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I have a problem with my guy friends.. Any guy I become friends with always winds up liking me! If I start talking to a guy from a class or with a locker next to mine, a month later he'll ask me out or admit that he likes me. That usually ruins the friendship & makes it awkward. I mean, I'm flattered, really. But I wish that I could just have guy friends who don't all ask me out. How can I prevent this from happening all thru high school?

LoL yeah u just good lookin. I have the same problem I mean it frustrates me but I always say I dont like relationships gettin in between our friendship. Or your a really cool guy but I dont think I would wanna try a relationship. Or sumthing..lol..it will work u just have to say the right stuff...lol..

-Stephanie
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I have a friend who is going to a different college than me,about 350 miles away,and his girlfriend is a year younger and staying here. I recently broke up with a girl whose best friend is the most annoying person I've ever met. She never shuts up either. Anyway when I finally couldnt take anymore of her crap,about her relationship was gunna last even when her bf went to a far away college(long distance never works),I spouted off that my friend's relationship also wouldn't work, to her. The blabbermouth told my friend to intenionally get me in trouble. I didn't mean it is a cheapshot,but that's the way he took it. How do i patch it up with my friend and how do i kill(not really)this annoying,talking,girl?

Tell him str8 up like man..She was pissin me off and shit and that she was bitchin at you so you just got all over board and went off. Same thing happened to me before but my friend kinda understood. And we put ti behind us and moved on then the person that told..lol..we had sum issues but worked passed them too!

-x0x-Stephanie

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alright, i've got a moderately small and intricate clique at school. about 6 girls. anyway, we're all best friends, and don't really hang out with anyone more than anybody else. but then someone else joined our little group (lindsay). and joy has been really down(who's usually really outgoing and loud) she just, i dunno, she and lindsay hung out a whole lot. they have a million inside jokes, and they can't be separated more than 2 feet. joy tells lindsay virtually everything... like why she's so depressed and stuff. things she won't tell us at all.
the rest of us feel kind of like she dumped us, i guess. dropped us for someone more worthy or something. i confronted her, and she felt all bad and stuff, but she just went back to lindsay, and i feel like i'm losing a friend... what should i do?

Well mayb you Should give her some time..She is probly Pmsing..lol..Or like she just is goin through a phase...

-Stephanie
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Do Guys like to get clothes as birthday presents from their girlfriends?

Yeah Most guyz Dont like it..Most do..

-x0x-Stephanie

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my boyfriend is 15 and i'm 13/f well i think that his friends are telling him that he is stupid for going out with me, i want to talk to him about it but i'm scared to. he is my neighbor and i want to call him but i'm to scared that he is going to break up with me. what should i do

UmmmZ you should Like call him. I mean if you 2 go out you shouldnt be scared. And his friends shouldnt care what descisions you or him make if you guys like each other then Oh well they shouldnt have to care because thats yall descision!

-Stephanie

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hey i am pregnant and dont know what to do my mom would like kill me..omg..stephanie please help!

Baybi Gurl Im so0o sorry what you should do is like consider whoever took you to the Hospital could maybe like help you out. Best Bet is to tel you mom. I mean everyone makes mistakes and its easy to make one..So just tell your mom str8 up ok..And b carefull!!

-Stephanie

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hi i need some advice or help on smoking it is a topic i have to write about at work can you help?

I did one of those projects and I used some of these things like topics...

-Bad Breathe
-Ugly Teathe
-Has a bad odor
-Cancer
-Chance of Death

x0x-Stephanie

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theres this guy and we went out but broke up and i still have feelings for him i dont want 2 b obvious ethr can u help me signed i need help

Yeah I used to feel that way but if he broke up with you then That probably means that like he needs space or he like..Needs a break from girls nd just wants to Flirt around..Or like He doesnt like..umm..Wanna girlfriend right now..I had the same problem but he probably wants to meet new people or sumthin. Therrs probably Hotter guyz out therr...

-Stephanie
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Hey yall i need a website with WAV or MIDI music codes for my new xanga.If u answer this ill rate u!Plz help

You can go to..http://www.findmidis.com...I got my Midi files there!!!

-Stephanie
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Ok, I really like this guy Dillon and I also like his friend Drew but Drew told me he likes me too but has a girlfriend. Dillon on the other hand is single and I dont know if he likes me too but Dillon and I broke up earlier in the year I still love him and I want to tell him but I like Drew too. Wut do I do?

Ok, Sweeti...You should go out with the..Boy that is single, Because you neevr wanna mess wit a guy in a relationship its just to much Drama and theres no point in doing that. I would say Just do what you do. But Best Bet is to go wit the single one! Cuz im sure the gurl that go out wit the other guy likes him alot! And he probably does to!

-Stephanie
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I need some help here!!! im 13 years old.. but i really like this boy Frank z!!!.......... he's 18 :( and my brother just passed away, and he has been there all the way for me.. telling me we'll get threw it together and stuff we don't 'do it' lol! were just people who do like to cuddle for hours watchin kim possible or something, we make out too!! but nothing past that, he doesn't want to!! and neither am i!! but i just don't know what to do.. i mean like he is 5 years older than me, mu mom... it doesn't really bother her, cause she trusts the both of us, and she likes frankiie a lot!! he is a really sweet guy! but we all have to like hide it from my dad. cause he would kick frankies ass :/ i really don't know what to doo.. can you pleaseee help me???? thanksss *~>> LIZAAA!!!! :)

Oh mayb you should like Dat your age..cuz thats illegal and im sure if my dad found out he would kick my ass to...just like..Be careful and I would say Look for someone a lil younger!

-Stephanie
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i just had sex with my dad and i'm afraid that he got me pregnent..what the hell do i do! i'm so scared. is it possible for my dad to get me pregnent

0mg are you kidding me..Yeah 0f c0urse y0u c0uld get pregnent I h0pe y0ur n0t like J0king. Omg umm..Just like ask your M0m t0 take y0u t0 the d0ct0r. Thats like so0o scary. Umm lol ur freakin me out. Umm what you should do is tell a close family member. I mean if you feel that disgusted about yourself..you should tell someone but I hope it wasnt like Rape because then you should really tell..Good Luck Baybi Gurl!

-Stephanie
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well... i hang out with friends like everyday! an there are like 4 guyz who really like me but last nite, my mom forgot to pick me up an it wuz like 11:00 an i heard will, frankie, an steve in steves back yard yellin at the tv. so i went there untill my mom picked me up. an well my didnt ppick me up till like 2 in the mornin, but frankie kept saying he loved me, an that he wanted me to go out with him really bad an everything.. but the 3 other guyz say that too but im just to confused because we went in the hott tub an steve an will started to flirt wit me an frankie kept grabbin me an sayin he loved me an that he wanted me an everything im just really really really confused CAN SOMEONE HELP PLZZ!!! 14/f/ny

To me it soundz like a one night stand..Just fo get bout it..but if he tells u he still luvz..you like from that night and since then..mayb he does..Just talk to him but if not..Then it was juss a one night stand!

-Stephanie
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I love my boyfriend but how long in a relationship do u think u should wait to have sex?

Well make sure he luvs you just in case of consequenes and you know he is going to support you 100% so Make sure he realyl luvs you and when your comfortable then ya should!

x0x-Stephanie

*Be SmaRt*

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ok im almost 15 and i only have a 34A... i hate it. I heard that if you sleep with no bra on at night your boobs will grow faster because the bra isnt there... but i dont know... and i also herad that moving your arms in circular motion everyday will also increase the size... my mom has big boobs.. why cant i!!!!?

I never heard any of that..But thats crazy..lol..Umm Hun you should Accept yo self as the way you are..if ppl cant deal then I dont think they should even listen to what they say. It doesnt matter bout your looks gurli it matters bout what u got in yo mind and how you act and carry yo self!

-Stephanie
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im a 16/m and i have never really done anything with a girl besides making out idk if i should shave or not i have a few times be4 but im the only 1 that even saw anything so it was pointless its just a pain in the ass and i dont wanna have 2 do it all the time but wut if im not shaved and a girl goes down on me will they be grossed out and not do anything im really worried this will happen or they might start spreading rumors that i dont shave and no1 will ever go down on me again.

I dont know I neva went all the way down..lol..and your still 16 alot of ppl just look for ass these days so dont let them gurlz fool ya and mayb your friends do it because they wanna b cool but to me its dumb and pointless because what statment are you makin that your cool if your just unzippin your zipper fuckin someone and then probably never going to see them again. I dont think it really matters if you shave down there because if you have ever looked at porn them gurlz still go down on guys so..ya knowz!

-x0x-Stephanie

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i really like this guy and we r kinda friends and i want him to know that i like him but whenever i talk to him i get really shy and im not myself...wut can i do?

Just calm down..be yourself...and just go up to him..and talk to him to show him your not scared or calll..write him a note..e-mail him..Something! Hope I Helped..

x0x-Stephanie

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Does anybody have any good ideas for cool clothes you can make yourself?

Just like make shirts and stuff but dont like try to like be all into what people wear and the new style because the only style you have is your style! And I think if you have your own style its more creative and you dont have to care what ppl think accept you!
x0x-Stephanie

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does anyone know any good web sites that share ideas to prank?

uMM go to google.com and search for pranks or how to pull a good prank or something!

-x0x-Stephanie

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*~Confesions*~
You say you wanna be true with me
So you start confessing
Befor you start already a tear drops down
You confess everything
It feels like my heart broke
Tears are pouring down
I say how can you do this to me
He says Im sorry
I know Its over
I say Its over
Even though i know i did the right thing
I still love him
But i cant trust him
He lost y trust
So now its over
Maybe someday
My tears will go away.

Awww..lol..you should go to www.poetry.com I got my poems published there and they are like in a very nice book. And yeah just go and publish because that was cute! *x0x*Stephanie

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