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soo i met this one guy a couple months back and i have reallly stong feelings for him. but right before i bet him, him and his girl broke up. they had been going out for about two years on and off. and thats along time considering hes 19 and shes 17. and im 16 btw haha. anddd he lives in a different state :/ but ignore that fact haha.
anyways. we talk everyday. hes the type that goes out and parties so i get really lonely at night when we arent talking and he seems like hes interested in me cause he calls me babe and baby and stuff and he told me when im 18 i can come live with him and stuff. and when we like stop talking during the day cause hes busy or im busy he says love you and stufff. and he just gives my signs that he does. but at the same time i feel like he just does it to do it if you know what i mean? he the realllly horny type too so idk if what to think. and i dont wanna ask him cause we have never met and stufff so i dont wanna get all serious on him ahha
but today we didnt talk the whole day so i was like ok whats up with that? cause we always tlak. i texted him a couple hours ago and he said "sorry i dont htink of you. i dont even have time for myself. sorry girl" i dont really know what that is suppose to mean. and he was like acting really weird. and i asked him what he wss doing and he said thinking and im like bout what and he said everything. he was just giving me some weird answers. and im like welll ill leave you alone and he said im just gonna go try to sleep. and hes like sweet dreams babe.
so can someone help me out here. he tells me im beautiful and stufffand he makes me smile. and gives me hints that he likes me but at the same time im just like idkkk?
so what do you guys think of this or what i should do?
ps. dont say anything about us being in differnet states or that fact we have never met. thats not what im asking about so dont talk about that. (link)
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Actually I had one of these when I was your age (different state and age difference and all).
I didn't end up meeting him in person until this past fall when he came out see me. He was shorter than I expected...
Anyway, ignoring the states and whatnot I've had a few older guys do this to me (Brian, Henry and Mike to name names). Usually when they do this and say their "thinking about everything" they're interested in a girl they aren't sure they can have and are wondering if they should chase her. I can guarantee this is not you. It never is. It's usually a hot 21 year old they met in a grocery store or something. They're wondering if they can get her or if they should settle for you.
Seems to me that he's moving on from you, and away from you. It really sucks, I know.
V, my guy from another state, actually did this too... and then one day I called him and this girl answered... she said she was his girlfriend... I was pretty crushed but wrote it off to the distance thing... but then it happened the same way with B, H and M... and they all lived in state with me, so obviously this is just a retarded guy thing... Men are wusses...
Anyway... he's probably going after someone he likes more than you... so I'd move on.
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Hey im 18/f and thank you all for helping me with my last question about tattoos. I Donate plasma 2x a week. I know if you have/get a tattoo/piercing you cant donate for a year after that. Is that because they dont want to risk anything, like aids or hepatitis or anything that could have came from the needle. I know its wrong and such but if i know im clean and whatnot is there a way they can tell i got a tattoo if its hidden? Does it do anything to the plasma where they could tell? If so whats the soonest i can donate. Besides 12 months. Thanks a bunch! (link)
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You shouldn't donate if you're going to get a tattoo. The reasoning is because you cannot immediately tell if something like hepatitis or AIDS is in your blood. It sometimes take a bit to incubate and by then you could have donated enough plasma (or blood) to infect an awful lot of people.
Also, when you get a tattoo or piercing, your plasma is trying to heal YOU. Especially with tattoos, your plasma is trying to keep out infection and whatnot. Which means that it is exerting more energy, which means it won't keep as long... which makes it not good to put in people lacking plasma... you see what I'm saying?
If you're going to try and bend the rules, which I urge you not to do at all, for the sake of the people to which you're donating, the shortest amount of time it takes for a tattoo to be completely, fully healed, regardless of what the surface of the dermis (your skin) looks like is around 8 months. That is the VERY soonest that I would say you could be allowed to donate again.
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Okay so this might be long, and confusing but, my period last month only last for like 3 days, and it was very light (my periods usually last around 6 or 7 and they are very heavy) so I took two pregnancy tests (kind of spaced out) and they both came back positive. This month it is the 17th (I normally start my period around the 10th) and I havent had it so far. But I am not having any symptoms of pregnancy like I was having. My breasts aren't sore anymore, I am not having headaches like I was, any of that. My stomach has been cramping on and off for the past couple of days, and I have had tissue looking stuff in my pee, it only lasted a day, (and it wasnt red, it was the color of like tan tape). There has been no bleeding what so ever, but I don't feel pregnant, and I am having no symptoms. Did I have a miscarriage? (link)
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Chances are you did not.
This sort of thing happened to me in high school. It turned out I was not pregnant, and in fact the chances I ever will be pregnant are so slim they're almost non-existent. As it turned out I have polycystic ovaries.
Whether you miscarried, have polycystic overies or are just experiencing a spastic period, you should see a doctor. This sort of thing could be nothing or it could be very bad.
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My mom's boyfriend is making me explode in anger. I just don't get him. But I think he is just being a fake person to us. It feels like he criticize me but I don't think that I do anything wrong. And when I think of how he criticize me I just have an excuse and I say to myself it really isn't me what ever it is that he criticize about. But with that I am not being a fake person. But I have not told many people in my family how I feel about him and the reason for that is cause I am afraid to say. But when he acts annoying to me I feel like its controlive of him. (link)
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There are lots of people who do not like their parents' girl/boyfriends. This isn't really an uncommon thing, it's just how the world works and there's usually a decent reason for it too.
There are a few ways you could go about this... and I'm going to tell you them all, even though some are better than others.
There's the childish approach... which sometimes works. When he criticizes you, just straight up tell him you don't care what he thinks because he's not your dad. This gets to adults who are trying to woo your parent. I'm not sure why... probably because they'd like you to accept them, as that would make it easier to get to your mother.
There is the more mature approach... talk to your mother about it. She IS your mother. She should listen. If she tries to justify him or tries to avoid the issue, tell her that this is how you feel and you need her to understand that.
The last approach is good if you're too chicken to tell him off or your mother doesn't listen. I assume you're in junior high or high school. Tell your counselor or dean or some teacher that you feel victimized by your mother's boyfriend when you are at home. This approach is good because your mother HAS to listen to the school and then she'll address why you didn't come to her, or if you did why you told someone at school too.
Be careful which one you choose. You should try the first two first, depending on comfort level. I recommend talking to your mom AND telling him you don't care what he thinks of you. You have to establish that you're not a child, especially not HIS child. You have the right to do so.
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Hi guys.
I know this boy who I really like. I have told him that I like him before and he has told me he likes me. Recently he hasn't said it, but his friends have told me he likes me.
Anyway, he went into a mood with me when we were out one night with mine and his friends, and since then, when I have text him, he has ignored me. His friends says he does this a lot, but I still can't help feeling hurt.
He text me a couple days later and asked me if I wanted to go for a drink, but I couldn't as I was working, so I told him that. The next day I text him and asked how he was, and he hasn't replied.
Why is he doing this?! Should I just move on? (link)
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SIDEBAR!: Ignore anyone who says texting is lame. I function via texting.
Anyway. So, I'm not sure how old you are but it sounds to me that his guy might be in his early 20s? They tend to do this a lot. It's just how they are. Regardless, I think that you should move on, and here are some reasons I think are valid for it.
A) He's acting childish.
I'm sure he thinks he's being coy, but he's really just acting childish with all his "I like, but I'm going to ignore you"... stuff (for lack of a better word at this exact moment).
B) He's moody.
Moody men tend to be immature men. I speak from experience not stereotype. You don't need that. You need someone that's on your level and is ready for what you are.
C) He's playing games.
I've seen it before and it seems that he's seeing how long you'll stick around with him baiting you and then leaving. It's all a test to see how much he could get away with. Don't let him get away with anything, because if you do he'll walk all over you.
So... Like I said. Move on... There are lots of men everywhere... Import one from Madrid or something, but move on. ^_^ (I so wish I could import men).
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if i was to write on a guys back that he was my bitch, would i write "I'm her bitch" or would i write "I'm your bitch" ??? im not sure how i should write it... haha sorry i know random but he lost a bet! (link)
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I have a love of bitches...
I just write "Property of Samistan"
So I'd to with "I'm Her Bitch"
It's more demeaning that way. ^_^
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okay so,
i go to a really cool place laureta and there is beaches and parties and everything, it's amazing. so this guy tye and me went to the beach around 10:30 and madeout it was amazzing we had been kissing and flirting all night. Then, the next day he was being all rude and shit and wouldn't talk to me or hug me.. and his friend said that it was cause he wanted to get rid of me because i go wherever he wants to go.. i know its gay. how do i win him back? were really good friends.. thanks for the advice , much appreciated (link)
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You got played, love.
It happens a lot... actually I tend to do it a lot. People who play, me and him, tend to just want someone to fool around with for the night. Had he had sex with you it would have been magic sex, as in he'd have disappeared right after.
You can't really win him back.
If ya'll were good friends before hand, you're not going to be now. He used you, and he's done.
Sucks, I know, but the best thing is to move on. Completely.
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I always feel the need to rectify and straighten out ( or I guess reiterate) every little problem, situation, or misunderstanding.
For example: This boy, at my school, about a year ago he told everyone I was stalking him and although everything is cleared up now every time I see him I still feel the need to go up to him and talk to him about it.
When is it best to just let things go?
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Let me tell you a couple stories from high school.
There was this guy my friend really liked, so she points him out to me one day and he catches me staring at him. For some reason I started accidently running into him EVERYWHERE after that, and it's not like he didn't notice. About 3 months after the staring incident I called him (thank you student directory) and told him it was unintentional stalking. He didn't really believe me until he realized that I ignored him each time we showed up at the same place. We aren't really friends now but he tends to smile at me instead of freak (for some reason we still run into each other a lot).
That took maybe 6 months to clear out.
From 6th grade to 12th grade there was this girl that made my life hell. We had gotten into a couple fights... which meant I'd cracked her in the face a few times, not really a fight, more like an assault... but we hadn't settled things. So I spread a rumour my senior year of high school that she had syphillis. It was childish and stupid, but I felt better about the situation and don't really care anymore.
That took 7 years to clear out.
The point is, you have to decide the severity of the situation. I'd love to tell you that you should let things go immediately, but let's face it: some things you just can't always let go of. This doesn't sound like too bad of a circumstance, really. I'd just let it go if I were you. I'm sure he's tired of talking about it, because it was a year ago.
If you can force yourself to stop talking about it you'll stop caring about it, but if you can't do that, then you need to find some closure for it, though if you're still talking to him all the time about it, I'm not sure what that closure would be... I'd just let it go. You'll have other things to worry about... Soonly, I'm sure. ^_^
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At work, im known as the blonde little girl who is friends with everybody. I answer the phones for the company and nobody takes that postition seriously. I just wish that there was a way that i could get everyone to see that its not that easy dealing with customers calls all day. Any advice on how i can make my co-workers respect me more?
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I'm a part time receptionist here at work, and I know just how bad it can be to answer phones. Between disgruntled customers nad call back up and things of that nature it can truly be hell, and usually is.
A couple tricks to getting them to realize that your job sucks. Randomly start kinda crying one day when the call back up gets kinda really bad. Don't bawl, just sniffle a bit and say you're stressed from call back up, then take a deep breath and go on with your day (like you just bottled up everything real quick so you can go on with work). If you get a really nasty customer, deal with them and then immediately talk about how hard it is to keep your cool when they act that way. Be sure to talk about them a couple of times that day so people know it bugged you...
In general make a point to tell your coworkers about the job and its hardships. Sooner or later... depending how often you tell them, they will understand it's not all roses.
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Hi im 14 years old. Girl.
My vagina lips have been really itchy. Really red! It has little cuts. and white stuff all over it. && it burns when i pee. what is it?
I feel to akwarard to tell my mom.
Never had sex btw. This has been going on since the begining of june. The first week of june.
please help its driving me crazy (link)
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That is most definitely a yeast infection and you need to get to a doctor... which will be awkward to tell your mom but I'm sure she's probably had one before... most women get them at least once in their life.
They'll just give ya some drugs and it'll go away. It's not as scary as it sounds in your head, I promise.
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so is it bad for a guy to give a girl oral if she has herpes and hasnt had an outbreak? (link)
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Yeah, it really is.
He'll have cold sores for the rest of his life if it jumps. Herpes is the gift that keeps on giving...forever.
I once had an exboyfriend that had coldsores a lot... he ate out his girlfriend, and gave her herpes (who never had an outbreak until after he did) and then had sex with said girlfriend and basically gave himself herpes.
Remember that.
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I really need to wax "down there." I'm soo tired of shaving because it grows back so fast and it's not even efficient at all. When I wear a bikini I have hair sticking out of my bottom and its so ridiculous! I just want it off. And was thinking a Brazilian wax to get everything out. But I'm scared as hell. I got my eyebrows threaded a month ago and I thought that was pretty bad. So I have a few questions:
1. Am I old enough?
2. What should I worry about? Like disease or infection? I'm scared that something bad could happen.
3. How badly does it hurt? Please please describe your experience.
4. Should I just do a bikini wax first and see how that is?
5. Would it be easier to listen to an iPod and blast the music so I don't notice it as much?
6. anything else!! HELP (link)
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If you thought that threading your eyebrows was bad, you don't want a bikini was. Trust me on this.
A different solution would be Veet. You don't have to it as often as shaving but it doesn't hurt. To answer your questions, though...
1. Age requirements are different from state to state but where I'm at it's 16.
2. You should worry about not screaming at the top of you lungs, for one thing. Infection is rare, unless you go to a really skeezy joint. Worry about the pain.
3. When they wax your butt (Brazilian) it's nothing. The other area hurts... like a lot. Like I've had friends scream and then pass out. I've also had friends that took it like nothing, but if your eyebrows were a bad experience I don't recommend this.
4. The bikini wax is the part that hurts. Like I said, waxing your butt us nothing. Seriously.
5. Trying to distract yourself isn't a bad idea but I don't think an iPod is going to do it. have a friend slap your arm really hard, or even across the face the first time works...
6. Again, I don't recommend this for your if you had issues threading your eyebrows. Try Veet or Nair first. They don't hurt and they still get rid of the hair. Whatever you do, do not try to get waxed without a friend present... because you will scream... and the salon specialists will laugh at you.
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i want to be faster and better at techniques
i also have a problem with my breathing what can help me?
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Practice.
I know that sounds like a "duh" answer, but it's really the only way to perfect the techniques.
Once you have the techniques down you can work on speed. A trick a lot of speed swimmers use is to not shave until the night before a race (it increases drag, and then you lose the body hair and you lose the drag, makign you faster).
Your breathing is also a practice thing. I have this issue too. It's really a part of the technique. Perfect the technique and you can perfect the breathing.
All of that leads back to practice though. Swim as often as humanly possible... ^_^
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This girl and i have known each other for 6 months. She says she dosent like me but still wants to go on dates and says if she liked me she would love to be my girlfriend. She and i planned a date for next week. then an hour later she said she was busy actually. isaid its okay and we would try for another time. She then said nevermind i will just cancel my plans. i told her not to but she did. Then i found out the plans were to hang out with a guy. i told her to just go along with her orginal plans but she inisted that we go on our date. I agreed that we would just go on our date. a little later she text me saying the guy says they really need to hang out and says she cant cancel so she cancels our date. i tell her its okay and i told her to have fun, and she says i will hope u do too. so i said i would by taking some other girl on a date that night. then her other guy friend takes her phone and starts texting me and she lets him be rude and cuss me out and condones his actions. What should i do with our friendship? Is she still worth liking? (link)
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Wow, look at you. You found a crazy one!
She's already said she doesn't really like you the same way. She allowed someone to disrespect you. She played the "your date is less important than my date with this guy but if he cancels on me I'll go with you anyway" card. Those are the facts...
My advice is to drop her like a crack habit. She doesn't respect you, obviously, and she doesn't sound worth trying to salvage a relationship or friendship from.
Your friends and your girlfriends should treat you like a human, not a backup plan or a toy.
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How do you tell a friend she is involved in an emotional affair? She is involved emotionally with the husband of my good friend and used to be her good friend. She's confused as to why the wife has put so much distance between her. She doesn't get it. There's so much denial as to the depth of her involvement with the husband. Everytime I go there with her, she gets angry at me and I don't know if a friendship can be salvaged between her and I. Help!! any advice is appreciated (link)
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I have a knack for always having the answer that no one wants to hear...
Let it go. When it comes to emotional affairs no one is really aware of it until it explodes into a bloody mist of hurt feelings and lots of screaming. That's just the way these things work. The best course of action is to let her continue on her path until it ends itself (and it will).
It's not easy and it's not pretty when it finally htis the powder keg, but it's the only way to really go about it, because she doesn't want to hear it, admit it, or resolve it.
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Does ANYONE know where I can find FULL ENGLISH episodes of this show on the internet?
I was just thinking about old shows when I was a kid
& I remembered this
Thankyou & please respond ASAP [= (link)
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I know that when I was buying these in my youth I would get them at SunCoast. The website still exists and the episodes and movies I bought there were always in a well-dubbed English.
I would check is out, if I were you.
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There is this guy I like I told him I liked him, he freaked (He has a girlfriend). We would "talk" but he would not look. Then a week later we start "talking" again. In class I overheard him say "I'll just be nice to her" to one of his female friends. That hurt,but then later in the week I overhear him saying "I'd screw her" to the same group of friends. What is his problem? (link)
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The problem is that he's a guy under the age of 30. I know it sounds sexist, but that is simply the way men tend to come off to women until age 30. At that point more of them tend to develop feelings. Why this development takes so long to happen is still a medical mystery.
Now, for some advice. Stop talking to him. He does not seem to have the maturity to deal with this information in a positive and groovy way, so just drop him. You can do better. He's tied up in a relationship anyways, so let the girlfriend deal with the misogynistic tendencies of this guy and find yourself someone with more than half a brain. ^_^
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I feel like there is nothign I can do to be happy. I've cried 3 out of the past 6 days, and cannot get happy again. The reason I never got help is becasue I'd have 3 bad days, and then have one good day and thinkn that I am fine. I have a loss in appitite, headaches, I feel like I'm just going through the motions every day, I want to be alone a lot, and I feel like I'm pushing some people away. Help!! (link)
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It sounds like you might have a depressive personality. It's not uncommon. If you want to, your physician could get you a depression scale and see if you're suited to a mild antidepressant, which should lift the fog more than one day at a time. Of course, there will always be sad days.
There are other options, if you feel that the medication route is not for you. If you are a religious person, then meditation in your religion can often help. I know I feel better after a long conversation with the Goddess, but similar things are thought of in Christian, Buddhist and all other religions. There are herbal remedies that could be beneficial, though I would have to consult my big book of herbal info to tell you what exactly those would be. If you go to your local herbal store (or pagan store) they can concoct something that can lift your mood intensely.
In general, it does not sound like this is a particularly difficult problem to solve, and I'm sure there are courses of action that I have missed along the way.
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to start from the beginning a long time ago me and my best friend got in a fight and werent talking and i started talking to her ex boyfriend me and him are currently dating and have been for eight months. i always here so much things about him like he cheated on me all the time. and honestly from his backround i kind of beleive it. And before i dated him i had so many friends, and i did whatever i wanted to. Now that im with him me and my best friend are still fighting because he hates her because she tryed to get him sent to jail. But i miss my best friend and and i miss all my friends and miss being able to do what i wanted to. I also, dont know what to beleive is hes cheated or not. ovb. hes not going to tell me if he did. i dont know what to do help me. (link)
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It sounds like this guy has forced your friends from your life. That happens from time to time. At that point, you must decide if you want your friends back or if you want to stay with him. If he's a cheater then I would go with your friends and drop him, get in good with your friends again. If you don't actually think he's cheating, then you'll have to simply make new friends, ones that do not hate him with the passion of a thousand suns.
Those are really your only two options in this case.
Since you say you might believe the rumours that he's cheating you, I would vote that your friends are the better thing to shoot for here.
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okay.. well it's above the "lips" obviously.. i'm not sure what it is.. but there's like a purplish or brownish bump on my pelvis.. but it's above the 'lips' if you know what i mean.. and when i press it down it hurts, i don't know where it came from. i'm not sure if it's a bruise, does anybody know what it is? and how to get rid of it?
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Sounds like an ingrown hair or some such kind of thing. I would squeeze it with two credit cards, or you can "pop" it with a needle/safety pin. If that doesn't appeal to you, you should go to the doctor.
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