioned me to follow them and said "c'mon". [the gym in my school also turns into a lunch-room. we have 2 lunchrooms] when we get into the lunchroom/gym, the bleachers are down and we sit in the middle. His girlfriend sits down and i sit across from her but 2 steps lower, on a dfifferent level. The guy i like sits infront of me on the level above mine, acrossfrom his girlfriend who is kinda far away from him. then my guy friend sits next to the guy i like girlfriend. So we are just sititg there and I think the guy that I liek was talking to me, and then i turn and i see 3 of my friends that I usually sit with on another set of bleachers next to me [wide stairs are seperating us] one of them is my bff and i text her and im like, "ask ---- [my other friends name] to come sit with me." [she wasn't sitting with them either. i out my cell away right after i sent the text and then the guy I like moved away from me and next to his girlfriend. I felt really awkward and didn't know if I should move up next to him, until his girlfriend, my guy friend, and the guy I like got up and the guy i like motioned for me to follow him again. so we are all walking in a straight line and I'm right behind the guy I like. we get to the other side of the gym and we are standing under this bleacher thing [all of us] and watching the basketball game. i was saying "this is so gay how they're making us play basketball" and the guy i like said, "yeah I know." and we started laughing. then i saw this popular guy who i don't talk to or like at all in real life and he picks me up and starts hugging me and lifting me up into the air and I'm laughing and the guy I like is watching me the entire time. but then the popular guy puts me down and he kisses my cheek. then i go back over to the guy i like and i say, "shouldn't you be with your girlfriend?" and he looked back at her talking with my guy friend and some other girl, her friend i think. and he looks back at me and says, "nah, she's not gonna notice." I liked it when he said that because he would have rather been with me. and then we go back to watching the game and some girl makes a basket ... that's all I remember though. so could someone help me out here? haha thanks so much. (sorry it was long but I appreciate those who take the time to answer this question for me and read it) (link)
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Well, you see dreams always mean something but not like the future and etc..
It seems like you think o f the guy you like ALOT.
Usually when you think of a guy alot or someone, you dream about him/her or the thing your thinking about. It's pretty normal.
Good Luck
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in blackjack, what does the running count do ? what does the number tell you ? (link)
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i think it means when the other player is counting or doing the double
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Oh I am 13 and Female.
Okay, so, I really like my best friend, *Nat*, he is smart, funny, handsome, athletic, and great to be around. He keeps his temper most of the time, and is very kind to me. He likes girls in general. My mother and friends say he likes me, but I'm not sure. I really like him, and he waits for me after class, but isn't that simply what best friends do? I mean, I've never really had a best friend before, and it just happens my first best friend, is a guy who I have grown to like. I just went through a break up though. About 2 weeks ago. This is Nat's best friend, and we had complications. So I ended it. I would like to ask Nat out in late April or May, but I don't know if it's such a good idea. I think I'll wait until summer, and then ask if he likes me the way I like him, but I'm not sure what to do. I would really appreciate advice on if you think he likes me or not. Thank you very much. (link)
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LOOOL. No
Don't wait, ask him now. What if he likes you and you waited all that and he lost interst in you.
I think you should ask him right now. And be straight forward.
He likes you, bestfriend do nice things to each other, but he seems like he wants to see you everyday that's why he waits until you finish class.
Thats more than bestfriends.
Good Luck
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I was having a heart to heart talk with my mom last night and she mentioned that maybe I should go to a psychiatrist. At first I thought she was joking, and then I realized that she was serious. I was (well still am) really hurt and shocked. I don't think I have a problem at all, and my mom really isn't one to go to psychiatrists which is why I'm so hurt because my mom thinks I'm so messed up that I need professional help.
I'm very upset, I don't think I have any problems, and I think that there are a couple people in this family that need help way more than I do. I just feel attacked and sort ostracized by my own mother right now.
I just need a pep talk or just any feedback would be nice. Thank you.
17/F (But I'll be 18 in less than two weeks, so I doubt my mom will be able to make an appointment before then because I am NOT going, and at 18 I can legally make my own choices.) (link)
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Um.. Okay. When you become a mother y our always going to be protective over your child no matter what. She doesn't mean to hurt you, she wants to help you so bad that she would anything for you.
Look i think you should go, not because you're messed up or anything. No just because it won't hurt at all, and he might help you in some stuff. Not a big problem.
Good Luck and talk to your mom.
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I didnt think there was anything wrong with my self-confidence, but two nights in a row ive had dreams that leave me feeling insecure.
First, i was at a pool at night, & i was talking to these girls, & i realized my ex was next to us flirting with Rihanna & after a while i decided i didnt rly wna be there so i got up & in my head i said "dont worry, you dont need to be dating chris brown. Its not a competition who can flirt with the cuter person" because i was feeling that way. & everywhere i went at the party i was judging who to talk to by how pretty they were, because i wanted to beat my ex by talking to cooler people. Im emberassed for thinking this way, but its how it was in the dream. & then i found my rly close friend who i always have so much fun with, but i was too preocupied with my ex to have fun with her. & then later, i wasnt there but i knew what wa shappeneding, in the other room my family came into this room with a bed & a red blanket, & they looked & saw i was gone,& found a gun & ropes & things in the bed, & they didnt seem alll that concerned. & they called the police.
& then my other dream, i came back to school ( i missed 4 days for a family vacation) & i saw my best friend & ran to give her a hug, but she didnt give me the biggest hug. & in my head i said "you know somtimes shes sort of cold, its just her personailty" & so we were walkinng, & ended up on these 2 chairs, & my best friend wa ssitting on this girls lap who is always trying to steal my friends away from me, & i was sitting with 2 girls who dont even go 2 my school but i thot they did, & i totally forgot about the other girls,
What does it mean? (link)
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Every dream has a meaning in a way, but not like telling the futur or actually what happened in your dream is going to happen in real life kind of way.
You can have such dreams, when you think alot about something.
Your first dream tells you, that you're actually still thinking about you ex and it doesn't have to be that you still like him or anything just thinking about him that's all.
2nd one is the same, but thinking about your friends.
It's pretty normal, you do alot of thinking so you have weird dreams that's all nothing to be worried about.
Good Luck
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Alright, I am 13/f and he is 14/m. To be blunt, I am CRAZY about him, but I can never tell how he feels about me. Sometimes I feel like he's truely into me, but other times its just confusing. Sometimes its like we are just friends. Sometimes its like we are pretty much a couple that isn't dating. And then there are times when I feel like he's just playing with me. Not the kind of playing where its like, flirt with you then go off and flirt with another girl, no, not at all. Haha, actually, I think I'm the only girl he talks to on a regular basis. Anyway, the kind of playing I'm talking about is the mess with your emotions. Its where i think he only talks to me because he is bored, or he gets a laugh out of teasing and messing with me. It seems like everytime I snap out of my lovidoviness to confront him about our little relationship-rollercoastet, he develops an uncanny ability to sweet talk me, make me adore him, and confuse me more before I even get an answer, because of this, I never know where we stand on the relationship scale. He says he doesn't want a girlfriend right now but sometimes it feels like we might as well be dating! He gets kind of protective of me when other boys get a little carried away with their pervertedness. And it sometimes feels like he gets a little jelous when I talk about other boys. But then other times it feels like he doesn't even care about me! My main questions are:
1. How is he so good at keeping me confused?
2. Is he trying to keep me confused? Or am I just imagining it?3. If he is trying to confuse me, why would he do that? If he isn't trying to confuse me, then what is he doing?
4. How can I be SNEAKY to find out how he REALLY feels about me without him knowing that I am?
5. Is this all just a game to him??? (link)
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Okay. I'm going to start answering the ADDITIONAL INFO. question first.
When you're growing up all you want to do is experience, even a jerk of all times can end up with a loving wife and a happy family. Teenage life can never tell your future so guys act like that because they are immature, and what's in there pants helps them think more than the heart, us girls use heart because we are weaker then guys (ITS A FACT) mentally, physically and sexually. We girls and mostly very weak girls likes to feel loved so there is chances a girl can fall in love with a guy who loves her because she feel loved from him. It's hurt, they aren't smart enough to think about that when they start playing.
Now with your guy, he seems like a unique personality, sign that he likes you, the jealous one and protective one.
Sweet talk and etc... Any guy can do so it doesn't count.
Maybe he is confused himself, so that's why he is acting that why or he can just be playing with you of boredom or because he doesn't have anyone else to talk to.
1. He isn't that good, you just think to much, how about you try to go with the flow? It might help and maybe help him too somehow.
2.No i don't think so, i think he is confused himself as i said before.
3. No comment
4. I think you should do something that guys dig and that is be straight forward and ask him.
5. All i can say it might be somehow.
Good Luck (Msg me if you need help)
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I'm 13 and I have 5 best friends and in the group there's Fi, Sarah, Lo(my best friend), Dion and Nicole.
2 days ago while me, Lo and Fi were having lunch together (Dion has 2 sides, one is mine and the other is another group, so at lunch she sits with them, Nicole eats with Sarah and another girl.) So me and Fi were talking and Lo was really quiet, so we asked her what was wrong but she ignored us. We talked again and then asked her what's wrong again but again she ignored us. Then someone told us that she was mad at us because she thought we acted like she wasn't there, which was totally untrue. Then me and Fi sent her an apology sms. She replied with a 'what the??'. Then at choir practice she made up with Fi by asking Fi to sit with her. She then apologized to me through msn. OK, so I thought this thing was over. I was wrong. The day after that, everything went fine, and last night we even webcamed and laughed together. But today, after music class, everything started to turn bad. She was mad again at us for some reasons that we could not figure out. This time she was mad at me, Fi and Nicole but not Sarah. I have NO IDEA why and she won't even talk to me. Dion told me that Lo told her: Dunno why, but I'm starting to dislike Fi and Nicole but especially Alisa(me). I was like WTF?! I have been nothing but nice to her!!! I was really mad and sad. The four of us(without lo) discussed about it and gathered some info:
1. lo said that she didnt have any friends in elementary school, and she doesn't like to be ignored. (she said it to Fi)
2. lo said nicole was showing off because she was talking about her boyfriend in msn
In the last lesson, Lo told Dion that she wants to be friends again with Fi and Nicole but not me! Why does she have to make everything so complicated and dramatic??? I don't want Fi and Nicole to be friends with her because it would be really awkward when we are together knowing that me and lo are still arguing! What should i do?! I don't think i can stand her mood swings but i don't want to lose my best friend who i have fun with! (link)
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Okay. I see you're having a hard time right now, but the solution to your problem is very simple and right there in front of you.
I mean you guys did gather around and discussed the situation, but you've missed one person.
Lo herself, i mean i think you should get her and all your friends and discuss the issue with her.
You'll know the truth and solve it together.
Good Luck
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what do guys think is the cutest thing about a girl? (link)
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There is alot of different type of guys but i'll list stuff i've noticed.
Um, blushing; some guys think its VERY cute.
Being unique is one major thing guys like.
Being confident and straight forward, is something guys dig.
Being innocent, OR being crazy and all badass.
Thats all i have, hope i helped.
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