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my old best friend
okay so i know this isnt a big deal! but okay so like my old best friend and me where extremly close! and now i have new best friend is seriously like my bestestest friend ever! but i feel bad for my old best firend! i mean where still friends but sometimes i wish we where still the best of friends like we used to be! and i dont know what i should do! should i talk to her about it? or just see if things get better?
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hey!!...i think you should talk to her about it and tell her that you want to be best friends with her again...that happened with me and my best friend before but we didn't do anything about it and now we don't even talk anymore and she hates me...and no matter how much i try to talk to her she just wont listen to me...it was the biggest mistake ever and i miss her loads!!...so i think that you should like just say it to her because believe me you'll miss her loads and loads when she's gone as a friend and when she wont even talk to you anymore...think about it!!...xXx...!!
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I was best friends with my friend for 11 years, literally from the day I moved into the house across the road from her. Since going away to university, we've really drifted apart, we don't talk at all as much as we used to. I've made amazing friends here, but when she and I do talk, we're still as close as we used to be.
Don't worry too much, just keep being friends and remember that life goes on, it always changes!
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Times change and it's best to stick with the most loyal friend whether she's new or old =D.
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i would talk to her, and right now im on the other side of your problem and i wish the girl would just talk to me about it cus we barely ever hang out anymore and we've completely drifted off. and next year were going to different highscools and that will completely end it. so i wish it would just end with fun great memories instead of splitting up. just another view from the other side. hope you stay close atleast.
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I would most deffinately talk to her about it. Maybe she feels the same way, and im sure she has taken notice of your new friend; which probably makes her feel low as if you two arent as close like before. See what she thinks, and try to arrange more time to hangout together. Maybe you could set a day or two a week to hangout outside of school ::that is if you both are in the same school::. But what i think would be nice is if you invited her to hangout with both you and your new best friend. But it is okay to have more than one best friend, though. If you including her in activities; you, her, and your "bestestest" friend could all become really good friends together. If you feel bad for your friend now, you have to step up and take action. Try doing things you used to do together, go places, talk, or just hangout and watch a movie.
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