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I HAVE A STALKER!!!!!!! EWWW!!! STALKER NEEDS TO STOP VIEWING MY PAGE AND STOP TRYING TO BE LIKE ME, YOU'RE NOT!!!!!!!!H0MEWRECKERRRRR!!
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14/f
Well i cant talk to my mother about this stuff because its just too wierd. But...
'down there' it looks really wierd and my inner lip or whatever hangs out and is all big and baggy and it sometimes rubs up against my underwear and gets irritated...its just annoying.
and its not like im planning on letting anyone see it for some time....but is this normal? is there anything i can do about it?
It's the vulva, and it is normal, all girls are all diffrent,they can be long, short, they can be wrinkled or smooth, but there is nothing really you can do about it, we're all diffrent so, this is totally normal!
would you say its slutty for a 15 yr old girl to be regularly hooking up with a 19 yr old guy ... but they have no interest in getting in a relationship with one another?
No, if it's mutual that you are both clear on that you have no interest in getting in a relationship,but it is illegal, and he could go to jail for having sex with a minor and charged for statutory rape, that means even if you gave him consent.
today i realized all the jealousy and cattiness involved with the girls i hang out with. we all gossip constantly about one another. we ditch each other for other people. we have cliques within cliques. it's ridiculous. i don't want to be a part of it anymore. i still want to hang out with my friends, and i'm not going to deny that i love hearing the gossip. but i need to stop talking shit. it's really hard for me; i've tried before. i really need help stopping, because it's so high school and so ridiculous that it just makes me feel like a shitty person. how do i STOP TALKING SHIT about my friends?
That's how girls are,try now having only a select few of girls that you can really trust. It's better to have a few good friends than ALOT of fake ones. Hang out with guys, if that helps any, guys are not really about gossip, they're fun to be around and you don't have to put up with much of that gossip shit. Gossip, is basically a part of what being a girl is all about, but it's also wrong, and immature. I do it , but I make sure I say it to their face. This is the best I can tell you, hope this helps.
Is anyone here a lawyer or studying to become one? I want to be a lawyer and I was wondering if it was a good idea to work for one before graduating high school to gain some experience. Has anyone done this? And if so, how did you find the job and did it teach you anything? thanks! I'm a female and I am 16 in NJ.
My dad works in court,and he says it'll help you, it's great to look upon on your resume to work for one, also, I took a law class in school, do they they have that at your school?, You should check to see if they have one and if so, enroll in it for class next yr., It really teaches you all the definitions, what kind of cases you have to deal with,you learn more about the law and it's legal system, they sometimes bring a lawyer as a guest speaker, this really prepares you if you want to be a lawyer. Hope this helps!
Im happy with almost everything on my body except for my legs! Im very athletic which is probley why they are more on the muscular side..
but i hate that extra around my muscle.... i hate wearing shorts because i dont want people to look at my legs.. are there any fast and easy ways i could tone my legs?
See I have that same problem, you have. Cause I used to run track but I stopped, but I still have very muscular legs anyway for me I say it's my best feature. You could do is squats, leg curls, also distance running helps.You don't have to hate your legs, look to them as your best feature, wear clothes, that accentuate your legs, like wear a long slim-skirt, bermuda shorts. Hope this helps!
whats some good ways to loose some weight
like i know exercise
but can someone give me like actual exercises that are quick and easy that i should do everynight.??
Well doing things overnight, it's not good, don't overdue it ,and losing wait doesn't happen overnight. Do you have a treadmill? That helps, it's best to do it 30 min. every night. or excercise for 30 min. everynight. Watch what you eat, that means look at the labels. watch for those fats, and calories. Pilates, or running or jogging,anywhere. Do something that you love to do, but something that has to do with excercise, like swimming, or riding a bike. Those kind of things, push-ups,pull-ups.Hope this helps!
I have to wake up at 6:30 in the morning to get ready for school, so what time should I go to bed on a school night to get enough sleep?
Also, don't you get tired from getting TOO MUCH sleep?
I wake-up at 6:30 am too but I go to bed at 10, but it's healthier for you to have a full 9 hrs. sleep, don't oversleep, it can cause your body to be too tired to move or even get up, and you'll have trouble trying going to sleep later, and it can mess up your sleeping cycle. So I think that is pretty good, between 9 and 10 are best. Hope this helps.
There's this girl at school who has basically no life. I was writing in my best friend's agenda because she writes in mine. Just stuff like "Hey hoe, I love you!" or something like that. Or just telling stories that make no sense or whatever. Because that's just how me and my best friend are. We're goofy & we joke around a ton.
But anyways, this girl my best friend is friend's with went through my bff's agenda & made comments about like everything I wrote. She called me queer or ugly. My nickname is Christina Curbstomp, so that's basically what I go by. And she was all "curbstomp? that's the gayest thing I've ever heard." Now, this girl isn't too bright, so I'm pretty sure she doesn't even know what the hell it means.
I'm not mad that she's running her mouth. I could honestly care less, I'll let her talk all she wants, but the least she could do is say it to my face. But, I'm not sure she's aware I know. Now, I'd kick her ass, or at least catch her with a good right hook, but I'm not jeopardizing my education over some girl. And I'm definitely not getting arrested. In my town, 16 is the age they can arrest you at. I mean, they can arrest you younger than that, but at younger ages, they can't really do much like they can when you're 16. So, I'm not getting arrested over some girl who knows nothing about me.
I've never even talked to this girl, and I know nothing about her, she knows nothing about me. So, I wanna know what the hell her deal is. Because her shit is kinda making me mad. "Talk shit all you want, but say it to my face." I live by that. And honestly, I'm not anyone to fuck with, so basically..what should I do? I'm not fighting her unless it's absolutely necessary & it's not because even if I do kick her ass, it won't stop her from running her mouth. I could kick her ass forever, but she'd still talk her shit up. So..what am I to do?
I'm the kind of girl that lives by those words too, but MOST girls sadly don't wanna face up to it.They talk shit, and when you come up to them about it, they completley are scared shitless and deny it. I say I hate girls too but I am a girl so.. I'm a fighter, but I'm not gonna be the one to tell you to go ahead and beat her ass.
But I went up to a girl, saying if she talking shit she needs to say it to my face, then she goes on denying it, saying that she doesn't fight and blah, blah,blah.. So best at it, ignore her, it'll die down, don't talk about her to anyone else or how it bothers you.. if you do it causes further conflict between you and her and she'll keep talkin her shit. I mean she doesn't know you, but apparently to her she THINKS she knows you because she's friends with your friend. So she has no right to talk shit like that, don't talk shit about her, then later, she'll see to it that she is the one who is acting so stupid, not you, so she'll drop. Your more intelligent than that. She's not worth the fight for esp. if she doesn't know you. If she did then that would be diff. but hey, that's my best advice OR lets say you do wanna fight anyway, don't do it in school, you'll get arrested for sure, do it elsewhere, but don't tell people about it cause that will draw attention, and the cops will most likely show up.
But it's best if you don't fight, you can beat her at her own game by this way. Hope this helps, and sorry so long.
Does anyone know any movies similar to 'When Harry Met Sally...' or any movies that deal with best friend (guy & girl) relationships? Thanks!
Just Friends - Good
Never been kissed - Okay
Pretty in Pink (80's classic) -Good
Sixteen Candles (80's classic) - The best
10 things I hate about you- Good
Van Wilder- Funnnyy!
Accepted- funny
Tristan and Isolde-romantic
The Virgin Suicides- funny/ dramatic
There's something about mary - I say similar
She's all that- Lovely
Save the last dance- Good
Hope this helps!
I can't find it on tvguide.com and it's driving me crazy. It's and episode where George is trying to get this apartment and then some guy who was in some war or something is going to get it instead because he survived this ship that went under or something. So then George sets upa meeting with them to talk about how much his life has sucked and why he should get this apartment. Anyone know what it's called? Or, does anyone remember this episode and remember what was going on with Jerry in it? Thanks.
This is the website I would look at.
http://www.tv.com/seinfeld/the-robbery/episode/2243/summary.html
Other than the Velvet Underground,what musicians did Andy Warhol have relations with?I'm interested because I've heard that a lot of them visited the Factory and whatnot,and I also remember a part in Oliver Stone's Doors film when they went there for a party.
Bob Dylan and John Lennon.
Here's a website too, for more info.
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0912238/bio
hope this helps.
so i wanna learn how to do some really cool dance moves for prom cus there is a dance off. if anybody has any link videos to youtube or watever and can explain how they do that move please help me out. I wanna know how to move like shaquira or however you spell it. i like how she can move her body in just certain places thats wat i wanna know how so anybody help me out! please!
Thes are good websites that I think could benefit for you: http://www.shira.net/dear3-rolls.htm or http://www.wikihow.com/Belly-Dance and yes, Shakira's : Hips don't lie is a good beginners guide to that, go to those websites and follow those tips, and shake those hips while watching the video, lol. Hope this helps, and have fun!
ok so i live in michigan right now. but im planning to move away from this gay state when i graduate!
i live in like the middle of nowhere with places that are atleast 15 minutes away by car. and i really rather live in a place where i can walk to things like stores.
i do plan on going to a college but i dont know which one yet.
ok so what im asking is does anyone know any good city areas to live which arnt too expensive and ones that are actually getting somewhere?
like i would love to live in new york. but i heard it was realllly expensive to live there. is that true?
Well firstoff, I think you need to go ahead and start choosing which college you want to go to ,then that should be the city/state you live in. If you get accepted to any college, you can't really be picky on where you want to live, even if it is a small town/city. I live in a small town, and I've already made choices on which college I want to go to, I've chosen a community college then later transfer to a university, that would be much easier. I would love to live in NY but my aunt lives there and it's wayy too expensive. The gas, and the housing, the expenses for college are way too expensive for you. So maybe Pennsylvania they offer $300-700 in apartments.Some small towns in California, New Jersey shore,Ohio, Arizona, Utah. Those are actually pretty good rates, hope this helps!
Today i went into the cafeteris and this boy on campus that i have not had any classes with and never spoke to said he can't stand me and he meant it i heard it but he was talking to someone else. What should I do?
He's immature. If he doesn't know you, he has no right to talk about you like that. It's rude, and it's sad that there is people like that, who you don't even know the person, and judge them. They probably have had a hard time growing up and making remarks or making fun of people is what he thinks that boosts his self- esteem, it really doesn't, he doesn't have any manners. Ignore him, is the best thing you could do pay him no attention,(he's the one who's acting a fool) and I'm sure he'll leave you alone. Or what you could simply do to throw them off is smile at them. ;) LOVE THY ENEMY.
can a yeast infection go away without having to see your doctor and take medication?? i think i might have one. my discharge is all yellow instead of white is that it?? and do u still get your period when u have a yeast infection?? thats like three questions all in one.
Symptoms of a yeast infection include a thick, white, odorless vaginal discharge,itching, irritation, and redness of the of the outer genital, and the opening of the vagina.
Yeast infections can be diagnosed and treated by a doctor.There are over-the-counter medications available. But, it's necessary to meet with the doctor because it is easy for a girl to think she has a yeast infection when you may really have a more dangerous infection or condition.
And yes, you can still have your period.
ok well im 15 and a virgin
but lately ive been really obsessed with the thought of having sex.
I really want to do it but i dont want to have anyone know and well it would be a real dissapointment to my parents if they everyfound out.
and well i really want to wait for the right time. i have no boyfriend and well i cant stop this obsession.!
what do you think i should do?
It's totally natural that it comes up on your mind, I think everybody has experienced it.I talk about casual sex but that doesn't mean I'm doing it. Your just curious about it, and sex can attract people and it's stimulating to the mind especially when you see it in movies , and t.v., etc.. and sure, some parents don't like to talk about it with you, but they have to. Some parents think that you're already doing it if you ask, but your just curious. My advice is to do it when you're ready, don't let any guy pressure you into doing it until you're ready,it's totally worth the wait for someone you love,but sometimes it can come unexpected,if it happens it happens.
i have a very strict father who wont let me date or do anything until I'm 18. So how do you make out?
How sweet, um... really it comes naturally, I mean you're nervous and everything but it kind of just happens,so all you do is go with the flow. And about your dad saying not til you're 18, (my dad says that too but who cares, j/k) well show that your mature that you can date, don't talk back to your dad about it, show that you can be responsible, don't try sneaking around cause that will show how irresponsible and non-trusting to your parents. your dad might not think of group activities with friends as "dates", so take advantage. Ask your dad for permission to go out with a group of friends (to a movie,or mall), and make sure your crush is in that group. Or invite that person over to meet your parents (make sure he's polite).
i'm looking to get a job somewhere. does anyone know any places that hire at 15 that isn't a fast food joint?
thanks
You're 15, and being your age it is hard to find any job that isn't a fastfood joint. Most clothing/selling stores you have to be 17 or 18 to work there. You can't really be picky if you want to make money.Plus, you only can work partime,some fastfood joints offer 15 yr. olds a job, and I can't think of any other unless you do some buisness of your own like for ex: do your own baby-sitting, mown the lawn,cleaning a house, walking/washing dogs.
i don`t think this is really advice or whatever, but what does eto na naman tayo mean? it`s tagalog, or philipino or whatever.
Sorry, I mixed that up, my mom says that all the time, and I kinda forgot but it would've been better if you just never rated me at all..
When I woke up this morning my phone said I had a voicemail said I'd recieved a message at 3:08 A.M.
I listened to it, and it was my best guy friend, saying, "Hey, I don't want this to sound corny, but I like being your friend. I don't know why I called you right now, I was sleeping, but yeah, but I'm gonna go back to sleep."
What, hahaha. I thought this was the sweetest msg in the world, but I've known him for about 2 years and he's never done anything like this. Could it mean he likes me or anything else?
3:00 AM? Good dawg! Yeah I'm pretty sure he likes you. I mean if a guy calls you randomly for nothing at 3AM in the morning?. He was probably asleep dreaming about you and decided to call you (how sweet, but 3am? lol.)& he probably means : I like being your friend, & I don't wanna mess up our friendship kind of thing. Talk to him about it. Do you like him back? Hope this works out!