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Love and Les Misérables (LONG)
I'm just going to say this is going to be very long, so try to keep up an enjoy the ride.
Ok, so last year I was in a play at school and I fell madly in love with a guy we're going to call "Jack." Jack and I had been friends since the beginning of the year but I didn't really like him until we were working together. Sufice to say I ended up with a HUGE crush on him. In moment of foolishness I told him I liked him a lot. He took me out into the hall and explained that he could never like me like that because I was too close of a friend. Plus, his parents wouldn't let him date until he was 16. I was crushed but we still decided to be friends and have remained good friends since.
Fast forward a year:
Jack and I have become increasingly close. Jack just had his 16 birthday and I was invited. One of his two best riends wasn't invited to make room for me. We're doing another play together (Les Misérables, hence the whores)and hang out a bunch. Yesterday when we had our scene together (I'm a whore and he's a sailor) he literally would not stop grabbing me. I was supposed to be with the other whores across the room but he firmly planted his hands around my waist. I said, "Jack, I have to go over and talk to 'John' too! Let me go, I'll be back in a minute!" He scowled at John and later said to me "I wish I was the only sailor who got to bring you home at night."
I still have a bunch of feelings for Jack. I mean, I he asked me out I'd say yes in a heartbeat. But I'm so confused as to if he actually likes me or if he's just being friendly.
So people, here are my questions:
1. Do you think Jack likes me as a friend, or MORE than a friend?
2. If he only likes me as a friend, do you have any tricks (Or think I have a chance in hell)to get him to like me?
Sorry this was so long! Thanks for being patient and all the advice I'm sure will ensue. :)
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Okay. It's interesting.
But you have couple of options,
1. You can just be honest and straight forward (guys dig honesty) and tell him what you feel.
2. Flirt back and wait for any signs, make him want you, until he spills the truth and if he didn't, then apparently he doesnt like you and wanted to get in bed with you.
3. Get over him, go out there and find yourself a really HOT boyfriend that thinks your HOT and madly INLOVE WITH YOU.
Good Luck
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well, this is an impossible question to answer--if he likes you--because I dont know either of you. so my advice is to just tell him exactly what you told us: that you still like him, and are confused as to HIS feelings.
that's what i'd do.
Hope it all works out for you.
Good luck.
Julie P.
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Honestly, I do think you have a chance!
he was definately flirting with you, therefore it wasn't just "friendly"
SO START FLIRTING BACK!
boys LOVE a chase, but don't be a tease, and don't be a ... whore lol
show him what he's missing! smile at him, but pretend like he's just another boy seeking attention. playfully touch him and push him (not hard lol). make him realize what he's missing and he'll come begging for you
so good luck!
and you definately have a chance ;)
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