Question Posted Tuesday September 23 2008, 2:15 pm
I've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months now and we were best friends before we starting being anything more. I'm totally in love with the guy and i think that the fact that we were best friends before helps. Thing is we've never had a fight, we have stupid bickering moments but nothing serious. But theres that saying that people who fight and get through it are in love and thats what makes the relationship stronger, so what does that say for us? i know i'm in love with him but is there something wrong if we don't fight?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? es answered Wednesday September 24 2008, 11:23 pm: whoever came up with the quote saying those who fight and survive become stronger knew only fighting in his/her relationship. why be with someone if you're gonna fight? there's so many possibilities of love with out the fighting so why put yourself through it? CONSIDER YOURSELF LUCKY YOU DON'T FIGHT WITH THE PERSON YOU FELL FOR. it's something special, definately not wrong. and when people fight, it is RARE that they get through it. and falling for someone who you've known and have been best friends with before hand is a gift. it really is because he knows you inside out and he genuinly cares for you. you're extremely lucky and DON'T THINK THERE'S SOMETHING WRONG. you dont wanna fight believe me. [ es's advice column | Ask es A Question ]
ohitscassidy answered Wednesday September 24 2008, 9:02 pm: ive been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now, and we have never had a fight, yet.. and we are in love.
just like you and your boyfriend you guys just haven't, yet.. im sure it will happen just like im sure my boyfriend and i will i mean i dont want it to happen but when it does and we get through it, ill no that we can argue and still be in love.. theres nothing at all wrong you should be happy you havent argued just like i am. [ ohitscassidy's advice column | Ask ohitscassidy A Question ]
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