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uh big mistake
Oh gosh. I think I made a big
mistake. Ok here's an introduction. My friend has repeatedly started forgetting me in her big profile all dedicated to every single friend she has. I have been friends with her since fouth grade and i'm in seventh. When I said why do you keep forgettting me, she said sorry i'll ad you. This is what I said On AIM:
no its ok kaitlin can keep my spot.im not so mad about the fact that im not in it, but that im so not your friend that all those other people are in it but you forgot me when you would be the first person i put in. and when i think about who to invite to parties your the first person i think of.
i know you might be thinking "why the heck is she so mad about a stupid profile" but like im sadthat you just totally forgot about me. im not mad, im totally sad.
and you can tell kaitlin "jackie says thanks for destroying all her friendships" cause the only person that ever does anything with me is my sister.
and the last person that when i say "who are my friends?" does somethin like that.. it really really really makes me feel horrible
your really my only good friend beside sabrina.o and maureen.how nice shes the only one who talks to me during lunch.
you know the REAL REASON why i didnt have a birthday party this year? I HAVE NO ONE TO INVITE BESIDE YOU!
Was this the wrong thing to say?
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probably... it was a little harsh. you might want to talk it out with her in a calmer way. one that doesnt make you seem steaming angry or desperate. not trying to be mean there, just letting you know. :] hope i helped and good luck. i know what it's like to be on the rocks with a bff.
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no it was not wrong in my opinion although you might be over reacting ..but also its like how would she forget about you =(? maybe ..she didn't like the pics she had with you or anything ? it sounds stupid but might be a reason..maybe she didn't put aALL of her firends and really forgot to put you ..thouhgh i don't think so ..maybe you think she's one of your best friends. ..and she doesn't look at you in that way ..which is what i think proabbly is =( |
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hey, well no i think it was good that you let your feelings out like that. you may feel stupid and embarassed right now because she didnt say anything back and im sure that you were expecting a big and sappy apology on her part. my guess is that she was shocked and didnt know what to say back, so she just went away. give her some time to think. if she doesnt try to get into contact with you then you need to get into contact with her. aim her, call her, email her, visit her, do anything. as for that gir kaitlin, you need to confront her and tell her those things yourself. and also how you feel. whether its in person or on the phone or on AIM, it needs to be done.
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