i really really like him...we're best friends..hes dating an
Question Posted Saturday February 19 2005, 5:25 pm
we dated earlier this year, very breif.
i love him so much and value his friendship so much, problem is, i still have feelinsg for him as more than a friend. i havent acted on them and wont right now but i really want to get together with him again.
hes currently dating a girl who i dont like and he knows im not a fan of the situation but i'm still supporting him.
hes helped me deal with other boys and stuff like that so we're able to talk openly about other relationships, however, he admitted to a mutual frined that he still liked me a little bit, he doesnt know that i know that.
what do i do, is there a chance we could get together in the future again....do you think he really does still have feelings for me a bit??
what do i do right now?
any suggestions to change his mind (hes not head over heals for this girl, we're 15 so its just basically a "ooh shes the flavor of the week for me" and all his guy friends dont really like the girl either.
Additional info, added Sunday February 20 2005, 8:46 pm: * we broke up because he told someone he just lost intrest...and we'd gotton together for like 3 weeks..a typical overnight type thing...and he wanted a no strings attached (friends with benefits) type thing.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Claire15 answered Sunday February 20 2005, 5:26 pm: Hell yeah you've got a chance in the future!! You and this guy sound as if you are really close and I'm sure that he will split up with this girl eventually. However I wouldn't go trying to split them up because he may find out and that would completely ruin your friendship, so it's not worth the risk.
However you haven't said why your relationship was brief. If you broke up with him, your fine. If he broke up with you, then your going to have to have a chat to find out, if you don't already know, why he dumped you last time and what you can do to fix those problems so that it doesn't break you two up again.
If he has talked about still liking you then I'm sure he still has feelings for you. But right now you've just got to be patient, be supportive and wait for him to break up with that girl. I know it's really annoyin having to wait around for him, so why don't you start flirting with him again? Let him know you still like him and if he doesn't tell you to back off since he does have a girlfriend, he definetly still fancies you.
Good luck, hope you get your guy. I'm sure you will :-)
XoUkrainianBabeXo answered Saturday February 19 2005, 5:55 pm: i love when people answer there own questions. you just said your self that he told someone he liked you a bit. let him be happy with this girl it's most likely not going to last "flavor of the week". yea so then when thats over, flirt and stuff with him and see if he responds. if so then yea he likes you if not then i guess he doesn't. [ XoUkrainianBabeXo's advice column | Ask XoUkrainianBabeXo A Question ]
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