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How do I mastbate (link)
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Considering you can't even spell "masterbate" right, I'm not sure you should even be doing that, and you didn't say what gender you are, and it's different ways for different genders. I suggest you look it up on google for your gender.
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what can be use as prevention apart from postinor1,condom and family planning (link)
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There's always the "pull out method," but that is very risky. Your best bet is a condom if you can't use the pill because of not being able to get them or something, because condoms can be bought in a regular store. Hope this helped~
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Hey thanks for the advice. I thought of leaving her when I came to know all the stuff about her. She loves me and takes care of me and all that stuff too, but I just don't understand why she hides stuff. I don't how to tell/describe the situation. I just wanna make it clear but if I open my mouth idk what's gonna happen. How should I talk ? (link)
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Well you could try leaving hints at first, like "you know you can tell me anything, right?" Or something like that. Or you could do something where you two sit down for a long chat and just "get everything out in the open" and tell each other things you haven't told each other before, as a method of "getting to know each other the best." That could work. But if she still doesn't tell you after all of that, then you need to confront her on how you came across her conversations and such, and take it from there.
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Can you get pregant if he come out but nuts on the side of your thigh ?? (link)
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The nuts don't have to be inside you, if that's what you're saying. If you were not on the pill, and no condom, and he ejeculated inside of your vagina, then you are Probably pregnant. You might want to take a test to make sure, or look for the signs.
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so i just started high school and it has been so horrible. i know everyone has always said freshmen year is always bad. but i know that me being a freshmen isn't the problem. it's the school that i hate so much. the teachers don't know how to teach at all and they put me through so much more pressure that i should be put in. i already have to go through so much and school doesn't help. i have to deal with actually trying to have friends instead of crying most of the time of my loneliness. i have to put up with a 7 people family in only a 2 bedroom apt. and i have to put up with all the fighting. school is becoming a problem for me, getting low grades and all. i have a job but since im only 15 they said the least they can do is schedule me on the weekends and that gives me a 20$ check all the damn time for four hours that i work. i hate every bit of these things that im going through. so the real question is, i want to drop out of high school. I'll study all the time if i do, and I'd take the GED if i have to. I'll do everything I can to not be in school. i hate it so much there. its pulling me back from everything and my happiness. and moving to another school would be the same. I'd have to start all over. I'd need to worry to not get into my emotions about friends. I'd have to put up with god knows how the teachers are. its all just so hard. and i feel that i have no support whatsoever right now when i need it the most. (link)
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Hey friend, high school can really suck, there's no doubt about it. I would love to drop out myself, but I don't because I want to go to college. Everyone usually wants to drop out, but some have to stick it out. You should maybe talk to your parent(s) about it, to see what your exact options are, but you could do homeschool or online classes if you want to, and can. I know things get really difficult, but it gets better. You could get help with your grades and stuff, and friends come along eventually, but if you really can't handle it, (like when it effects your health and life) then consider your options, and talk to people about it. You at least have my support in whatever you choose. Hope this helped~
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I've known "N" for about 5 years. He's always been so nice to to me.. Last year I walked past him in church and he smiled and started singing Happy birthday to me, he was waving his arms in the most ridiculous way. (His birthday is a day after mine.) I told him when my birthday was about 4 years ago and I was just thinking that he remembered for all of these years. When I smiled and said, wow you remembered.. He looked at me and said "how could I forget?" I've always liked him.
October last year.. I met a guy, "D"..we started dating November 8th. The thing is, he's not Mormon. I don't care if he isn't.. But he doesn't respect my standards like "n" would. "n" is Mormon too. I want to be married in the temple.. And I don't see a future with "D". With "N" I can..
I just don't think "N" likes me the way I like him. I told "n" I was gonna tell him about the troubles I've been having. (self harm.. I think I can trust him.) and during church he kept looking over at me. I have no idea why.
I just am falling out of love with "d".. And more into "n".. Even more than i already was. What should I do.
I talk with "N" tomorrow. (link)
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"N" definitely seems to like you a bit. If you don't have feelings for "D" anymore, and like someone else, then you need to break up with him, because you shouldn't be in a relationship when you feel that way. There's no guarantee that "N" and you will end up together, but it's worth a shot? You individuals seem like a better match, anyway (: hope this helped~
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I really really am so scared . 16 years old and I don't have a trusted adult to talk to. Me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time(protected) but before that he didn't have a condom on and I was grinding on him , both of us were nude and he said the tip of his was resting on my pelvic bone . This all happened 3-4 days before ovulation. He didn't cum but I'm scared pre cum got down there could I be pregnant ? (link)
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It is very unlikely. Precum rarely has any sperm contained in it. If you are still concerned, you can get a pregnancy test (not a real cheapy one) from a drug store or something, and see for yourself. You might have to wait another day or two though. And if not, look for the signs. (Vomiting, nausea, etc.) and if none of the above helps you, wait and see if you miss your period. Hope this helped~
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Ok so today me and my guy friend were on kik and he said that "even if you did like me back I don't think I would date you" me and this guy have been friends for 2 years now. We are VERY close and we talk to each other all the time. He opens up to me and spills his life problems out to me or whatever he is going through. Ive helped him through a lot. He has this big crush on me but its not mutual and he gets me gifts, hugs me, texts me everyday, and gets jealous very easily. I asked him why and he said he would be scared if we were to break up and never talk again and that he hasn't been closer to any other girl then me even his ex. But last year (were much closer this year) he would constantly bug me and express how much he wanted to date me but now its like he just likes to do things for me (like a boyfriend) but not fully commit to me? He doesn't do it to anyone else. He doesn't have any other crushes or anything. He says he is scared that I would hurt him. But if you love someone don't you trust them enough not to break your heart? There has been times were our friendship had its downs. He would always lie to me and try to make me jealous by making up stories about other girls (he did this so many times) and I wouldn't talk to him for a while and he would freak out and vent to all his friends (that are also my friends) and he will get super depressed because he felt guilty for what he did. I've forgiven him an he still to this day feels bad for the things he did in the past when I assured him I wasn't mad at him anymore. Does he not trust me enough? Or is he just one of those type of guys that are "just in it for the chase"? (link)
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Well for starters, your friend doesn't seem very stable considering he would lie like that, and then get all depressed afterwards. (I had a ex like that, it was unhealthy) but your friend could've said that for multiple reasons. One, he's lying again and just trying to get you to like him, or go with him, because of the whole "wanting what you can't have" thing. Two, he could be honest and just be hurt that you don't return his feelings or something. Three, he could be scared of ruining the friendship because of how good it's been. There are several possibilities. I think your best bet, if you don't decide on your own, is to confront him and ask what he meant and why he said that and stuff. Hope this helped~
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how we increase our iq level? (link)
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Well you could try really pumping your brain full of knowledge and new things like languages and words, etc. but also certain fruits help with stuff like that, believe it or not. (Such as bananas) also, reading (not children's books, but like fiction i.e Looking For Alaska, or none fiction, i.e the Diary of Anne Frank) really helps improve your IQ! Hope this helped~
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21/f, 28/m
I'm having a lot of mixed feelings right now. I know I have to separate one situation from another. But I need help gaining some perspective on why do people have one night stands. I never really followed the crowd, I don't really understand the whole "one night stand" situations.
In my opinion (I hope it doesn't offend anyone), I feel like those who do one night stands lack self-respect and has low self-esteem. I may be wrong.
The reason why I ask is because the guy I'm dating, I have asked him, twice, how many people has he slept with the past two years and when was the last time he's gotten tested (I obviously wasn't asking for fun, I asked to be safe). He told me, both times, that he only slept with me and his ex-girlfriend. And the last time he got tested was two years ago (when he was dating his ex-girlfriend). I decided to get myself tested and I asked him the same question again... He said he slept with FOUR OTHERS.
I got confused and it turns out that he lied to me. He had a few one-night stands with three other girls after his ex-girlfriend. And one was after we first started dating (going on dates, getting to know each other, etc.) I was very surprised when I heard that. I don't know what to think or what to say to him. I feel betrayed, sad, and angry with the situation.
He explained to me that he wasn't looking for one-night stands during that time but they just happened to "fall into his lap." He went on dates with these girls, they realized that they weren't right for each other but had a mutual physical attraction, they slept together, and then that was it.
I still don't understand why people have one-night stands. I don't know how to get over this situation. Help? (link)
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Alright well first of all, it's not a good sign that, (1, your boyfriend would lie to you about that, or lie in general. And (2, that he did that while you were dating. But as for the one night stands, some people do it to "lesson the pain," because everyone usually has a method of doing so for them, and for some people, that's sex. It's usually an emotional thing, where they are lost, or have a bad past, messed up family, mental problems, etc. even if they deny it. Some people can actually be addicted to that in severe cases. I would be cautious if I were you and make sure he's still not doing that stuff. Hope this helped!
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- Money-----------Negative....!!
- Friend----------Negative....!!
- Love------------Negative....!!
- Eligibility-----Negative....!!
- Seance----------Negative....!!
- Family Support--Negative....!!
- Skill-----------Negative....!!
So i'm Suffering with STRESSED FEELINGS,,
What can i do....????
Please Help Me..
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There are always options. Money? Getting a job from a small place (frozen yogurt or something) if you can't get a bigger job, and then there's selling things online (eBay, amazon, etc.) for easy options. Friends? Reach out? If you're in school, reach out to random people who don't have friends either, or at your job (or when you get one), there are also websites you can go on to make friends if that's more comfortable. Or you could get involved in things like sports, or something like that. If you're searching for love, then the best thing to do is wait for the right person. You can meet people in various ways (such as online) or take a stretch and ask out a cute person you like from somewhere, you never know 'til you try. Family is overrated, and it's difficult to get support that way now a days. You can get support from other places like here! Everyone has a secret skill or two, you just have to find yours. Explore your options, try new things and see if it fits you. (Writing, music, singing, painting, designing, etc.) hope this helps!
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I'm so pissed that my gf is not the same as when I first met her. She displayed herself innocent and sweet, which she still does pretend. But I came to know about some stuff about her which she is been hiding since we are togther. We did had ground rules about not hiding anything when we started dating. She doesn't knows that I know the true stories behind the stories she tells me. She is a single mother. She got pregnant when she was drunk when she was 20 years old. Then she decided to keep the kid. I'm dating her almost a year and half and I accidentally came accros her conversations. She's been talking to guys from university and her neighbors which I'm okay with but in most of conversation they discuss about their sexual activities. Many of them included having sex in a cinema, having sex in a sex club while others watched her, having sex with a transexual, after partying walking to home full drunk and passing out at some unknown person's house and waking up naked in his bed which in the conversation it is described as she doesn't even know how many guys fuckrd her, I also came across some conversations describing sleeping with married few men and having affair with engaged guy, having sex with her gfs and their bfs and having flings with her sisters ex. I am feeling like such a horrible person. I never cheated in my entire life. I never lied about anything. I was expecting the same. I just feel like I'm such a loser. I honestly don't know what to react to this. Please advice me to take a proper decision. (link)
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Get out of that relationship ASAP. you don't deserve how she has been treating you, and you are the better person in the relationship. You're not a loser for being faithful and doing the right thing.
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I am 16 years old, and recently, I lost my virginity. We had no condoms so I trusted the "pull-out" method (never again) and he ejaculated inside of me. I immediately told my sister and we went to the store for plan B (One Step). Now, 3 days later, I have a little brownish blood coming out of me. When I saw this, I immediately panicked because I just got off my period about a week ago, so I'm almost sure this can't be my period. What's going on??? 😔 (link)
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No you would not have miscarried this early. It could be an after effect of the period, (it happens) or you may need to get checked up by your doctor if this continues.
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These past few days I've been feeling really down. I'm a senior in highschool and I've always done good in school and gotten 90s and 100s but this year I'm getting 80s I know it's not horrible but I won't be able to make honor roll, which I really want to. I'm surprised I even made it last semester considering how my grades have dropped this year. But I'm taking honors classes and 2 AP's. I barely have any friends, only one that I really talk to in school and eat lunch with. I feel like no one likes me and thinks of me as pathetic and a loser because I'm quiet. The reason I don't talk much in my classes is because I might have social anxiety. I'm always worried about what other people are gonna say or think of me. It's always been like this.
Also I've been doing bad in gym and I don't know why but my teacher gave me a 65 today, even though I did participate. I always see kids sitting around and talking to their friends and not doing anything and she never says anything to them. I've never gotten that grade and I feel so stupid now.
I feel useless and unimportant and like no one cares about me. I have really low self esteem and I'm always feeling bad about myself. I feel like I'll never be confident. The past 3 years of highschool were fine idk why but I really hate this year. I feel so useless and lonely.
Not to mention I have problems at home too. My parents don't talk to each other, if they do they just end up fighting. I don't talk to me dad, I feel like he doesn't care about me or anyone in my family. He doesn't know anything about my school or care to ask. My mom is the one who has always done EVERYTHING for me and my 2 siblings. She works hard to take care of us even though she's diabetic and had surgery on one of her legs. Since my parents aren't speaking to eachother they don't sleep in the same room. My mom has to sleep on a sofa in the livingroom and my dad doesn't even care. My brother doesn't even have his own room and he's 23. He has to sleep in the livingroom. My older sister is disabled, she stays home all the time and isn't getting better. I don't know what to do. (link)
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Hey friend, I get that may seem hard since you want great grades, but it's really not that bad. You can always study super hard and get ahead, or find someone to help you out with school. There are always options. I know it may be lonely to have few friends, but that will change in college next year for you, trust me, it gets better. There may be someone at your school that wants to be your friend, but is also shy. Which is why you can always reach out to others who may be alone a lot. As for anxiety, if it's really bad, you might want to confront an adult/school councilor or parent on it and seek help which could include meds, therapy, or solutions. (You can also look things up about it) and you can try practicing talking to people and conversations in your head so it's easier when it happens. Teachers suck a lot of the time, it happens, unfortunately. You're clearly not stupid since you've gotten that good of grades so far, and no one is useless or unimportant. Everyone has a use for their life eventually. As for no one caring, there is always someone who cares. I care about you, even if I don't know you well. Everyone has their own insecurities even if it doesn't seem like it, that will change in the future. I have a similar situation, where my parents are like that, but I just look for the future and get out of here as soon as I can. If you ever want to talk to someone, my tumblr is ocalaphernelle.
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