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What are some good aim sns that aren't already taken?? i am really bad at thinking up screen names. Does anyone have any suggestions??

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I am having a sleepover next weekend and i was going to invite one of my best friends but she has been really mean to me.She has been telling me to shut up and to leave her alone.Should i invite her to my party or not be friends with her?

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There's this dancing game DDR and its like the funnest game ever but its $60 for the pad and the game. I really want it but i dont know if i should get it. Someone Please help!!!!

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well like 2 mounths ago this kid in my class said that this other kid liked me and my ass .And where friends in all (me and that kid ). Anyways im like to the kid who told me i said " your lying i know you are."But that week i stoped to think those kids might actialy like me .Because they always kick me and all (no hurting me just foolin arund ) and they through erasers at me . And in gym im always one of the first girls to be on there team .Also there was a dance and the next day a kid ( one of the kidsthat were throughin erasers at me ) said that he new a secret about me and he wont tell . How do i get to know if that kid likes me and how do i get him to lke me

thanx

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I really love my boyfriend, but hes scaring me. He keeps saying "it would be better if i was gone" & he keeps talking suicidal. Other times hes not though. I keep telling him to stop talking about it cuz its scaring me. He says "sorry I'll quit" but then he does it again. He says he wont kill himself cuz he cares too much about me & I was thinking, if we do ever break up, whats he gonna do then? Sometimes I think hes saying stuff for attention. I dont know what to do, I might not be able to do anything, but any advice would be appreciated.

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ok how do i put music on my site and a new background cuz mine sucks!!! thanks

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I've had this really cool outfit I have planned, and it includes a skirt I bought last spring. Now I'm just wondering if the skirt is still in style? It's a jean skirt with the ruffles, the creases in them, you know? Or are those crease/ruffles out of style and should I buy a new skirt to wear with my shirt and shoes? Thanks for the help!

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there is this guy i go to school with and he is popular. All the girls think he's so cute. (including me)He is a hottie very cute. Recently i was in the liabary and he walked up to me and asked me out on a date i was shocked out of mine. I could not understand why he asked me because i am not one of the SKINNY, PARIS HILTON, popular brand name, expensive close wearing girls. I shop at target. I was so flatterd i said yes quickly. we went out on our date and it was heaven. He kissed me passionatley and asked me to be his girl freind. Just when i thought this was the man of my dreams he turns to me and says.... "Oh yeah about tonight and our relationship don't tell anyone about us. I'm a private person and i would like to keep this to my self." I was so offened by this i could not speak.I just nodded my head and went along with it beacuse he was still so cute. When he sees me in puplic it's like i'm thin air he says nothing to me. As soon as his friends are not around it's all hugs and kisses. My question is could it be that this guy is embarrassed to be seen with me?

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Ok theres this girl in one of my classes named june (named change of course) but anyways shes always bragging about what she has saying that shes rich , and usually talks about how *awesome* her car is, and how its a brand new car but she doesnt like it. Anyways shes new this year and i dont know if she wants to be my friend or not? how do i know if shes just saying all this stuff to impress me, or just really doesnt like me? I mean she brags about how she knows so many people already yet, when i see her shes always around just the usual two people. So i dont know if she wants to make new friends or what? any help? Thanks so much

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ok one of my best friends has really strict parents. theyre making her go to military school cuz she got one D on her report card! shes leaving next year and i dont know if i can take it. shell be at school all week except for the weekends. i dont know what to do shes the only person that makes school a little more fun. im really sad. how can i get over this?

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I'm totally in love with boyfriend. We've been togher for over 9 months. hes made me cry when i'm happy. i've made him cry when hes happy. Hes says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. i feel the same way. he also says hes lucky to have me , he stays up at night cause he can't get me out of his head , that i'm the only girl he really cares for and stuff like that. It seems to good to be true. Do u think hes telling me the truth? He doesn't pressure me into doing anything sexual that i don't want 2 and when we do have sex he says he want it to be speical . I feel the same way. But hes been doing horrible things. Hes cut himself before. The reason he did is because his dad wouldn't let him call and other times because he couldn't get me out of his head. He also admited to takeing phills. He has promised to stop for me. what should I do? Its scares me i don't want to lose him. Why do u think hes doing this? How can I help him. Please give me some advice. And please don't think hes a freak because honestly no one would ever think of him to ever do anything like that hes a good guy. Please help and thank you

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theres this boy and he just broke up with my BEST friend but before he did he tryed to finger her and now after a few days he goes out with my 2nd BEST friend and she thinks he likes her but he doesnt he never likes anyone and he is just gunna try to take advantadge of her just like my other friend then dump her he is jsut in it for the sexual stuff not the relayshonship and he already hurt one of my friends and im not ready to see another one get hurt is there anyway to fix this problem

please help!

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Alright, these past two nights I've been crying myself to sleep because of my boyfriend.

I RARELY get to see him because we go to different schools, maybe once or twice every TWO/THREE months. :/ But we talk on the phone like every 2-3 days, and on the computer a lot.

So, a few days ago..Thursday, I was expecting him to get on the computer, but he never did..and I didn't call, because, I dunno. i just hate calling when he doesn't tell me to right at the moment..even though he told me I can call anytime. So, I don't know..I just started crying because I was so upset and stressed out from not seeing him anf stuff. Tonight, he hasn't gotten on, and I started crying again. I think a lot of you won't understand really, because you don't know how much I miss him, you have to know the situation better.

But..what do I do? Because, he hurts me a lot. I mean, this has happened multiple times. But like..a couple days after this goes on he finally comes online and says 'hi', and I CAN'T be mean to him..or tell him that he just made me cry. I don't know why, I just can't do it. It's like emotional abuse, and i just don't think I can take it anymore.

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So I'm totally in love with this person and that person loves me too... and I want to put together a CD of music sort of saying how i've fallen for them. Any ideas on songs for the playlist?

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Ok, My brother is a senior in High School, and I'm a freshman. He has a lot of hott friends. One of his best friends name is *Steve*(name changed) I didn't have a locker partner, and my brothers locker is right down my hallway. Well, Steves locker was on the other side of the school, and I told him he could move into my locker. I thought wow, this could be awesome. I didn't think I could feel like this. I am crazy for this guy but I don't know if he likes me. If I say something to him, It could mess up my brothers relationship with him. There is another thing, I think he likes me too. Whenever I say I'm not going somewhere he says Me neither. And if he's going he always tries to talk me into going. If someone could help me that would be awesome. -Confused

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well i like this girl and she said she likes me to but she said she also likes 3 other guys at the same time but she wants 2 go out with me. should i wait until she just likes me or ask her out now?

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Okay well I used to have this really good friend, and he was really nice to me until one day I decided to call him and this is what I said,
me:hey!
him:hey.
me:whats up?
him:nothing really you?
me:nothing...
him:okay..
Me:So are you still going out with lauren or whatever her name is?
Him:yea
Me:cool...
him:Why r you acting like such a bitch?
me:What? im not?
him:yeah you kind of are
me:um...no not really
him:ok whatever.
---hangs up---

Then after that day he totally ignored me! He doesn't really go to school cuz he's home schooled so I never see him, but we used to be bestfriends...well to me he was. I was able tell him anything, and now he's being so rude to me. Oh, that's not all that happened. About 2 weeks ago I finally IMed him and was like..
Me:why do u hate me so much?
Him:cause...i do
Me:um ok? well, I didn't do anything to you.
Him:okay...

Then after he ignored me again!
I finally IMed one of my friends and told her wut was going on, and she IMed him and asked him why hes ignoreing me and all that stuff, and after he apologized. Now he's being mean to me again! Just now I IMed him and said hey! And he's like why are you talking to me? and i'm like why not? and he never responded. What the hell's going on, why does he hate me? I did nothing to him so what's he getting all mad about!?! Help I rate high.

{Oh, and yes I tried talking to him so don't say, "try talking to him" cause it doesn't work...just so yall know.}

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Ok, this summer my best friend and I had a fight and it ended out friendship. (it was a bitter ending, we havent spoken to eachother since) Anyways, everyday at school, she doesnt talk to me and her friend told me that she hated me. The thing is, I dont hate her back, and I wish she wouldnt hate me. I want her to know that I still care about her even though we aren't friends, and I want to see how she is doing. So I found her livejournal link and do you think i should leave a comment? What should I say?

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ok my ex-best friend keeps non-stop talking behind my back and saying how bitchy i am ( even though i'm not) and she keeps telling this guy i like bad things about me, some are true and some aren't and she is getting on my nerves and i just don't know what to do because she was my best friend until christmas break ( which was when i found out when she told all this crap about me) i can't ignore her because she's in my group of friends... what should i do??? by the way we're both 14 and female...

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we dated earlier this year, very breif.
i love him so much and value his friendship so much, problem is, i still have feelinsg for him as more than a friend. i havent acted on them and wont right now but i really want to get together with him again.
hes currently dating a girl who i dont like and he knows im not a fan of the situation but i'm still supporting him.
hes helped me deal with other boys and stuff like that so we're able to talk openly about other relationships, however, he admitted to a mutual frined that he still liked me a little bit, he doesnt know that i know that.

what do i do, is there a chance we could get together in the future again....do you think he really does still have feelings for me a bit??

what do i do right now?
any suggestions to change his mind (hes not head over heals for this girl, we're 15 so its just basically a "ooh shes the flavor of the week for me" and all his guy friends dont really like the girl either.

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