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i dont know what to do with my boyfriend
okay, i dont know what to do anymore
my boyfriend lately hasnt been himself.
theres days where he'll be all over me and be like "baby i love you and all this other stuff.."
but lately he's been ignoring me, like it seems like he's more concerned to hang out with his friend or whatever..and well 2weeks ago me and him went out and i meet his WHOLE family. and he was all over me then..its like when we go out. just me and him that's when he wants to be all lovely dovey...and it annoys me... like I'm not the type to be around or glued to my boyfriend 24/7 but dont ignore me wither and there's this one situation where me and him got into an arguement a LONG time ago..and now he always says to people that I'm jealous...and it gets me mad because how the sitaution went didn't even go like the way he thought. and he doesn't even ASK me anymore about the problems he just jumps to conculsion...and i hate it...it's like i don't want to talk to him about it..because i don't want to lead to an arguement but then i don't like keep everything inside..its just so hard for me..
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i can understand why this is so difficult for you, i mean, i haven't gone through this but i can still see why it's upsetting you. clearly your boyfriend hasn't always been like this so the changes in him are going to take effect no matter what. i know you think that if you speak to him about it, it will lead to another argument, but it's the only way to resolve this. you can look at it 2 ways, he could either disagree with what your saying (e.g. argument starts) or he could actually realise how hes been treating you lately. the only person you can talk to is him, bcos it's ok to speak to others but speaking to him about it is the only way that your relationship can change. i think you should talk to him about how he's been treating you lately, the change of behaviour, and if he won't listen to you or starts an argument over it, he's really not worth it hun. i mean for him to say that your jealous about that thing a long time ago, even though he knows it makes you angry, is really hurtful, and you shouldn't be with someone who makes you feel like that!! your doing best by not keeping everything inside and i hope you do the right thing and talk to him. good luck and i hope it works out well :-)
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well it's obvious that you're struggling with him and most people would say "that's part of a relationship." I dont. if you fight with him (even if it's not constant and it's rarely over something big), why not find someone that you're not gonna fight with? and believe me there are people out there like that. I promise, you just have to find the right one.
If you want to stay with him, expect him to be like this. That's all you can do. If you talk to him about it, i'm guessing he'll call you more names besides jealous, and it'll lead to another fight.
A MAN SHOULD NEVER IGNORE HIS GIRL!!!!!!EVER!!!! you are HIS PRIZED POSSESSION and if he's the right one, or the right one for the moment, he will NOT IGNORE YOU! he should be wanting to show you off as much as possible! Also, that fact that he's ignoring you shows so much immaturity.
I'm not saying break up with him, but take what i said into consideration. Believe me, he's ignoring you, and in that case you don't need him. Find someone who makes you happy 100% of the time, not just 50%. You deserve to be happy and not ignored.
i really hope i helped. let me know how things go.
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