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I need your help deciding what the ideal menu for a public dinner would be.

Not knowing what would be the best dishes to serve is making this an impossible task.

If you will tell me your favorite foods, or point me to your favorite recipes, it would really help a lot.

You can list as many things as you like. They don't have to be fancy things at all. I am all about the comfort food baby! :)

This will be a mixed group of people so I would like to have something for everyone.

Cooking for a banquet is not as hard as trying to figure out WHAT to cook!

Everyone will receive feedback.

Thank you!

P.S. If all that was a lot to digest, pun intended, here is a summary: Please list all your favorite foods.

defintly lasagna!!!
chickne strips!
cheese sticks!
tacoos definetly !
sushi !!!!
and i think that with all of that i would be more than pleased :) hope i helped and good luck

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This Guy at school asked for my number, and hasnt called in at least 5 days. I saw him at school a few days after he asked for my number and he seemed like he didnt like me. Im sort of confused. Is it OK for a girl to call a boy first? Cuz I want to call him. I have his number. Anyway, thanks!

no! don't EVER call him first! its obvious he has feelings for you caus he asked your number but he's just trying to make you all excited about him waiting for him to call!! its obvious tht he's doing that .

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15 f
Ok so my boyfriend was having a sweet 16. Today and I went with my best friend whose his cousin. It was so hard to convince my mom because I was grounded the day before and so I could go to the party I increased my punishment to a month! So when I got to the party he kissed me and greeted me. That was all. then he went back to his friends. So I also saw him sitting next to a girl and offcourse I got jelous so he came and asked me if I wanted to dance and I said no so he danced with his cousin. I was also with my sister at the party (she's 17) she said she felt unconfterable and she wanted to go. So I called my bf over and asked him where was the train. So he tried to explain and he ended up telling us that he would take us. I got so excied becase finally I could spend some alone time with him.So when we were leaving we went outside and he was about to take us then my friend said "ill go with him to walk you guys" then someone called him inside and he went and came back and said he wasn't going to walk me anymore. So I ended up going with 2 of his bestfriend and my other friend. I'm thinking about braking up with him because he left me and didn't take me to the train it was like he didn't care about me. Why were his friends walking me? He should of? I am really mad. Am I just overreacting like maybe he didn't want to leave his guests alone? Should he have taken me to the train station? But in the party I didnt feel like he was paying enough attention to me. Should I brake up with him? Please tell me if I am overreacting or not? Thanks! Sorry if it was long!

i understand he left you because it was HIS party ...his party without him? doesn't sound so good . if the situation was different like, it was someonelse's party and he didn't walk you home i'll brake up with him but maybe not this time...also its normal to feel jealousy when he talks to a girl i mean at least your not like me i would have think something like "oh he stayed at the party probably he'll be dancing with someone else and sent his friends to walk me home so he can be with another girl" i know , stupid . but hey don't get this thing too far understand that was his bday and didn't wanted to leave the party although i understand you would have wanted him to do it :) just tell him that you felt kinda left out the situation and you understand it was his party but also he should apppreciate in al the trouble you got for going to the party :) good luck :) hope i heelped

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well I know when you'r inlove you get the bubbly feeling..but does it wear out? I really like this boy and I liked him for about 2-3 years now and before like the 1st year I got all the butterflies and stuff and now I rarely get them. I know I like him inside...but do u get them all the time..or can they wear out?

i understan you , imean that feeling doesn't last forever , but its cause your used to have this guy, and things need to have a little of excitment so you'll feel it again but the fact that you don't feel it doesn't mean you don't like him or anything, you can be in love and don't feel it its just that now there's a lot of trust and confidence between the two of you that he doesn't make you feel that nervous anymore, and it doesn't mean you don't love him :)

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okay.. so i live right by a near by mr. z's and there are ALOT of really cute guys. AND my sister goes to a lot of sherman shows and brings me along.

i meet alot of guys older then me. but theres.. this one. lets call him.. "howard" [haha sorry couldnt think of a name" well.. howard works in mr. z's and i met him at the sherman. hes sooo nice and sweet and we like eachother but hes 17, and does have alot of expericience.

his last girlfriend left him for being so pushy, about all the sexual stuff. and well.. i like him alot, well i think im ready for all that stuff, but i dont know... ADVICE?!

first of all how old are you? ...second..would you date him even if you'll be wondering if he really likes you or he's just trying to get anything sexual with you??..cause if he was so pushy with his last girlfriend maybe he's just desperate to get any..and if he notice that your willing to do anything like that maybe that's his reason to talk to you...just be very carefull about his behaviior

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There's a guy, I like him, another girl that likes him. She is not my friend, I don't like her. However she has a nice headstart on flirting with him, in a stalkerish fashion (she knows where his locker is, she waits for him outside of class, she dominates his facebook wall, she came screaming down the hall, OMFG HE TALKED TO ME, and she acts really ditzy/stupid with him). I want to pursue him, however, I don't know if he really likes her back, or is just oblivious that she likes him... Because seriously, he's gotta be pretty oblivious to not know that when she says "I love - [insert initials]" that it's his initials. I don't think he really knows I exist either, besides that he probably acknowledges me as that (weirdo) chick at the other end of the classroom.

So a couple of questions.
1)How do I get his attention?
2)If I was to flirt with him how would I do it?
3)What about that girl, I'm scared she'll do something to me ):.

first of all talking to him, don't be nervous act like he's a regular guy, think that he has a girlfriend that makes things easier!so you'll behave like you didn't matter..also think about you being his friend that's all it's an easy way to talk to guys..thinking they are your friends,, or that he has a girlfriend :) , also don't worry about the other girl now..i mean if he likes her soo much ..they would be dating by now 'cause she seems like the kind of girl that maybe has already asked him out or anything. so if they are still friends or soemthing it's cause he doesn't want anything else with her , if he would..somthing would already happen by now good luck try talk to him like when you talk to your friens :)

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I was diagnosed with ADD around December and I was prescribed this medicine. I have been taking the medicine and my grades have went from mostly B's to all A's. It was a really dramatic change in everything I did. So...my grandma thinks that it's all in my head that I have ADD, but it's totally not. But she just keeps saying it and now I'm getting the feeling it might be. I have all the symptons for ADD and when I didn't take my medicine earlier this week I couldn't slow down, do any homework, was distracted a ton, and couldn't remember important stuff. Do you think I really have ADD or it's all in my head? I'm not sure and it's starting to bug me.

i think you really have ADD..cause it was a huge change because of the medicine..or try it ..try to oget the same results without taking the medicine to see what happens :)

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ok so i like this boy a lot. about a week ago, i started talking to him online...and then he was all whats ur phone number?? we flirted a little and stuff...we talked on the phone for hours. he said we should meet at school (ive seen him around but we havent talked at school). he also said we should hang. yet he never talked to me about it or called me...

but anyways its been a week and he still hasn't TALKED TO ME. why is this??

he doesn't want you to think that he really wants to date you ...or maybe he has just been thinking about it anyway wait a little longer to see if he talks to you

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I have a really bad toothache. Its been going on and off for about a month. I went to the dentist and the guy said it was because of my braces, I KNOW ITS NOT. The guy wasnt even my regular dentist. But anyways, is there anyways to get rid of it without having to take medicine or use anbesol or stuff like that?

probably its an infection, i also have braces and i think that if its that kind of toothache like when you feel your tooth are being pressed or anything its because of the braces

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i don't wear string bikinis or any kind of swimsuit that covers just my private spots or whatever. i want a new swim suit top that covers all of my upper body, like, from the chest to the stomach. i don't have to buy a bottom, since i have a blue boy shorts looking thing, so i'm not really worried about that. is there any sites i can get these tops? please nothing too expensive. like, $15-$20 tops.

thanks.

try these http://www.nextag.com/tankini-swimsuits/search-html :)

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do you take them before or after you eat?
thankss.

after so they will work

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Ok, so I use AOL, I know I know, it sucks. Whatever. I keep getting a message telling me that my security setting prevent ActiveX controls from being run on the page. Is there anyway to turn this off? I don't want to allow ActiveX for everything, but I don't want to be notified when it blocks something. I don't get the message on IE or firefox. And I don't need to be told to change ISPs or browsers.

install activeX or else it won't stop appearing

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I love this song.

"die slowy" by hit the lights.
but i cant find it anywhere to download.
but its on myspace.

can someone please help?
ive tried limewire.

try ares it has more results than limewire

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ok there is this kid, lets call him josh for example. Well josh definitly likes me and there is no doubt about that and well i cant decide if i like him or not. he's a great friend and he listens to me and he cares about me and he doesn't think im pathetic when i cry and get depressed. He's a really nice guy but i can't see myself being intimate with him. He's not very attractive and sometimes he can be really dorky and he is also obsessed with the army which i am not so i don't know what to do. He has really small lips and they are sort of curved inward so i can imagine kissing him. Any advice as to what to do would be greatly appreciated.

i don't think you like him as much as he likes you...my advice to you is to stop worrying cause you don't like him , you don't have to like him and by the way you describe it it seems you don't like him more than as a friend, also . when you really get to like him you would be able to imagine kissing him , beeing with him , you'll stop worrying about him being do dorky , not attractive etc. cause when you really like someone its not like your going to start doubting about those things . bellieveme when you geet to like someone because of their attitude , the way they treat you etc. you start to see this person like other one ..i mean ..you stop thinking about if he's ugly or anything cause to you he would not be ugly when you like him . it seems like your just kinda best friends or something that's why you might be confuse , but when the moment comes you'll really feel it believe me :) hope i helped

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Do anyone know any good fun party themes im 14/f and my b-day is in late april i dont know what i should do also any really fun party games for boys and girls??????????!!! PLZ HELP ME!!!!

themes...old movies...comic characters,, james bond (007) a good one cause everyone dresses so elegant :P ...candys! candys everywhere and cupcakes chocolate fountains ...50's party ....90's party ..hawaian party..egyptian party..mexican party....mmm i cant think of anything else sorry lol

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Hey =) well there's this song that I have been wondering who sings it and what it's called. Here are some of the words...

This is the story of a girl
Who cried a river that drowned the whole world
And when she looked so sad in photographs
I absolutely loved her-when she smiled

sorry...that's all I know. If you all could please tell me the name of the song and who it's by I would greatly appreciate it! Thanks

nine days has a better version of it than 3 doors down!

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I know there's a hell of a lot more to do with a car then how it looks. But I've got it down to two cars, and I'm stuck because I honestly don't know which one looks better. =] I want it to be super cute. So, your opinion would be awesome.

Our of:

[These are the definite pictures, exactly what they'll look like. Color & everything.]

2004 Hyundai Accent:
http://www.ancira.com/chrysler/281/preowned/

2003 Kia Rio:
http://dealers.idealer1.com/base/details.php?VID=1-90l1167499458

Thanks mucho.

i think one of the links didn't work

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Other than limewire...Which i have...
Where can you download free movies???


Thanks

ARES !! has mor e results and movies than limewire limewire sux

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Ok honestly I don't care if I sound desperate but here it goes...
I HAVEN'T HAD A REAL BOYFRIEND....EVER! And practically everyone I know does! One of my cousins is married, one of my cousins has a boyfriend, the whole school (almost) is going out with SOMEBODY! I'm 13/f
I'm so sick of being single it bothers me so much. Everytime I even get close to having a boyfriend they either transfer or fall for some other girl. I'm not ugly-BELIEVE ME! I get a lot of compliments about that stuff...
I've heard the saying when girls are so beautiful that the guys just settle for something less because they're afraid of rejection but...I don't really think that's the case all the time because I've been asked out before...
BY PEOPLE I DON'T EVEN LIKE THAT ARE YOUNGER THAN ME THAT I'VE NEVER SEEN BEFORE THAT FOLLOW ME OUT OF NOWHERE IN PUBLIC!
How am I ever supposed to get a boyfriend?
I'm not mean
I'm not aggressive
Could it be the people I'm hanging out with?
I'm not loud
I'm not quiet
I'm not weird in a bad way..I just don't get what's wrong with me.
My mom is always telling me "Whoa, you're certainly not going to be one of those girls stuck home on a saturday night in highschool once you get older...but what if i am?
help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I don't want to be boyfriendless forever. I know I probably won't but it's killing my self esteem!

the same happened to me at your age!! i totally understand you its like you start thinking :S why sheee (a REALLY ugly girl) has a boyfriend and i don't!!! why does shee that shes so mean has a boyfriend!! whyy everyone but you!! ...but they i realize something when i get to know guys more ...sometims..they don't ask a really good girl out because they prefer going to the easier girls! not the kind that look like hard to get...like i mean ...she's not mean not agressive, cool ,fun etc...they start thinking like ..i don't want to bother so much into getting her cause obviously she should have someone better than me cause she's so great ...buuut its a huge mistake ..when i had my 1st boyfriend and people i had get to know really well. they go like ..why you never had a boyfriend :S if your such a good girlfriend maerial , they couldn't believe that cause they said things like anyone would be very glad to have you as a girlfriend and stuff but nooo it took a while for me to get a boyfriend ...but i see it this way and really worked for me ....stop thinkin too much about it ..it'll come someday..i know at 13 it looks like one of the most important things in the world but is not ..when you least expect it , it will happen and it will be great =)! trust me on this one ...just keep being nice with them have a lot ot friends, hang a lot with them keep meeting people and it will happen . also remember guys at your age are really inmature

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Oh gosh. I think I made a big
mistake. Ok here's an introduction. My friend has repeatedly started forgetting me in her big profile all dedicated to every single friend she has. I have been friends with her since fouth grade and i'm in seventh. When I said why do you keep forgettting me, she said sorry i'll ad you. This is what I said On AIM:

no its ok kaitlin can keep my spot.im not so mad about the fact that im not in it, but that im so not your friend that all those other people are in it but you forgot me when you would be the first person i put in. and when i think about who to invite to parties your the first person i think of.

i know you might be thinking "why the heck is she so mad about a stupid profile" but like im sadthat you just totally forgot about me. im not mad, im totally sad.

and you can tell kaitlin "jackie says thanks for destroying all her friendships" cause the only person that ever does anything with me is my sister.

and the last person that when i say "who are my friends?" does somethin like that.. it really really really makes me feel horrible
your really my only good friend beside sabrina.o and maureen.how nice shes the only one who talks to me during lunch.

you know the REAL REASON why i didnt have a birthday party this year? I HAVE NO ONE TO INVITE BESIDE YOU!

Was this the wrong thing to say?

no it was not wrong in my opinion although you might be over reacting ..but also its like how would she forget about you =(? maybe ..she didn't like the pics she had with you or anything ? it sounds stupid but might be a reason..maybe she didn't put aALL of her firends and really forgot to put you ..thouhgh i don't think so ..maybe you think she's one of your best friends. ..and she doesn't look at you in that way ..which is what i think proabbly is =( |

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