Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
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if you buy the songs then dont you have to pay money?
i dont want to pay for songs that stupid. my friends all get their songs for free (link)
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oh, sorry.
i wasn't sure.
you didn't say in your question wether you were paying for them or getting them for free. ( i get them for free myself ).
well like i said before, do make that music list so you'll remember what you want to download and everything, and download the program limewire. don't get the pro limewire, that costs money. and make sure you have a few virus dectecting programs installed on your computer, cause sometimes limewire can cause viruses.
then just search all the songs you want on limewire and download them and then you just highlight them all and drag them into your iTUNES and then plug in your ipod and let the ipod update its list.
i hope i helped.
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i just got a new ipod bc my last one broke bc i dropped it lol, but i dont know how to put songs on.. i forgot how to because its been so long since i put songs on an ipod! i have itunes installed but now what do i do? (link)
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well all you have to do is just search up the artist you want, and wait for the list of their songs that you can purchase to come up, and buy the ones you want.
then just plug your ipod into the computer and let it update after you finish buying all your songs.
what'd i'd do is sit down for a day or two and just think of all the songs you like and write the down so you don't forget them.
maybe even ask your friends if you can go through their ipods to check out their songs and see if they have any songs you might've forgotten to write down.
that ways, if it ever happens again, you'll know what songs to download.
i hope i helped.
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16/f
I want to do a scavenger hunt as a way to give my boyfriend his Christmas gift but I don't know what to do..
I need some ideas on how to do it. I'm clueless. (link)
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Me and my friend just made a scavanger hunt not too long ago for the guy she liked, and it was really cute.
Instead of just making it boring old clues like "check a place where you make food" or something like that, we tried our best to incooperate memories and good times and everything.
Like, for example, to find the next clue, we put "all the times I fell asleep on you", and we taped the next clue under the pillow or something. Another we did,"the first time we ever met" and they met on the internet, so we taped an envelope on the side of the computer.
You jsut got to the make them a little hard to find, but slightly easy cause if the guy can't find it, it's not that cute anymore whenever you have to go get it yourself and show it to him, haha.
And then maybe make the last present on you, and make the clue,"find something that loves you more than anything else in the world." And just have the present hidden in your hand depending on how small it is, if it's rather big just during the scavenger, tell him you'll be right back you got to go to the bathroom or something, and grab the present and move down to a location near him, so whenever he finds you, you'll be standing there with your gift behind your back.
I just think it'd be slightly more romantic that way, and a cute way to remind him of all the wonderful times you two have spent together, and why you love him so much.
I hope I helped.
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okay so what does it mean whenlike your boyfriend like always whenever he has his arms around you and is standing behind you and like rests his head on your shoulder and smells your hair? or like always when hes doing taht always outs his hands on your stomache under your shirt? orrrr when when he has his arounds around you like that and like uses his thumb or something and like rubs it back and forth on your stomache?like i know that all of this probably means he likes me but like what do you think he means/ or is thinking when he does that? (link)
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Like you said, it definetely means that he's interested in you and likes you and everything, but it's really hard to say.
Differnet guys have different meangings behind they're actions, but to me this guy's seem harmless.
If you're thinking that maybe he's trying to give off the hint that he wants to do more with you, I don't think that's it. Otherwise, he'd be trying to do more than just rub your stomach ; he'd probably be trying to kiss you, ask you to go somewhere alone to "talk", etc.
Boyfriends usually do this with their girlfriends ; it's just a way to touch them and show them that they really like you alot and that they care about you. And he's just cuddling with you, and guys are always smelling girls hair or their perfume, haha. We always smell so good. :)
So basically, he's probably just sitting there thinking,"I really like this girl." And how much he wants to hug you and show you how much he likes you and everything. He sounds like a really nice guy to me. :)
I hope I helped.
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14/f Ok so there is this guy that i really like, and we are pretty close friends. The winter snowball dance is coming up, and i was wondering if anyone had any ideas of how to ask him to go to it with me, even if we just went as friends. Or should i wait for him to ask me? (link)
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Never wait around for him to ask you. Because you don't know his feelings for you, you don't know if he has feelings for someone else, so if you just sit there and wait, it might never happen.
Also, if you were to make the first move, it shows confidence, which is something alot of girls lack, and can be a real turn on for guys and an attention-grabber. Guys like it sometimes whenever the girl makes the first move instead of them doing it all the time.
I would just bring up the dance with him while you two are having a conversation, and just ask him if he's thinking about asking anybody, or already has a date or not. ( If he says no ), then just casually be like,"Oh, me either. Well, hey, since we both don't have dates or anything, do you think you'd want to go together? :)" And just smile. If he starts taking it as a date thing, then you can always add the term "just as friends".
If he says yes, however, then just be like,"Oh, that's cool. Who're you going with? Do you think you could save me a dance? :)" And try and make sure at the dance that it's a slow one ; sets a more romantic mood, and it's easier to talk to eachother and flirt and you two being real close to eachother.
And then just have a great time together and hang out and try even flirtng with him to send him some slight signals that you're interested in him and see what he does back.
I hope I helped.
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Ok, i really like this guy at school, but my close friends really hate him (he rejected them), and so i went to my other friends, and they were shocked, and not in a good way. I like the guy alot, and he flirts with me. I havent told my close friends, and i really want to, bacuse i always tell them. What should i do? I really need advice! (link)
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Well if these people are really your friends, it shouldn't matter who you date, or if THEY'RE upset with him. Just cause they're not happy with him, doesn't mean you can't date him and can't have a possibly happy and great relationship.
Just talk to your friends about it, and let them know that you really like this guy and think you'd have a good relationship with them, and you just wanted to let them know and you understand that they may be mad, and you accept that, but they should accept the fact you like him & be happy for you too.
If they really do have a problem with this, then make a comprimise. Just don't have him hanging around them, and have them have their own time with you. Don't let the two intertwine if it's only going to cause drama and problems for everyone. Keep the boyfriend and the friends seperate. Just remember, don't let your boyfriend become first in your life, and your friends seconds.
"Chicks before dicks".
"Guys come and go, but friends are forever."
I hope I helped.
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15/f. lately i've been getting really upset because i'm 15 and i've never had a boyfriend, or a first kiss. i get really embarrassed when people talk about their boyfriends and their first kiss. and i'm always afraid that someone will make fun of me because i'm prude and never had a boyfriend. i don't know if it is something about my personality that is scaring some guys away. don't say that i shouldn't change myself for a guy because i would never do that (meaning dress differently or style my hair different). but i mean my personality. i'm a VERY organized person (like everything has to be neat) and i take my grades very seriously. is that a turn off? because sometimes i can become controlling if we are doing a project or something. what is something that i can do to become less controlling in situations? also i don't think that i'm ugly. so what is wrong? i also can get nervous talking to guys. OMG i'm just getting really frustrated with myself.
so basically these are my questions:
1)what can i do when people ask me if i'm prude knowing that i am?
2)how can i become less controlling in group projects?
3)is it weird that i'm 15 and haven't had a boyfriend or a first kiss?
sorry its so long...but thanks! (link)
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Well first of all, same exact boat. 15 years old, never been kissed. And I've had a few boyfriends, but they all lasted a week, so they weren't even really boyfriends ; I never even got to see them during our week old relationship.
Anyways.
1) Sooner or later, people are going to know cause they're going to ask, so I just make a joke out of it, because everyone reacts the same. They're all shocked, of course, and yes, some will joke, but just learn to poke some fun at yourself. Also, this I've learned also may attract guys because they're thinking,"I want to kiss her, I want to be the first. I want to be her first boyfriend, too." And mark that special place in your life. So if they ask, just be like,"Mhm. xD" and grin and laugh. I always make jokes too like whenever people are talking about perverted stuff and they sit there and are like,"Do you know what we're talking about?" ( And of course I do, just cause I've never done it, doesn't mean I don't know what it is ), I'll just smile, cover my ears and be like,"MY VIRGIN EARS ARE BLEEEDDDDIIIINGGGGG. BAD WORDS, BAD WORDS!" and they laugh. So like I said, just learn to poke fun at yourself.
2) Whenever you feel yourself becoming frustrated, or about to say somrthing that's going to come off controlling to people, take a deep breath and calm yourself and just remain quiet. Let them answer a question or give them a task to do so they feel they're part of the project also. So just think before you speak, basically. And think before you act.
3) It's not weird at all. Like I just mentioned to you, I'm also 15 and in the same exact boat as you are. There's some girls out there who haven't even dated or had their first kiss yet and they're 18, 20. It's just really hard to find girls like that, but there are ALOT out there. Trust me, your time will come. And it won't be wasted and unromantic probably like all your friends were. Just wait for the right guy, the right moment. So then whenever you finally do get to tell your friends about your kiss, you'll leave them in envy on how sweet & romantic it was. I know alot of girls out there and even some of my friends sit there and have regretted their first kiss cause it was put to waste and wasn't special and some people even tell me they admire the fact I'm waiting for the right moment.
I hope I helped.
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I've never had a boyfriend, and I know for a fact this guy is going to ask me out this week. I want to say yes, but what do I do? Just say yes? (link)
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Haha, I know you're all nervous and everything, but there's nothing to be nervous about. Obviously you know he already likes you, and if you like him back, of course say yes!
Just give him a smile and be like,"yes", and maybe even give him a hug and just take it from there.
You MAY find it a little akward at first, I can understand why, but it's only awkward if you two make it awkward. Just start slipping into "couple-mode" and maybe even start holding his hand awhile after he asks you out and just do what you did before. Flirt, have fun, talk.
I hope I helped.
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I know no one can really tell me what to do. Its a "my choice" kinda of thing, but I need input.
I have a boyfriend and we'll call him Tom. Tom when we first started to go out, was nice to me and treated like a princess. Now that we have been together for a longer time, hes not. Tom behind my back to my friends calls me a bxtch, whore, slut, dumbaxs & anything else you can think of. Tom will tell my friends that they can't talk to me anymore, so now I'm down to like 5 friends when I use to had alot. He hung up on me last night on the phone and then today when I said something to him about it, he was all nice to me again.
What's the deal ? Should I break up with him ? I kind of want to, but I dont want to hurt him. I know me being happy is important but I shouldn't go around hurting his feelings should I ? ANY advice would help me alot. So thanks. (link)
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That's good that you know your own feelings are important, because most people tend to forget about themselves whenever it comes to other people's needs. Which is a nice thing to do, but still. Both people should be happy.
It sounds to me like your boyfriend is way too controlling and he's not letting you live your life, and have all the friends you want to have and everything, and you should be able to have that. Also, what kind of boyfriend is he, insulting you like that? No true boyfriend would sit there and call their girlfriend all those names if they really liked them.. especially to their girlfriends FRIENDS.
It sounds to me like he has little repsect for you, and wants you only for himself, which isn't right.
If this isn't a happy relationship, then I suggest getting out of it and breaking up with him. Sure, his feelings are going to get hurt, but they're going to get hurt no matter what happens, and you might as well get out now before your feelings continue to get hurt, too.
Over time, he'll move on. Over time, you'll move on. Take each relationship as a lesson and learn your mistakes and grow from them for the next person, hopefully better person, that's going to come along in your life. ( I know I sound like a fortune cookie or something, lol ).
But I hope I helped.
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well me and my boyfriend, david, have been going out on and off for about 3 years. since 5th grade.. and now i'm in 8th. he goes to different school than i do.. so i only see him on weekends.. or every other weekend. well this year we havent' gone out at all until about a mounth ago.we were doing just fine until last week he broke up with me because he said i was too "bitchy". then the next day he asked me back out and he told me that he was so sorry and he didn't realize how much he liked me and stuff. so i had to hink about it for a little bit.. but then yesterday i panicked at the last minute and told him yes.. but i'm starting to regret it.. because i recently started liking this other guy. his name is chase. he's a lot different than david but i've never gone out with him before. i really like chase now but i just dont know what to do.. or which guy i should choose. if me and david broke up i'm pretty sure chase and i would go out.. the only problem is.. chase is more mature than david in a behavior way.. but david is more mature than chase in a "relation ship" way.. since me and david are back together.. we dont' talk as much on the phone. mostly sit there in silence.. and i get annoyed of him really easily now! what should i do? (link)
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If you're finding you're not happy in the relationship, end it. It's not fair to David to let the relationship continue ( as sort of a pity date thing ), and it's not fair to you. You should date somebody whose going to make you happy, and you'd think you'd have a great time with.
And plus, personally, I would rather want to be with someone more mature. And you never know, as the relationship develops between you and Chase, he could realize what you like and don't like, and wisen up & grow more maturely in your relationship. People always change for the better.
So go with the guy whose going to make you the most happy, not them.
If I were you, I'd give Chase a shot. See what happens. You and David have been together for three long years, and it just doesn't seem to be working out anymore. Besides, you're only in 8th grade. You're a teenager ; you're supposed to be going out with different types of guys, seeing what types you like, don't like, and just having a great time living life.
I hope I helped.
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Just today, i sent a sorry letter to the boy i love.
He read it, but didnt reply
then later he messaged me on aim.
[which he hasnt done in a while]
he was acting casual
so my question is, does he still hate me ?
or do you think he got over it? (link)
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If he's IMing you and talking to you, then I say he's getting over it. He might not be FULLY, but if he hated you, he wouldn't be talking to you probably, would he?
He's probably just trying to sound casual to make it seem like everything's fine and that everything's good between the two of you. Also, he might be afraid things are going to become awkward because of whatever situation that happend, and now you two are talking again. So just help him keep it casual and keep the conversation flowing and crack some jokes here or there to lighten the mood a bit.
But I think he's getting over it, defintely.
I hope I helped.
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I saw this weird symbol it looks like uhhh well there's this circle and inside it is the letter "A" and a line going across it.What's it mean? Hope I described it well enough. (link)
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It stands for Anarchy.
It's whenever someone has no cares for the government ; anti-government.
Here's a better definition:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anarchy
I hope I helped.
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Dose anybody know website that you can still learn something everyday and news and games plus maybe online learning stuff.. (link)
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If I were you, I'd either go to www.bored.com, or www.yahoo.com.
Bored.com is a great site for whenever, like you said, are bored & really want something to do, and they have all sorts of different games and activities you can do on their site.
Yahoo.com, does the same thing in the game department, but as you probably know, you can research stuff on their sites, check the weather, all sorts of different stuff.
I hope I helped.
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Ok I heard of sayings like "bite me" and "I got laid" and "Someone got stoned" but I heard different meanings from different people about them and it just makes it confusing. So will anyone tell me what they ACTUALLY and REALLY mean??? (link)
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"Bite me" means basically to just like, fuck off. Screw you.
"I got laid", basically means having sex. Like "I got laid last night by this girl."
"Someone got stoned", means exactly what it says. They got high off of pot or some sort of drug.
I hope I helped.
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I'm 14/f and I know that I should probably forget about it until later or something but this has been lingering on my mind for a while and it's bothering me.
Well, first I believed in staying a virgin till marriage thing and I still do but it's that when I think about that, that would mean having had sex with only one partner and that bothers me, you know? I wanna experiment with other people than just one person. I don't know. Right now all I can think about when I see a guy that I like is: hmmm, I wanna have sex with him. And I haven't even had my first kiss yet. >.<
Haha, anywhos is this weird of me and what do you think on my thoughts on whether to stya a virgin or not.
And please don't tell me the "folloy my heart" or "you'll know when you're ready" thing. i just wan't a really honest opinion b/c right now, I really wanna just have sex with all my crushes (link)
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Well, you're a teenager, and this is something alot of teenagers get urges to do and really want to do is to have sex. I used to have a really strong urge to myself, just be like,"Do it do it do it", you know? And I myself haven't even had my first kiss, but then I realized,"I want it to be with someone I really care for and know I love and just know that special part of me isn't going to be wasted." And soon, the urges went away, and I still haven't had sex yet, and I'm happy I haven't.
Me, personally, I don't think you should have to wait until marriage unless you're really capable of handling that and it's something you really believe in, which it seems you don't anymore.
I would just at least wait until you really care and love someone, at least for your first time. The first is the one ( I know it's going to sound corny ) but the one you're going to remember for the rest of your life, and if you and your friends are talking about it, you want it to be known as romantic and loving, right? Not like,"Uh, I don't remember his name, but he was hot." Or something like that.
So if you really want my honest opinion, I say wait the first time until you're really sure you love the guy and he loves you and make it special.
I hope I helped.
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Well I met this guy at the dog park. He's incredible, and we totally hit it off. Then, this afternoon, we made plans to meet again, and we did, and though we didn't talk as much (there were other people there we were talking to) I had an incredible time. He's one of my myspace friends, should I message him and tell him I had fun, or would that be wierd? Should I wait a while? How long should I wait to see if he wants to hang out again?
Also I'm 18 and he's 24, do you think he'll think I'm too young? Ah this is so crazy I'm so infatuated with him. (link)
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First of, I don't think you're too young. You're both legal to do whatever you want together, and you guys are only 6 years apart. That's common between adult relationships. A bunch of my parents friends are 5 or 6 years apart. ( I'm not saying you two are getting married or anything obviously, but you know what I mean ).
No, I don't think that'd be weird at all to message him now. He might even find it flattering that right after hanging out with him, that you had so much fun and that he's still on your mind and everything.
I would just message him and be like,"Hey, I had a grea time tonight. We really need to do this again. :)" And then just wait for a response from him. And don't think he hates you or anything if he doesn't respond for awhile. Guys aren't so quick to respond to these things and unless they're like, a myspace whore ( which you don't want him to be ), he might not go on that much.
He also might be impressed with you making the first moves - the first messaging, the incinuating of the hanging out and everything. Sometimes guys like it when a girl takes charge instead of them always having to do it all the time - shows confidence. If you do decide to do that, just make sure you're not like confidence overload and then you start to be viewed as full of yourself & controling.
And just flirting and keep hanging out with him, and see where it goes. :)
I hope I helped.
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can my boyfriend go to jail for us datin even if we started datin befor he was 18 (link)
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If you are your boyfriend are just dating, then no, it's not illegal. But if you two are having sex together, then yes, it is, because now you're a minor and it might be considered statutory rape if you were to get pregnant or if anybody were to find out.
The only real way he could go to jail for that though is if you or your parents were to press charges against him, or anybody else that may know.
So once he turns 18, I would just be discreet, because if someone figures you're having sex in the relationship, you two ( especially your boyfriend ) could get into loads of trouble.
I hope I helped.
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is there any way that i can remove the "woohoo" option in my Sims 2 game? My little sister plays sims and my mom doesn't think that this option is appropriate. thanks. (link)
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Nope, there's no way you can remove it. And yes, there are family and romance options, but in either or, they both have "woohoo" in it, because obviously to have either romance or family, people need to "woohoo" in it.
If your mother's so concerned with your little sister playing this game, have her tell her daughter that clicking the "woohoo" option is forbidden and if she ever finds her clicking it, she can't play.
Or, since it IS rated T for Teens, and obviously your little sister isn't, maybe your mother shouldn't let her play, period.
I hope I helped.
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I have a major problem that i want to get answered quickly. More and more people keep saying they don't like me because im annoying. I want to have friends and i know im annoying. My parents said i just want attention. How can i stop being annoying, I want friends!!! Please help! (link)
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Well talk to your friends exactly what it is you do that they find annoying, and then make a mental note of it and try to stop.
If they say.. you brag to much, and it's annoying. If you feel yourself going to repeat it again after you've already said it once, try and stop.
If you're having trouble with it, have your friends help you out. Just have them be like,"___, you're doing it." And just apologize and start a conversaton about something else, or just let them talk & listen.
Your friends should at least appreciate the fact that you're trying to be less "annoying" for them, but if they start growing impatient, they're not very good friends, because it takes awhile for a person to break a constant habit of theirs.
I hope I helped.
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ok so me and my ex have two classes together this year, and we sit by eachother in both of them. We are always flirt and joke around and then on friday he kiss me. Just out of the blue. Does that mean that he wants to get back together with me or what. Any help would be amazing. (link)
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Well, it depends where he kissed you. Like, cheeks, or lips. If on the lips, then I'd say he's interested in you, and possibly wants to get back together with you.
If just cheeks, then it was probably just a friendly kiss, and nothing more between you two.
I would try and talk to him about it. Better to get the real answer from the real source, I say. Just be like,"So, I want to talk about that kiss on Friday. I just was wondering.. what did it mean, you know?" ( Or something like that ). And just see what he says, if he admits to having feelings for you, then go out with him ( if you return them, of course ). If not, then just pretend it never happened and keep on hanging out with him and have a good time with him, still.
But like I said, usually if a guy's kissing you on the lips and is flirting with you and joking around ; then he likes you and is very much interested.
I hope I helped.
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