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15f boyfriend is 16 and we have not had sex, just kissed. Lately I have been having this sudden urge to give him a handjob, sounds weird because im not the one being pleased. He hasnt asked for one or even mentioned it, but i have been thinking about it a lot and i dont know why.
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Im at a young age too, and i've already givin my boyfriend a hand job and i have been fingered too. (sorry to dissapoint you jack) If you really want to then just mention it casually to him, but just hints or something. or maybe ask how far hes gone, or how far hes willing to go. If hes not the sexual type, then i suggest not do it.
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Well,if you're okay with having sex, i think you should get further with your boyfriend but at least wait until he asks you or gives you signs.
But if you don't have any interest in having sex with him, i think you shouldn't.
You're 15 (not that i'm way older than you), you want to experience new stuff and that's not wrong but you should think carefully because you might end being hurt (speaking of self experience)
Good luck
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It's just a mixture of hormones and wanting to please your boyfriend. It's natural and normal.
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Ok no offence to Jack, but no one has the right to tell you you are not ready. if you REALLY believe your ready, then talk to your b/f about it. but if your not ready, dont bring it up. But dont let anyone (even people who are dead set against sex b4 marrage) influence you one way or another. Do what feels right for you, and no one else. And besides, a handjob dosn't mean you have to have sex. in fact It might be a good alteretive to sex, because he can do things for you too. If you really think you are ready TALK to him.
As to why your feeling it, its completely natural. Hormones and all. you are going to have those feelings because it is natural to feel that way. but as i said before, dont act on them until you are ready.
Hope i helped
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If your question is "Should I do it?", my answer is no.
If you even have to question if you're ready, you're not.
Starting a sexual relationship with someone is a big deal, and you shouldn't go into it being faint of heart. Once you're ready, you'll know it, because the guy will be someone you believe you're going to spend the rest of your life with.
Why do I say this? Because I'm fully against sex before marriage. And I bet if you do this, in five years you aren't going to be with this guy, and you'll regret ever doing it. So if you're going to do it, make sure it's what you want to do.
--Jack
(17/m)
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