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dont know what to do


Question Posted Thursday October 30 2008, 4:20 pm

to start from the beginning a long time ago me and my best friend got in a fight and werent talking and i started talking to her ex boyfriend me and him are currently dating and have been for eight months. i always here so much things about him like he cheated on me all the time. and honestly from his backround i kind of beleive it. And before i dated him i had so many friends, and i did whatever i wanted to. Now that im with him me and my best friend are still fighting because he hates her because she tryed to get him sent to jail. But i miss my best friend and and i miss all my friends and miss being able to do what i wanted to. I also, dont know what to beleive is hes cheated or not. ovb. hes not going to tell me if he did. i dont know what to do help me.

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kiran answered Saturday November 1 2008, 8:23 pm:
It sucks how friends fight because of a boy. You have come to the point where you have to choose between your friends and this guy. You miss your friends and being able to do what you want. I would give it a break at least. If your hearing that he is cheating on you then I would choose your friends. Its gonna be hard but you have to choose what you want more and at this point you don't even know if this guy is completely yours. This is your call. We can't exactly tell you what to do we are just helping you think through this. So good luck and I hope everything works out!

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pseudophun answered Thursday October 30 2008, 10:53 pm:
It sounds like this guy has forced your friends from your life. That happens from time to time. At that point, you must decide if you want your friends back or if you want to stay with him. If he's a cheater then I would go with your friends and drop him, get in good with your friends again. If you don't actually think he's cheating, then you'll have to simply make new friends, ones that do not hate him with the passion of a thousand suns.

Those are really your only two options in this case.

Since you say you might believe the rumours that he's cheating you, I would vote that your friends are the better thing to shoot for here.

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