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Hey, it's Kristen. I'm 17. I'm here to give you advice honestly and straight forward so ask!

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What age do you consider to be old enough to have a baby. Not like.. "when you feel you are ready" or anything like that.. i mean like.. 16.. 20..

how old do you think someone should be before they have a baby?

I think you should atleast be the legal adult age which is 18. I think teen pregnancy is very common. I myself have two friends with children who are 15. I don't think it's right but things happen. And it's hard to sit and say it's an awful thing. You can't look at that child and say, that was the biggest mistake of my life. You look at it and say, omg she/he is beautiful. I myself would not get pregnant as a teen... But anyways, honestly I think you should wait until you are 20 years old or older. If you have a child younger than that, it sucks in ways. Bringing a child into the world is a beautiful thing you want to be fully ready. Tho, you may be ready at young age, you want to be able to go do your own thing whne you're young. You can't do that when you have a child. You have a huge responsibility then, and you can't ignore it or blow it off. I plan to wait until I am about 22+. Altho, I do desire to be a mother, I don't have the mental abilities to handle it.

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wat are good sites for quotes besides fire hot quotes?

This site is awesome for quotes: http://www.hellz-angelz.cjb.net You could also try going to google and looking them up. I have some I have collected over time if you're interested, let me know. :)

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Hey I'm the girl wanting to talk to my friends ex. I have another question..srry! imma go out with this guy and like we went out before and it wasint working.(he cheated twice).and I dont trust him but i still wanna go out with him. what do i do? thnx and your soo awesome at advice

Well.. I don't quite understand why you would want to go out with someone who cheated on you twice and whom you do not trust. That stuff hurts deep, I must say. I cheated on a guy once, and we stayed together but it was never the same again and started fights. That could happen with you. But I can't past judgement. I think you if you really want to go out with this guy and he means a lot to you then, you need to lay down the rule. Let him know that he has lost trust with doing what he has done. He needs to prove he can be trusted. Be calm in telilng him of course. Personally, I wouldn't date him. No girl deserves to be cheated on by someone. And if it happens more than once, chances are it'll keep happening. But you never know, he could change for you depending on how much he truly cares for you. Try it out and see what happens. The first time he starts acting shady and cheats again, I'd let him go. You don't need that. Good luck sweetie. I hope it works out for you. I am not trying to change your decision or anything, but seriously, thinking about it. I don't want you hurt.

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I have this friend who has this really mean ex-boyfriend. He left her a long time ago and I have his screen-name. i want to talk to him just so we can be friends. i always tell her how hez a jerk and that he dont deserve her. But i want to talk to him online..should i? What if she says no i cant talk to him? thnx i rate!

Alright, I have a ex boyfriend, he was really mean. Everyone said I didn't deserve that he didn't deserve me. We finally broke up. We didn't talk for like 2 months, and hated each other and my friends hated him with an immense passion. And just the other day, I IMed him, and he IMed my new boyfriend. He said my new boyfriend is really nice and cool. IM him, talk to him a calm mannor and let your friend know it's cool now as just friends. This guy was madd mean to me, but now we're friends! If he starts actin funny, stop talking to him dude. I think you might want to ask your friend if you can talk to him first though. She might not be cool with it, so consider feelings.

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I HAVE THIS WRITING ASSIGNMENT DUE ON TUESDAY & IT'S REALLY IMPORTANT I GET A GOOD GRADE I HAVE TO WRITE A 400 WORD PAPER ABOUT ANYTHING I WUNT PREFERABLY AN ESSAY BUT BASICLLY I NEED A TOPIC CAN ANY1 HELP ME?
~AnThOnY~ M/13

There are many things you could write about. For one, think of something that you really like or are interested in and you feel you could write a lot about. I've decided myself if I ever need to do something like that, I'd write about the pentogram. So find a interest, research a little and write about it. You could write about yourself. That should be easy. I mean it's you, so you know a lot right there. You could write about a sport you like, music you like, or something. You could even write about a life experience you've had that meant a lot to you. Or write about a friend you envy immensly. Good luck.

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i have friends and sometimes i feel like they dont need me... i dont know why... i cant tell them about it because then they would obviously say that its not true. i have a bestest friend but shes not in the U.S. so i cant see her veryday and hang with her. please help me...

I have a friend like that. She thinks we don't like her but she keeps hanging out with us. We all like her, she's cool. You need to sit your friends down and tell them how you feel. It seems you are a little insecure about the friendship you all share. Tell them that, tell them how much the friendship means to you. Let them know you need some for sure assurance that they care. I know how it is when people say they care, but turns out they don't. I'm guessing you are in school. Junior High or High school. I'm in Junior High so I know how the friendship thing can be. If you need anything else, let me know.

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Does anyone know of a website to post pics on. Like either a photo album one or an actual website one. I don't want Picture Trail, EasyDesigner, Xanga, or Xprofile. If you know of any others that are user friendly, let me know! Thanks! -Free2bMe :)

Try this: http://www.fotki.com/!! I use it, it's pretty awesome and easy to use. If you need help, let me know.

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first off ur very pretty! =), and second i really need help, i like this guy ALOT, but he's two years older than me and i'm a freshman. my friends all tell me like you have no chance with him you don't even speak with him at all and stuff. i have no idea what to do besides actually speaking with this guy!!! but im afraid to even do that. i haven't even talked to him, i know that sounds stupid even when i like him alot =/ will you plz plz help me on what to do?! thanks alot!

Aww, thanks!!! =)Sorry its taken me so long to answer. My internet has been down. :( No fun. Anywho, back to you. The best thing you can do, is find someone who knows this guy. Get them to hint at the guy that you like him. And sweetie, you need to talk to him yourself or noting will ever happen there. Get his phone number or if he has internet, get his screen name. Or talk to him in person. If you don't really know this guy you may not really like him. I suggest you get to know him yourself to insure that you really like him! It could just be puppy love right now. Approach him in the hall after you have had someone tell him who you are and then take it from there. You should have a chance with him. It's only two years. If you need anything else please let me know.

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You see there is this guy and i really really like him and he doesnt like me the same way?? And he thinks im "cool and hot" but he doesnt know if he wants to go out with me! What should i do?
Guys are stupid!

Talk to him about it. Ask him in what ways does he think you're cool. Maybe he does like you but is just too embarassed. If not, then try to get him to like you. Flirt with him. Get to know him real good, show him how good of a person you can be. Let him see how caring you can be and that you could be good for him! If he still doesn't like you then he's just being a jerk or just honestly isn't interested in a relationship. Yes, guys are stupid but it's just somethin we have to deal with. There are really good ones out there just waiting for you. If you guys dont date, Then maybe you guys can just stay friends.

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well i just got my period yesterday and i wear pads but i have gym today and im scared the pad will fall out/off when we are running , ect! HELP!

its not going to fall off. but make sure the pad has wings. and make sure its long enough. i had a problem in gym with the blood going somewhere where the pad wasn't. if you're really worried wear a tampon

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OK well ummmmmm I like like 2 different guys and one has a gf and the other doesn't well so im gonna go 4 the 1 w/o...so guys/girls PLZ answer this Q!!
~*gOt Ne TiPs On HoW 2 WiN A GuYs HeArT OvEr?*~
Thanx soo much!! :)
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Well, be yourself. Don't try and be someone you aren't. Make eye contact a lot and smile. Make sure to show him that you're interested and flirt, flirt, flirt! That's a majoy hint right there. Show interest in him as a person and show that you have feeings for him. Good luck. :)

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Ok me and this guy went out in 7th grade i went out with him not cause i liked him cause my friend wanted me to go out with him... Well we went out for like a week and i broke up with him... Well now 10th grade... And i have the biggest crush on him and he likes me too... But he said he doesnt want to go out with me till the middle of the year cause he liked this girl.. (thats now going out with his close friend) But my friend is going to hook us up...Should i go out with him or no

If you both like each other then why not?! Go for it. :)

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if a guy likes two girls... Ones 19 ones 15 and his 19... He likes both of them equally... Which one should he go out with... Or should he go out with both

I suggest the one who is 19. For one the 15 year old is a minor and he could get put in jail of caught dating her. And if anythin sexual happened it is considered rape. The age difference sucks right there, had it happen before. No, he shouldn't date both. I mean, c'mon. That's a little like cheating and not fair to the two girls.

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does anyone know any home remedies to fix a dry scalp or dandruff problems?

Try Mayo! Weird yes, but works. I've also heard of using vinegar.

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hey im 13.m 8th grade, i still like this girl that i went out with about a year ago, were still really close friends but whenever i try and tell her how i feel about her she thinks im jokin or juss tryin to mess w/ her.. tell me how i can get her back plz

Theres many reasons for this. Maybe she likes you too and is just being shy or she thinks that theres no way a guy could like her. Talk to her in person and tell her how you feel so it sounds sincere. :) Good luck.

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What does 143 mean ? im a little slow.

Means I love you. 1-I 4-love 3-you. You don't see boys use it very often, not at all acutally, lol. It's mostly used by girls when they are talking about their friends! Hope I helped!

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Is it bad when you read other people's away messages just out for the fun of it. I do it on a daily basis and am often told that I have no life. Is it a mental health conver in any way?

Interesting question you have asked me. No, I do it too. I get like really bored when I am sitting here online and just read peoples aways for fun. I have about 3 people I never talk to on my buddy list, I just like reading their aways. Don't worry about it. I guess you could say we're just the common weirdo, lol. :)

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ok im 12 and i have a 36c cup and my breasts hang down real low(not like an old ladies though) and sumtimes i have lumps that r felt from the inside...do i have breast cancer???? and is the hanging a sign????? im so scared....help!

Whoa, that's odd. I have the same situation. I'm a 36C and mine hang low like that and I often have those bumps. I was really scared too. It's because your breasts are so big for one. And also the bumps sometimes mean you could be growing again, lol. Don't sweat it!

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This is gunna be long so be ready, but please help! im driving myself crazy not knowing what to do... ok, i've been going out with my boyfriend for a little over 3 months, and i like him alot, but our relationship is 'dying' and he doesn't know what he wants to do with it and i wanna know how to bring it back up again, i think that we should hang out more like we used to in the summer but then school started and we stopped hanging out, but it doesn't seem like he wants to hang out now. but hes so odd, cuz at times he wont even acknowledge my presense, then 20 minutes later he'll be all over me, and hes so protective of me... like there this one kid that keeps calling me and he's trying to get with me and my boyfriend hates that and wants this kid to stop, and i dont see why he would be so protective of me if he doesn't want to go out. and i know if we just hang out once outside of school then our relationship would be great again, cause then we could do wat we used to.
soo....

1) what do you think he wants to do (break up, not break up etc.)

2) what should i do to bring my relationship back up?

PLEASE HELP!!! i rate high

I don't think he wants to break up. If he wanted to break up he wouldn't even acknowledge you period most likely and he would not be protective over you. It is perfectly normal for him to be so protective over that kid who wants to get with you, don't sweat that. First of all, talk to him. Find out what's goin on. You'll never know the truth behind his actions if you don't ask. To get the relationship back up, communicate more. Try calling each other a little more and writing notes to each other and such. Keep each other informed on each others life. Try to hang out sometime. After school, get a pizza or something. Chill on the weekends. Get the chemistry flowing again. Try doing little things for each other such as walking to each others classes together at school and stuff. Eat lunch together. :) If you need anything else just ask me in my inbox.

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i'm a 15 year old gurl wit hella regrets. this weekend i went to a party and got drunk...hella drunk! well when i get drunk i get really horny..and i was all over this really popular guy frum skoo! the gurl hosting the party hella liked him and i knew this..i tried to stop myself but i kept making hella bad decisions. the desision worst one was giving the guy head. well the next day hella people knew about it and are hella mad! some of his friends wont even talk to him cuz he messed around wit a slut and a gurl as low as me! i'm hella not a slut im usually hella innocent..befo that i only been fingered and never even touched a dick!i have no idea wut i'm goin to do tommarro at skoo...how shud i react to people that ask me bout it? wut shud i do how shud i handle this ?!sorry so long

Alright, I've had a situation similar to this. I got fingered and told like one person and then like my whole grade called me a slut and whore and shit. And the dude was my boyfriend. I know it ain't easy to deal with. But you just got to try and brush it off and not listen to what they say for one. You know what went down and you know why. You aren't a slut anyways. The only way it'd be slutty is if you went around doing it all the time, which I'm sure you don't. Sure, it was slightly rude to do that when that chick liked him but she should have went after what she wanted, right? As long as you both weren't dating anyone it's not slutty at all and anyone who says it is dumb. You shouldn't have to explain to everyone. Just tell them it's not their business. Let em' talk. You know the truth and that's all the matters. People are madd ignorant. Someone else will do something that really is stupid and then they will forget about you. If you don't want that happening no more get drunk with friends instead of parties so that won't happen or just don't get drunk at all even though it is fun, lol. I hope I helped a little. :)

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