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I'm not the most attractive person. I'm not ugly, but I'm not exactly pretty either.
But my boyfriend always tells me how I'm the most beautiful person on earth in his eyes, and I don't see how that is possible. I just feel like he is lying to me :-(
Any input?
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could it be that you ARE the most beautiful person on earth in his eyes? definately, otherwise i don't see why he'd date you. he obviously sees something amazing in you and he expreses it to you by telling you. you should be happy =]] he's telling you how he feels. and i understand you thinking you're not the most attractive person, but there's no reason for him to lie to you. he's simply reminding you of something he feels. cherish it. it's not often when a boyfriend tells you you're beautiful. =]] and guess what? most guys don't say things unless they mean them. they'd find a way of saying something else like "your pretty." that's it. but it looks like he genuinly means it. so enjoy it =]]
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You shouldn't feel like he's lying to you. Why would he lie?
You have some self-esteem issues, that's clear. Have you ever heard the saying, "You have to learn to love yourself, then others will love you"? Well sweetie, if you keep questioning whether or not he's telling the truth, that's going to wear down your relationship. He's trying to make you feel special because he loves you. That's not the time to wonder if it's true or not. Just take the compliment and realize that you are beautiful.
To him you're the most beautiful person on earth. You owe it to yourself, him, and the relationship to trust in what he says.
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Hi,
YOu're kidding right? Most women would love to have their man tell them that very thing. YOu have to build your self-esteem. If you don't, it's going to affect your relationship and he might be turned off. Men don't want to hear how unattractive you think you are when they are constantly tell you how beautiful you are. I don't know how old you are, but you will soon learn that they want to feel like everything they tell you is gospel. If he thinks you are beautiful, why not believe him. Would he be with you if he didn't think so? Count your blessings and the next time he tells you that you are beautiful, smile and say thank you.
Good luck,
Ediemarie
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