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♥ I had this column awhile ago, but I recently stopped using it.. I like deleted everything. But I decided to start giving advice again! I'm Becky, 16 years old, leave a question in my inbox, I elaborate more on those questions!
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I shave like once a week...sometimes twice a week and sometimes once in 2 weeks. Anyway my legs don't really itch but right now they itch ALOOT! Since I shaved I used st ives whipped silk and jergens extra healing. Wen I don't itch it it urges me to and then wen I do I get EXTRAA red bumps and more urges to itch. I know it's dry skin but is there something I can buy to cool it down?...like lanacane or something?
Go to your doctor and tell him/her about this problem. They'll give you a perscription. Get it. I have the same problem especially in the summer when I sweat. It really works well =].
I have posted a few questions before and its a comfort to know how much support is out there. Two weeks ago my girlfriend of 4mnths left me. She came over to my house on a Saturday evening. While I took a shower she went on my computer and found I had seen a porn site or two. I came out of the shower and she said nothing. We went out for dinner and went back to my house. She showed me the site and broke down. She left me. She has cancelled her cell phone. She wont respond to my emails. Her parents wont even speak to me. My question for you is why is she doing this. I mean after two weeks youd think she'd talk again. But she wants nothing to do with me. I love her and would do anything to win her back. Im 25. The night she left me I broke down. I cried alot. I lost everything. What can I do to win her back. Something that will melt her heart. Why girls do this? How to get her parents to talk? Im so lost hurt and torn. This is the second time in my life I got shut out in a relationship. I've come at wits end.
It sounds like this girl has something seriously agains porn. Maybe her parents do too. She was so shocked that she found this that she doesn't even want to respond. She's so upset at you that she doesn't want to even speak to you again, because she's probably afraid that you want her to become involved in porn or something. If you can ever get ahold of her sit down with her and tell her the truth. Tell her why you visited those sites. Tell her how much you love her. How much you always have loved her and how much you always will love her. Tell her anything that comes into your mind when you see her. Tell her that you made a big mistake and that you well never ever do it again just for her. Once you earn her trust back, you'll earn her parents' back too. Good luckk.
hi.
im the type of person who cares alot about other people and i really never did anything bad to anybody - ever. EXCEPT my X-bf (i kinda.. actually alot... i hurt him). anyway, alot of things are happening to me because of my bf and i dont know how to get rid of the problems bcz they're too big... i just wanna know how to strengthen up a bit and be treated with respect from everybody and at the same time have my old reputation back ?? im depressed bcz of my love life, family life, school, LIFE!!!!!!
and im scared of suicide...
SOS>>>> a.s.a.p thanx
Suicide is a very serious case. It's something that a trained adult has to lead someone out of. Think again. Does your life really suck that much for you to end it? What will your friends think? Are your problems really that bad that you want all your pain to go away by never living again? Think about it, then go talk to your school's guidance counsler.
I think i might have OCD
-Ive got a habit of washing my hands after everything or whenever touching something. Even when im by a sink i wash them.
-If a word comes into my head, i have to say it otherwise i panic, no word in particular just anything.
-I brush my hair every 5 minutes.
-I look in the mirror all the time
-If somethings out of place i have to move it back.
-I have to double check everything like make sure the doors are shut.
-When i touch something i have to touch it with my other hand aswell so its equal.
and so much more
what do you think?
Haha my really good friend Haley had the same problem. But you don't have OCD unless you have a reason for doing all of these things. Do you perfrom them because you're scared something is going to happen if you don't? If you do then you have OCD. If you don't then you don't have OCD. Trust me, I've had experience =D.
tomorrow i am leaving for puerto vallarta mexico!
ill be there for 10 days, i need some tips for sun.
how tan will i get? i tan fairly easy and i dont burn that easily, what sort of sun screen should i wear? how strong is the sun there? any tips or advice would be great
You should use Banana Boat tanning oil. Use the SPF that you usually use for sunscreen. It work's incredibly well and I spent 45 minutes in the sun with it and got incredibly tan. It's crazy cool!
okay so i know this isnt a big deal! but okay so like my old best friend and me where extremly close! and now i have new best friend is seriously like my bestestest friend ever! but i feel bad for my old best firend! i mean where still friends but sometimes i wish we where still the best of friends like we used to be! and i dont know what i should do! should i talk to her about it? or just see if things get better?
Times change and it's best to stick with the most loyal friend whether she's new or old =D.
ok, my period now has lasted 10 days, its medium but i wanna know what i should do? should i be worried?
You shouldn't be worried. My period always lasts for different amounts of time. My doctor said it's fine. It's perfectly normal especially if it's the first time you've had it. xoo.
Hi all! Okay, so I am usually great at this, but for some reason for this show I cannot pick/find a song to sing. I agreed to be in a talent show that is a fundraiser. I love to sing, and I can sing anything. I'm hoping to do something where I can belt, but I don't mind not. If you have any suggestions I'd LOVE them. I love ballads, don't really want a dance number. Any time period is fine. Thank You!!!!
Landslide- The Dixie Chicks
It's a song that everyone will enjoy! A lot of people sing it for talent shows and it's very good.
hello. ok so i have been dating this kid for a little bit and we dont go to the same school but we see each other and talk enough to have a good relationship. but my mom & dad dont like me hanging out with him without them there ; they are scared im gonna like have sex with him (im only 13) or something and its really annoying. if i go somewhere like a school thing or play basketball with him they are like "what happened? we dont like you all over eachother.." i dont know what i can do to let me do things like go to his house just to hang out or go to the movies or something. i just want their trust.. i mean ive never done anything that would make them not trsut me. i feel like im doing something wrong! am i ?please any advice on what i can do, will really help me. thanks in advance!
Your parents are just being parents. They're afraid that your boyfriend will take advantage of you and hurt you. But once they get to know him and his parents, they won't be as over-protective. You should arrange them to meet. Trust me, it works =D.
i have to do a research paper and i am having trouble finding the rock types in australia, can someone give me some SITES ..because i have tried google and they dont have much
thanks in advance
www.cia.gov
try it.
I tend to mess with my eyelashes. When i'm not thing I touch them, or start seperating them with my pencil. It's not serious, but I wanna know..how long does it usualy take to break a habit...and what should I do about it?
I have an issue with constantly biting and picking at my nails. I tried everything from "Biteoff" to bandaids. But then my friend told me to make them pretty and I'll probably break the habit. She took me to get my first ever manicure and it worked! Now my nails are perfectly non-picked. This isn't really answering you question, but the best way to break it is to put on mascara. If you've never worn it before I suggest you start with Great Lash by Maybelline. If comes in a pink bottle with a Green cap. It's about 3$-4$ at drugstores. Best of luck!
well i wrote the other day saying i like my bestfriend some of you replyed i should tell him well my friend told him. He also liked me to.. and later that night we was talking on here and he told me he hope we go out and then i didn't say anything cause i was totally unexepting that and now he won't talk to me what should i do?
help i will rate high
I think that you should tell him the truth. Tell him exactly what you just said. Say that you really like him just you were so surprised when he said that that you didn't know how to respond, and you most definately didn't respond because it was no. He can't read your mind and he had no clue what happend when you didn't respond. He could have thought you died for all I know. Lol. Hope all goes well xo.
Ok, my problem is that my boyfriend's really jealous of my friend, troy. He thinks that Troy's gonna steel me away from him or something and i don;t really get why cuz i treat troy the same what i treat my other friends and i think it mught have something to do with the fact that my bf's really insecure and everything, but i was just wondering if there was any way that I can assure my bf that I won;t leave him for my friend...... without never speaking to troy again.... and please don;t say there's nothing i can do, cuz there has to be something!
You need to sit down and talk to your boyfriend. I actually know how he feels. Once I went out with this guy who's best friend was a girl and I would always envy her. But the he reassured me that he loved me and that there is no other girl, not even his best friend, that could ever take my place. I beleived him and I never got jealous again. Your boyfriend has to realize that you love him more than anything. You love him more than Troy, and Troy is only a good friend of your's, like any of your friends that are girls. Hope he understands! xo.
Okay, I have just been treated for depression. I have dealt with it for 4 years now, but now Im so happy. I have found God in my life, and everything is fine mentally. But for some reason I am tired all the time, like I can get alot of sleep and still be soooo tired, like it's fatigue, my eyes are so heavy all the time, also right after I eat I usually feel sick or even more hungry, like I cannot get enough, and I feel just blah and Im loosing weight even though I eat alot. Also for more info, my diet is something like this: morning: coffee and cereal lunch: salad/soda/water or pasta, supper is usually anything like pasta or a burger or something, I drink water too and take a vitamin everyday, and I usually walk like 15-20 mins a day.. Sometimes I am weak too, like I cannot even lift something like 10 lbs sometimes, I have no idea what is wrong with me? I know I should see a doctor, but I want opinions first!! Thanks so much for your advice.
It sounds like you're still weak from all the stress held on your back for four whole years. You're slowly healing and will hopefully get fully better soon. If you still have questions try googling it. I think the first link might help you:
my name is Rachel and iam 16 years old and my Granny is always telling me that iam to fat for my own good and is always telling me that I need to lose weight and iam getting sick of it and she also talks really bad about my mom and it's begining to really hurt my feelings and I've tried talking to her,but she just won't listen.Granny also has really low blood just becouse she's cold in 90 degree weather she thinks that I should be cold to she makes me cover up with 2 blankets and turn on the heater on 80 degrees so iam boiling i've tried telling her it's to hot for the heater,but i'll cover up with 1 blanket,but she won't listen what should I do?
Well it sounds like your Granny is stuck in the old days. My grandparents are a lot like that too. But no one, not even her, has the right to force you to sweat to loose weight. It's unhealthy and not right. Tell her and your mom that it's really hurting you and you're proud of yourself the way you are. Try to cry, and maybe she'll realize that what she's doing is hurting you, not helping you. But always assure her that you still love her, but you don't love what she's making you do.
ok well there is there really hot kid in my school and i really like him. hes really nice and we are good friends. the only problem is, is that he doesnt like me... he likes another girl.we like talk on the phone and stuff but he still doesnt get it.i really want him to notice me but in the halls all he does is act stupid around me
please help!!
If you only like this guy for being "hot" and he doesn't even like you, he's definately not worth it. Hunny it's time to move on. It will do you goood =D.
I don't know what to do. my boyfriend is deeply in love with me, obsesses over me, gets jealous really easy, annoys me, talks about beating up guys that I talk to, and cries when we get in the littlest fights. I'm going through so much right now and i just want to break it off with him because my families going through problems and I don't need his problems and commitment on top of it. I just don't know what to do. HELP MEE!
Family first, friends next, then the guy. If he's not helping you and supporting you and giving you his shoulder to cry on while you're going thourugh all of these family issues he's not worth it. Getting obssesed and jealous is not real boyfriend material. I strongly advise you to dump him; but tell him that you'll still be his very good friend. It will take a lot of weight of your shoulders. =D
my mom used to get drunk. a lot. she only admitted to two of the numerous occassions, and then she started to blame sleeping pills for her "acting weird". she said she'd stop buying wine. she did for maybe 2 months, then started again. the thing is I'M the only one who knows shes drunk! my sister always comes up with excuses (shes defensive) and my mom just denies it. today she bought more wine (she was tipsy before she bought it though) and i asked her to not buy it because she said she wouldnt. she did anyway and so i ignored her, and then she got angry and asked whats wrong and i told her and she started saying crap like "stop acting like your better than me. I am the parent, YOU are the child. you are not better than anyone else. i am the parent. you do not check on me. you are the child." how do i get her to STOP?!
It sounds like you're in a major situation and I'm afraid that you need another adult to help you. Does your school have a guidence counsler? If it does, I highly suggest that you go talk to him/her about this problem. If you're scared to, don't be. I've been to guidance many many times and everything is 100% confidential.
Does anyone know how many lbs of fat equal to one percent of body faT?
On my aim profile it only lets me use the font i type with. and the ugly colors. i see all these people with cute fades and stuff. but when i try to put a fade in my profile it just says the stuff in black and in the font i use. it really looks ugly. i was wondering how i can change the font and colors. and how i can get fades in my profile. i tried applesauce or what ever its called but i dont get how to use it. if anyone can explain to me more how to use it or give me something else that i can download and is easy to use i would greatly appreciate it. thank you in advance
love. k
Okay, I use Applesauce, and I'll explain it step by step to you.
1)
2)Click on the second link down (iconcave.com)
3)At the top of the page it will automatially say something like: "Downloading... If does not download in 5 seconds click here."
4)Wait for it to download and if it doesn't, click where it says "here." and that will work.
5)Once you go to applesauce (the icon is a folder with a hammer) pick the font color that you want. And pick the backround color too if you want one. Click "Update AIM" and walah! That should definately work. If it doesn't, feel free to AIM me at queenjamadala and I'll make you something cute for your profile using Applesauce.