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1. 5'3
2. 18 at the moment
3. YANKEES!!! ALL THE WAY

I DONT KNOW YOU so i give suggestions
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I'll tell it like it is.

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Ok, so I'm a junior in high school and I was wondering, what are some good colleges if I want to major in music education?

It depends... if you want a bachelors degree then you go to a college but if you want a masters or doctrate you go to a university so here are some
1. Julliard =]]
2. Berklee
3. Curtis Institute of Music
4. Manhattan School of Music
5. Oberlin Conservatory
6. Eastman School of Music
7. Peabody Institute

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WARNING:long sorry just wanted to give full story or most of it
ok so im pretty much 14(my bday nov 9)
im not attracted to guys around my age i dont knw i just think older guys are cute and are more mature.well there are these three guys one well call d he is 18 or 19 and the other well call is x but i dont knw how old he is and lastly well call him j and he is 16 or 17.at first me and d werent like friends like we hugged and said hi but ya knw.he just kinda messed with me like put his arm around me and sang to me cause he knew i liked him haha just who he is.well now he flirts with me and kissed me on the cheek twice and he knws my name and one day my friend was like why do you kiss b and he was like have i ever kissed you and i was like only on the cheek and he said see i only kissed on the cheek i havent kissed her yet and kinda smiled at me and all my friends think he likes me.now x he is kinda new haha the first time i saw him me and a friend were waiting at the place cause it opened at 8 and he was alreasy there and he kept looking at me and finally he was like ya im lookin at you and i gave him a look like me? and he was like ya you(i knw kinda weird)but when his bro(i only knw it was his bro cuz he told us) got there they started whispering and lookin at me well then they left and he was like watch my stuff please so i did.that whole night he kept smiling at me and yesterday we had our second hug.we talk and flirt and he always looks at me.all my friends think he is mad sexy and are kinda jealous and they all think he likes me but im not sure cause he dont really knw me and he flirts with other girls.then finally the last on j.he used to always flirt with me and stuff then he ended up breaking up with his girl and i saw him lookin kinda bored so i went to talk to him and he was like how old are you and i asked him the same but he was like i asked you first so i told him and he was like damn i cant mess with you and told me how old he was and then the next week he was dating his ex now he doesnt really talk to me or whatever and its seems he flirts with his girl around me but looks at me to ya knw like see if im watching or w/e.and i saw him in the hall last thursday(i go to his school for math) and he walked next to me but didnt say anything but smiled and kept walking and called his friend and kinda looked back at me so i guess you can say im totally confused so i need major help!thank you

haha you are very complicated! lol. so here's my opinion although i can be wrong. "d" is old! especially now. 4 or 5 years isn't a big age difference but when you're 14 it is. However, he seems like the best one. "j" sounds like he's interested in you and is trying to make you jealous, so ignore him when he's flirting with the girls or get a guy to walk with you and pretendd you like him to make "j" jealous. i really dont know what is gonna happen with "x" but i do know that it's too early to tell. he might be a player though watch out cause players go for the young girls, use them then dump them. I don't know what to tell you like which one is better but you need to be careful cause if you think about it, like no offense to you i'm sure you're gorgeous, it's just that when 18 year olds try to get a 14 year old it's only cause they wanna get some. so please be careful. lemme know if i can help you with anything else. and lemme know how everything goes with them.

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i ended up having sex with someone when i was on my period and he told me he came.. could i be pregnant?
it was unprotected and im not on birth controll

well it is said that if you have your period, your chances are less at a certain point of your period, however, there still is a chance you could be pregnant. unprotected makes the chances go up. i suggest going to your local pharmacy and buying a pregnancy test. good luck.

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I'm going on a vacation-type trip to New York City this winter and I was just wondering what type of clothing I should bring and what would be appropriate. I will be staying for 2 and 1/2 weeks so I know I'll need to bring some essentials like deodorant, toothpaste, toothbrush, hair brush, hair accessories, etc. It sounds very silly but I've never traveled and I really have no idea what one should bring on a vacation trip.

I live in Florida and we don't really have winter like NYC does. I'm not sure on what type of clothing I should buy and if I should buy winter accessories like scarves, mittens/gloves, earmuffs, etc. I saw some Hollister winter jackets that looked very cozy but, again, I don't know if I should buy a winter coat for this trip. Old Navy has some adorable winter sweaters and Abercrombie & Fitch even has arm warmers.

So, in short, I need some advice on what I should bring (and purchase) for my trip to New York City this winter. Specific brands are appreciated so I can consider quality and stay fashionable too while I'm staying in New York City.

Thank you.

Well i used to live in New York and now i live in Florida and I was up there for a trip so I know what you need. First off you need extremely warm clothing in the winter. YOU WILL FREEZE! because you live in florida, your blood has become thin and people in New York have thick blood. so therefore :
1. Warm Scarves, Winter Coats/Jackets, Mittens ( and not the cheep ones made of ridiculous materials. you need the real thing. NO THIN CLOTHING! YOU WILL FREEZE! lol)
2. I suggest warm socks, the cute kind if you prefer, plus leg warmers - they are very helpful and if you put them with jeans they look really adorable. (hollister sells them but i'm not sure if they'll keep you warm)
3. sweaters with hoods preferably
4. all necesities, tooth brush, alarm, hair products, brushes, combs, make up, shampoos, blow dryers are good because walking around a cold house with wet hair is extremely un pleasant.
5. boots like uggs or ones they sell at charlette russe are really good, they'll keep your feet warm.

can't think of anything else but hope i helped

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hey, i have a weird question..
i have this little mole and it's on my chest above my boobs. alot of my friends have one too there. yet i dont really look at it as a beauty mark, i look at it as a flaw. i want mine removed. i dont wear low cut shirts because im that self concious of it. my dermo said she wouldnt remove it because it was unnessesary. well, now ive been thinking ill remove it myelf. what would be the safest way in doing that. i thought of taking a match and to clean my knife and then sterilize it with alcohal. what do you think? thanks.

i had the same problem, except mines really big. well i'm not here to stop you, whatever you do is your decision but just know that what happened to me can happen to you... i went to the dermatologist and got it professionally removed, turns out it formed a scar that was BIGGER THAN THE MOLE EVER WAS. there's a greater chance that it can happen to you if you dont get it professionally done.

also, can you go to a different dermatologist? that would help and also, your dermatologist can't refuse you what you want to do if it's not going to harm you in any way. you can also say that it bothers you so they'll be forced to remove it. just please don't do this yourself.

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So basically I would have asked on Yahooanswers, but its being gay and says that I am "suspended" though I dont think I did anything wrong. I tried to write a complaint, but it keeps saying that Im typing the captcha wrong when Im not. I hate captchas btw.

ANYWAYS, we have like this whole Spirit Night thing in highschool. We're freshmen, and these are some ideas for our name. Then we like make a dance, shirts.. and like its our theme and stuff of the year. Which do you think is the best, and for that one, or all of them, what songs or ideas do you think we could use?

-Federation Freshmen
-Freshman Freeze
-Fearless Freshmen
-Fruity Freshmen
-Freshmen Fever
-Fierce Freshmen
-Freshmen Fair
-Fantastic Freshmen

What other ideas can you think of if you think these are lame ones? Feel free to say anything but 50s freshmen, Funky freshmen, freshmen frost, and famous freshmen = already been used. and explain in detail like what songs we could do and stuff like that.

THANKS A LOT for the help!
Advicenators totally kicks Yahooanswers's butt right now, lol.

When i was a freshman we were called "freshies" or "freshys"

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Ok, I take fairly awful pictures
& evertime I see picture on myspace of people
They are edited to perfection
I would like to kno any good FREE picture editors I can download from the internet

I already downloaded the Google picture editor
So ones besides that one, please
& Thanks in advance [=

i dont know about downloading, but before i got photoshop, i used Photobucket.
it helped a lot! i was able to tone my pics and also put little extras onto them.

here's the link

http://photobucket.com/

upload your picture to here, and there's an edit button that gets you there
hope this works

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I have pretty bad hair, wavy, poofy, dry, and kinda frizzy hair. I wanted to get some more shampoo and conditioner that will help my hair that I can get at like walgreens or walmart. I've been using sunsilk and it helps but not as much as I want. So any sugestions, thankss! :]

there's a product called "infusium23" and its sold at walmart. its really great, there are different ones that target certain problems (frizz control & moisturizing revitalant is what i'd suggest) they should help. they come in shampoo, conditioner, and leave in treatement.

also, i really like "Pantene Smoothing Milk" it helps smooth hair and it does it without it becoming stiff like jel does.

hope this works

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How do you become extremely popular on myspace? Any ideas? I'll rate high!

you become part of a "myspace train" and it gives you tons of adds. and it comes really fast, here are some...

http://www.zombieadds.com/?r=210165893

http://www.fatadds.com/xfactor/

and here's one that lets you put in your friend ID then sends it to about 10+ websites with lots of people

http://www.spacemisc.com/train-auto-joiner/

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I have found out in my life that whenever I am nervous about something or am dreading something, my eye begins to twitch and only stops when whatever I was nervous about has passed. For the past two weeks this has happened only this time, i'm not really sure what i'm so anxious about.I've actually even bagan to shake. i catch myself shaking regularly and for me it is nOT normal.
Do you think it possible that its just my nerves, or could it be something more serious?

well i can only tell you what i know from experience :

when i'm nervous (from anxiety) i start to shake as well. my legs start shaking uncontrollably. this is because the muscles in legs are contracting. to stop areas like your legs from shaking you place your foot firmly on the floor and sit straight. as for your eyes, i had something similar... everytime i closed my eyes, the lids would start fluttering and i wouldn't be able to fall asleep. for those types of muslces, you can't really control them, therefore eat some foods that are calming like bananas.

that's all i can help you with and i really hope you find something useful. i know how annoying this can be.

es

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Anyone know of a Famous Murder that planned his murder and studied his victims from start to finish? it's for a school paper.

Al Capone was famous
that's all i can think of lol

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Hi, I'm 22/f and I have what looks like dark circles under my eyes all the time even though I get enough sleep etc. It makes me look a lot older than I am. Is there a specific product that anyone would recommend for this? Thanks!

i get it at times when i dont sleep, i use liquid foundation to cover it up. i use maybelline
take a bit and apply it under the eyes to match your skintone.
i know it's not permanent, but it'll give you the look you want.

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so i have been losing so much weight, ,i used to be 160 pounds but now im 119 so im still losing moreee even thou im skinny but i wanna lose my tummy, but every month i get my period but this month it hasnt come, idk why, even before when i used to work out but i was still a little big it came but it didnt come this month
its because im losin weight rite?

you're period comes and goes based on your health. message me how long it took you to lose the weight and what you did to lose it and i'll tell you what you need to do. i had a similar problem

it's likely that your system lost control after the rapid weight loss, and not knowing what to do it usually goes into shock. your period will come around but don't be surprised if it's irregular for some time.

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i have been dating my bf for almost 3 yrs. we have a long history with a lot of pain inbetween. he has left me to date around for a few months, when we got back together the abuse started. hitting me, puncing,kicking,grabbed at screamed at, cursed at. there have been a few incidents of this severe abuse. we tried to patch things up. and it worked for awhile. now it seems like if i dont do something he wants or if he gets mad at me, he will jab me in the ribs with his fingers, or dig his nails in my skin, etc. he is cursing at me again. i feel like im hitting rock bottom. i feel so depressed, i know its time to leave him..but i love him and i wish it would all just stop :(
i see him all day every day. im his way to college. we both attend a local college. and it feels like i need him in my life. i have helped hiim so much , im so happy hes goinhg to college and i dont want him to fall on his face because he has no way to get there if i leave him.
i feel like im trapped with him un til i transfer colleges in a year. i feel like i dont want to deal with him stalking me. i just wish we could work out together, i love him so much. but enduring the abuse is seriously taking a big toll on me. i feel worthless at night. the affection is dying, and i feel like crap all the time. i cry myself to sleep. i am so hurt by the way im treated.

im also angry at myself for letting it get so far. now i feel like im in way over my head and that i have to put up with it. i dont want to live an unhappy life..are we beyond repair?

you've been TORTURED for 3 years. aren't you sick of it? you have to know that you dont love him. you don't know what love is because you've been with the same man for 3 years and you've grown to think that this is what love is. well ITS NOT, IT'S FAR FROM IT. if you think that this is a situation that can be resolved and he'll love you then you're wrong.sorry but i'm gonna be honest because you, my dear, deserve better. you are attending college, you're young, you'll find someone. he's not your last option, as a matter of fact he should be any one's option.

why be in a "relationship" with him when he treats you like you're nothing? THERE ARE PLENTY OF AMAZING MEN OUT THERE THAT WILL LOVE YOU AND WILL CARE FOR YOU AND WON'T GET MAD AT YOU. WHY NOT HAVE THAT? WHY NOT BE IN LOVE WITH ONE OF THEM? you think you love him but you don't. in reality, you think it's love because you've been with him for 3 years and you know nothing more than how he treats you. there are guys out there that take you out to dinner, help you, take care of you when you're sick, and if you do something wrong, they try to help you fix it. he's nothing compared to these guys so LEAVE HIM.

you are wasting your life if you expect to change someone. and if you're thinking "oh i can change him and fights only make us stronger" then you need to snap out of this dillusion. sorry. why be in a relationship with someone who fights with you constantly when you can have someone who you never fight with and who doesn't abuse and torture you? wouldn't life be better for you?

he doesn't love you, because if he did he wouldn't treat you this way. DON'T SINK INTO DEPRESSION. LIKE I SAID BEFORE THERE ARE SO MANY GUYS THAT ARE OUT THERE AND I'M SURE YOU'LL FIND MORE THAN A COUPLE THAT TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU SHOULD BE TREATED. don't settle for anything less. don't be mistreated by a fool who is too blind to see what an amazing person he has in his life.

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i know on july 4th i wrote about my grandfather passing well, he did pass away six days later and i found two songs that were really about losing someone that wasnt a rap song. does anyone have any songs besides miley cyrus i miss you, mariah carey's songs?

thanks

evanescence - my immortal
avril lavigne - when you're gone

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My guy friend was supposed to call me back before it got too late and I don't get why they don't call back when they say they are going to call back that bugs the heck out of me!

well each situation is different. there can be a few possible reasons :

1. he likes you, and he's trying not to seem like he desperate
2. he's nervous to call you
3. he forgot
4. he simply didn't because it didn't cross his mind

i know it's a long shot but guys do that a lot of times and you just have to take it as one of their flaws, because it'll keep happening.

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When I go on a road trip I get very ill and vomit. I don't like to vomit, of course, so I try to avoid going on long trips. Motion sickness is awful!

My family has planned a nice vacation in a couple of weeks. The problem is that the trip will be a few hours long and I'm afraid I'll get car sick again. I always get carsick after being in the car longer than an hour so I'm pretty certain I'm going to end up ill.

How can avoid getting carsick this time?
I know there is medications to preventing carsickness but I'm not sure of the names of those medications. I know they're actually for motion sickness, but what are the names of a few affordable medications?
Is there anything else I can do besides taking medication for motion sickness?

there is a medication that's Over the Counter that you can get at a pharmacy. it helps a lot but the side effect is sleepyness. lol.
also, try focusing on what's ahead of you, like look through the front of the car as opposed to the side windows. focus on points far away such as a tree a few yards away. if you focus on points that are greater in distance from you, it helps

hope it gets better
es

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I'm not the most attractive person. I'm not ugly, but I'm not exactly pretty either.
But my boyfriend always tells me how I'm the most beautiful person on earth in his eyes, and I don't see how that is possible. I just feel like he is lying to me :-(
Any input?

could it be that you ARE the most beautiful person on earth in his eyes? definately, otherwise i don't see why he'd date you. he obviously sees something amazing in you and he expreses it to you by telling you. you should be happy =]] he's telling you how he feels. and i understand you thinking you're not the most attractive person, but there's no reason for him to lie to you. he's simply reminding you of something he feels. cherish it. it's not often when a boyfriend tells you you're beautiful. =]] and guess what? most guys don't say things unless they mean them. they'd find a way of saying something else like "your pretty." that's it. but it looks like he genuinly means it. so enjoy it =]]

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I've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months now and we were best friends before we starting being anything more. I'm totally in love with the guy and i think that the fact that we were best friends before helps. Thing is we've never had a fight, we have stupid bickering moments but nothing serious. But theres that saying that people who fight and get through it are in love and thats what makes the relationship stronger, so what does that say for us? i know i'm in love with him but is there something wrong if we don't fight?

whoever came up with the quote saying those who fight and survive become stronger knew only fighting in his/her relationship. why be with someone if you're gonna fight? there's so many possibilities of love with out the fighting so why put yourself through it? CONSIDER YOURSELF LUCKY YOU DON'T FIGHT WITH THE PERSON YOU FELL FOR. it's something special, definately not wrong. and when people fight, it is RARE that they get through it. and falling for someone who you've known and have been best friends with before hand is a gift. it really is because he knows you inside out and he genuinly cares for you. you're extremely lucky and DON'T THINK THERE'S SOMETHING WRONG. you dont wanna fight believe me.

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well i have anxiety attacks when i get really stressed out and i was wondering what i should do. i used to cut but i quit so i dont know what else to do. i would sleep but i always hav anxiety when i have lots of hw still to do so i cant sleep and not get it done. talking to my boyfriend can get me through an anxiety attack but i dont want to always have to depend on him or make him feel like he has to always be there in case i freak. we are equals and i dont like feeling like he has to take care of me. we should take care of each other. anyway please give me some ideas and tell me what works for you!!! i think i might start jogging...

there are certain foods such as bananas that are used to calm you. try it, i know from experience that it soothes anxiety. one-two bananas should do you well.
also there are things you can do like yoga and meditation and they really help! even stoping for a couple of minutes and taking deep breaths will regulate breathing, loosen muscles, and reduce anxiety.
to relax, sit in a relaxed position and pay attention to every single part of your body. you have to start with your fingertips and imagine them glowing, and have that glow spread through your whole body, bit by bit. If you can accomplish this it will benefit you greatly although it can be difficult.
also, clear your mind, it's not easy but give it a try. Sit relaxed and picture all your thoughts as a cloud. make an imaginary bubble around you and put the cloud outside it. don't let it in! when you do this correctly you should be feeling as if you are looking into complete darkness or the center of your eyes. it's complex but try it

i hope i helped in some way. also if none of this was useful to you, there are websites that try to help people naturally with their anxiety. i know that the stuff listed above helped me so i recommend it
good luck
es

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