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i am an average teenage girl...i guess.
i have brown hair, not too long, but not too short either. i have multi-colored eyes (brown, green, blue, yellow & black), and i about 5'4ft and that's about it physically.
i play soccer, i play the flute and am learning the french horn, i love to read, hang out, go crazy, write, be myself.
i love to listen to music. almost any kind of music sits with me...but some types, i just can't stand. rock n' roll or heavy metal is basically my favorite.
i am still in school, and i am crazy for taking the classes that i take...
and well, that's about it.
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E-mail: thepresident89@yahoo.com
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Location: montana
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Age: 17
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hey i was thinkin of after my shower putting gel in my wet hair and scrunching it. do i need to blow dry my hair as/after i do this? can i just let it air dry? thanks (link)
you can just let it air dry...that is what i do...


My guy gets mad when I'm with or talk to any other guy who I'm just friends with. What do I do? (link)
tell him to ease up.
my ex was like that and he just has to learn to deal with it.
there are a lot of guys in this world and just because you are going out with him doesn't mean that you automatically have to stop talking to any other guy that is not him.
if he keeps getting bugged...well, i would think about whether this guy is worth going out with if he wants to control who you talk to or hang out with.


Heyy im already in 10th grade and im only 5'0!! I dont want to be this short anymore!!! Is there any Way i can Grow @ least 3 inches! (link)
not unless you have a growth spurt.


Okay, my best friend in the whole wide world is moving. And I have no idea what to say to him. He's only going like 30 minutes away, but he's my best friend! And I don't know how to deal with this anymore. I'll miss him to much. How can I get over this? (link)
hang out with him as much as you can before he leaves.
write him letters, emails, call him...jstu keep in touch and make an effort to see him as much as possible too. it will sorta-kinda of be like he never left.
hope i helped.


Eh, I was just wondering who knew what the heck courtship was, or what it means, and if they could like explain it, cause its totally screwing with me right now, Thanks! (link)
courtship is like a dating period. that is what they used to call dating back in the day. there were certain rules and if you courted for a certain amount of time, that probably meant you were going to get married.
hope i helped.


heyy well i have a cousin who lives in another state..well when i went there to see her around christmas i met some of her friends when we were wild because of christmas and stuff and got their sns. and we talked on aim for a long time and wanted to meet in person the next time i went there. soo...somehow my cousin found out and she really hated me and thought i was trying to steal her friends. well, whatever..me and her friends met in person at a mall. it was SO awkward, like no one would talk for like an hour or 2. but whats funny is that one of my cousins friends..lets say her name is Alex..liked me on aim and i liked her too..but it was so awkward in person. should i want to see them next time i go there, and my cousin still hates me..what can i tell her? thanks (link)
tell your cousin to bug off. just because you are starting to become friends with her friends doesn't mean that you are stealing them. people who are like that are insecure about something.
its going to be awkward because you just met in person for the first time. i think you should see the people again. try being the first to talk this time, though.
hope i helped.


ok...my best guy friend's name is ryan. his and my friends are/were like determined to get us two to hook up. i thought i could do it since we were already close and everything...but when i actually got into the situation, neither of us could like...bring ourselves to do it.
my question is: have you ever been in a similar situation? and if so, what did you do? and what happened as a result.
thanx in advance. (link)
don't do it.
you will regret it.
if you can bring yourself to do it...then forget all the peer pressure and just go on being friends.
hope i helped.


Hey,
My friend *Chrissy* and has been lying to her parents about her boyfriend *Jack*. See Chrissy is 12 and gonna be 13 in December. So when i was at Chrissy's house she told her cousin that she had a boyfriend and they were making out. Chrissy trusted her cousin so she didnt feel like her cousin was gonna tell. Of course her cousin told her parents and her parents had a fit, not because she was seeing someone, but because she's been making out with Jack. So they told her to stop kissing or she cant go out with Jack. I just recently talked to Chrissy and she said that she's gonna complain to her shrink about it cause kissing is a normal thing in life, it's just her parents think she's too young to date. She's fed up on being called little and young so she has been lying to her parents and making out with Jack all she wants. Should i stop Chrissy? or should i encourage Chrissy to tell her shrink to tell her parents that she needs to learn her own lessons in life? But the hard part is Chrissy wont listen if people tell her no in this situation cause she REALLY loves Jack- nothing could keep them apart. What should i do for Chrissy?! help!!

*Jill* (link)
well, i will side with her parents about one thing, making out at age 12 is too young. keep in mind, that is my opinion.
i don't think she should be lying to her parents, though. i tried that, and they usually end up finding out, and you get into more trouble than your started out to be in.
i think that you should definently encourage Chrissy to talk to her parents about the restrictions of going out with Jack. everyone needs to learn their own lessons but sometimes the parentals know what they are talking about (believe it or not).
just talk to her and ask her why she wants to go against her parents so much. ask her if he is really worth all the trouble she is in and will be in if her parents find out. remind her that boyfriends come and go, but true friends and family stay forever.
hope i helped.


My picture on Advicenators uploaded but it looks huge! It takes up half the page, but on my Xanga site its the small normal size, how do I make it smaller on advicenators? (link)
you can use (if you have it) adobe photoshop to make it smaller, or even mircosoft word.
if those don't work, try getting a smaller picture.
hope i helped.
i have a xanga, too.


I didn't know what to put this under but anyways. Lately I can't sleep at night I just lay there in bed for like 3 hours before I can even sleep at all. Does anyone know what's wrong or how to make me sleep? (link)
if you get affected by caffine or sugar, that might be your problem.
others are that you still have engery that you need to use before you get tired. use it by doing something in your room. reading, cleaning, organizing, drawing, etc.
i have a similar problem, so i listen to music or listen to books on tape (listening to someone talking makes me tired). if any of the activities that i have listed don't work, try watching a movie.
exercising before going to bed also helps because then you have used the engery that was stored up.
hope i helped.


Does anybody know any Fruity Smoothies that are good for you, and don't have a lot of extra sugars and fats. So basicly recipes for a healthy smoothie? (link)
Yoplait has really good fruit smoothies that are nutritous.
http://www.yoplait.com/ that is the website if you want to look into the amount of sugar, fat, or carbohydrates and the such.
hope i helped.

p.s. strawberry banana is the best flavor...i think.


Hey everyone,
My sister n law is having a baby, and she just found out today that she's going to be having another boy! I was wondering if anyone could help me out, and suggest any boy names pretty much that you can think of. I already suggested about 45 names to my brother, and he hasn't liked any of them! He's the most picky person I know! I know alot of the common ones people use these days, so if you can try not to suggest some of those. Thank you so much in advance! I really appreciate it! I'll rate you a 5 if you try, cuz I'm a really nice person. :-)
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first of all, congratulations to your sister-in-law and brother.
second...the names. i would suggest going to http://www.babynamesworld.com/ for looking for not so common names.
some names that i know:
payton
keith
jesse(y)
roy
stanley (stan)
patrick
austin
ethan
thomas (tom)
blake
shane
issac
bradley
naoh
todd
that is all that i can think if right now.
hope i helped.


i highlitied my hair with loreal and it turned orange i want to highlight my hair agian but im scared it will do the same do you know a good brand that might work (link)
Revlon, L'Oreal (not the same one as you used before, there is a difference), Clairol and Herbal Essence are all the brands that i can think of.
personally, i would use Revlon. my cousin uses that brand and her hair looks great.
hope i helped.


Ok, i'm 15 years old and i've had my period for about two years. It's VERY irregular. I'll skip two months and then get it, and crazy stuff like that. It's never the same time of the month either.. not that i can really remember since there is so much time between periods. I'm 5'6 and i weigh 105. I'm skinny and some websites say im underweight and to go to a doctor. I eat though! I just have a fast metabolism and exercise. Do you think it's because of my weight? Does that sound unhealthy? Why is my period SO irregular STILL after two years? haha thanks. (link)
i have had my period for almost five years now and mine is still somewhat irregualr from month to month.
not everyone has a set time in the month when their period comes. its a 28 day cycle. that is all that there is to it. you get your period and 28 days later...you get it again. its not because of your weight.
hope i helped.


what are some good fruits to eat to get healthy and lose wieght ? (link)
apples, bananas and oragnes...i think those are the best. there might be others like plums, peaches, grapes...almost any fruit is really good for you.
just remember that too much fruit will give you diarrhea, so eat only in small amounts.
hope i helped.


I just got my period like over a year ago and i'm going to the beach in like 3 weeks. My period is very UNEVEN. I don't know when to expect it..my question is, what am i gonna do when i have it on the beach..is there any way i can prevent it? please help (link)
there is no way to prevent your period.
if you are at the beach and you want to go swimming, use tampons.
so bring pads, tampons everything you need for your period and have an awesome time.
hope i helped.


I'm a 16 year old female..I am 5'2 weighing 105 pounds. People say I'm thin...what they don't know is I have 3 layers of fat on my tummy..I often find myself "sucking in" all day. What can I do? Everyone always says crunches..but they're not helping. Please give some detailed advice and tell me what to do..tell me how to do it. Thanks so much-I need to get abs in 2 weeks! Yikes! (link)
lay down with your hands under your butt, then lift your legs up in the air and slowly bring them down to about six inches off the ground, then repeat a couple of times...that excerise will work your abs and build them too.
hope i helped.


well i bought a nair but i only used it for my toes.. and well how long does it last?

and do they leave little stubby hairs? (link)
nair works better than any other hair removel thing i have ever tried. its almost as good as a wax. it lasts for a couple of days to a week.


ok this is the thing. i've read about the veet thing. if it doesnt work for anyone, well it might not work for me.

this is the real question.

if you shave your leg, does it get thicker?

i kno this sound so stupid cuz i wasn't allow to shave my dang legs. and just in case i have to do it behind my mom's back...

well i heard it does and gets thicker and stuff...

is it true?

and if you shave, how long does it last?

my friend says her legs only last for like 8 hours (link)
shaving your legs does make your hair come back thicker.
waxing is better than shaving...its more money, time and effort, but the hair won't come back as fast.
nair works pretty well too.


Is Algebra I , Physical Honors,& English Honors hard ? I'm just so worried and don't try to be overdevastingly tramatic. Just be honest with me. Is it? (link)
algebra 1 is easy peasy if you pay attention and were good at pre-algebra.
physical honors isn't hard either. there is more work, but its not hard.
honors english can be hard depending on the teacher you get. the teacher that i had was a bitch who had to have everything her way...i hated it. but you might like it. some teachers are laid back but others are a pain in the ass.
hope i helped.




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