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Obsessed!
ok well im 15 and a virgin
but lately ive been really obsessed with the thought of having sex.
I really want to do it but i dont want to have anyone know and well it would be a real dissapointment to my parents if they everyfound out.
and well i really want to wait for the right time. i have no boyfriend and well i cant stop this obsession.!
what do you think i should do?
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This is a little weird answer, but if it's that much of an obbsession, just masterbate. it's normal, everyone does it...well mostly, they just don't admit it, but i would wait till marriage to have actual sex.
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Its totally normal to think about it. My advice is wait until you've found the right person. Make sure the first time you do it, you wont regret it. As for stoping your obsession, try to take your mind of it. Hang out with friends more often so you wont be thinking about it.
Hope i helped
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Your a teenager and you have raging hormones just like the boys. You want to expirement with new things. You dont have to have sex to get rid of this urge, you can use masturbation. It helps and you dont have to worry about contracting an STD or getting pregnant
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well i juss recently lost my virginity. and i wont regret it. i juss wanna say i had those thoughts its normal. juss make sure u can trust the person you lose it with when you do it someday. all i can say is its normal to think about it. juss dont worry about it.
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It's totally natural that it comes up on your mind, I think everybody has experienced it.I talk about casual sex but that doesn't mean I'm doing it. Your just curious about it, and sex can attract people and it's stimulating to the mind especially when you see it in movies , and t.v., etc.. and sure, some parents don't like to talk about it with you, but they have to. Some parents think that you're already doing it if you ask, but your just curious. My advice is to do it when you're ready, don't let any guy pressure you into doing it until you're ready,it's totally worth the wait for someone you love,but sometimes it can come unexpected,if it happens it happens.
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not too long ago i was thinking exactly what you are right now...every word.
except to add on to it...i had a boyfriend that i could do it with. and my parents would do the exact same thing but i was seriously thinking about it, just like you.
well its ok to think about it because its true that its really something people enjoy but you shouldn't want to enjoy it with just anybody, but with the somebody that you know you really really love. so my thoughts kind of changed after an experience i had but i wont go into that. the point is that you dont have to have sex to be happy, i am still with my same boyfriend and we are doing really fine. its fine to think about it, but be sure that you are actually dating or Married to the person you loose your virginity to, because once its gone you can never get it back from the person who took it from you.
xoxo helpachick
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