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Hi,

about me :
1. 5'3
2. 18 at the moment
3. YANKEES!!! ALL THE WAY

I DONT KNOW YOU so i give suggestions
I HOPE YOU RESPECT THAT
If you don't like my advice then don't ask! simple. don't rate bad because i tell you something that you don't wanna hear, i couldn't care less what you rate me, it's not affecting my life at all...
I'll tell it like it is.

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anyone know any artist like mariah carey that have a christmas album out?

Mariah Carey has a Christmas Album out called "Merry Christmas"

what music is playing in the end?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z3bUf1vP6E8&feature=related

It's a famous classical piece by Chopin

Chopin's Nocturne in E flat major Op. 9 No. 2

does anyone know a site where you can watch full movies, without downloading anything?

i used to use watch-movies.net, but for some reason the site isnt working for me anymore.

ive searched google and they dont really have any sites for it, the only ones they have you have to actually download the movie, and i dont want to.

my favorite one is :

http://www15.alluc.org/alluc/movies.html

here are some others

http://vidics.com/

http://movierumor.com/

i cant figure out what song this is. if you could tell me that and the band, itd be great. thanks! the lyrics are: "Give me your hand nowThis is exactly what it means, to promise.I'll teach you to breathe.Raise your hands to the sky, if you feel alive.Raise your hands to the sky, if you feel alive"

"Reach for the Sky" by Oceana

it all started very complicated, and it still is kind of complicated... but not much as before. okay, the beginning was that me and my best friend went out before about 3 years ago, but then we broke up and we've been best friends ever since. then we started liking each other again this year. and while we were 'talking' or 'dating' however you'd like to put it, he just started working at this new place and i found out he's been flirting with other employees. which got me mad, and made things awkward so i started to sit with this guy, who's now my boyfriend, and i started to like him. so then, it's been right in front of my best friend's face too that i liked him, but i guess he over looked it. and then he found out that i didn't like him anymore, he started getting very angry. and that made things more awkward. so me and my boyfriend's been going out my best friend has been acting weird. so i decided to give him some time and stuff like that. so my best friend isn't mad anymore, and he talks to me online.. but not so much in person. especially when i'm with my boyfriend, and it turns out that he doesn't talk to my boyfriend anymore (they used to be great friends). and i feel horrible breaking their friendship up and all... but it's all very complicated.

right now, i'm with my boyfriend and then my best friend says he's not sure if he liked me anymore, but he still cares about me. and then part of me just goes like "ughh.." because there are 3 parts of me, one of them is that i feel regretful for doing that.. but i can't regret it, because what's done is done. and then the second part of me, is wishing that me and my best friend was still as close as before. and the 3rd one, is just like "i wish i could've chosen him" or something.

my boyfriend is very fragile, and i wouldn't want to hurt him, and i'm trying my best to stop thinking like that.. but it's soooo.. i don't know, i can't control it.

i still get angry when a girl gets near my best friend and my boyfriend, but i trust my boyfriend because he knows where the boundary line is. okay, i guess you can say that i'm jealous when a girl gets near my best friend. and i'm scared of him liking someone else.

WHAT SHOULD I DO?! HELP ME PLEASE.

I can't tell you what to do because as you said it's very complicated but I can tell you to think about it a different way, it might help.

you are jealous of any girl that gets close to your best friend, but it doesn't seem like the normal "he's my best friend, i'm being protective" kind of jealousy. it's a different jealousy that is "i like him, get away." and since you wish you were with him, why not be with him? lol

you have to think about YOU. are you happy with your boyfriend? if yes then GREAT! but would you be happier with your best friend instead of your current boyfriend? hmmm...i know it's tough, but don't choose based on if you're going to hurt your boyfriend or not, because you won't be happy.

guess what? you don't have to worry about hurting your boyfriend, he'll live, and he'll forgive. if he's not right for you, you're not right for him. it's like gravity. if this best friend is right for you, then you're right for him. it all balances out, and you should give it a chance. think about this "are you going to regret not saying anything to your best friend?" if you don't, you'll never know what could have been...

now the hard part...how to handle your best friend. well he is really close to you and it seems that he's just as jealous as you are. here are the signs :
1. he doesn't talk to you while you're with your boyfriend &
2. he doesn't talk to his really good friend who happens to be dating you.

HE'S JEALOUS! lol he obviously does still have feelings for you, and my suggestion is that you talk to him. afterall, you are best friends, he'll listen.

hope this works out for you, lemme know how it goes.
es

what does heffer mean? sorry bout spelling

a mean way of saying a fat woman/bitch

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=heffer

it seems like every boyfriend i've ever had always ended up breaking up with me for their ex girlfriend or another girl. what am i doing wrong?

you my dear are doing nothing wrong. however the boys you are dating are ALL WRONG! if they cheat they arent worth it. simple as that. you'll find someone perfect for you that won't cheat on you, just takes time. and i know it sucks that you have to go through the stupid ones to get to the amazing one, but believe me it's worth it.

make sure you don't get too attached until you're sure they won't cheat. and its not YOU. it's definatley not if they think about cheating. it means they are cold hearted and immature. hang in there you'll find one who's different =]]

im turning 16 in april.
i wanna have a party but my house is not designed for one. i dont want to spend hundreds of dollars either. renting a hall is one idea but it seems like everyone is doing that, including my best friend(her birthday is cinco de mayo and shes planning her HUGE party already) there really isnt a limit on people either i guess. what can i do to make it different than other peoples and just really i need ideas and maybe themes?

here are some of my random ideas lol hope you find what you're looking for and happy sweet 16

different themes will definately set you apart. like maybe "christmas in april" or your favorite time of year in april.

or what about having it on the beach? have people dress up with leis and hawaiian looking dresses, its cute, my friend had the same thing. it would be a luau theme

or maybe a masquerade if you're into that, have everyone wear old fashioned clothing and a mask to be in disguise.

or make it halloween-ish were everyone dresses up in their favorite costume or tries to represent someone =]]

if you want to stand out from everyone in your party, have them wear only black and white, while you wear a "pop out" color like red or blue.

personally i love mardi gras, so i would make that my theme and everyone wears green or purple, here's a link to some things that would help if you decide to do mardi gras
http://www.party411.com/theme-sweet16-mardi-gras.html

I have a half a bottle of red wine that has been sitting on my counter for a little over a week...is it ok to drink?

depends on the wine. normally it should be cooled before drinking however i dont think anything is wrong with it.

How can I get rid of strech marks and razor bumps? I have strech marks on my stomach and razor bumps you know where. I'm 14F,so telling the parents about why bikini bottoms aren't so ideal anymore would be embarrasing.

i'm not sure about the razor bumps cause i dont get them but for stretch marks there's an amazing product, got rid of mine around my boobs (thats what happens when skin stretches lol) it's called Palmers Coco Butter formula for stretch marks.

basically anything that has collagen(strengthens the skin tissues) and elastin(allows the tissues in your body to take another shape after stretching) will help reduce and get rid of stretch marks.

also, vitamin E helps so i recommend products with it.

hope this helped

im 13 ive been single 4 about 3 weeks, and its been ok i guess should i go after someone or not?

you have sooo much time to go date people, don't worry about it. You'll find millions of boyfriends and it happens that when you look for them, they dont appear lol. just wait for a guy and then consider dating someone. when people look for boyfriends they end up getting themselves in trouble in means of who they choose.
enjoy the single ride =]] it's fun =]] you get to flirt with whoever you want and not worry about attachments =]]

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Alright, so this question is going to make me sound extremely stupid, but should I convert my religion to try to get with this guy that i really like? He's mormon, and I looked up some stuff and it says that mormons can only date other mormons. I really want to be with him. We dont actually know each other. Ive introduced myself twice and he thinks im crazy, but I want him to notice me in a good way and i think going to his church and being all mormon will be a good way to get his attention and show him that im right for him.
Plus I have no real religion as of right now. I mean I believe in God and all that but I dont go to church.

Any advice will be appriciated
Thanks

In my personal opinion, I believe that you shouldn't. ofcourse, you might and might not. The thing is that what happens if you convert, and lets say you do go out...what if you dont spend the rest of your life with him?

if you convert, you are only going to be able to date people that are mormons, and what happens if you fall for someone who isn't?

I understand you want to be with him, but you don't know him. Lets say you do date and you find things about him that you cant stand...you converted for nothing but him! If you find other reasons to convert such as you understand and want to be part of the religion, then go for it. but dont do it for some guy. It's like getting a tattoo of a guy that you haven't known that long, it's pointless.
Please consider this
and i'm sure you'll find someone perfect for you

okay, i dont know what to do anymore
my boyfriend lately hasnt been himself.
theres days where he'll be all over me and be like "baby i love you and all this other stuff.."
but lately he's been ignoring me, like it seems like he's more concerned to hang out with his friend or whatever..and well 2weeks ago me and him went out and i meet his WHOLE family. and he was all over me then..its like when we go out. just me and him that's when he wants to be all lovely dovey...and it annoys me... like I'm not the type to be around or glued to my boyfriend 24/7 but dont ignore me wither and there's this one situation where me and him got into an arguement a LONG time ago..and now he always says to people that I'm jealous...and it gets me mad because how the sitaution went didn't even go like the way he thought. and he doesn't even ASK me anymore about the problems he just jumps to conculsion...and i hate it...it's like i don't want to talk to him about it..because i don't want to lead to an arguement but then i don't like keep everything inside..its just so hard for me..

well it's obvious that you're struggling with him and most people would say "that's part of a relationship." I dont. if you fight with him (even if it's not constant and it's rarely over something big), why not find someone that you're not gonna fight with? and believe me there are people out there like that. I promise, you just have to find the right one.

If you want to stay with him, expect him to be like this. That's all you can do. If you talk to him about it, i'm guessing he'll call you more names besides jealous, and it'll lead to another fight.

A MAN SHOULD NEVER IGNORE HIS GIRL!!!!!!EVER!!!! you are HIS PRIZED POSSESSION and if he's the right one, or the right one for the moment, he will NOT IGNORE YOU! he should be wanting to show you off as much as possible! Also, that fact that he's ignoring you shows so much immaturity.

I'm not saying break up with him, but take what i said into consideration. Believe me, he's ignoring you, and in that case you don't need him. Find someone who makes you happy 100% of the time, not just 50%. You deserve to be happy and not ignored.

i really hope i helped. let me know how things go.

I got an email saying my default picture was on this site. Why would my picture be on here and who put it on here?

if you got the message from myspace it's most likely a fake message and they are trying to phish onto your site.
DO NOT GIVE THEM YOUR EMAIL OR PASSWORD because they will use it to hack into your webpage and change stuff.

i had a good friend. he liked me. i didnt like him. he asks me out four times and i finally say yes. so then we date for a few months. i fall madly in love with him. we have sex, he cheats, and then breaks up with me.

bad part is, im one of those girls who hates to date a guy for a month and then move on and just keep that cycle going. im only 15, but im ready to find my soulmate. it'll make things a lot easier for me, especially since i feel like running away or killing myself after every lost relationship.

i can see some things about me that might be a turnoff. im really emo and even when im in a really good relationship, im very depressed. i cant help being a pessimist, and i always know things will never work out. but it always still cuts me so deep. im also really thin and my boobs are not big at all. i dont care about that, but i know some guys do. why? i dont know.

but i dont get how someones feelings about me can disappear so easily!!! (im still talking about my friend that i fell in love with) he used to care so deeply about me. i can still see the look in his eyes and hear his voice. it keeps saying "i love you," in the sweetest whisper like he used to. why cant i get over him? in a way, i know i deserve better, but i know i dont. im just really confused and torn apart.

he said he was sorry for cheating on me and we've hung out 3 times after he broke it off. but those three parts were at least 3 months ago. and now hes avoiding me. i was going to tell him how i still feel, at first. but then he didnt answer my phone call or my IMs. and he knows damn well that if im the one to call or IM first then its pretty important. (i dont call boys, because im oldfashioned like that.) but the last IM i sent him was last night and he was on, but MIA i guess. so i called and left a voicemail telling his rents to have him call me back. he never did, and i dont think he will.

in some part in the back of my head, i know hes probably being like this so i can get over him. but he should have learned by now that acting like a dick just makes girls love him even more. (he did this with two of his other exes, even the one he cheated on me with :D) but i dont want him to be this way, i want to just ask him if we could go back to being friends. even if im not romantically involved with him, friendship is enough for me.

i dont exactly know what im asking here, but anyone just give me some insight on what they think? or tell me something to do that might help? thanks. (AND DO NOT TELL ME TO "MOVE ON" SO MANY PEOPLE HAVE TOLD ME THAT AND GUESS WHAT? I CANT.)

I know how you feel. You want to find that person that's going to be there for you for the rest of your life, and when you think about not having it you get sad. I get that. Well I know you probably don't wanna hear this but you are most likely not going to find that person now. At 15, finding the one you're gonna be with is rare and not because YOU are young, it's because the males around you in that age group are immature and lustful. They don't think about love, and they are mistaken quite a few times when they think they are. And it is unfortunate because I believe that the people who don't mess around with a million people and just want that one person in their lives, end up finding them during/after college. It's also unfortunate that you don't find love in high school. Most of the time at least. But even though this is true, looking at it as some time to prepare for meeting the right one may help.

About the boy...they are all stupid and i'm not trying to make a joke out of it or anything. it's plain and simple. When boys are 15 they lust. They "love" what they can't have, and sweety he's NOT THE RIGHT ONE FOR YOU.

THE ONE THAT YOU'LL FALL FOR WILL LOVE YOU EVERY MINUTE OF EVERYDAY! He wont break your heart, or even dream of it. He wont do what this kid did to you. He's not going to care that you prefer to look emo because HE'S GOING TO LOVE YOU. And maybe destiny was set up for you to meet him in your 20's? I know it sounds like a long time from now but in the long run, if you're able to find the one you truly love, it shouldn't matter. Once you're with him, nothing else like time should matter.

It'll take work. I'm telling you that now. It'll take lots of work to find the right one. MANY will seem like they are, but somethings going to click when you meet him. You have to believe that. I know finding him now would make life easier, I think about it every day, but at 15 or even 16-21 we aren't mature enough to form relationships of that much power. We are, by nature, very immature, and i'm sure that right now, the man that is your soulmate, is doing something immature =]] after all he's probably around your age, and most boys are immature =]]

Also, you have a mind of someone older than you. You don't think like the average 15 year old and it's a great thing. This is why you don't wanna play the games that most girls your age love to play. And finding your soulmate is more important. Just don't give up hope. You are YOUNG! YOU WILL FIND HIM! Or, since you're oldfashioned, HE'LL FIND YOU =]]

As for this jerk that broke your heart, it'll take time getting over him. But hey, in the process you might find someone better and i hope you do =]]

I really hope i helped. Good Luck

es

Can anyone tell me some famous groups of 4? Me and 3 of my friends have to dress up like that for Halloween.
(other than the beatles) (and other than sex and th city...we loveeeed that idea...but it was already taken)

THANKS!

1. you can do charlie's angels + the angel that went bad
2. fantastic 4 group, if you have guys =]]
3. fanta sisters =]] my friends did that and looked super cute
4. all 4 charmed sisters?

ok, well i need help writing an about me for myspace...
and i know i know, no one on here is going to know me as well as i know myself..
just, im really bad at wording things and i need clever ways to say stuff.
so, does anyone know a site i can go to that can help me with that
or anyone here could ask me some q's about myself and then they write one for me...
it would be soooo much appreciated.

ok well i've written all my friends' about me's so if you'd like my help message me on here or IM me on aim (my screen name is xxes25)
es =]]

my boyfriend is 14 and will be 15 in a month and im 15. we've done everything but sex(hj,bj,finger,eat out).
we both want to have sex, but when i actually think it over i'm scared out of my mind.
i DO NOT want any STD's and i definitely do not!!!!!!!! want to get/be pregnant.
is this a good idea?
he will use a condom but i dont know, i'm still worried.
plus i'm alergic to laytex gloves but not laytex like balloons and stuff so do you think i will have a reaction to condoms??
i will not go to my doctor for anything so PLEASE HELP ME OUT!

well besides the fact that the condom might break or slip off, why take the risk. think about it this way.... you love your boyfriend, right? so does it matter if you have sex now or in a couple of years when and if you get pregnant it wouldn't be as bad (although it would still be bad) as it would be now? and if you're thinking that by then you two won't be together then why waste sex on him at all?

all i'm saying is that if you plan on being with this person then time doesn't matter and you can have sex in the future instead of rushing into things now.
hope i helped

Okay,
So latley i've been getting this feeling like i miss some one.

And i think its weird,becasue i really can't think of anyone i could miss.

What does this mean?

A friend told me its not that i miss someone but that i "need" some one.

Do you think this is true?

Help ...please

oh wow i have the same exact feeling. and now that i read what your friend said, i think it's exactly right. it's like this feeling that something is missing but you dont know what it is. i know what you mean.
i guess we're longing for something subconsiously whether it's a friend or something more. maybe hanging out with friends would solve the problem, my feeling goes away when im with friends, try it maybe it'll help

my display pic from myspace is on riffality.com?????? i dont know how that happened. someone just told me but i cant get in. this is shiit. how can i get rid of it??

dont give them your password or your email. they are phishing or spaming your website and trying to recieve your password, if you give it to them, they send a message to all your friends saying that "their picture has been posted all over riffality.com"
also delete the message from your inbox without opening it, you might recieve it again using a different website name.

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