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Q: ok this prolly sounds weird but wen me and my b/f are 2gether we get each other in themodd and then we start having sex then i always stop him in like 5 min and feel gulty and start cryin, i prolly sound very stupid but y am i doing this?
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Because i think you realized what you were doing and you thought yea know i'm really not ready to do this and stopped and you started crying cause yoou prolly started feeling gulity plus girls are naturally emotionl i just think you head is messing with ya tho.
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Q: ok well I am 15/f and a sophmore and this guy..let's call him Daniel..is 16/m and a junior. I'll try not to make this too long...
Me and Daniel were together for 7 months, and then this rumor was going around about him and this other girl..let's call her Caitlin..saying they were going out. So, I thought it was true cause he wouldn't answer me so I went to ask her and she said yeah. So I was being a real bitch and then me and Daniel were through. Then Daniel started going out with Caitlin to make me mad, and he made some sort of promise to her. And he finally told me that he has love for her but he still loves me and wants to be with me..wtf?!? Yeah, well, he says he loves her but it's like a love you would have for someone in your family. Yea well this promise..he said I would find out about it either today or Monday...so I got to thinkin and the only thing I could think of is that she is pregnant!!! BUT IT IS NOT HIS!! So, I asked this girl. and I was right! But in the morning before school me and Daniel always do..things..and this morning Caitlin walked by and I was like "there goes your girlfriend" and I was saying it sarcasticly...and then she stopped a little way down the hallway and he went to her and was trying to kiss her right in front of me!!! After that I was yelling at him, and he said that she is his girlfriend, and that I shouldn't be mad at him for that! And I am like wtf I have a right to be mad..shit. Do you think I am overreacting?
P.S. This Caitlin girl is so nasty and such a whore...and she is really easy to get into bed and everything. And she is a junior but I don't kno anything else about her. So HELP ME PLEASE!?!?! I WILL RATE!!!
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I'm not totally sure what your asking but i don't think your overreacting your a girl girls have drama in their life but if i were you i'd just forget this "Daniel" guy cause he sound like a jerk and no girl deserves to be treated like that. Good Luck to ya!
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Q: k i like this guy lets call him D and he is black i am white and my parents are totaly against that! i havent told them yt but i really like D so i am confussed about what to do!!! i think he likes me too but its kinda iffy!!! i wanna date him but i dont want to be disowned by my family. and i know they will disowen me because the had told me before if i had ever dated one then they would ! so what should i do!!!
Thanks!
P.S. for really stupid answers i will give ones!!
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Well that's hard there are a few things you can do..
1) depending on how old you are you could just leave it cause if your 14 or around 14 then it's possible it's just a little crush that'd you'll get over but if you older like 19ish then it might be a little crush or not you never know but who do you love more?
2) Sit you parents down and talk to them maybe they'd changed their minds or say "mom, how would you feel if dad was black and your parents said you couldn't go out with him because of his color. Dad most likly is your 1st and only ture love and your parents would have said no to you daing him cause of his color?"
3) Just tell them how you feel seriously
4) Keep your dating him a secret
Sorry but that's all the advice i can think of now and i hope your situation turns out for the best! Good Luck!
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Q: hey i ham dating this guy i met off the internet. we have been dating for a month and i am starting to get feelings for him. he already told me that he is opening up to me and the more time we spend together, the more he is likeing me even more. well he also said he could see him loveing me soon. we get along so well, i mean it feels like i have met my match but i am not for sure. i wrote him a letter telling him how i felt and i dont know if i should give it to him. so my question is should i give him the note? i feel what my heart feels and i listen to my heart. i havent felt this way since my ex about a year and half ago. i think i am in love again. but should i give him the note? please help decide what to do
Thanks, punkbaby69
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Well I don't know because for all you know that person you're talking to is a sex offender or something bad like that and he just saying those things to get you to feel comfortable which you have felt. But hopefully he's not fake he's real but no a days you never know so be careful but if i was you I'd prolly give it to him cause you never know he might just walk of the face of the earth and you never told him. So let him know how you feel cause maybe he feels the same.! Hope I Helped and Be Careful
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Q: I was wondering if anyone can help me make a plan of when to change "supplies" during my school schedule. I'm only in middle school, so no one uses purses yet. There's also this one girl who ALWAYS searches my pencil case to find gum and whatnot so I can't use my pencil case! I go to my locker before lunch time, and in past situations I have picked up a purse in which I put a pad in. But, I hate using purses because its SO obvious that when you carry a purse to the bathroom, you have your period!! I don't know any other ways! I don't want to buy anything at school because the dispncers have the worst brands. My tampon can not last ALL day and I'm a little scared to use jumbo because im sure they're hard to insert and other stuff. If anyone wants to contradict this idea please do so! I need some ideas!
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I'd carry a purse it's no big deal personally i think you might be over raacting a bit...but i do to sometimes lol anyways carry a purse 24/7 so it's not just for a week then not for another month cause there's nothing weird about a girl carying a purse. But for the people suggesting the pockets thing i don't recommend it cause tampon and kinda an obvious shape and it might fall out and what happen if you only have on tampon and you loose it or drop or something than you be out luck and that's the time when you really don't wana be out of luck. So just get a small lil purse with a pocket and put the tampons/pad in a pocket in the purse. Also try carrying a backpack. Well you could also find a pocket in your binder to hide it in um.. yea sorry but that's really all i can think of. HOPE I HELPED!
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Q: ok hey, question for the girls. How would you feel if your boyfriend did something like this for you on Xmas. (by the way i am the male not the female lol) I get 2 roses, and put each in their own wrapped box. Ill say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will love you more," then give her the box and let her unwrap the first rose. then say "when this rose dries up and dies, you will love me more," then give her the box and let her open it. Then i will take a third box and say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will STOP loving you." and she will open the box, and it will be a glass rose. (for all the blondes out there, glass doesnt dry up and die ;-)) Ever. lol. what do ya think?
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i think it's cute and tha'd be really cool but once again it all depends on what type of girl she is if she's but she won't say to yopu omg thats soo stupid why would you do that!? but it think you should do it good luck!
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Q: I know this is a dumb question but how do you stunt your growth? I don't want to get taller so how can I stop it, My mom is 5'5 and my dad is 5'7, so how can i stop it.
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Well you could break you leg in a certain place which will stop you from growing lol or ask a doctor but other than that i dunno what else ya could do
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Q: It is 2 weeks until this big event, I need my tummy harden and my chest a little flatter, can anything or anyone help me?
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um i dunno really know becuase i'm asking the same question but stupid people won't answer but i think maybe try crunchers running eating healty....try a google searh for like flat stomach workouts or something along those lines. hope i helped
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Q: I just started a new job in the clothing department of a superstore. I want my coworkers to like me, what could I do to accomplish this?
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Q: how do i get rid of stress? i feel bad after breaking up with some1...like realllllly bad..please give me some suggestions♥
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get one of those ball things to squeeze when no ones home just scream into a pillow or something or just try to unload some of the thing you have going or spread your time out easliy. And for the break up thing just tell them you don't like them like that anyone you were happier as frined and wanna stay there and just hang out wiht them.
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Q: I'm 5'7" and I used to weigh 120 and then around 3 months ago i started losing weight but the past 2 weeks I've been losing alot more weight than usual. I mean I eat just as much as I used to and i still get the same amount of excersise but I weigh 99 pounds now and i need help. How do I gain any weight?
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Honestly i think you shouldn't try to just ask long as you eat healthy and excerise correctly and don't over to do i think you'll be fine!
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Q: hey i am 13 and i waz just wunderin how do u exactly dry a bra i rate well real well so...plz help me
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well for mine i just let em air dry...not in the washer... usually the tags tell you how to wash them. HOPE I HELPED!
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Q: Hello out there,
I'm here to admit something rather then ask a question... some advice would be useful.
I am in grade 8, I'm 13 years old.
I'm having some troulbe with school.
I have already failed two tests and gotten two 2+s (out of four- a c+)
I used to get all As. Mostly As, anyway.
It's not because I'm on the computer too much- I'm doing my work, same as ever, as hard as ever. Yet, somehow, my grades are still falling, and fast. I study for tests and still fail. I ask for help and still can't make it.
I don't know what's going on.
Help?
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Try asing more questiong when you do h.w do it in a quiet inverinoment when there's a test or quiz study a lil each day the brain remebers better that way do extra credit pts. ask your teachers for help if you don't get something thier there to help and they easiest way to bring up your grade is just to do h.w. try talking to them privatly and asking ur teachers if you can do any extra credit to bring it up to at least a b. well hope i helped!
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Q: When I get made at my mom because of something she said to me or something she wont let me do I get really really upset and basically start talking back to her and saying things I shouldn't then storm upstairs. After a few minutes of being unbelievably mad, I realize that I over reacted and go back down stairs and ask her if she needs help or something. It happens all the time. And because I do it alot, my mom now thinks I have mood swings. But, I don't, I just always feel sorry about the way I talked to her. I know it's something I need to change and I'm working on it because I know I shouldn't treat her that way. But, while I’m working on it, how can I convince her that I do not have mood swings?
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I have the same problem too. What i do is when someone gets mad at me or i get mad at them and we start to fight and it's getting kinda harsh i just walk away or just ignore them and just try to calm my self down. Hope I Helped!
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Q: haha i dont rly know what catagory this goes under..
12/f
okay well all my friends have had their period..
not me..
i have like the second biggest boobs out of all of them though!((and hair down there..and im not overweight or anything))
and im the only one who hasnt had it
does this mean something is wrong with me? or like does everyone go at a different pace?
because i think something may be worng with me..
i dk..
well..ill rate well for good answers..
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Trust me there is nothing wrong with you the range for a girl to get her period is between the ages of 8-16 so if it hasn't happened by 16 see a doctor. But i thought my would never come but then it finally came. But maybe cary a purse with a few quaters so u could buy a pad or tampon in the bathroom or carry some with ya. HOPE I HELPED!
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Q: I'm looking for contemporary songs that have the themes of either
A-peer pressure
or
B-finding good, true friends
This is for a paper that is a big part of my grade.
I'll rate high for any ideas at all.
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That might be really hard to find because all the music these days is either bout killing someone lonley ness gangs etc. But try looking into christian bands on the internet like switchfoot they prolly have some really good stuff. But if you could u might wanna try another topic for your essay HOPE I HELPEd!
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Q: My sister is 11 and in 6th grade. She weighs like 89 pounds. She is about 4 11. She cares about her weight a lot. She thinks shes fat but I've seen her friends and they say she nots and her stomach isnt that big at all. She is also muscular. Like she is a fast runner and she is strong. So do you think she is heavy for her age?? And do you know any ways that she could lose weighgt??
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OMG she's not fat or heavy at all!!! To me she sound like a very tiny and small girl. You tell her she's crazy and that here body if fine because trust me there are girlS out there weighting in at at least 120+ in the exact same grade as her. Becuase when i was i 6th grand i was like that and honestly i just wanted to just kill those tiny little girl under 100 becuase they thouuhg they were fat and almost all the time they would talk bout how fat they were...which they weren't.... so please tell her she's crazy and it's all i head and i'm not trying to be mean at all btw. HOPE I HELPED!
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Q: ok i am 5'4" and i weigh 106.5 lbs. am i overweight? is it irrational to think that i am fat???people tell me i worry too much i dont c y though.please help!
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it's really hard to tell weather your fat or not beucase some one 5'5" weighing 300 can be either fat or healty becuase muscle weights more than mass making you 5'5" and being 300 but yet still being 300. These days it's hard to say becuase all celbrities are either aneroxic or belimic or something like that. And i feel exactl how you feel. But i figure just as long as i feel comportable in my body i'm not fat but i dont feel that way just eat helaty and be active and you'll be fine! hope i helped
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Q: I am going to get a new cell phone does anyone know of any good family plans or single plans? And do you have to have someone to sign for you if your under 18?
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cingular and virgin mobile
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Q: ok it seems like my mom favors my brother way more than me. So one day I stayed home from school because I was sick. Then my mom told me since I stayed home, I was grounded for the weekend. But then today, my little brother was supposedly throwing up this morning and didnt go to his soccer parade and games but about an hour later he was outside running around and on his dirtbike and playing basketball and everything. Then he got to have his friend sleep over. Am I over reacting or am I right about her possibly favoring him more?
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Same with me my mom fav. my bro cause he's her lil baby boy but i can't get away with murder with my dad he fav. me more than my bro cause i'm his lil girl. I think it's kinda normal but i dunno cause all my friends either have a the same gender as their sib. or they're an olny child. Talk to it with your dad maybe he can kinda tell you mom to either lighten up on you or get harder on ur bro. HOPE I HLEPD!
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Heyy!! I've been kinda bored latly and plus I love to help people and give then advice. And I've been told I'm good at that so I decided to make and advice column. So if ya need help with anything ask away and I will do my best to help you!
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Website: Gender: Female Location: St.Louis Age: 14 Member Since: July 31, 2005 Answers: 293 Last Update: January 23, 2008 Visitors: 14240
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