A close male friend of mine broke his foot and now he can't work, he has to wait for it to heal and stays at his house all day. I've been really supportive and have offered to drive him to the hospital but he delcined. Well he has been a total jerk to me since he broke it. At first I could understand him being in a bad mood but then it started to upset me. For ex, I phoned him and was going to ask him if he wanted a visit. I started the converstation by telling him that I was bored, and he YELLED at me and said "how could you be bored"! And never invited me over.
Another time I phoned him and politly asked why he hadnt answered any of my emails, and then he replied "I don't sit around all day on my computer"!!
He normally isnt like this, I know it must be a drag to have a broken foot and be out of work, but he doesnt have to take it out on me I'm just trying to be nice.
What should I do?
Talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he's still being a jerk, tell him that you just won't talk to him until he changes his attitude. He has no right to treat you like that. He broke his foot! It's not like he will never be able to walk again.
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can you become gay from being sexually abused as a child?
im not gay, im just asking because my sister's gay and she was sexually abused as a child.
You don't turn gay. You are gay when you are born. Some people say that you turn gay after you are sexually abused as a child. But what I have heard is that if you are sexually abused as a child, you are more likely to be abusive - whether it's verbally, physically, or sexually toward your children.
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lately i want to go bi because i dont like having sex with men anymore ive never been intimate with a girl before i mean their were lots of times but never all the way im physically attracted to woman but emotionally attracted to men but want absoulutely no sex from guys whats wrong with me im only 21
There's nothing wrong with you. You like girls and guys. It doesn't matter what age you are.
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Well, this guy who I had thought I knew..
I loved him, things were going good, until he got a myspace. OKAY heres the thing, first of all - girls commented his pictures saying stuff like "omg your so hot" and etc, and he cmmented them back and their pictures, NEVER me. but thats besides the point, then one time he never logged on to his myspace for long time... and blah oneday i clicked a link in his aim profile which lead to his friends band sight, and then i saw a comment from HIM, but it wasnt the myspace i knew. I went to it..it was a whole different one, and it showed him online.. and shit like that, and also he had way more friends, all would fall under the label 'emo,scene' etc. & his music genre was music he told me he never heard of.
So either he's A> big poser. B> Big liar. C> BOTH. i choose C. but ugh it hurt so much to find all this out about someone i thought i knew. i'm going to avoid him everyday i sent him a message saying he hurt me, and that i hope he has a good life. because it hurt way to much, and i hate him.
any advice.. or anything about the situation? how i should get over him, i know people have said stuff ot get over a ex, scream,hang out with other people, date other guys, but i loved him so much iwouldnt want to hurt him, even though he hurt me and thats a flaw within me, beacuse i should want to hurt him..
If I were you, I would talk to him. He shouldn't be doing that to you. You are right, that is a flaw - a really bad flaw. You have to learn to stand up for yourself. Tell him how you really feel. He hurt you, you shouldn't feel bad about hurting him.
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alright well last night my boyfriend and i went to the movies and we went to 3rd and i got home and i was really sore down there and it was and still is all swollen and still sore... is this normal? what can i do to ease the pain? also, could my cherry have been popped? thanks ill rate 5s
If it is your first time, that could be why. Your cherry probably popped. Depending on how tight you are and how big his fingers are and how many he used could make it sore. If it is still sore in a few days, go to a doctor.
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I think I want to get long side bangs. Any suggestions? Pictures of celeberities are a plus.
The ones like Mischa Barton, Nicole Richie, or Kristen Cavalliri (from Laguna Beach).
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I have been dating a girl for almost a year now. I am 29, she is 27. I recently found out that she cheated on her previous boyfriends. Do you think there is a better chance that I'll be cheated on than if I was dating a girl who had never cheated?
Once a cheater always a cheater, especially if she is known to cheat on more than one boyfriend. There is definitely a better chance that you will be cheated on by her than a girl who has never cheated.
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Hey guys. well i just got my cartillage pierced on my right ear and its only a little stud. Well, i play basketball and we can wear earings during practice as long as there not dangly, but we have a game on wednesday and i just got my piercing done this previous wednesday. do you think it would be ok if i took it out for an hour while i play in the game or will it close up?
Don't take it out. No one will notice it if it's only a stud. It will probably close up.
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i like this guy and i wanted to know if we were dating can we still flirt
Yeah, how else would you guys know that you still like each other?
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Hey. Well, I am 13/f in the 8th grade, and I'm doing a science project about light and heat energy. I was wondering if this is a good science fair question-"Does a 23 watt Compact Flourescent light bulb give off more heat and light energy than a 25 watt Incandescent light bulb?". Please let me know if this is a babyish experiment, or if it's advanced and good or whatever. Thanks!
I think it's a very good experiment. It's better than what my school does. Lol, we do fake volcanoes and lighting a lightbulb with a potato.
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how can you check if there are firewalls blocking a certain program? because itunes is not opening on my computer and how would i unblock the firewall? i rate high
Control panel then to Securtiy Center. Like you said, you can't find it, go to Add/Remove Programs. Then go to your virus protector or whatever and click change and it will open it for you and then unblock iTunes.
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I have had my period for about a year now. My breasts are developing, but much slower than other girls. Why? Will my breast development speed up? If so, when?
Your breasts will keep growing until you are atleast 18. Everyone develops at different rates. Don't worry about it.
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My dad is leaving for another woman and I have a choice of going with my dad or staying with my mom. I feel more comfortable talking about boys and girly stuff with my mom then my dad. But my dad is the more fun one who lets me drive the car cause hes a taxi driver!
-Please help
xoxoxo. HOPELESS DREAMS
Live with your mom for half of the week, then live with your dad for the other half. But, if he is moving away from where you go to school, live with your mom. Then, see your dad on the weekends or something.
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15/f
I just had sex for my first time 2 nights ago. I'd like to get checked by the doctor for any diseases. Is it possible for me to ask a doctor and get a test done without my parents knowing anything? Including the results. Even if the results came out positive, I want it to be kept secret. Do you know if doctors tell parents this kind of information?
They can't tell your parents without your permission. It's against the law.
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what is a wench?
A woman servant.
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I cant tell if im just falling hard or im in love...I really like this guy..hes all i think about..I go crazy on the days i dont see him and i do nothing all day cause im thinking about him. He makes me nervous when im around him and the little things that he says can either make my whole day make me really upset. You know if its a cute comment it makes my whole day and vs aerus. (sp) . I cant picture myself with anyone else but him and i dont like anyone but him , i have turned down guys cause i like him and it seems no one compares to him. Anything bad that about is just goes over my head and i dont notice it. So heres the part im confused about..am i in love or is it just a crush..plz HELP im realy confused!
ILL rate 5
It sounds like you are in love. But, who am I to tell you that you are in love. You should know if you are or not.
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Ok, i recently posted a "get advice" thing because my sister hates me, and wanted to know what to do about it. So i started to talk to my friend, Mel who is REALLY good with advice, and i went on and on on how horrible my life was and she said:
her: NO
her: don't even start on that "my whole life" shit
her: okay!
her: You life has sucked i guess
her: I mean, duh, you've had a family, and money, and you get anything you want. You have both parents who love you
her: My dad died on christmas eve, my family has NO money, my mom is depressed
her: my older brother won't move out
her: don't even start saying that your whole life has sucked
her: because you have NO CLUE what a sucky life is like!
and then she signed off. Now her away messages says "Yeah, pretty pissed right now. Don't feel like talking. Be back on later." and i totally can relate, but i just REALLY hope i dont lose her friendship. Like, she's really the only person who understands me, and has been there for me. I really dont want to lose her. And i thought since we were such good friends i could just sorta cry on her shoulder, when it turns out she was the one who wanted to cry i guess. What do i do? i called her house, but her brother said she was sleeping, although i really dont think she was. What i want to know is, 1. how do i know she'll still be my friend, and 2. what do i do when i need to get this off my chest? cause i obviously need someone to talk to :(
Thanx,
-Daddy's Little Defect
She is going through a hard time right now, but that's not a very good excuse for her to blow up on you. You only asked her for advice. But, then again, maybe you weren't being the friend you should have been. After all, she does need you right now. Apologize to her and tell her that you didn't know how upset she was.
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Okay, I'm moving to Maryland, and I've recently become obsessed with this guy I'm gonna meet there. I know I'm going to fall in love with him, and I half have already. I don't know who he is, what he looks like, or anything. I just know he's there.
Am I insane? Ridiculously desperate for companionship? (I'm really not.) Or can there be truth to the words "I loved you before I ever met you."?
Maybe your opinion on him will change when you meet him and he is a 50 year old, bald, rapist. Lol, I guess you could love him before you met him. I mean, you have no idea who you are talking to, but you know alot about him and like his internet personality.
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so im 14/f and im so called "different" from everyone else. i dont look the same as them because i have my own style and im myself. being a freshman sucks too. anyway i dont have a boyfriend. i mean boys talk to me all the time i guess they just dont like me? This one even walks me to class and sits by me all the time. So does that mean he likes me? How can i tell if they like me?
You don't need a boyfriend to make you happy. If he walks with you and talks to you he could like you, or he could just be a good friend. You should talk to him in private.
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where is a store that has cute clothes and don't cost that much...i rate high
Don't listen to ditziii. Hollister and Abercrombie have the most overpriced clothes I have ever seen.
Rue 21
Delia's
Debs
Aeropostale
Target
Wetseal
Rave
^all have cute clothes!
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