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Q: my school is not fair to me. all the kids that go to junior high work 7 hours and only get a 15 minute break! to me that is completely outragous! and the high school students either dont get lunch or get lunch 1 time a week! and they work longer. i cant stand my school. how can i change how my illegal school is treating kids that they think have no responcibility even to have enough time to relax at lunch. my friend's school has freakin 50 minutes! i hate school. im so stressed and i feel like killing myself because i dont have any break time. please help

You could do one of 2 things. You could switch schools. Or you could go around and start a petition for longer lunch periods/breaks.

Q: does anyone know of some good exercises to get rid of love handles? i do crunches (all the different levels) and they help a little... but they never seem to fully go away. i also diet.

LOL...love handles, they are great. But my advice: get into the position to do sit ups, but instead:
Go up about half way from where you would sit up fully on a diagnol, to where when you get up, your left elbow hits your right leg and your right elbow hits your left leg. Keep going back and forth between those and they should ge away
OR
Lay down on your side
Turn your head to face upwards and use your hands behind your head to do crunches. You should feel the sides of your stomache go inward if your doin it right.

Q: I have met this new friend. My bestfriend doesn't like her. I like her. The new friend is mean to my bestfriend but not to me. I want to be friends with both of them. What should i do?

You cannot be friends with people who do not like eachother. Choose the one who means most to you.

Q: ive been back and forth with my mom and dad. I seem to only cause problems. im 13 and im tired of hurting people in dec i tried to commit suicide by cutting 3 of my veins and i jumped off a 3 story building i hate putting people through misery so my next idea is to run away, but are there any other options, and i have tried talking i just did but its not workin so pleaze dont say talk to your mom cuz it aint happinin and no rude comments either

Whatever you do, dont do it Alot of people think that people wont miss them if they do, but really, alot of people do. And than this results into alot of other bullshit that shouldnt happen. But I would just try and think about the things you want to change, and try to change them.

Q: Im trying to find a good book to read for school project andi cnat find one .... i've recently been reading books that involve drugs and relation ship.... and i like well really anyhting fiction that isnot fantsy, science ficion. or non-fiction PLEASE HELP

Try going to a local library and asking the person behind the counter for some good book names...

Q: Okay there is this guy named Justin which I am going out with him. And there is this other guy that I like named Michael. Well, Michael doesn't like me, only as a friend. But I am going out with Justin and he likes me alot but i don't like him. Should I stay together with Justin(even though I don't like him) or should I brake up to try and get togehter with Michael(even though he doesn't like me ?).

Break up with justin, cuz ur basically playing him which aint right....
And your not gonna get with Mike since he dont like you

This is prolly the stupidest question asked

Q: Theres this guy i like ( im not going out wtih ) and were pretty good friends. He said he liked me last week but he doesnt talk to me anymore that much. I dont talk to him a lot at school cuz hes not in any of my classes but i see him between classes. I really want to hang out with him and stuff like that but i dont know what to do. What can i do to get him to notice me more??

Maybe try talkin to him about it on the phone or when you both have time off. Don't be scared of talkin to him. He likes you BECAUSE of who you were, not becuz u were scared to talk to him

Q: I just recently got asked out, and I said yes to make them happy. But, after the first day I'm already feeling crappy. I find myself comparing him to my first relationship, because it was so wonderful. My question is does this feeling ever go away? Can a relationship that starts off with no spark ever get better?

I felt the same way. The feeling is only there if you have feelings for your old guy. Try to get over him first, and than the feeling would be gone. try to get to know the guy better before assumin the relationship is dead

Q: all my friends have boyfriends and it sucks for me because while they are all making out i sit there being bored with nothing to do cuz when my girlfriends are with their bf's they dont talk to me. i doubt some of them even like their bfs.. they just dont wanna be left out.. it annoys me so bad how they stoop that low.. i dont like any guys and i dont need a boyfriend.. but my friends are ditching me and im having boring night after boring night.. what do i do

You said it yourself: You dont need a boyfriend, and they prolly dont either. Talk to them about arranging a GIRLS NIGHT OUT ONLY...and have some fun with them. If they jus want to fit in...try to talk them out of havin a guy

Q: ew... ya, this is gross, but, im 14 and a girl. Ok, I kinda sweat a lot... its weird because noone else in my family has had this problem. No matter what shirt I wear, I always get like sweat circles under my arm-pits, so I ALWAYS wear hoodies. Even in gym, we have uniforms, and theyre extremely thick, and I still sweat through it! I've tried like everything! Wearing 2 shirts just makes it worse, and anti-persperent doesnt work either. I also usually put deodorant on, and on the inside and outside of my shirt where I sweat! ITS SO EMBARRASSING!! I told my mom, and she laughed. I really need help with this one, any tips or any reccommendations are appreciated!!

Ask your mom to take you to a doctor.

Q: Well i am kinda inlove with this guy which i have never talked to him and he is older then me and he lives in my town and i always see him driving his car as i stare at him just imangining if he could once be with me.... I mean everyone in my town knows him but their all like if you go out with him he is nothing but dirt he droped outta school and nowworks my mom tells me she would suport me if i went out with him but i dont know what to ask him or i dont how to talk to him do you think i should try to or do u think he aint worth it????? because everynight i cry in bed and wishing he would go out with and give me a chance what should i do????

You dont love something you dont know. You should maybe get to know him, and if you like him, go for it.

Q: Does anyone know a good image uploading site. Preferable one that doesn't resize your pictures?

photobucket.com

I think thats what you are looking for...

Q: i have a fever and my throat feels like its bleeding and when i swallow it hurts really badly, my mouth also produces thick spit which is kinda nasty... if any of you have any advice as to how i can get rid of this please help. thanks

I just got over the same thing. (it sucks dont it?) My doctor perscribed Amoxicillan, but I didnt really need it. If you dont get better in about 2 days, go to the doctor....and get alot of sleep

Q: i got bangs the normal ones that cover my whole forehead well im kidna getting tired o them but i have a big forehead so i need them there what should i do?

Jus let them extend to ur actual hair level and work with it like that. But dont put it back in a pony tail.....

Q: Ok...my bf is 19 and a really good guy. I am the frist long term gf he has had and I am afraid I am corrupting him. We almost had sex tonight (we both believe/ed in waiting till marriage) but only really stopped because I had to get home. I am afraid that I am going to drive him away even though its something he appears to want. How do I get him to give me a straight answer? I have asked but he just can't.

I think that if you BOTH think you are ready, you should do it. But you should think about this: Is he gonna leave right after it? Is your relationship going to be changed for the worst?

Q: My 8th grade graduation is coming up in May and i need to know some appropriate songs to sign cuz i have a good voice and i want to pick a song to sing thats right for the occasion! Can someone give me some suggestions in a list? It should be slow im guessing ..thanks in advance!!

Try singing one that came out the year you are graduating and that was considered a "Hot Song". Add some originalaty to it though

Q: this probably happens alot.. me and my best friend came to a public school for the first time.. and she met a guy who shes supposedly in love with.. it bothers me alot because they are constantly together and she totally ignores me.. but when hes not there she acts normal around me. i told her about it before and she apologizes.. but she does it over and over again. they are always showing pda and they always have to be alone. im not jealous.. i just want my friend back

I just answered a question like this. She is happy that she got a man, but she is ALWAYS suppose to choose her friends over her guy. If this continues for awhile where she ditches you to hang with him, do the same. Instead of hangin wit her next weekend, hang with one of ur other friends. Let her see wat it feels like

Q: okay my friends name is holly and her boyfriend's name is zach. theyve been going out since about december, maybe a little before. i basically set them up because they are honestly the perfect couple. its just that sometimes i feel like she prefers to hang with him over me. i was in the hall talking to her one day and then along comes zach and i was in midsentence. then she just walks away with him. I WAS IN MIDSENTENCE! she didnt say goodbye or anything. its sortof making me wonder. i dont know if its just jealously - but my other friends are noticing it too. honestly - they are perfect for each other. and i dont want them to break up. this past weekend we went to the movies and she asked if she could take him. i wanted it just to be us girls but finally she convinced me that he had to come. she said 'im only over his house today for two hours and i never see him' when she sees him everyday for at least like 2 hours. how can i let her know that she sortof needs to let him go, not break up, but detach herself from him when it comes to going out to the movies or anywhere with FRIENDS? im sorry this was so long, but i rate high! =) thanks so much

If she is gonna ditch you for a boy, she is not a friend. You are ALWAYS suppose to pick your friends over boys. I think maybe you should just hang out with other people and next weekend DONT invite her and see how she feels

Q: y are a ll my friends hypocrites because every time they like say stuff to me like tell the person if u have a problem with them and so i do then when ever they have a problem with soem one else they dont tell them and so yeah y do people do that i hate it y are they like this y do i attracked firneds that just stab u in the back all the toime then lie about what they did?

I think that you should ditch those friends. Its not worth having people like that around if they only bug you. Or if you really wanna try and work things out, just talk to them about it.

Q: I'm in a relationship at the moment, and im really happy. Yet at the same time i kinda wish i wasnt. It's not like i dont like him or anything it's just I'm only 14 and i dont really feel like i need a bf. I was just wondering what do YOU think is the rite time to start dateing, and why. ane Please help me decided what to do. Thanks.

I dont think there is a "right time" to start dating. I think that if you FEEL like you are ready, than go for it. But if your not, just tell him your not ready. Good Luck

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