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I'm a med student, so health related questions I can usually answer pretty well. I also like to think I'm somewhat decent at giving advice. I can also give you an honest opinion.




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so on the 20th its gonna be my birthday and one of my guy friend whats to have birthday sex and really i dont care cause were more like friends with benifits but we never had sex but he wants to on my birthday and i dont mind its just he has a girlfriend but he really dont like her and it sounds mean but i hate that b***h and me i dont believe that anybody should cheat on anybody but because i hate her so much i really actually for once dont care so should i sleep with him cause i do like him hes so nice and mad cute but im kinda torn between if i should or shouldnt

i wouldn't. since he currently has a girlfriend its only going to lead to drama. if he really doesn't like his girlfriend then why is he still with her? i wouldn't sleep with anyone who has a girlfriend let alone a cheater..

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He flirts. He cares. He tells people he likes me? So, What's the deal? Why won't he ask me out? I Am 13 and a female.

there's alot of possibilities. he could he nervous, thinking of how/when/where to do it, is afraid you won't say yes, or just doesn't want a relationship. if you both have been talking for awhile ask him.

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So Im a female who wants to know how to make boobs bigger without surgery. I used push up bras but is there anyother way??

nope. those myths about what you eat and stuff aren't true. the only thing you can do is get one of those super push-up bras with the extra padding in it.

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hey my name is evan im 15/m
girls i just want to know why do you hit guys in the junk? im 15 and it happens to me all the time from girls and guys. i see no reason for it. it makes us feel sick. and it hurts like hell. is it funny to you to see us men in pain or hear our voices crack and get high from it? or make us cry? why would you do that to people? i would never hit a girl so why would you hit me? you have no idea how much it hurts to get punched in the nuts. do u think that just because im a man i deserve to be in that much pain?

i have never even thought about hitting a guy in the balls on purpose. just like guys don't know what its like to give birth or get periods, girls don't know what its like to get kicked in the balls. neither sex can say one is worse because no one knows both. but when they say it hurts i believe them, thats just mean to whoever intentially kicks you there.

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its too hot to run outside, but i train for cross country . what swimming exercises can i do to build up my endurance? i try to run 2.5 - 3 miles everyday but i havent the last 3 days AT ALL cause its just too hot.

trying running at night, or later in the day when it gets cooler. or if you're a morning person you can go before it starts to get hot.

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There is this really hot girl I've been talking to. She told me she's slept with a lot of people. I mean, a lot, like 40 something guys. She's so hot though and, to be frank, she's easy.

I want to have sex. She told me that she'd do it with me next week if I come over to her place while her parents are gone. She has a big pool there and she said she always does it in the pool so that she's clean and STD free. What she was saying was that the chemicals in the pool kill any STDs that somebody might be carrying.

Sounds great but I want to double check this. I'd hate to have to go to the doctor after banging her. Is she telling the truth?

haha thats a lie. its actually worse for you to do it in a pool cause it causes infections. she probably just has STD's and won't tell you. 4o something guys? you honestly think you can't do any better? is banging a hot girl one time really worth having an std for the rest of your life?

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Sorry, "mental health" was the closest category i could find, haha :D

AH so this is an odd question, i'll try to make it sound serious though...

So, it's never really bothered me before...
But I realized lately that i find WEIRD things...attractive. like, sexy, whatever you want to call it.
Like, I don't know how to describe it really. I just find things that people normally dont care for, really sexy. only with guys, by the way, and its a bunch of different, random things...its always the little tiny details i focus on, though.

haha this question sounds so stupid...it's very frusturating that i can't explain it.

ok so here are a few examples off the top of my head...

-when guys adjust their ties(or look nervous in general, really)
-the way the joker slowly turns around/slowly lifts his head up... (in the dark knight)
-little facial twitches guys make (again, being nervous, also being suprised or angry)
-small, quick noises some singers make while..singing. cant describe that too well.
-aang the avatar when hes ...powerfully bending...HAHA wow...im a loser...on the other hand...PRINCE ZUKO when hes really pissed and/or...powerfully bending fire. haha what is WRONG with me
-on tv shows/movies, when a guy will say something really little, like one word, where they'll say it in a husky tone, or their voice will waver or something like that...and i just replay that one second of them saying the little thing over and over because i love how it sounds...
-im 15, and it seems as though i tend to find older men attractive...like, much older men. i usually, ahem, CRUSH, on guys anywhere from their late twenties (such as heath ledger) to their early 50s (such as alec baldwin). i really never like teenage celebrities or guys in their earlier 20s...i would prefer Michael C. Hall to taylor laughtner ANY DAY! ;)
-i dont really find guys' bodies that attractive...i mean...DONT get me wrong, a tan guy with a sixpack is great, but i dont seem to obsess over them as much as a lot of my friends...for example, most of the conversations between us while talking about guys go like:
friend- OH MY GOD he has such a gorgeous BODY!!!!!!
me- yeah i guess...he has a weird face though...


hahaha wow this is really pathetic..but dont worry people, i can laugh at myself.

but..ultimately, i was just wondering if anyone else finds themself doing anything similar to this? or am i just a complete freak? haha.

oh, this isnt some weird fetish or something, right? that would suck...

thanks!

hahahaha. yeah everyone has those little things they find attractive. and about the whole guys body thing, their face is more important to me too cause you have to constantly be looking at it right?

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Okay, So I have this friend who I've known since 7th grade. I'm now in 12th grade (and I'm a girl btw) and my friends and I seriously don't like her. We are constantly complaining about her "know-it-all" attitude and the fact that she tinks she is better than the rest of us. My friends and I have talked and we feel she is a toxic personality, and we don't wnat to be her friends anymore. The only problem is, she doesn't have many other friends and I'd feel extremely bad "getting rid of her". She was bullied all through elementary school so I feel like she doesn't have good personal skills, or maybe she is mirroring that bully mentality on us. I really am sick of her being so rude and childish. How can I get rid of her without feeling absolutely awful? (There's no way I can go another year with her. I might blow up at her which I don't want to happen.)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hl9VxVmXAxs

i had to haha.

you can always be straight up and tell her that you don't want to hang out with her but since she was bullied i wouldn't do that. maybe just gradually stop hanging out with her. drift away from her slowly.

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I dont want to live.bcz of my personal problums.i want to know easy ways to die.plz tell me.

how much could your life possibly suck? there's people so much less fortunate than you. since you wrote this i'm guessing you have internet, which costs money and if you can afford internet you must have a house, food and clothing. everyone has personal problems it's a part of life and everyone hates their life at some point but its extremely selfish to kill yourself because of it. think of the good things that you have. think of your family and how much misery you would put them through if you committed suicide. they would be suffering probably way more than you are now.

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after a guy breaks up with you, is there any possible way that you can try to get a relationship back?

i dated my bf for eight months and its been a month since we broke up but im not talking to him right now because i thought i would give him some space.

there's a time to make things happen and a time to let things happen. keep giving him space, if its meant to be it'll be.

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i like my ex, no point hidding it; were great mates always hang out and text and stuff. but hes so touchy and domanating that its hard for other guys to talk to me without him interupting. what should i do i want him close but just to calm down and see sense that im single. im a shy person so is there away around it that i dont need to be so direct.

you said you like him but you didn't mention why you aren't dating him. if you don't want to be with him it kinda sounds like you're leading him on a little. you can still keep him close but the best thing to do would to not text him alot and only hang out once in awhile. if you want to be single you need to keep a distance. keep your distance but stay friendly.

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HI...
Im only a 11 year old girl , and i have'nt gotten my first period yet. I have been getting brown discharge...its not blood i could tell,its like gewwy and brown. I get scared cuz people on websites say that i have an effection, but maybe im different because i have'nt gotten my first period yet.( I have told my mom but she siad that its my period)may you please Help me cuz i bet you know alot more about this kind of stuff than i do.
THanXxX
-take care

woo congrats you got your period haha. the first couple of times its brownish but it'll turn normal soon.

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ok, so im 14 and i really want a boyfriend! i won't date anyone at my school because most of them are pervs and some aren't my type. i don't know where to find one? i never find anyone at the mall and im not joined in any clubs that have guys in them. i see some at the movies or at resturaunts and stuff but when i see one i like, i don't know what to say? i could probably get past "hi" and then freeze up or start giggling like an insane person when i don't know what to say. I'm also afraid that they will see i am trying to flirt with them and reject me harshly (like calling me names or laughing at me) i know it sounds wierd but i've seen some girls at school get rejected like that and i don't want that to happen to me. I know if they do that then they are not worth it but it would still hurt. the point is, where can i find them and what do i say? Maybe a "pick-up line" that always works?? haha thanks for the answers :)

honestly they come when you least expect it. i've met all my boyfriends in the weirdest ways and i definetly wasn't expecting it. just go out alot like with your friends and go to little parties and stuff and just talk to guys like they're a friend, don't flirt right away cause thats a little creepy. i swear they come when you least expect it though. just go have fun.

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I'm a marine.

I was looking at the memorial ceremony for a guy I knew and they were showing pictures of his wife and I just want to know why I survived and he didn't. Why was I sent home to a bitch that cheats on me when he could have been sent home to a wife who loves him? WHY?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?

aw that is so sad. i don't understand how life works sometimes either. i'm guessing your still young though and you have time to live and find someone else. make sure you be as supportive as you can to his wife i can only imagine how hard that is :/

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Okay ... If you had a boyfriend/girlfriend , n you know that he/she is cheating but you just don't wanna let him/her go .. would you leave and be done with him/her or stay & continue 2 get cheated on ?


16 / female

i would leave and never go back. nobody deserves to be cheated on, its so low and disrespectful. it's simple, if you want to hook up with other people then you don't be in a relationship.

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i am from Philippines,21 years old.
what should i do after having break up with my girlfriend?
i need advice.

concentrate on yourself. do stuff that you like to do, try new things, start a hobby if you don't already have one, hang out/catch up with friends.

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This may be long
so it started when i was dating "B" we broke up got back together then broke up again for the final time. So then i moved on and started dating "M". "B" started to get jealous and was saying stuff like "sloppy thirds" ect. so when i finally broke up with "M", "B" was suddenly very keen to become a close friend, today "M" started to cuddle me and stuff infront of "B" to make him jealous and even told me this and whilst doing this B tried so hard to get my attention .
WHAT SHOULD I DO?????

go with whichever one you like more. think of the positive and negative things about both of them. you broke up with B twice so don't forget to remember the reason why you broke up.

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Helllo I have a problem when i finger my self i get a really nice feeling and a tingle but am i a bad person for this and am i a slut?x

Please answer this question.

a slut means sleeping with a lot of people and throwing yourself out there. if you finger yourself you aren't a slut lol.

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why is this belly ring curved?
http://ep.yimg.com/ca/I/yhst-27367612611215_2110_114946

that's just the way it goes in. you don't need a special piercing for it it just looks a little different when its in, like i think it goes up a little high cause it's curved up.

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this isnt my photo, but
http://s1.hubimg.com/u/1499816_f520.jpg

are there diff lengths banana barbells? is my belly button either too big or should i get a smaller ring because i don't like having that bar part showing. i just want the stone showing in the hole of my belly button..

yeah there are different lengths. i hate when the bar is showing too haha.

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