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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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hey i was just wondering if any of you know any songs about missing someone,
i know blink 182 i miss you,
but any others, i dont like R n B or anything like that more rockish kinda thing,
thanks!

Social Code - Miss You, Disturbed - Darkness, Pink Flyod - I Wish You Were Here, Fuel - Falls On Me, Incubus - Wish You Were Here, Incubus - I Miss You.
♥ Krissy

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ok what does it meen when you pop your cherry?!?!? can somebody please tell me!

Your Hymen (cherry) is a thin membrane across the front of your vaginal opening. When you have sex, the skin breaks and will tend to bleed. Having your cherry popped doesn't always have to be sexual, you can pop your cherry by riding a bike or horse.
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On Xxrocker's column page, I posted a huge question about this girl who I was friends with, but had a crush on. I asked how to tell her that I like her. Well, now, I've told her, and she sent me a huge long email, where every other word was "sorry", and that she liked me as a friend, didn't want to break the friendship, I'm the coolest guy she's ever met, etc. etc. etc.

I tried to shrug it off, I e-mailed her saying that I really didn't care, I was just wondering, all that jazz. Only problem is, ever since I got one girlfriend, I've developed a need for them in my life. I'm really scrrewed up now, I keep thinking about her... I need her... or someone... only problem is, there's no one else! My only other girlfriend ever was online, and she's never on anymore! I'm kinda messed up now, even more than I had been when I thought she liked me.... Everyone was sure that she liked me and had been flirting with me all year, I shoulda accepted their bets.

Fellow advicenators, what should I do?

Hun, everyone been through what you are going through. A lot of people have gotten their hearts broken, especially when it's one of their first crushes. Don't give up on love just because of one girl, get yourself out there and try to find a girlfriend. Don't be shy about asking girls out, the worse they can do is turn you down, but hey, everyone get's turn down once in a while. Even though, don't let this get you down. Maybe you could go on some blind dates. Get your friends to set you up with some girls and see where it goes from there. You could also ask some of your friends (that are girls), to the movies and see if something sparks up. As for this girl that turned you down, maybe you should keep on trying. If you feel like she's special, don't give up; it might be something worth fighting for. And you never know, she might realize that she has feelings for you and will change her mind. You never know with girls. Just be there for her when she needs you and be sweet and caring. Show her that you like her and you never know, something may just happen.
♥ Krissy

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Ok so on Friday i am going to my freinds house for a "movie night" we're going to paly volleyball outside earlier and then later we're going to watch hide and seek. well no big deal. she invited 4 guys and 3 girls (shes the 4th girl). well its kinda like a paired off thing. she invited couples. except for me. she invited this guy. i kind of like him i guess. same with him. he told my freind he kind of likes me. well i dont know i thnk it's goign to br really weird. because all the other people are goign ot be with their girl/boyfreind and then there will be me and this guy. i like him and all but i dont know i think it will be weird.and im kind of worried that he's gonna like try something, because thats just the the kind of guy he is...so i guess i dont know what to do.
((14/f))

Go to your friends and have fun with this guy. You guys could do some talking to get to know eachother a little better. Maybe there will be a spark and you'll like eachother a hole lot more. If he try's anything on you and you don't feel comfortable with it just tell him. If he respects you and likes you enough, he'll back off and understand.
♥ Krissy

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i tried to put music on my advice column but it messed it up and didnt work now my info is gone like the part on my site where i could write about me and only my pic is there how could i fix this i tried to rewrite the profile that didnt help
please help ♥

Don't take everything out of your bio, just leave it how it is. Everyone's column is doing the samething, where their bio is gone but their picture is still up. There's probably something wrong with the server, but the Admin's should be fixing it. It should be up shortly, you'll just have to wait.
♥ Krissy

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My boyfriend is getting back from his 3 week trip to Texas & when he gets back, I want to do something special for him. What can I do to show that I missed him & that I'm really glad he's back?

You could go out to dinner with him, have a party for him and invite all his close friends, go to the beach. Maybe you could invite him over and have a movie night, just you and him. Tell him how much you missed him. You could make him a card and inside it list all the reasons why you missed him while he was gone. You could invite him over and when he walks in the door, give him a big hug or have a "I Missed You" banner up for him to see.
♥ Krissy

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Ok..alot of the time when I call my friend she is "busy". It seems like she only hangs out with me when she wants to..What is her deal? And recently she got mad at me for the stupidest thing ever!! What is going on??
Thanks..

She could actually be busy when you ask her to hangout, you never know. Maybe you should talk to her about this. Explain to her that when you call it seems she's always busy so you feel like she doesn't want to hangout with you. Tell her that you feel like you are falling apart and you don't want that. You want the friendship that you had with her before, where you guys hungout and had fun. I'm sure if you talk to her about things you'll be able to solve this problem.
♥ Krissy

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does anyone here know of any REALLY good websites to find super cute quotes..like good quotes or like someone's profile..or xanga or something like that! i just really want some good quotes! thank you! i'll rate high!!

Go to this site. Her quotes are amazing. They're all so cute! http://www.holliesquotes.com
♥ Krissy

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I was wondering if anyone here ever had a handfasting and could tell me if it was a good experience. And could you possibly direct to a website with info on handfasting.
I'm asking this because I recently changed to Pagan/Wiccan and I just want to know what my religion has for weddings.

I really don't have any experience with this, even though I found you some information on the subject that might be useful; http://www.geocities.com/k_garber/handfast.html There's also an e-mail on this page that you are able to acess if you have any questions. So I'm sure if you e-mail this person they can help you out and give you some information on the subject.
♥ Krissy

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My boyfriend fingered me three days ago, and I guess he must have done it harder than usual, because when he pulled his finger out, it was covered in blood, and *down there* was a little bit bloody. I have been bleeding a little bit since then, but not that much. I don`t think that it wasn`t my period, because I just had it like a week ago. Could it have been my cherry that was popped, or what?!?!

He probably popped your cherry. I'm sure it wasn't your period, so it was more then likely your cherry. If he was going harder then usual, he might have cut you with his finger nail and that could have made you bleed. Either way, it's either a little cut or he popped your cherry. If it is a cut, nothing to worry about, it'll heal.
♥ Krissy

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okay, well im a level one moderator here and i want to see how far off i am of being a level two moderator. I cant seem to find where it tells you this.. does anyone know? I know someone just asked a question about being a moderator but what about level 2. thanks.

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Sure hun, just go to this website, it'll give you some information on it and how you can become one. http://advicenators.com/faq.php?t=13
♥ Krissy

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ok hi my friend said that if u were a member of advicenators for over 30 days you could me a i think she said like monitor or sumthin she said its wen u check for quesions to see if they are stupoid or not...my question is how do you become one??

aLeX

Just go to this site for more information on how to become a Moderator. It'll tell you if you have with it takes. http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?t=13
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hey, i am going to the roller rink with my friends this week, (girls and guys) amd ne way, i was wondering, there is this guy, he lives down the street from me, and he is really nice and he is going to the roller rink with me. and at the end of each session, they have a couples skate, i like him, but i don't know if he likes me, so i was wondering if i should take the chance and ask him to skate or, just wait and see if he asks me. thanks a lot!!! i would love for u to answer if u have the time!!! Thanks again!!!

Girl, go for it. Ask him to skate with you! If you wait for him to ask, he might not even ask; he could be too shy. So, I say go for it and when the last song comes up, just ask him to skate with you! Don't pass up a chance like this, maybe something could spark up.
♥ Krissy

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Heyy. On my page, my profile doesn't show up! If anyone could help, I realy appericate it! I'll rate high to any advice! Thanks!!

Don't worry, this is happening to everyone. I'm sure the Admin know that this problem is happening and it'll be fixed shortly.
♥ Krissy

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ok a few days ago my boyfriend was messing around down there, and he asked what these weird, almost square-like things are inside the hole. i never noticed before, but do you know what i'm talking about? kinda like ridges, but yea. i was just wondering if that's normal; i don't really know why it wouldn't be, but just incase. thanx!

This is totally normal, sweetie. Your vagina is a muscle so it's going to have ridges. Don't worry about it at all, you're fine.
♥ Krissy

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Im from the uk. And we all have our own slang words or buzz words for things. What does making out mean in like american terms or to anyone really! All help greatley appreciated,
thanks
anthony

It just means that you're french kissing (using tongue) a girl or boy. And usually when you're making out with someone, there's mostly always some hand movement of feeling eachother and such.
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I can't get my profile to show up on my column
:-/ what should i do!!!!!!! I tried erasing it a few times and then retyping the whole thing!It happened when i changed the colors of my background... Thanks...
XSugarpieX77

This is happening to everyone. No one's bio is showing up as of right now. I'm sure the Admin know that this problem is happening and it'll be fixed shortly.
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I just did my column and it looked REALLY pretty! I went to about 6 different websites to get ALL my graphics. I logged out, came back about 5 hours later, and EVERYTHING I did is GONE! I'm really upset right now because I spent about 5 hours on that column and my HARD WORK is all gone! Why is this and is there ANY way possible I can get it back? Has this ever happened to any of yall?
PLEASE HELP!

You could have messed up one of the HTML codes and this probably messed up the rest of your information and it deleted (or didn't show up.) I know how you feel, it happened to me a lot. I used to spend so much time trying to make my profile look so nice, then it would end up as nothing and I would have to start all over. I suggest you save everything you do to word pad. That way if it doesn't work, you can just look over the things you did and see if there are any mistakes.
♥ Krissy

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on my advice column my info doesnt show up, you know where i write about myself? can someone help me please? it just goes straight to the advice
thanks

Sorry, but this is happening to everyone. There must be something wrong with the server but I'm sure the Admin will fix it as soon as they can. But don't worry about it, since this is happening to everyone and not just you.
♥ Krissy

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Is the song "this is how a heart breaks" by rob thomas a remake? it sounds so familiar.
thanks

It does sound very familiar, but I don't think it's a remake :)
♥ Krissy

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